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9/19/2016 3:24:01 PM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

nyjamiaca
Over 1,000 Posts (1,266)
Baldwin, NY
39, joined Jul. 2016


Cause long term. A lot of u r boring as hell. I mean there r women out there that can f**k like porno stars. And some r funny as hell. I never found a woman with everything.

U guys get boring long term.




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9/19/2016 3:30:53 PM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  
Amused73
Rome
Italy
44, joined Aug. 2016


Don't worry. The feeling is mutual. No way out of it.

9/19/2016 3:40:35 PM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

mrfckinpetey
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,224)
Orlando, FL
32, joined Jun. 2014


Quote from Amused73:
Don't worry. The feeling is mutual. No way out of it.


Lol.

Everything gets old and boring after a while. The only thing new in this world is someone new.

9/19/2016 3:45:24 PM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  
Amused73
Rome
Italy
44, joined Aug. 2016


Quote from mrfckinpetey:
Lol.

Everything gets old and boring after a while. The only thing new in this world is someone new.




9/19/2016 4:52:54 PM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  
lookin4him2012
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,801)
Boone, NC
48, joined Jan. 2012


Quote from nyjamiaca:
Cause long term. A lot of u r boring as hell. I mean there r women out there that can f**k like porno stars. And some r funny as hell. I never found a woman with everything.

U guys get boring long term.


I don't do shit.

If a man wants to cheat on me then I'm not the one for him. Good riddance. I've already been through that enough to know better than to worry with a man like that. F**k him! He either knows what he wants or he doesn't.

9/19/2016 5:16:34 PM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

M4mischief
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (12,054)
Grand Prairie, TX
99, joined May. 2016


Nothing..if I have to keep a man from cheating...which is his responsibility...not mine...then he can go f himself...he isn't a man I want in my life....

9/19/2016 5:18:52 PM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  
soulflight
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,547)
Baltimore, MD
55, joined Apr. 2014


Nobody, man or woman, can control the choices of their partner.

If you are bored in your relationship, you are likely part of the problem.

9/19/2016 5:45:37 PM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

easttowest72
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,921)
Bremen, GA
45, joined Sep. 2014


Cheaters always blame the other person. Then they cheat on the person they were cheating with.

9/19/2016 5:58:57 PM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

pickygirl72
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (18,407)
Death Valley, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011


If he gets tired of me he knows where the door is.

I hope he likes what I got and will continue to like it.

9/19/2016 6:11:40 PM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

packersbabe920
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (72,316)
Green Bay, WI
51, joined Jul. 2013


Nothing better than the next woman got, Can't stop a man from cheating
and i refused to keep a man who doesn't want to be kept



[Edited 9/19/2016 6:14:03 PM ]

9/19/2016 6:15:40 PM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

lovethelake17
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (34,989)
Henderson, NV
58, joined May. 2009


If someone's character is such that someone else must prop it up and "keep a guy from cheating" then they have no character.

It is up to the individual to live life in a manner to which they feel is right for them. If cheating, or expecting someone else to keep you from doing so, or to keep you from drinking, or to keep you from stealing, or to keep you from smoking, or to keep you from killing, or to keep you from being bored...then you are not an adult. You're a child who still needs mom and dad to raise them.

Your character, your integrity, your maturity, your word, your bond, and your trustworthiness are yours to form, yours to keep, and yours to grow. Don't place the responsibility for your shortcomings on others.


People are tempted all the time. It's what you do, not what others do, that proves who you are.



If you find that the relationship you're in is not satisfying you any longer, and that it's not just a temporary thing, and you've worked at it to improve it so that you can say you did your best then making the steps you must to exit it with honor and with as little pain as a person can give is the way to go. Only then can a person with character, with honor, and all that other stuff move forward with someone else.

You are, after all, raising children, no? What do you want them to take from your life? The ease in which you would cheat and hurt others, or the honor you show your commitments?

9/19/2016 7:45:47 PM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

bookwormtobutte
Over 1,000 Posts (1,678)
Rio Rancho, NM
36, joined Jan. 2016


I agree with every response, that every woman has given so far

(Easier then quoting everything )

9/19/2016 9:05:08 PM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  
flyfish77
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (25,305)
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014


i have never cheated..period........

9/19/2016 9:05:47 PM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

bumblebee7
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (69,911)
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011


Pretty simple...she would have a guy who's principles wouldn't allow him to cheat.


If that's all you've got....next question.



[Edited 9/19/2016 9:06:30 PM ]

9/19/2016 9:19:20 PM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

enigmaathand
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,789)
Leavittsburg, OH
36, joined Mar. 2013


Quote from nyjamiaca:
Cause long term. A lot of u r boring as hell. I mean there r women out there that can f**k like porno stars. And some r funny as hell. I never found a woman with everything.

U guys get boring long term.
Hell, I don't even see what they have to keep around even "short term", because they really have nothing to offer, other than f**king.

9/19/2016 9:32:15 PM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

lsu_lsu
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (14,161)
Houma, LA
50, joined Apr. 2011


I have a lot to offer including f**king like a porn star...I'm intelligent, fun, outgoing.
I earn my own, I have my own. If a man can't spend down time alone with me that's his problem.

9/19/2016 9:37:07 PM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  
kungfu_candy
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,694)
Alsónémedi
Hungary
28, joined Aug. 2013


Baked goods and homemade comfort food.

He's less likely to roam on a full stomach. He'll be too busy trying to sleep it off.

Cons is you turn him into a butterball.

9/19/2016 9:46:37 PM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

bookwormtobutte
Over 1,000 Posts (1,678)
Rio Rancho, NM
36, joined Jan. 2016


Quote from lsu_lsu:
I have a lot to offer including f**king like a porn star...I'm intelligent, fun, outgoing.
I earn my own, I have my own. If a man can't spend down time alone with me that's his problem.


Don't have the porn star gift, but I have everything else.
Oh well win some lose some

9/19/2016 10:10:12 PM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

lsu_lsu
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (14,161)
Houma, LA
50, joined Apr. 2011


Sure ya do girl....watch some porn and take notes...

9/19/2016 10:22:14 PM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

packersbabe920
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (72,316)
Green Bay, WI
51, joined Jul. 2013




9/19/2016 10:26:20 PM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

bookwormtobutte
Over 1,000 Posts (1,678)
Rio Rancho, NM
36, joined Jan. 2016


Quote from lsu_lsu:
Sure ya do girl....watch some porn and take notes...


The porn I enjoy, the men are doing 80% of the work

9/19/2016 10:36:09 PM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  
cupocheer
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (224,433)
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010


A man who cheats will cheat no matter what a woman (or man) does or has it tries to keep him from cheating.

9/20/2016 2:43:57 AM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

enigmaathand
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,789)
Leavittsburg, OH
36, joined Mar. 2013


Quote from lsu_lsu:
Sure ya do girl....watch some porn and take notes...
Find a Scorpio, and you won't need porn or a notebook, because you will have The Experience, instead.

9/20/2016 2:48:55 AM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

bookwormtobutte
Over 1,000 Posts (1,678)
Rio Rancho, NM
36, joined Jan. 2016


Quote from enigmaathand:
Find a Scorpio, and you won't need porn or a notebook, because you will have The Experience, instead.


Last man I was with was a Scorpio, he was good but nothing note worthy.

9/20/2016 2:50:32 AM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

enigmaathand
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,789)
Leavittsburg, OH
36, joined Mar. 2013


Quote from bookwormtobutte:
Last man I was with was a Scorpio, he was good but nothing note worthy.
Well, since you like porn with MEN doing all the work, I wonder why he wasn't note worthy? Maybe because somebody is a block of ice, behind closed doors?

9/20/2016 5:30:54 AM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

renee398
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,208)
Chilhowie, VA
37, joined Jan. 2015


I have got a good sharp knife and casterating bands. Before i didn't have those tools.

9/20/2016 5:51:18 AM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  
kungfu_candy
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,694)
Alsónémedi
Hungary
28, joined Aug. 2013


Quote from enigmaathand:
Well, since you like porn with MEN doing all the work, I wonder why he wasn't note worthy? Maybe because somebody is a block of ice, behind closed doors?


See this, is why you're grounded.

9/20/2016 7:35:46 AM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

digital_knight
Over 2,000 Posts (2,985)
Grand Rapids, MI
44, joined Nov. 2012


Quote from mrfckinpetey:
Lol.

Everything gets old and boring after a while. The only thing new in this world is someone new.




I'm starting to believe that is not true either . Women are acting all the same even the fat chicks thinks they are a dime piece.

9/20/2016 7:42:35 AM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  
keekeekeek
Moriguchi
Japan
32, joined Aug. 2016


Even a "golden p*ssy" doesn't keep a man from cheating. How in the world could I expect my average little vajayjay, too?

9/20/2016 8:18:44 AM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

nyjamiaca
Over 1,000 Posts (1,266)
Baldwin, NY
39, joined Jul. 2016


Only one women I've met. I think she would be the best at everything. But her communication is fycked up.
Almost lefy my wife for her.

I wouldnt cheat on her. I didn't even jerk off or think of another women when we were messing around and dating.

Perfection. I had to let go

9/20/2016 8:58:24 AM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

bumblebee7
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (69,911)
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011


Quote from lsu_lsu:
I have a lot to offer including f**king like a porn star...I'm intelligent, fun, outgoing.
I earn my own, I have my own. If a man can't spend down time alone with me that's his problem.


Damn, its all sounds good, except I like to do more than f**king....

9/20/2016 9:06:04 AM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  
raisedred
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,216)
Vine Grove, KY
30, joined Mar. 2016


An arsenal

9/20/2016 9:47:03 AM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

nyjamiaca
Over 1,000 Posts (1,266)
Baldwin, NY
39, joined Jul. 2016


Some women try harder. Some just show up

9/20/2016 10:12:41 AM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  
sddnly_snoozin
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,023)
Staffordshire
United Kingdom
42, joined Mar. 2016


Nothing, it would be his choice to cheat. I'd let the door hit you on the a** on the way out.

Lame passing your choices onto others.

9/20/2016 10:37:16 AM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

nyjamiaca
Over 1,000 Posts (1,266)
Baldwin, NY
39, joined Jul. 2016


All u ladies talk big. Bet 75% of u stayed with or got back with a guy that cheated on u. I took a women back. She's my wife Now. My wife changed so much. Sex is the last thing on her mind. Now its kids food curtains toilet. I mean can we have any fun. Laugh. Sex. Play a game. Anything fun, she never makes me laugh.

9/20/2016 12:09:23 PM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

enigmaathand
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,789)
Leavittsburg, OH
36, joined Mar. 2013


Quote from raisedred:
An arsenal
I think that just makes a real man want to commit to you, rather than prevent him from cheating on you.

9/20/2016 12:45:18 PM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

nyjamiaca
Over 1,000 Posts (1,266)
Baldwin, NY
39, joined Jul. 2016


Do u make your man feel good. Give him extra confidence

9/20/2016 10:01:52 PM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  
kungfu_candy
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,694)
Alsónémedi
Hungary
28, joined Aug. 2013


Quote from nyjamiaca:
Do u make your man feel good. Give him extra confidence


Does the man give her the assurance she needs to give him his confidence?

9/20/2016 10:40:55 PM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

srv63
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,070)
Baytown, TX
53, joined Jul. 2012


Quote from lsu_lsu:
Sure ya do girl....watch some porn and take notes...


To hell with lame porn, make your own porn

9/20/2016 11:51:39 PM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  
amusicluvr
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (23,272)
Salem, OR
64, joined Nov. 2013


Quote from nyjamiaca:
Cause long term. A lot of u r boring as hell. I mean there r women out there that can f**k like porno stars. And some r funny as hell. I never found a woman with everything.

U guys get boring long term.


OP - What keeps a guy from cheating is not what his woman has, or does, or gives. It is what the guy has inside himself...character, respect for his woman, common sense, self respect, etc. You didn't know this, because if you did you would not have asked your question...so you obviously lack everything that would keep you from cheating, and have just identified yourself as a habitual cheater. The women here appreciate the warning, I'm sure. Don't expect to get many dates here. When you can earn like a Mega Corporation CEO, you will find women who can f**k like porn stars...and they will make you pay like a Congressman running for President. BTW - You can't be bored...unless YOU are boring...enough to bore yourself.

9/21/2016 2:27:23 AM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  
cavie59
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (15,187)
Enid, OK
57, joined Feb. 2010


If I commit to a woman, she already has what it takes to keep me happy. I will walk away from a relationship before I would cheat.

9/21/2016 7:37:36 AM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

srv63
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,070)
Baytown, TX
53, joined Jul. 2012


Quote from amusicluvr:
OP - What keeps a guy from cheating is not what his woman has, or does, or gives. It is what the guy has inside himself...character, respect for his woman, common sense, self respect, etc. You didn't know this, because if you did you would not have asked your question...so you obviously lack everything that would keep you from cheating, and have just identified yourself as a habitual cheater. The women here appreciate the warning, I'm sure. Don't expect to get many dates here. When you can earn like a Mega Corporation CEO, you will find women who can f**k like porn stars...and they will make you pay like a Congressman running for President. BTW - You can't be bored...unless YOU are boring...enough to bore yourself.


Tho the op of this thread sounds like a real douche bag and most likely making excuses to justify himself to sticking his little d*ck in every woman of interest,atleast he sounds legit and living in the real world. You however, if you believe that crock of shit that you posted above, are in trouble and will forever be alone and not respected by the majority of women and whatever women decide to waste their time with you, will be just hanging around to steal your social security checks. This is not the 1890's anymore, either give a woman a reason to want/desire you or be like the rest of the loser/nice guys who get passed over/rejected.

9/21/2016 7:38:57 AM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  
kungfu_candy
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,694)
Alsónémedi
Hungary
28, joined Aug. 2013


I'd hide all of his cheat codes and but on a block for cheat sites.

9/21/2016 9:12:26 AM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

nyjamiaca
Over 1,000 Posts (1,266)
Baldwin, NY
39, joined Jul. 2016


Men got to show up too. I agree. We talking about the women.

9/22/2016 1:28:19 AM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

lucky_1million
Over 1,000 Posts (1,445)
Pewaukee, WI
50, joined Jun. 2013


Honestly, I sort of think the porn star sex stuff breeds cheaters... or at least leads to a slight form of sex addiction.

So, I'm going to say none of that stuff prevents a man from cheating.

Quote from bumblebee7:
Pretty simple...she would have a guy who's principles wouldn't allow him to cheat.


This...

But also if the focus of the relationship is on other things besides sex... building some sort of life together... maybe having children together.

Otherwise... change out all of his Viagra pills for sugar pills.



9/22/2016 1:47:08 AM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  
amusicluvr
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (23,272)
Salem, OR
64, joined Nov. 2013


Quote from srv63:
Tho the op of this thread sounds like a real douche bag and most likely making excuses to justify himself to sticking his little d*ck in every woman of interest,atleast he sounds legit and living in the real world. You however, if you believe that crock of shit that you posted above, are in trouble and will forever be alone and not respected by the majority of women and whatever women decide to waste their time with you, will be just hanging around to steal your social security checks. This is not the 1890's anymore, either give a woman a reason to want/desire you or be like the rest of the loser/nice guys who get passed over/rejected.


I see that you are still alone / unloved. I am in a relationship. I found a great match here in 13 days, and have been with her for years since then. She respects me, and gets none of my money. She has hers, and I have mine. We share some expenses-such as a dinner out, or the cost of a vacation trip-but otherwise each take care of our own bills. I give her many reasons to want / desire me. The fact that I respect her, and treat her decently, is just part of it. The fact that I am not an alcoholic, or drug abuser, or cheater, or beater, or insane, or retarded, like so many guys are these days, helps, too. I also have a really talented tongue, so she loves having sex with me. I began studying sex manuals when I was 7 years old. I started having sex a bit later, and often, and learned how to be fabulous at it. Women appreciate that.

She, and I, both have many common tastes / interests...liking many of the same movies / TV shows / music, etc. We also have enough differences to remain interesting. She is into making her own jewelry. I happen to have contacts at overseas gem mines, and so get genuine gemstones at rock bottom-direct from the mine-prices. She recently became interested in photography, for the first time, and wondered what sort of camera to get, and how to use it. I used to be a Professional Photographer, and so was able to help her select a good camera, and teach her how to use it. We get along great, in many ways, for many reasons. I am a nice guy, but not a loser. If you think that you have to cheat, and beat, on women to get their respect, YOU are the loser. Try again once you finally find someone...though I doubt that you ever will. Your attitudes are not that attractive to most women.

9/22/2016 8:25:59 AM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

nyjamiaca
Over 1,000 Posts (1,266)
Baldwin, NY
39, joined Jul. 2016


I'm married. Lol

9/22/2016 8:29:52 AM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  
sddnly_snoozin
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,023)
Staffordshire
United Kingdom
42, joined Mar. 2016


Quote from nyjamiaca:
I'm married. Lol


You are only married on paper and you don't value or respect those vows.

I'm glad you find it funny, it isn't funny knowing you are a selfish bastid that hurts people including your wife.

You don't respect her, let alone love her.

9/22/2016 8:36:35 AM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

lovethelake17
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (34,989)
Henderson, NV
58, joined May. 2009


Hm. Being married means nothing to you, though.


I do have to say, your admitting that you were faithful to your mistress gave me a chuckle. You can't be faithful if you're married to someone else. Doesn't matter if you weren't having sex with your wife while you were with your mistress. You are committed to someone else, you can't be committing to another and thinking that you can pat yourself on the back for being so noble.

Anyway, the bottom line is that only you can keep yourself from cheating. No one else controls you. Only you control you. No one is responsible for your actions. Only you are responsible for them.




Now, that said, people do have to understand that you chose the person you're with every day. Every day they decide to come home to you. So make their decision easier. Be the person they want to come home to.

9/22/2016 8:54:57 AM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

nyjamiaca
Over 1,000 Posts (1,266)
Baldwin, NY
39, joined Jul. 2016


So relationships don't go stale.??? When my wife says I am too affectionate. Doesn't want sex ever cause she to tired everyday _ she turned sex into a chore like doing the dishes. I tried for 5 yrs for it to get better. Even changed my approach a couple of times till I gave up. Her comes this young gorgeous women who falls for me and I am getting flirted with everyday from a # of women. ItS hard not to cheat. I was lonely and horny. And longed for hot passionate sex. Then I fell in love with her. She made me feel so much better about myself, I still feel great jus having that time with her. So sorry. But don't put a starving man in front of food and tell him not to eat - everyday.

9/22/2016 10:26:39 AM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

enigmaathand
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,789)
Leavittsburg, OH
36, joined Mar. 2013


(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)



[Edited 9/22/2016 10:28:39 AM ]

9/22/2016 11:59:32 AM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

nyjamiaca
Over 1,000 Posts (1,266)
Baldwin, NY
39, joined Jul. 2016


Yeeeeaaaaaaah

9/22/2016 12:07:02 PM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  
amusicluvr
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (23,272)
Salem, OR
64, joined Nov. 2013


Quote from nyjamiaca:
So relationships don't go stale.??? When my wife says I am too affectionate. Doesn't want sex ever cause she to tired everyday _ she turned sex into a chore like doing the dishes. I tried for 5 yrs for it to get better. Even changed my approach a couple of times till I gave up. Her comes this young gorgeous women who falls for me and I am getting flirted with everyday from a # of women. ItS hard not to cheat. I was lonely and horny. And longed for hot passionate sex. Then I fell in love with her. She made me feel so much better about myself, I still feel great jus having that time with her. So sorry. But don't put a starving man in front of food and tell him not to eat - everyday.


When a woman says she is too tired for sex, that-99.999% of the time-is politespeak for "I would f**k you if you knew how to do it, but you don't, so no f**king is better than lousy f**king." I have never been turned down by a significant other-even a tired one-but I know what I am doing, I do it well, and I make a point of pleasing my partner. When all of your approaches are only about satisfying you, that is not new. If you are lonely in a marriage, the fault is probably yours. You are treating your spouse like a pet dog, rather than like a beloved mate. She, then, reflects your attitude back at you...caring only for her own wants, etc, as you care only for yours. Turnabout is a b*tch.



[Edited 9/22/2016 12:08:08 PM ]

9/22/2016 12:46:04 PM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

nyjamiaca
Over 1,000 Posts (1,266)
Baldwin, NY
39, joined Jul. 2016


In my case my way men cums all the time. She cums then I cum. That'd how its always been. If she doesn't cum I will nor cum. Its all about her. 200% she just lost that spark. So i Found another light. Now she f**ks like crazy but its not the same. Can't stop loving my mistress.

9/22/2016 4:55:06 PM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

lovethelake17
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (34,989)
Henderson, NV
58, joined May. 2009


Quote from nyjamiaca:
So relationships don't go stale.??? When my wife says I am too affectionate. Doesn't want sex ever cause she to tired everyday _ she turned sex into a chore like doing the dishes. I tried for 5 yrs for it to get better. Even changed my approach a couple of times till I gave up. Her comes this young gorgeous women who falls for me and I am getting flirted with everyday from a # of women. ItS hard not to cheat. I was lonely and horny. And longed for hot passionate sex. Then I fell in love with her. She made me feel so much better about myself, I still feel great jus having that time with her. So sorry. But don't put a starving man in front of food and tell him not to eat - everyday.


I never said any of that.

I did say that it is only on you that you decide to cheat for whatever reason it is you give yourself. It is not someone else's responsibility to keep you from cheating.

I also said that you have to give the person you're with reason to come home to you when they can so easily decide not to. According to you, your wife did not give you enough reason to make the decision to be with her.

It's not that the person has to remind you of your commitment and your moral responsibilities or even define your character for you, but that in a relationship you want to be the best for the other person. Not to keep them from straying but to ensure they know they made the right decision.


Did you really only try a different approach twice before you gave up? Did you ever try and figure out why she was too tired, or saw sex with you as a chore? Is it more that as you age and life changes and the kids get older and more involved in things that you don't realize that it won't always be as though it was the early days of your life together? Is it more that you looked at your life and the age you are and you saw this life you're living as all there will ever be and there is nothing to look forward to anymore, and this young woman reminded you of your single days and how everything was still in front of you? And this woman looked at you as if you're her everything, and that you're intriguing and that you're fascinating, and that you are her whole world, and that being with you is all she wants. Kind of like your wife probably once did. Life wears you down. The paying of bills, and getting kids to practice, and figuring out how you're gonna replace the roof, and making sure dinner is on the table every day by 6, and working every day with more work when you get home wears you down and you lose sight of the fact that the other person is your everything.


Pretty much all of us by a certain age have gone through that 'is this all there is" phase. It just pulls you up short and you have to rethink what you're doing and if you even still want to be doing it.



So anyway, if a person is smart, they'll work on not losing sight of that fact and strive to be the person to come home to.

9/22/2016 7:22:25 PM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

packersbabe920
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Quote from nyjamiaca:
In my case my way men cums all the time. She cums then I cum. That'd how its always been. If she doesn't cum I will nor cum. Its all about her. 200% she just lost that spark. So i Found another light. Now she f**ks like crazy but its not the same. Can't stop loving my mistress.



Then get a divorce, or is it cheaper to keep her?

9/22/2016 7:30:07 PM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

M4mischief
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Quote from amusicluvr:
OP - What keeps a guy from cheating is not what his woman has, or does, or gives. It is what the guy has inside himself...character, respect for his woman, common sense, self respect, etc. You didn't know this, because if you did you would not have asked your question...so you obviously lack everything that would keep you from cheating, and have just identified yourself as a habitual cheater. The women here appreciate the warning, I'm sure. Don't expect to get many dates here. When you can earn like a Mega Corporation CEO, you will find women who can f**k like porn stars...and they will make you pay like a Congressman running for President. BTW - You can't be bored...unless YOU are boring...enough to bore yourself.



This....its totally on the cheater who chooses to cheat...nobody else is responsible....

9/22/2016 9:04:39 PM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

celyn67
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^^^I agree. That's true.

9/22/2016 9:29:32 PM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

Chambella_
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OP'ie is probably a lousy f**k!

9/22/2016 11:20:07 PM Ladies, what do u got that would keep a guy from cheating  

celyn67
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Most likely!