8/2/2016 4:00:53 PM |
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indianadave1951
Mishawaka, IN
66, joined Dec. 2010
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Dating General Discussion:
When I first signed up dating and relationships in the above forum section were practical and informative. For the last year (or more) this area is anything but. Since all of the race issues of the past year or so this area has lost it's direction. Almost every topic is about race. Derogatory comments from both sides. Those who use to discuss dating have left for other sites because this forum is so full of racial hatred and controversy. I seldom read that area anymore. It's, also, beginning to spill over into the relationships section. Some of us have said take it to one of the political areas but because the Dating General Discussion is so big it draws a larger audience. The moderators need enforce the "this is for dating only" rule.
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8/2/2016 4:13:06 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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My sentiments, exactly, Dave. I, too, have posted my displeasure with the many "problem areas" DH is experiencing.
The only recourse that we, as members, have, I suppose, is to flag offending posts or posts not on forum topic.
While some label others as "flag hags" for abiding by DH rules and terms of use it still "takes a village" to make things run as they were intended.
Since DH admin, apparently, has no concern about the reputation of the site and fail to step in and correct these problems as they used to, perhaps they should remove all terms of use and rules restrictions, or better yet, shut the site down and take the site off-line.
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8/2/2016 7:57:27 PM |
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rainbowkite
Cincinnati, OH
35, joined May. 2014
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Lol...
There is no admin...
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8/2/2016 8:02:07 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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Someone owns this platform so there is an admin.
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8/3/2016 1:47:31 PM |
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indianadave1951
Mishawaka, IN
66, joined Dec. 2010
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Somehow DH and OKCupid are related. Not sure who owns who.
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8/3/2016 4:00:59 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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I do believe that several are owned by Barry Dillers conglomerate.
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8/3/2016 11:36:46 PM |
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rainbowkite
Cincinnati, OH
35, joined May. 2014
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Lol...
There is no admin...
Well there isnt any customer service. Lol.
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8/3/2016 11:52:37 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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Barry doesn't need CS... he is being serviced satisfactorily.
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8/4/2016 12:38:09 PM |
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frank_mccloud
Patchogue, NY
58, joined Jul. 2016
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Someone owns this platform so there is an admin.
Admin manages the money and the coding. I think it has been demonstrated that no one, in admin, gives a rat's about the forums.
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8/4/2016 4:46:36 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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hmmmmm...seems that that type logic is skewed.... if admin cared nothing about the forums (aka site) then there would be no need of coding and their would be no money to handle -- correct?
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8/4/2016 6:50:47 PM |
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rainbowkite
Cincinnati, OH
35, joined May. 2014
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8/4/2016 10:08:34 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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8/5/2016 6:18:17 AM |
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frank_mccloud
Patchogue, NY
58, joined Jul. 2016
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Look around. Is there one shred of evidence that admin cares about the forums any more? There is ZERO moderation and ZERO consequences for breaking site rules.
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8/5/2016 9:11:47 AM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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Why are you breaking the rules?
Can't you moderate your own behavior, as an adult?
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8/5/2016 9:38:31 AM |
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rainbowkite
Cincinnati, OH
35, joined May. 2014
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8/5/2016 1:49:14 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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8/10/2016 3:28:41 PM |
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pickygirl72
Eagle, AK
46, joined Sep. 2011
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The moderators need enforce the "this is for dating only" rule.
Dave the moderators where pulled out long ago. Buddy you are on your own. This new owner does not care and will not fixed or change anything.
Block or ignore is your only option.
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8/12/2016 3:27:23 PM |
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frank_mccloud
Patchogue, NY
58, joined Jul. 2016
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Why are you breaking the rules?
Can't you moderate your own behavior, as an adult?
Why can't you ever log off this site and get a life?
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8/12/2016 4:09:21 PM |
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rainbowkite
Cincinnati, OH
35, joined May. 2014
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8/14/2016 9:17:17 AM |
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god_says
Cabo San Lucas
Mexico
49, joined Aug. 2014
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Moderators?
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8/14/2016 6:07:15 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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Ditto
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9/25/2016 5:53:11 PM |
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bruce_2014
Dothan, AL
60, joined Jan. 2014
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Dating General Discussion:
When I first signed up dating and relationships in the above forum section were practical and informative. For the last year (or more) this area is anything but. Since all of the race issues of the past year or so this area has lost it's direction. Almost every topic is about race. Derogatory comments from both sides. Those who use to discuss dating have left for other sites because this forum is so full of racial hatred and controversy. I seldom read that area anymore. It's, also, beginning to spill over into the relationships section. Some of us have said take it to one of the political areas but because the Dating General Discussion is so big it draws a larger audience. The moderators need enforce the "this is for dating only" rule.
There are no moderators and no customer service anymore. So it will never be fixed. Match.com bought DH just for advertising space and a tax write off. Its not a dating site.
They are not even making money. Their greedy asses just pay the web fee and no on at Match even knows the problems. Funny how a dead site can just sit here spewing hate.... FBI should shut it down.
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10/25/2016 2:48:30 PM |
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pentopaper2
Death Valley, CA
50, joined Apr. 2014
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since dustin sold this site a few years back. it has become the wild wild west
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10/26/2016 6:44:55 AM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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10/27/2016 8:36:47 PM |
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god_says
Cabo San Lucas
Mexico
49, joined Aug. 2014
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It wasn't any better,
under dustbin's rule.
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10/27/2016 8:50:32 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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What was your nickname under "dustbins" rule?
I was here while Dustin was still here, and yes, it was a better site because he made shirt order of site rules violations and kept some decorum about the place.
If he came back for a visit I believe you would see some "new" old times per laryngitis.
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11/14/2016 1:14:52 AM |
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god_says
Cabo San Lucas
Mexico
49, joined Aug. 2014
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What was your nickname under "dustbins" rule?
I was here while Dustin was still here, and yes, it was a better site because he made shirt order of site rules violations and kept some decorum about the place.
If he came back for a visit I believe you would see some "new" old times per laryngitis.
The only thing decent, about Dustmop's reign of DH, is when his
little sister was CS.
Other than that, this place, has always
been a festering shithole.
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11/14/2016 10:58:45 AM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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HaHaHa.. The plumber had spoken.
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11/14/2016 11:50:06 PM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
52, joined Jul. 2014
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cheer get a pic up,they should recquire pics or just delete an screw it all...im no coward,sure im a tall hansome man,an i love to see who im messaging,an they should make you tell your real name,i have asked one her real name for a week,f**k it,so i blocked her,why get on here an start off by being a rude ass,it used to be simple phone calls an nice talk,now its f**kin stupid games an they think its fun,but it aint..be decent an do a pic,or say good bye,im tired of f**kin havin patience an being nice an i t simply doesnt pay off to those who are born a** holes ..........etc..
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11/24/2016 3:40:19 AM |
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creepinggeisha
Beverly Hills, CA
44, joined Oct. 2015
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Fly, your just as much of an a** as those you complain about. You talk inappropriately to women. You constantly harrassed women. Demand they talk to you, and when they don't (which by the way is their right ), you cus them out.
Women do not owe you anything, fly. You dont get to demand jack squat. They are not here for your personal enjoyment or to be at your beck and call.
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1/1/2017 11:05:24 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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1/1/2017 11:07:23 PM |
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thebigugly0
Kent, OH
46, joined Sep. 2012
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Long gone
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2/2/2017 11:31:42 PM |
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pickygirl72
Eagle, AK
46, joined Sep. 2011
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Dave the moderators where pulled out long ago. Buddy you are on your own. This new owner does not care and will not fixed or change anything.
Block or ignore is your only option.
Oh good I already posted.
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2/3/2017 8:02:10 AM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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3/17/2017 6:48:55 PM |
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inde_5
Bonaire, GA
43, joined Sep. 2014
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Dating General Discussion:
When I first signed up dating and relationships in the above forum section were practical and informative. For the last year (or more) this area is anything but. Since all of the race issues of the past year or so this area has lost it's direction. Almost every topic is about race. Derogatory comments from both sides. Those who use to discuss dating have left for other sites because this forum is so full of racial hatred and controversy. I seldom read that area anymore. It's, also, beginning to spill over into the relationships section. Some of us have said take it to one of the political areas but because the Dating General Discussion is so big it draws a larger audience. The moderators need enforce the "this is for dating only" rule.
I never understood ..all the crying behind this.
I mean what does one consider --
, A topic: for Dating & General Discussions.
Dating is dating
Dating envolves most everything thats encountered in daily life.
There is inter racial dating ..homo sexual dating ...kids & grand parents dating.
Some people think its all a joke...but real life is 'The Gerry Springer' show.
So your gonna find race threads...homo sexual threads..to things like panty perverts and sock sniffing threads.
People who are predjudice to all these different lifestyles and alternatives are truly just a minority in this vast diversified world, that we all come from.
I understand many peoples points about how such topics stir drama.
However its the peoples anger that hurts the sites criteria.
The anger coming from those who wish to avoid lifes real diversity.
They do not realize how they are being selfish by not just excepting other peoples ways & moving on..or learning how to cope with them.
Is Dating General Dicussions..just for telling strangers how you lost big time on the date that never happened ..or..a place to play 'PAY' games.
If your into word puzzles & lack courage to communicate with people....then 'Why not just buy a few news paper'..their full of crossword puzzles.
and you wont have to review this rest of the worlds differences...while playing.
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3/17/2017 8:13:09 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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3/18/2017 1:53:57 PM |
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inde_5
Bonaire, GA
43, joined Sep. 2014
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3/19/2017 8:35:28 AM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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3/19/2017 1:14:46 PM |
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inde_5
Bonaire, GA
43, joined Sep. 2014
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¿
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3/19/2017 2:09:15 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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Some insult me, ridicule me, attack me for copying crap they do and call me filthy names yet expect me not to come back at them in like manner?
Never going to happen -- even a moron has feelings and will come to their own defense whether anyone else stands with them or not.
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3/19/2017 3:41:28 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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3/19/2017 3:57:52 PM |
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thebigugly0
Kent, OH
46, joined Sep. 2012
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que?
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3/20/2017 1:20:21 AM |
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inde_5
Bonaire, GA
43, joined Sep. 2014
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Some insult me, ridicule me, attack me ___"for copying crap they do and call me filthy names yet expect me not to come back at them in like manner? "__
Never going to happen -- even a moron has feelings and will come to their own defense whether anyone else stands with them or not.
If people harass you with phony profiles ..you cant do the same & say your not like them.
Im sure in your mind it seems like rightousness..but really its just revenge.
By following the pattern you just become part of what ails you.
an Eventually become like mirror with no escape.
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3/20/2017 10:21:07 PM |
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wikdfury
Lansing, MI
33, joined Nov. 2013
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This is how it is and will always be.
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3/22/2017 12:41:28 AM |
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pike45
Omaha, NE
64, joined Feb. 2009
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This is how it is and will always be.
This
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4/16/2017 7:36:51 PM |
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thebigugly0
Kent, OH
46, joined Sep. 2012
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Moderators. lol
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4/17/2017 9:59:55 PM |
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thebigugly0
Kent, OH
46, joined Sep. 2012
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4/17/2017 10:24:47 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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Boredom setting in.
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4/17/2017 10:25:07 PM |
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thebigugly0
Kent, OH
46, joined Sep. 2012
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DGD
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4/17/2017 10:49:27 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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4/17/2017 10:50:36 PM |
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thebigugly0
Kent, OH
46, joined Sep. 2012
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4/23/2017 2:46:15 PM |
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pickygirl72
Eagle, AK
46, joined Sep. 2011
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What are we talking about I forgot?
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4/24/2017 5:21:18 PM |
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thebigugly0
Kent, OH
46, joined Sep. 2012
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4/24/2017 10:02:05 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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4/25/2017 9:09:37 AM |
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4uijack
New Port Richey, FL
82, joined Aug. 2013
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4/26/2017 5:42:21 PM |
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thebigugly0
Kent, OH
46, joined Sep. 2012
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4/26/2017 5:43:53 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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Weird
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4/26/2017 5:44:54 PM |
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thebigugly0
Kent, OH
46, joined Sep. 2012
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Twatwaffle
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5/2/2017 8:36:50 PM |
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thebigugly0
Kent, OH
46, joined Sep. 2012
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Twatwaffle
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5/2/2017 8:47:48 PM |
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cherisays
Myrtle Beach, SC
53, joined Dec. 2014
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What are we talking about I forgot?
It appears the conversation has shifted to twatwaffles.
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