5/25/2016 12:56:41 PM |
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thekinghasrisen
San Diego, CA
31, joined Nov. 2013
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Are many men just not wanting to help with support of their child? Not have to pay anything? A father should WANT to help provide for his child. I understand that there are some women who take advantage of getting child support & don't use it on the child or all of the money on the child. But also many DO.
Not that I disagree, but to present a counter argument:
Before a woman leaves the father of her child to shack up with another man, she should consider the economic implications of that decision. Rather she likes it or not - she's not deciding for 'one' once a child is involved. In America, the rights of women have improved exponentially in a short period of time (historically speaking). The responsibilities that come with that increased access to economic, social and legal empowerment have not kept pace.
Now if the father runs off - f**k him: pay your bill. The problem is, a lot of states (like mine) are 'no-fault' states, where the reason for the divorce plays no part in how the court treats the support requirements.
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5/25/2016 4:11:08 PM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
35, joined Mar. 2013
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Not that I disagree, but to present a counter argument:
Before a woman leaves the father of her child to shack up with another man, she should consider the economic implications of that decision. Rather she likes it or not - she's not deciding for 'one' once a child is involved. In America, the rights of women have improved exponentially in a short period of time (historically speaking). The responsibilities that come with that increased access to economic, social and legal empowerment have not kept pace.
Now if the father runs off - f**k him: pay your bill. The problem is, a lot of states (like mine) are 'no-fault' states, where the reason for the divorce plays no part in how the court treats the support requirements. "No-Fault" divorce means that either party can file for a divorce at any time, for any reason. It has no bearing, and has never had any bearing on child support amounts. Even in states without a "No-Fault" divorce system, such as it is here in Ohio, the reason a divorce is filed has zero bearing on determining the amount of child support awarded.
But, with 3 degrees and a 160+ IQ, I know you already knew that......
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5/29/2016 1:11:38 PM |
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jester0011
Lake Waccamaw, NC
48, joined Jun. 2014
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no smart man wants to marry any of u
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5/29/2016 4:00:13 PM |
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sweetlime4u
Ocala, FL
52, joined Mar. 2014
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no smart man wants to marry any of u
^^ Jackass Loser!
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5/29/2016 6:55:28 PM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
35, joined Mar. 2013
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no smart man wants to marry any of u
EXACTLY!
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5/29/2016 10:26:55 PM |
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celyn67
San Antonio, TX
49, joined Jan. 2016
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no smart man wants to marry any of u
You're not married either, are you?
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5/30/2016 6:31:00 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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And who has the final word on a man wearing a condom?
Every individual is responsible for their own role in not having a child.
Hey...I agree with you.
but, it doesn't take away this epidemic I spoke of.
And it is happening a lot too, and costing the tax payers more than this war that's still going on and on.
And it is premeditated, just as I said it was.
Kids are young and dumb...just like we were, and if she says, don't worry about a condom I'm on the pill...well obviously he will comply.
So, lets stop trying to shift the blame here.
I have a lot of respect for those who can accept some blame at times...and none for those who can't.
Maybe their previous generation didn't do this, but it happening now and by the millions too....The parents might provide her a home and a car and some baby sitting....but the rest comes from the taxpayers at a tune of over a grand a month.
And most of these so called Moms are not giving these kids enough love and time either, because their objective was to have them, just to live the good life.
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5/30/2016 6:50:49 AM |
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easttowest72
Bremen, GA
44, joined Sep. 2014
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Bumble- the moms and dads should be required to do more to support their kids. I've seen young people that had money for clubbing and hotels but kids on Medicaid and food stamps. Some of this is the governments fault.
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5/30/2016 6:54:03 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Jan. 2016
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Back in the USSR you don't know how lucky you are boy
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5/30/2016 8:11:38 AM |
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
54, joined Apr. 2014
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For every "single" mom there is a 'single' dad. There's too much focus on blame and the kids are the ones suffering for it.
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5/30/2016 8:34:59 AM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
35, joined Mar. 2013
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Bumble- the moms and dads should be required to do more to support their kids. I've seen young people that had money for clubbing and hotels but kids on Medicaid and food stamps. Some of this is the governments fault.
Doesn't seem to stop you women from abusing it, though.
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5/30/2016 9:11:39 AM |
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easttowest72
Bremen, GA
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Doesn't seem to stop you women from abusing it, though.
I'm a single mom and no welfare. Its you men that skip out the most on your children. Like I said the govenment should require more from the parents. That means the dads that want to claim they have no kids....knowing damn well they do.
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5/30/2016 9:21:15 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
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Its you men that skip out the most on your children
Then you have these delusional men that pick on single mothers
retards
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5/30/2016 9:38:30 AM |
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dark_gable0585
Sacramento, CA
31, joined Feb. 2014
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I'm a single mom and no welfare. Its you men that skip out the most on your children. Like I said the govenment should require more from the parents. That means the dads that want to claim they have no kids....knowing damn well they do.
that's a lie....some men...let me clarify.. most men couldn't even see their children because of their baby mama's using their kids as a cash cows....and spreading lies that their dads ain't shit and it's not even the case
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5/30/2016 9:48:02 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
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and spreading lies that their dads ain't shit and it's not even the case
Lol what BS is this. Maybe because the Daddy doesn't see the kid?
No lies to spread if he acts like a responsible father huh?
What happens is the dad is a deadbeat THEN the mother says, your daddy is a deadbeat.
Not the other way around.
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5/30/2016 9:58:14 AM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
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I'm a single mom and no welfare. Its you men that skip out the most on your children. Like I said the govenment should require more from the parents. That means the dads that want to claim they have no kids....knowing damn well they do.
I got fixed, you dumb bimbo. I can't impregnate a woman and haven't been able to, for the last 11 years. And before that, I always used protection, and every female I have ever slept with knows where I live. With your greedy a** gender, I would have been served with papers a LONG time ago, if my DNA was passed on.
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5/30/2016 9:59:24 AM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
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that's a lie....some men...let me clarify.. most men couldn't even see their children because of their baby mama's using their kids as a cash cows....and spreading lies that their dads ain't shit and it's not even the case
Spreading lies, like they spread their legs to create those cash cows.....err, I mean, meal ticke......arrgh! I am sorry, what are those called again?
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5/30/2016 10:05:48 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
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you dumb bimbo.
Enig spreading his love and joy
Lol
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5/30/2016 10:46:31 AM |
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missamicable
Austin, TX
57, joined Jul. 2014
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Come on baby......
I can be U.S if A or from any other country your fantasy desires.
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5/30/2016 10:57:46 AM |
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dark_gable0585
Sacramento, CA
31, joined Feb. 2014
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Lol what BS is this. Maybe because the Daddy doesn't see the kid?
No lies to spread if he acts like a responsible father huh?
What happens is the dad is a deadbeat THEN the mother says, your daddy is a deadbeat.
Not the other way around.
wow...First you blocked me and unblocked me....this shit is FUBAR
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5/30/2016 11:32:05 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
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Saw the shit you said, really the unblock is for your benifit only since I can see your stuff even when you are blocked
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5/30/2016 11:58:31 AM |
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dark_gable0585
Sacramento, CA
31, joined Feb. 2014
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Saw the shit you said, really the unblock is for your benifit only since I can see your stuff even when you are blocked
um....stalking much....like I said....FUBAR
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5/30/2016 12:35:38 PM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Jan. 2016
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Nah I keep an eye on posts I cant see who the poster is just to make sure its people Iv blocked and not a random that blocked me. Unless you are into thinking I was stalking you lmao
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5/30/2016 1:16:21 PM |
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dark_gable0585
Sacramento, CA
31, joined Feb. 2014
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Nah I keep an eye on posts I cant see who the poster is just to make sure its people Iv blocked and not a random that blocked me. Unless you are into thinking I was stalking you lmao
um...when you blocked somebody and unblocked just to say something to them...it's stalking
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5/30/2016 1:24:02 PM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
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I didn't "repeatedly follow or watch" you so no lol. I happened to see ONE post and decided to unblock so you could see my reply. That's it. Don't flatter yourself..
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5/30/2016 1:43:21 PM |
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dark_gable0585
Sacramento, CA
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I didn't "repeatedly follow or watch" you so no lol. I happened to see ONE post and decided to unblock so you could see my reply. That's it. Don't flatter yourself..
and yet you responded...my point exactly
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5/30/2016 1:46:01 PM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
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Responding to one thing doesn't mean Im stalkin ya. I have many others blocked an obviously some have me blocked
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5/30/2016 2:11:57 PM |
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dark_gable0585
Sacramento, CA
31, joined Feb. 2014
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Responding to one thing doesn't mean Im stalkin ya. I have many others blocked an obviously some have me blocked
You can try to justify all you want....but it won't change my mind
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5/30/2016 2:28:12 PM |
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easttowest72
Bremen, GA
44, joined Sep. 2014
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I got fixed, you dumb bimbo. I can't impregnate a woman and haven't been able to, for the last 11 years. And before that, I always used protection, and every female I have ever slept with knows where I live. With your greedy a** gender, I would have been served with papers a LONG time ago, if my DNA was passed on.
Tell it to Maury. YOU ARE THE FATHER!!. They all claim it can't possible be the dad
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5/30/2016 2:33:07 PM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
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I don't understand how a man can talk to a lady like that. Its just a whole new level of low
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5/30/2016 2:45:02 PM |
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greeleybro
Longmont, CO
49, joined Oct. 2013
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Quiet you!^^^^^
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5/30/2016 8:36:20 PM |
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dark_gable0585
Sacramento, CA
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@sienna you don't act like one...so shh
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5/30/2016 9:27:48 PM |
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chairman_drth
Toronto, ON
46, joined Dec. 2015
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what are you talking about OP, there are plenty of beautiful women in America
Southern girls , Midwestern girls, California girls
Wasn't that a song?
New York ones 50/50, but the rest of the country lots of beautiful women.
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