Well... there have always been two standards. The beasts of the field, followers of Cain, Pagans and Mormons can all have more than one wife and do whatever they want because they make no vows to God. This is the way of the world and the world walks this way.

God's standards are in Genesis 2:23-24.

If the way of the world was the right way Jesus would have told everyone to get more A$$ and get busy multiplying. Instead he reminded his followers... 1 man and 1 woman... that the two should become one flesh in Matt 19:5. That's why Bishops of the church must have only 1 wife (1 Timothy 3:2) in spite of the fact that the bible is full of polygamist.

He also pointed the naughty finger at Moses for lowering the standards of God's people.



Nobody is perfect.




But... blaming feminists for all the woes of the world is a little one-sided... especially when women are considered the weaker vessel. This is in reference to women being more easily deceived then men. Of course, I mean this in a general way. It takes longer for women to toughen up.


ON TOPIC... Many men are hoping that you and other women like you are gullible. So, when someone says that they love you and they haven't even met you or they rarely spend any time with you... take this with a grain of salt.

The Bibble is against women.

I'm curious why did guys always playing game with women's feeling. For example y'all meet online then tell them you have strong feeling and say I love you. Then you need p*ssy all time While your girl in other state. Tell me what is affect relationship?

My question why? If you really love that girl then don't f**k other chic in your state.

Jesus didn't discriminate. But Christianity and the Bible does it, and always did it.Why inside the church no women can be priests? Never thought about it?

Grow the f**k up, fool. You never heard of 'salesmanship'? Tell the suckers what they want to hear, and they will buy it almost every time. Whether it is "vote for me, and I will cut your taxes", or "this car gets 200 miles per gallon gas mileage", or "baby I love you, and want to get married", most of what many people say is total bullshit sales pitching which is totally dishonest. This is especially true of: politicians, used car salesmen, and horny guys who want to get laid. Everyone does what they perceive will be in their own best interest to do. So the f**k do you. The trouble comes from what any particular person perceives. Some people focus on the short term...trying to get laid this night, trying to get through this election, trying to con their way through this job interview, etc. Other people focus on the long term...getting an advanced degree, paying off a mortgage, finding a mate they can live a lifetime with, etc. Not everyone wants the same things.

It is up to YOU to NOT be a sucker, to focus on the long term, and to have some built in sales resistance. The con artists are going to con you...IF YOU LET THEM. It is up to you to not let them. When some allegedly rich Nigerian offers to pay you a huge fee, if you will cash his check for him-so he can evade paying taxes in his home country, or whatever-it is up to you to realize that you are not a bank, and the Nigerian is not rich, and you are about to be ripped off IF you fall for the BS. When some horny boy tells you he wants to have sex with you because he loves you so much, it is up to you to realize that it's just his d*ck's sales pitch...his hormones talking...a line he uses to get what he wants...which is just the sex. Not all guys are such heartless con men...but the vast majority of them are. If you are old enough to date, you are old enough to realize this.

The answers to your questions are: "because they can, because they only want to get laid, and they do NOT love the girl...or anyone but themself.

Now you know. Quit whining, and start thinking.

I just want a nice guy who has a job, a vehicle, and his own place is that too much to ask for?

I just want a nice guy who has a job, a vehicle, and his own place is that too much to ask for?

If these men are smart, they will not commit or make themselves available to women.

I am a home owner, my car is paid off, and I work over 40 hours a week. I'm not rich, by any means, but my bills stay paid every month, and my credit card debt has been reduced by $3,100 in the last 5 months, on a job that pays $9.50/hour.

I refuse to date. I will NEVER get married, and I made sure I will NEVER have children.

Financially speaking, making myself available to women would be suicide. Why would I financially destroy myself on a piece of a** that will just lie to me to gain my acceptance and most likely cheat on me, anyway?

Homeless isn't a deal breaker.
Criminal, uneducated, abusive, drug-dealer, etc.

None of these are deal-breakers let you men tell it.

I have to admit it's true. My grandma's childhood friend took a homeless man off the streets and tried to turn him into a husband.

She's overweight but always took real good care of her appearance. A good class act but just such low self-esteem. That's why she spoiled her son so much. He was really spoiled. I used to baby-sit him. He wasn't too bad though. All he wanted me to do was sit up and play video-games with him.

Anyway, the homeless dude was a drug-addict alcoholic. She put money down to get him all cleaned up. He leaves her, marries another woman, and they're living happily ever-after.

With that blow to the self-esteem I don't want to know what she'd be willing to drag in next.

@Digital

Yeah when it rains it pours. She had a DAMN good job and lost it over something stupid. The company had a routine drug test. She panicked and didn't name her prescription because she didn't want to be judged. Her test came back positive, fired. Months before retirement. Her and her mother are cat ladies like me so I grew up really close to them and it hurts me to see her go through that and she is such a kind a giving person.

But men don't give a f**k about that. She's a prime example of what being nice will get you: well f**ked and far from home.