You just basically described how women overseas treat their men. Probably the ONLY country that I know this to not be true is the Middle East because the men over there keep a tight leash on their b*tches and those same females raise their daughters to help the men keep them all in check.

Over here in Asia, men are avoiding marriage because they feel exactly the way American men do.

The women over here play the victim card but hold ALL the power.

Over here the men work and bring their entire paycheck home to the wife and SHE decides what the family does and does not need.

The mothers at my school pay thousands of dollars for their kids to learn English and half of these b*tches don't even care if their kids can or not. It's not their money. They're "too busy" to help with homework and help their child study and prepare.

And while their kid is in class they go shopping. Where are their husbands? At f**king work and some of them are at the school making SURE their kids are learning.

I notice American men have a fetish for Asian women.

Asian men spend thousands of dollars on women just to get them to be their girlfriend and MAYBE they get a kiss. Meanwhile these same chicks will f**k a foreigner for free in the club and suck his d*ck in the bathroom and he aint had to pay for SHIT.

Meanwhile Asian men get to hear the world tell everyone how THEY are oppressive and these poor Asian women are slaves.

Meanwhile a lot of these females choose to quit their jobs the moment they get married and some of them force their working husbands to do the brunt of the house work, cooking, cleaning as well as watching the kid.

So you men keep telling yourself it's only something wrong with American women. Come let one of these foreign women who are far smarter than us come trick your asses like there's no tomorrow.

But chances are that doesn't have to happen because American men are sometimes willing to BE men for foreign women and those same women choose to stop being b*tches for that American d*ck and they both convince themselves they were right about the opposite sex of their country.

You American men sure can man the f**k up and get jobs and provide for families for foreign women. But in your own country no no no you don't want to earn any of the p*ssy you think you're owed.

Miss me with that bullshit.

There wouldn't be any wars..

Just every 28 days, some intense negotiations!

When I was growing up in Taiwan, I remember our maid had to ask permission from her husband to speak in public. And in Thailand the women walk 3 steps behind their husbands.

I can jus imagine trying to get an American woman to act in a similar fashion.

Oh look over there! Is that a unicorn?

See American women cant seem to grasp those few basic things of how and why those traditional ways of marriage last so long and why our basic relationship does not. A lot people don't even want to try to get in a relationship.

You're not describing a wife, you're describing a slave.

No, I'm describing a culture and way of life.

Think of it like a menu at a diner.

American women seem to get pissed if men don't want to order the Feminist Special.

We prefer the Good Wife Deluxe.

American women put their kids on a leash.

There's actually still a large number of women who aren't involved in that "equal rights" stuff. And ironically when you men meet these women suddenly you start whining about how things should be equal. I've called this bluff way too many times. The MOMENT the woman makes it clear she has no problem letting a man "be the man" suddenly American men are whining about how half and half/equality are the way to go and said woman needs to "get with the times".

There are various reasons for failed marriages. Treating a partner like a slave won't solve it. Try it if you want out & see how that works out.

My wife had a B.A. and was an RN when we met. She could have done anything she wanted to. She chose to be a stay at home mom. I didn't make her. I couldn't "make" her do shit.

What is she doing after you divorced?

There is a difference between a man being head of the house & a man being controlling.

I don't know about that because if you use those things as example rules are changing all the time. Back in work places over 20 years ago there wasnt such rule about sexual harassment and other things . So when you disobey you could be fined and you lost your job . Or even put in jail .

Ask viper what I'm talking about.

Example: Military rules are consistent from one unit to the next yet soldiers do not respect all Officers/NCO's equally. Some of them are great leaders and their troops will follow them without question, even to certain death. Others..not so much. The rules are insignificant if the person in charge is simply controlling or a demanding bully...the person in charge must demonstrate their ability to lead to both give and earn respect and loyalty.

Saluting the uniform and rank is required under the UCMJ.

Saluting the person wearing it, is not.

That's what she's talking about.

I always got both.

Not really.

You don't get to choose your commanding officer.

You DO choose your wife.

the concept of "a good leader" is the same. All the more important in marriage/relationship. Why would a person choose to follow a controlling bully?

Same reason why good girls like bad boys . Same reason why nice guys finish last.

My point is respect must be earned. Do you think whinning helps your case? How many strong leader types do you see whinning?