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10/4/2016 9:52:25 PM Domestic topic  

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This is a VERY touching subject...but it should be talked about....who do you think that are more victims in domestic violence? To me and this is my opinion(also this is America) I think men are being abused more and let me tell you why.....
While I'm not knocking oj women who are going through domestic violence....I believe that men are taught that not to hit women, even when they are attacked and women used that as advantage as they attack men....I also called that being manipulative....any thoughts

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10/4/2016 10:33:56 PM Domestic topic  
chairman_drth
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Its probably close to 50/50

The only difference is most men dont report abuse for fear of ridicule .
I personally known 3 men who were abused one almost was killed by his now psycho ex stripper wife.

10/4/2016 10:46:03 PM Domestic topic  
cupocheer
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It is close to 50-50 but men are victims of physical partner violence more than women.

This may be the result of physical partner violence being reported from the gay population.

Women are still ahead of men reporting being violently sexually abused.

Remember -- statistics are compiled from REPORTED cases -- many domestic violence cases go un-reported.

10/4/2016 11:46:10 PM Domestic topic  

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The U.S. Department of Justice AND the U.S. Center for Disease Control has already proven that MEN are more likely to be victims of domestic violence, than women are.

You will notice, while it is pretty easy to find in Google searches, that the mainstream media has remained silent about it, because Feminists would lose their credibility of teaching that "ALL MEN are created EVIL".

10/5/2016 12:35:19 AM Domestic topic  

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Oh goody another "its all the womans fault men are so unhappy" thread.

Abuse goes both ways, men r just too embarrassed say something.

10/5/2016 2:03:11 AM Domestic topic  

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Back in the day I would say 50/50 like anytime before the 60's. But the abuse was for different reasons....

Men abusing women? 50% of which came from women constantly breaking rules that compromised and endangered the family. 35% for woman cheating and 15% from drunks and men who was raised by abusive men.

Women abusing men? 80% was from WOMEN THINKING he's cheating. Listening to other gabbing a** women who like drama. And 20% from men actually cheating and caught red handed.

That's where all that HITTING MEN IN THE HEAD WITH FLYING PANS AND ROLLING PENS came from. So that CAN'T be denied.

BUT NOWADAYS bcuz of the Feminism (the War on Men), women manipulating the courts, crying victim, demonizing men and changing laws in their favor....

DV against men by women accounts for more than 93% of DV and around 7% against women by men.

10/5/2016 2:16:16 AM Domestic topic  

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You even have countless numbers of men who'll say "Even if a woman is beating you senseless A MAN SHOULD NEVER PUT HIS HANDS ON A WOMAN!!!

This comes from the UNFAIR LAWS that threaten men to take the beating or GO TO JAIL! And from men being conditioned by women who raised them to be punching bags.

Brainwashed into believing IT'S MANLY and MACHO to get beat on by a woman and stand there and take it. That men who hit back are punks, weak, NOT a man, etc.

They've literally taken away a man's HUMAN RIGHTS to defend himself against someone causing him bodily harm. If that ain't sexism what is?

10/5/2016 2:23:53 AM Domestic topic  

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Quote from pickygirl72:
Oh goody another "its all the womans fault men are so unhappy" thread.

Abuse goes both ways, men r just too embarrassed say something.


And if men AREN'T reporting DV to the authorities it's bcuz of statements like THIS ONE RIGHT HERE!

The Total Dismissal of a man having ANYTHING to say about being treated unfair. But when women "claimed" they were being unfairly treated THE WHOLE DAMN FEMINIST MOVEMENT was justifiably started to unjustifiably attack and destroy men.

10/5/2016 2:25:00 AM Domestic topic  
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I'm not American so my experience are different obviously but I will share if you care to read em..

All I know is here in my country men are supposed to restrain a out of control angry b*tch rather than smack her because men are so much bigger and stronger and no chick can inflict bodily damage to a man with the force a male can to do a woman being they are much smaller etc

That being said though..the aggressor will always be punished by Law , So if He adheres to the law and She is the initial aggressor and he only restrains her. She will be the one punished not him. I do know of some people that's happened with. Its rare for such a looney escapade but the aggressor and the catalyst instigator move is always what the police look into and charge em accordingly.

Maybe yall have a little different kind of shenanigans over there Idk. This is just my own country way of Law.

10/5/2016 2:25:13 AM Domestic topic  

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Quote from enigmaathand:
The U.S. Department of Justice AND the U.S. Center for Disease Control has already proven that MEN are more likely to be victims of domestic violence, than women are.

You will notice, while it is pretty easy to find in Google searches, that the mainstream media has remained silent about it, because Feminists would lose their credibility of teaching that "ALL MEN are created EVIL".


This!

10/5/2016 2:47:13 AM Domestic topic  

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Quote from Kascade:
I'm not American so my experience are different obviously but I will share if you care to read em..

All I know is here in my country men are supposed to restrain a out of control angry b*tch rather than smack her because men are so much bigger and stronger and no chick can inflict bodily damage to a man with the force a male can to do a woman being they are much smaller etc

That being said though..the aggressor will always be punished by Law , So if He adheres to the law and She is the initial aggressor and he only restrains her. She will be the one punished not him. I do know of some people that's happened with. Its rare for such a looney escapade but the aggressor and the catalyst instigator move is always what the police look into and charge em accordingly.

Maybe yall have a little different kind of shenanigans over there Idk. This is just my own country way of Law.


That might very well be the case there but here...??

They SAY the same things BUT.... It's a different story when the cops are called. These are some of the outcomes of these situations. A man calls to cops to report an assault on him by a woman and when the cops come....

No one's hurt, he tells on her and the cops say "Awww Cmon your a Big Man. That woman didn't hurt you did she? You don't want ppl knowing you had to call cops on a WOMAN!" Etc or...

He reports her, she LIES and say he hit her FIRST and they lock him up and tell em to explain to the judge, he'll have his day in court.

He bleeding when they come, she say self defense and he goes to the hospital THEN TO JAIL!

The only way women get arrested for domestic violence is...

1. She hits or strikes him IN FRONT OF THE COPS then they have no choice but to arrest her or...

There are several UNRELATED witnesses who came forth and identified her as the attacker but STILL gotta make him out to be some kinda church attending angle then they'll arrest her.

10/5/2016 2:50:26 AM Domestic topic  

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Quote from Kascade:
I'm not American so my experience are different obviously but I will share if you care to read em..

All I know is here in my country men are supposed to restrain a out of control angry b*tch rather than smack her because men are so much bigger and stronger and no chick can inflict bodily damage to a man with the force a male can to do a woman being they are much smaller etc

That being said though..the aggressor will always be punished by Law , So if He adheres to the law and She is the initial aggressor and he only restrains her. She will be the one punished not him. I do know of some people that's happened with. Its rare for such a looney escapade but the aggressor and the catalyst instigator move is always what the police look into and charge em accordingly.

Maybe yall have a little different kind of shenanigans over there Idk. This is just my own country way of Law.
According to the studies, here in the US, approximately 35% of males that did NOT hit back were still arrested by the police, even higher % were often ridiculed by DV Hotline Call Center employees, and in some cases, the MAN was told he was lying by those employees and he was referred to their "betterer" Hotline as is he was the abuser.

The Law, over here, also hands down lighter sentences for women, when compared to men that have committed the exact same criminal acts.

Example: Sexual Assault Against a Minor
(This is when sexual acts occur with a minor of "consensual" age, BUT is improper as like a teacher having sex with a student)

When a MAN does this, FELONY CHARGES with AUTOMATIC PRISON TERM/REGISTERED SEX OFFENDER FOR LIFE

When a WOMAN does this: Probation or dismissed, and usually a small fine/loss of job. No mention of registering as sex offender, because charges are usually reduced to some type of misdemeanor(lesser crimes).

And these statements have also been proven, and you can fact check it, if you do not believe me.

Any female, that thinks I am just bashing women or talking out my ass, can easily "fact check" my statements for accuracy.

Go right ahead, ladies. I wouldn't say it, if I hadn't already found the evidence proving I am correct.

10/5/2016 3:02:34 AM Domestic topic  
Kascade
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Why those womens all so angry over there then lol?

That's Freaky


Ya'll ever think you picker is broken or something?


Yous have meth over there and creepy drugs. we don't have that stuff here



[Edited 10/5/2016 3:04:48 AM ]

10/5/2016 3:51:00 AM Domestic topic  

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Quote from Kascade:
Why those womens all so angry over there then lol?

That's Freaky


Ya'll ever think you picker is broken or something?


Yous have meth over there and creepy drugs. we don't have that stuff here
Well, if you follow the American media sources, they only REPORT acts of violence en masse, when it is a MAN abusing a WOMAN. So, the ignorant masses, that rely on media outlets, still have this belief that MEN are RAPING, ABUSIVE Neanderthals, that just club women over the head and are all out to only ever get in their pants.

Women, over here, think they don't actually have any privilege over men.

And most of them are so delusional, on their Feminism high, that they couldn't keep a man to save their very own lives.

They have portrayed a world where they don't need us, and they can do everything we can do, and they are pissy because we only want them as a piece of ass(the ONLY thing we still actually NEED them for).

They get mad, that we don't offer to pay for dates, or give them any kind of special treatments simply because they are women, like holding open doors, offering to fix broken plumbing/heavy equipment, or be their provider of a stable home.

There are MANY reasons why men don't behave the way we used to, towards women, and there is one very simple reason:

We do NOT NEED to behave that way, anymore.

Women wanted that change. They burned their bras to get those changes. And now, like the typical pampered little princesses they are, they aren't happy with what they had to give up to get what they wanted.

And once the Japanese start mass producing their super-hot sex cyborgs, that can act, talk, walk, etc just like a REAL human can, we won't even need women for sex.

You think these American women are so angry NOW? Just wait until we stop dating altogether, and just buy a sexbot.

I hope I live long enough to get one of those, myself, just so I can see the sneering jealousy they have, when they realize that machines can make men happier than they can.

All their Feminism PRIDE and ARROGANCE being completely destroyed!!!!

I have tears in my eyes, thinking about how beautiful it will be, to see their disgusted looks........

Women HATE the fact that they are no longer the PRIORITY in a MAN'S world, but hey, they didn't like their pedestal treatment. They wanted to be "EQUAL".......

Well, I commend Feminists. They helped "liberate" me of the social stereotypes that men have to work, pay all the bills, pay for the dates, and prove he can provide a stable environment for raising children.


THANKS FEMINIST IDIOTS!!!!

10/5/2016 3:59:39 AM Domestic topic  
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I don't think its all the womens there though enigma. I think you got hurt by some mean b*tches prolly huh.

My german friend just been back from holiday in the states and she said that so many your peoples over there was so darn nice. Cus like me an her only really ever seen americans on dh here for lotta years and they so frikken weird so we thought everyone was all bad there. But she had the best time and she says all your peeps are way nice. Sooo maybe you just got the wronguns . But don't let it put you off getting some nice ones in future. You will find a good one someday I know it

10/5/2016 4:54:42 AM Domestic topic  

bumblebee7
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I doubt this is the case.


however if you were to say mental abuse I might agree.

Men were raised to be tough and take this, but it effects them either way.

But this mental abuse is not her talking to him in an abusive way....its how women treat men in a relation...overall.

Society and the courts don't see it that way...because the issue has never really been brought up, because its assume men are tough and should just take it.



[Edited 10/5/2016 4:55:50 AM ]

10/5/2016 7:01:20 AM Domestic topic  

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Quote from pickygirl72:
Oh goody another "its all the womans fault men are so unhappy" thread.

Abuse goes both ways, men r just too embarrassed say something.
Oh goodie...another troll who wants to start shit with her sarcastic comments and who also think that he/she knows shit.....nobody said you have to read it...try again

10/5/2016 7:06:08 AM Domestic topic  

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Quote from dr_i_got_answer:
And if men AREN'T reporting DV to the authorities it's bcuz of statements like THIS ONE RIGHT HERE!

The Total Dismissal of a man having ANYTHING to say about being treated unfair. But when women "claimed" they were being unfairly treated THE WHOLE DAMN FEMINIST MOVEMENT was justifiably started to unjustifiably attack and destroy men.
exactly....that's what I'm saying....we have to man up or as they said....walk away....the double standard bullshit

10/5/2016 7:18:20 AM Domestic topic  
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Quote from dark_gable0585:
This is a VERY touching subject...but it should be talked about....who do you think that are more victims in domestic violence?


Men, EVERY woman I've ever been with, dated, married etc etc has at some point got physical.

The difference is men laugh it off as the actual "damage" is minimal...I'd guess less that 5% of men actually report it.



[Edited 10/5/2016 7:18:50 AM ]

10/5/2016 10:23:00 AM Domestic topic  

bumblebee7
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^^^^^^that's true.

Sometimes we just take this shit better, because of our upbringing to be tougher.

Yet...some men are conditioned to feel, its just how life is, if you want to have a woman.

10/5/2016 10:28:25 AM Domestic topic  

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Quote from Kascade:
Why those womens all so angry over there then lol?

That's Freaky


Ya'll ever think you picker is broken or something?


Yous have meth over there and creepy drugs. we don't have that stuff here
every since feminism started in late 50's and it elevated in the 70s.....this subject is shortsighted for men today...I saw a video about a man got his lip busted and claiming that he is a man....I'm sorry but getting my lip busted and standing there being hit is not my definition of being a man

10/5/2016 11:06:14 AM Domestic topic  
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Quote from dark_gable0585:
every since feminism started in late 50's and it elevated in the 70s.....this subject is shortsighted for men today...I saw a video about a man got his lip busted and claiming that he is a man....I'm sorry but getting my lip busted and standing there being hit is not my definition of being a man


Factually speaking feminism can be traced back to before1948.

The book of city ladies by Christine de Pisan in 1405 & The tale of Joan of Arc same author 1405.

The superior excellence of women over men by Heinrich Cornelius Agrippa in 1529.

The defence of a good woman by Thomas Elyot in 1545.
And many more.

Neither is manipulation, lying and being a hypocrite being a man. Along with attempts of emotional head games.

Touché

10/5/2016 11:26:29 AM Domestic topic  

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Quote from sddnly_snoozin:
Factually speaking feminism can be traced back to before1948.

The book of city ladies by Christine de Pisan in 1405 & The tale of Joan of Arc same author 1405.

The superior excellence of women over men by Heinrich Cornelius Agrippa in 1529.

The defence of a good woman by Thomas Elyot in 1545.
And many more.

Neither is manipulation, lying and being a hypocrite being a man. Along with attempts of emotional head games.

Touché
Playing shame games is also manipulation as well as trying to argue who is a real man and that person didn't experienced being a man to begin with
#burnnotice

10/5/2016 11:30:57 AM Domestic topic  

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Quote from sddnly_snoozin:
Factually speaking feminism can be traced back to before1948.

The book of city ladies by Christine de Pisan in 1405 & The tale of Joan of Arc same author 1405.

The superior excellence of women over men by Heinrich Cornelius Agrippa in 1529.

The defence of a good woman by Thomas Elyot in 1545.
And many more.

Neither is manipulation, lying and being a hypocrite being a man. Along with attempts of emotional head games.

Touché
and furthermore...if you want to discuss this....feel free to take the subject elsewhere..appreciate it

10/5/2016 11:55:14 AM Domestic topic  
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Quote from dark_gable0585:
Playing shame games is also manipulation as well as trying to argue who is a real man and that person didn't experienced being a man to begin with
#burnnotice


You feel shame? So you know it's wrong. People don't feel shame when they don't consider their behaviour wrong or inappropriate

Where is the real man?

Btw adding factual information regarding feminism is adding to the topic. Considering that you and many other men believe that this is part of the problem. In fact I quoted you to demonstrate that.

Which feminist views do you believe are to blame? The ones where both normal men and women have no problem with each having equal rights to the same education, employment opportunities and pay structures. Or the feminazis that are created by obnoxious, disrespectful and manipulative men? Because the latter are created based on how women have been treated by the opposite gender. Men have the same anti groups example MGTOW. But that's ok. But femininazi are not. Make your mind up please!

Because to not be ok with feminazis makes you a hypocrite to be ok with MGTOW.

10/5/2016 11:56:20 AM Domestic topic  
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It does not matter, really, OP. The abused ask for the abuse by not stopping it. I was abused from age 3 to age 5. Then I took a 15 inch carving knife to my abuser, and the abuse stopped. Since a 5 year old child can do such, certainly any fully grown man, or woman, can do likewise. If they do not do so, they are willing accomplices to their abusers, and so have no grounds for complaint. You either submit to abuse, or you resist it. Quit your damned whining, grow some balls, and get a life, you worthless c*nt.



[Edited 10/5/2016 11:56:47 AM ]

10/5/2016 12:18:13 PM Domestic topic  

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Quote from sddnly_snoozin:
You feel shame? So you know it's wrong. People don't feel shame when they don't consider their behaviour wrong or inappropriate

Where is the real man?

Btw adding factual information regarding feminism is adding to the topic. Considering that you and many other men believe that this is part of the problem. In fact I quoted you to demonstrate that.

Which feminist views do you believe are to blame? The ones where both normal men and women have no problem with each having equal rights to the same education, employment opportunities and pay structures. Or the feminazis that are created by obnoxious, disrespectful and manipulative men? Because the latter are created based on how women have been treated by the opposite gender. Men have the same anti groups example MGTOW. But that's ok. But femininazi are not. Make your mind up please!

Because to not be ok with feminazis makes you a hypocrite to be ok with MGTOW.
Look up mgtow and then get back at me...save the long a** speech please

10/5/2016 12:20:02 PM Domestic topic  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from amusicluvr:
It does not matter, really, OP. The abused ask for the abuse by not stopping it. I was abused from age 3 to age 5. Then I took a 15 inch carving knife to my abuser, and the abuse stopped. Since a 5 year old child can do such, certainly any fully grown man, or woman, can do likewise. If they do not do so, they are willing accomplices to their abusers, and so have no grounds for complaint. You either submit to abuse, or you resist it. Quit your damned whining, grow some balls, and get a life, you worthless c*nt.
Actually amangina it does matter....you know what....Instead of arguing a white knight like you...why don't you go outside and show everybody your dress....and let it marinate

10/5/2016 12:27:05 PM Domestic topic  
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Quote from dark_gable0585:
Look up mgtow and then get back at me...save the long a** speech please


Oh no, you post your version Gable. Because feminszi's are about not needing men. The name MenGoThereOwnWay is exactly the same not needing women.

Both equally as bad.

Feminists are not feminazis. In fact men can be feminsts. They do not hate men, they do not condone any abuse towards men or women. The problem being that men have created this fear mislabelling what a feminist is. Giving it a bad name because they do not understand the difference between a feminist and a feminazi. Lumping both together then they are nothing alike.

10/5/2016 12:30:09 PM Domestic topic  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from sddnly_snoozin:
Oh no, you post your version Gable. Because feminszi's are about not needing men. The name MenGoThereOwnWay is exactly the same not needing women.

Both equally as bad.

Feminists are not feminazis. In fact men can be feminsts. They do not hate men, they do not condone any abuse towards men or women. The problem being that men have created this fear mislabelling what a feminist is. Giving it a bad name because they do not understand the difference between a feminist and a feminazi. Lumping both together then they are nothing alike.
I take it as you want to be ignorant and brush it off of my version....and you wonder why I don't take you seriously...

10/5/2016 12:32:36 PM Domestic topic  

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Quote from sddnly_snoozin:
Oh no, you post your version Gable. Because feminszi's are about not needing men. The name MenGoThereOwnWay is exactly the same not needing women.

Both equally as bad.

Feminists are not feminazis. In fact men can be feminsts. They do not hate men, they do not condone any abuse towards men or women. The problem being that men have created this fear mislabelling what a feminist is. Giving it a bad name because they do not understand the difference between a feminist and a feminazi. Lumping both together then they are nothing alike.
Oh by the way...feminist is advocating social political and economic rights for WOMEN equal to those of men.....

10/5/2016 12:34:35 PM Domestic topic  
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Quote from dark_gable0585:
I take it as you want to be ignorant and brush it off of my version....and you wonder why I don't take you seriously...


You call me ignorant. Why because you and many others believe feminists are not feminazis or that MGTOW is just as bad?

The difference between you and I. I actually discuss, debate and explain. What do you do? Call people names, offer no explanation and mock.

What is wrong? Do you fear judgement for your thoughts? You start a debate. Contribute to it and hold a discussion instead of acting like an ass.

10/5/2016 12:41:03 PM Domestic topic  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from sddnly_snoozin:
You call me ignorant. Why because you and many others believe feminists are not feminazis or that MGTOW is just as bad?

The difference between you and I. I actually discuss, debate and explain. What do you do? Call people names, offer no explanation and mock.

What is wrong? Do you fear judgement for your thoughts? You start a debate. Contribute to it and hold a discussion instead of acting like an ass.
first of all....don't tell me how I should post on my thread...that's not your job description....second...the reason why I don't take you seriously because you want to talk shit...calling me a hypocrite and you want to participate in my threads...desperate much and last and to be DAMN sure not least...if you don't like what I'm saying and HOW I'm saying...change the channel or if you INSIST on keep at it with your bullshit....come get this work



[Edited 10/5/2016 12:41:35 PM ]

10/5/2016 12:51:31 PM Domestic topic  
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Quote from dark_gable0585:
Actually amangina it does matter....you know what....Instead of arguing a white knight like you...why don't you go outside and show everybody your dress....and let it marinate




OOOHHHH. That HUrts!!!

NOT!

Hahahahahahaah!!!

"WAHHHHHH!!! I'm Darkfable, and I want you to cry for me, Argentian. My woman slapped me, and I can't beat on her for two hours straight, like she deserves, without going to jail. BOOOOOO HOOOOO!"

Yeah. THAT sounds MANLY.



10/5/2016 12:54:27 PM Domestic topic  
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Quote from dark_gable0585:
first of all....don't tell me how I should post on my thread...that's not your job description....second...the reason why I don't take you seriously because you want to talk shit...calling me a hypocrite and you want to participate in my threads...desperate much and last and to be DAMN sure not least...if you don't like what I'm saying and HOW I'm saying...change the channel or if you INSIST on keep at it with your bullshit....come get this work


This is clearly a defence and you don't just do this with me. You do this with many posters. You start a topic and turn it into a shit fest all by yourself.

Clearly, you don't take the topic seriously nor do care to discuss it.

If I wanted to of turn it to shit. I'd of posted your screenshots. So once again. You can blame yourself for your own inabities and childish retorts.

10/5/2016 12:59:41 PM Domestic topic  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from amusicluvr:
OOOHHHH. That HUrts!!!

NOT!

Hahahahahahaah!!!

"WAHHHHHH!!! I'm Darkfable, and I want you to cry for me, Argentian. My woman slapped me, and I can't beat on her for two hours straight, like she deserves, without going to jail. BOOOOOO HOOOOO!"

Yeah. THAT sounds MANLY.

damn....I'm amangina...I lied about being in a C.I.A. because they find me as irrelevant so I tried to be a detective a failed miserably because I tucked my nuts in a assuming that men is evil so I can get some drawers....I was thinking....

And don't quit your day job....fake ass

10/5/2016 12:59:53 PM Domestic topic  
amusicluvr
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Gable. NO one-man, woman, or other-beats on me, and lives to talk about it. Several have learned this lesson the hard way. Even a wimp like you has some choices.

When someone abuses you, you can:

1. - Sit back, take it, and learn to enjoy it.

2. - Call the cops, and try the whole jail thing.

3. - Try to drag the abuser to counseling, and hope it works.

4. - Kill the abuser.

5. - Cripple the abuser, and let him / her live to gain wisdom from the experience.

6. - Sit back, take it, fail to enjoy it, and whine your life away, trying to get pity from others.

Only Choice 4 completely ends the abuse. That is why I always choose it.

YOU chose Choice 6.

YOU are responsible for the choices you make. When you choose a choice which continues the problem, that is your fault, and you deserve no sympathy. You are an accessory before, during, and after, the fact to your own abuse. You are your abuser's accomplice / partner in abusing you. You are asking for what you get, and rewarding your abuser for giving it to you.

10/5/2016 1:01:44 PM Domestic topic  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from sddnly_snoozin:
This is clearly a defence and you don't just do this with me. You do this with many posters. You start a topic and turn it into a shit fest all by yourself.

Clearly, you don't take the topic seriously nor do care to discuss it.

If I wanted to of turn it to shit. I'd of posted your screenshots. So once again. You can blame yourself for your own inabities and childish retorts.
if you know me....which you probably forgot...I only attack those who attack me...you must have forgot...you just want some compassion..I'm done
Either move on or you thirsty for more

10/5/2016 1:03:45 PM Domestic topic  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from amusicluvr:
Gable. NO one-man, woman, or other-beats on me, and lives to talk about it. Several have learned this lesson the hard way. Even a wimp like you has some choices.

When someone abuses you, you can:

1. - Sit back, take it, and learn to enjoy it.

2. - Call the cops, and try the whole jail thing.

3. - Try to drag the abuser to counseling, and hope it works.

4. - Kill the abuser.

5. - Cripple the abuser, and let him / her live to gain wisdom from the experience.

6. - Sit back, take it, fail to enjoy it, and whine your life away, trying to get pity from others.

Only Choice 4 completely ends the abuse. That is why I always choose it.

YOU chose Choice 6.

YOU are responsible for the choices you make. When you choose a choice which continues the problem, that is your fault, and you deserve no sympathy. You are an accessory before, during, and after, the fact to your own abuse. You are your abuser's accomplice / partner in abusing you. You are asking for what you get, and rewarding your abuser for giving it to you.
I didn't say hit back...you should read before putting on your mangina cape....I simply put my opinion and nobody tell your a** you have to agree with me...I don't give a shit if you don't....I can sleep easily

10/5/2016 1:13:26 PM Domestic topic  
sddnly_snoozin
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Quote from dark_gable0585:
if you know me....which you probably forgot...I only attack those who attack me...you must have forgot...you just want some compassion..I'm done
Either move on or you thirsty for more

m
Actually this is a lie. You attack people every chance you get.

I don't see the point of you creating threads as you are not open to the opinion of others.

You see everything as an attack and that is on you. In fact if you want me to go back to screenshots I'll give you the examples. Vipers thread, you attacked me. Not I you, you then attacked Cub for being off topic on your thread. But your attack on me was off topic in Vipers thread.

Thirsty for more? What more attacks for telling you that feminism has been around longer than 1948 and that I don't consider certain behaviour in males as being a man. Sure go ahead. It's nothing new. Keep trashing your own thread and not contributing to your own topic on topic

10/5/2016 1:26:09 PM Domestic topic  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from sddnly_snoozin:
m
Actually this is a lie. You attack people every chance you get.

I don't see the point of you creating threads as you are not open to the opinion of others.

You see everything as an attack and that is on you. In fact if you want me to go back to screenshots I'll give you the examples. Vipers thread, you attacked me. Not I you, you then attacked Cub for being off topic on your thread. But your attack on me was off topic in Vipers thread.

Thirsty for more? What more attacks for telling you that feminism has been around longer than 1948 and that I don't consider certain behaviour in males as being a man. Sure go ahead. It's nothing new. Keep trashing your own thread and not contributing to your own topic on topic
actually you helping me by keep on doing what you doing....thank you.....
WATER.....Water....water

10/5/2016 1:31:35 PM Domestic topic  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from sddnly_snoozin:
m
Actually this is a lie. You attack people every chance you get.

I don't see the point of you creating threads as you are not open to the opinion of others.

You see everything as an attack and that is on you. In fact if you want me to go back to screenshots I'll give you the examples. Vipers thread, you attacked me. Not I you, you then attacked Cub for being off topic on your thread. But your attack on me was off topic in Vipers thread.

Thirsty for more? What more attacks for telling you that feminism has been around longer than 1948 and that I don't consider certain behaviour in males as being a man. Sure go ahead. It's nothing new. Keep trashing your own thread and not contributing to your own topic on topic
and if I did all of those things...and if I'm a hypocrite....then why do you keep on participating on my threads

10/5/2016 1:31:41 PM Domestic topic  
sddnly_snoozin
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Quote from dark_gable0585:
actually you helping me by keep on doing what you doing....thank you.....
WATER.....Water....water


But you're not on topic and you are not explaining your views on the topic or even discussing it. Fact!

If your topic actually meant something to you and believed in your OP you'd participate. But you don't you resort to attacks. This can be seen by everyone no matter how much you try to delude yourself to this.

Because you do delude yourself. Once again, offering nothing in supporting those that are physically, mentally and emotionally abused in relationships.

10/5/2016 1:34:31 PM Domestic topic  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from sddnly_snoozin:
But you're not on topic and you are not explaining your views on the topic or even discussing it. Fact!

If your topic actually meant something to you and believed in your OP you'd participate. But you don't you resort to attacks. This can be seen by everyone no matter how much you try to delude yourself to this.

Because you do delude yourself. Once again, offering nothing in supporting those that are physically, mentally and emotionally abused in relationships.
Like I said...my thread and how do I post it is my choice not yours don't like it...in the words of ice cube on Friday....bye felicia

10/5/2016 1:35:05 PM Domestic topic  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from dark_gable0585:
and if I did all of those things...and if I'm a hypocrite....then why do you keep on participating on my threads
I'm still waiting

10/5/2016 1:37:56 PM Domestic topic  
sddnly_snoozin
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Quote from dark_gable0585:
Like I said...my thread and how do I post it is my choice not yours don't like it...in the words of ice cube on Friday....bye felicia


See you can't help yourself. People put facts in front of you and you still cannot be constructive and an adult. Still acting childish.

But you believe you are a man. I have given you every opprtunity to discuss the topic with me and to open the topic to others and you still refuse.

Your problem, not mine.

10/5/2016 1:41:02 PM Domestic topic  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from sddnly_snoozin:
See you can't help yourself. People put facts in front of you and you still cannot be constructive and an adult. Still acting childish.

But you believe you are a man. I have given you every opprtunity to discuss the topic with me and to open the topic to others and you still refuse.

Your problem, not mine.
I don't want to discuss with anyone I don't take seriously and I don't take you seriously....talking shit and you want to participate in my threads...and I'm the one who is childish...oh the irony....respect is given when earned....and unless you show me respect.....i won't show you respect....it's this serious enough for you

10/5/2016 1:57:03 PM Domestic topic  
sddnly_snoozin
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Quote from dark_gable0585:
I don't want to discuss with anyone I don't take seriously and I don't take you seriously....talking shit and you want to participate in my threads...and I'm the one who is childish...oh the irony....respect is given when earned....and unless you show me respect.....i won't show you respect....it's this serious enough for you


You don't take abuse seriously?

You mean you don't like that I say exactly what I think including your comments or should I say insults towards others forum members. You don't like that I don't kiss your a** and that I call you out on the things you do. I don't make things up Gable. I actually use what YOU say. No manipulation, no name calling. Statements that are described by words used in the dictionary that define what you do.

Now everytime I post in a thread you aim for me. But don't like it when it's handed back to you. A tip for you NEVER take on a strong woman. She's strong for a reason. That she won't tolerate BS.

You don't show ANYONE respect. You simply don't know how. I don't need respect from men and women like you. What I do and say is usually in a civil manner. You cross that line many times with me. Too many times and I still do not resort to your behaviour.

You don't want me to post in your threads. Quite simply block me. If you can be civil I will discuss any topic that I feel I can offer something to. If you can't be civil, then you create a catch 22 situation. This! You want to be identified as a man by my defination. Act like one, name call in any direction. You lose your man card. Repeat the same behaviour of wishing people dead by drinking poisionous water. Man card removed. Enter into the discussion in a civil manner I'll treat you as a man. It isn't that hard to understand. The choice is yours.

On that note I'm off to snuggle up with someone I love.

10/5/2016 2:01:08 PM Domestic topic  

dark_gable0585
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@soozin...wow....see now you're reaching.....I do take this subject seriously I have family members as well as friends that were victims of domestic violence ...so before you quick to judge...why don't you ask what do I mean by taking seriously instead of reaching trying to shame me......to be honest on that note....I'm done talking to you for that bullshit because now you went TOO f**king far



[Edited 10/5/2016 2:02:00 PM ]

10/5/2016 2:12:58 PM Domestic topic  
sddnly_snoozin
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Quote from dark_gable0585:
I don't want to discuss with anyone I don't take seriously and I don't take you seriously....talking shit and you want to participate in my threads...and I'm the one who is childish...oh the irony....respect is given when earned....and unless you show me respect.....i won't show you respect....it's this serious enough for you


Your words Gable. You don't take seriously.

So I'm not reaching. I said to you very clearly. I respond using your words.

Suddenly, I'm reaching. Soo what happened to your friends, what did they do to get help and resolve this? (Opening questions to expand on the dicussion to encourage others to discuss events in their life, resolutions and help.Because everything is perceived by you as attack.)Gotta go.



[Edited 10/5/2016 2:13:24 PM ]

10/5/2016 3:06:13 PM Domestic topic  
amusicluvr
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Whiners gotta whine.

If OP put half the time / energy into solving his problems that he spends whining about them, he would be problem free.

Of course, if he did that, he would have nothing to whine about, and his life would end....since he whines to live, and lives to whine.

10/5/2016 3:25:41 PM Domestic topic  

dark_gable0585
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@amangina go show women your dress because as usual you want brownie points



[Edited 10/5/2016 3:28:07 PM ]

10/5/2016 3:27:36 PM Domestic topic  

dark_gable0585
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@soozin I said I don't take YOU seriously...you just twisting my words as usual and you didn't answer my question.....
Why do you keep coming to my threads if I'm a hypocrite

10/5/2016 5:33:38 PM Domestic topic  
chairman_drth
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every since feminism started in late 50's and it elevated in the 70s.....this subject is shortsighted for men today...I saw a video about a man got his lip busted and claiming that he is a man....I'm sorry but getting my lip busted and standing there being hit is not my definition of being a man


Correction ever since the radical second feminist from the 60’s sunk their Marxist talons into the womb of American society things have gone down.

snoozin is right feminism can be traced before 1948 and the first wave, in my opinion the true feminist that didn’t belittle men but fought for equality.

Not today’s modern third wave feminists, they are evil , vindictive and like unions belong in hell.

10/5/2016 5:48:34 PM Domestic topic  

packersbabe920
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10/5/2016 7:36:15 PM Domestic topic  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from chairman_drth:
Correction ever since the radical second feminist from the 60’s sunk their Marxist talons into the womb of American society things have gone down.

snoozin is right feminism can be traced before 1948 and the first wave, in my opinion the true feminist that didn’t belittle men but fought for equality.

Not today’s modern third wave feminists, they are evil , vindictive and like unions belong in hell.
thanks appreciate it

10/5/2016 8:37:51 PM Domestic topic  

driver406
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Women have the snot pounded out them much more I think because they have to have the MACHO bad boy.



Men take infinitely more verbal abuse from a woman's scalpel sharp tongue. I've had two "girlfriends" like that and said it was all my fault of course. Yes Sir, thy more sinless than Jesus!

10/6/2016 12:12:46 AM Domestic topic  
sddnly_snoozin
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Quote from dark_gable0585:
I don't want to discuss with anyone I don't take seriously and I don't take you seriously....talking shit and you want to participate in my threads...and I'm the one who is childish...oh the irony....respect is given when earned....and unless you show me respect.....i won't show you respect....it's this serious enough for you


Re read what you wrote. You said you don't take seriously and you don't take me seriously.

I do not write it for you. You wrote that. Not me.

10/6/2016 12:39:06 AM Domestic topic  
amusicluvr
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Quote from driver406:
Women have the snot pounded out them much more I think because they have to have the MACHO bad boy.



Men take infinitely more verbal abuse from a woman's scalpel sharp tongue. I've had two "girlfriends" like that and said it was all my fault of course. Yes Sir, thy more sinless than Jesus!


If you take it, you deserve it. If a woman verbally abuses a Man, he leaves her. Mama's Boys stay, and take the abuse...because they like it.

10/6/2016 1:03:47 AM Domestic topic  

ranconteur2012
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Quote from dr_i_got_answer:
That might very well be the case there but here...??

They SAY the same things BUT.... It's a different story when the cops are called. These are some of the outcomes of these situations. A man calls to cops to report an assault on him by a woman and when the cops come....

No one's hurt, he tells on her and the cops say "Awww Cmon your a Big Man. That woman didn't hurt you did she? You don't want ppl knowing you had to call cops on a WOMAN!" Etc or...

He reports her, she LIES and say he hit her FIRST and they lock him up and tell em to explain to the judge, he'll have his day in court.

He bleeding when they come, she say self defense and he goes to the hospital THEN TO JAIL!

The only way women get arrested for domestic violence is...

1. She hits or strikes him IN FRONT OF THE COPS then they have no choice but to arrest her or...

There are several UNRELATED witnesses who came forth and identified her as the attacker but STILL gotta make him out to be some kinda church attending angle then they'll arrest her.
I have never heard a feminist argue all men are evil but have heard both sexes have people who are violent, abusive,deceptive, and dishonest. Demonizing men or women only demonstrates immature thinking as no one groups members are all good or bad but have degrees of each...