11/24/2016 10:28:54 AM |
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happyladyme
Stephens City, VA
74, joined May. 2014
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Are you serious in really finding one special person or are you just messing around?
Be nice now.
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11/24/2016 8:21:38 PM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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Answer for the first ? yes, 2nd. no.
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11/25/2016 12:05:38 PM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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I stopped looking, what I want most (not all) women are not willing to provide.
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11/25/2016 12:18:52 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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I stopped looking, what I want most (not all) women are not willing to provide.
What do you want most, Cavie?
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11/26/2016 5:38:29 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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What do you want most, Cavie?
What I want does not matter, as a woman will ONLY give a man what SHE wants.
I know that in today's life, the man's wants are ALWAYS secondary.
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12/1/2016 8:23:13 AM |
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tame_tiger
Radford, VA
70, joined Apr. 2011
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A tranquil , happy, life and as much fun as the law will allow..
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12/2/2016 3:52:52 PM |
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happyladyme
Stephens City, VA
74, joined May. 2014
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A special guy that doesn't put himself first all or most of the time.
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12/2/2016 4:15:26 PM |
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tame_tiger
Radford, VA
70, joined Apr. 2011
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A special guy that doesn't put himself first all or most of the time.
If we were in line at McDonalds I would step aside and let you go before me.. Is that what you mean by putting you first ?
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12/5/2016 5:38:38 PM |
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legaleye
Columbus, OH
65, joined Mar. 2008
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I am quite serious about finding the right someone. But I find that right someone is elusive, not because I ask for too much, but because it is hard to find that needle in a haystack.
One of the biggest impediments to finding someone is to actually meet someone with a positive attitude that does not feel beat down by life so some similar innate feeling. You may have not gotten that fair shake in life, but please, dont take it out on me. I didnt do it to you, but thats what I get more often than not. Either a wariness that is unwarranted, or someone who is so slow to trust and open up that I tend to lose interest.
To get what you want or need, you have to take a risk in life. I learned that a long time ago, and will take reasonable risks. For example, making a new friend is fine, but the ultimate goal is a level of relationship and intimacy (which is much more than physical) and if you arent willing to take some risks and share then success will be hard to find.
But I continue to seek.
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12/19/2016 8:01:03 PM |
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happyladyme
Stephens City, VA
74, joined May. 2014
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If we were in line at McDonalds I would step aside and let you go before me.. Is that what you mean by putting you first ?
What I mean is I do not want a man that only considers himself first before someone else.
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12/20/2016 6:12:22 PM |
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tame_tiger
Radford, VA
70, joined Apr. 2011
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What I mean is I do not want a man that only considers himself first before someone else.
I guess you mean a man who's only interested in his own satisfaction ..
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12/20/2016 7:25:52 PM |
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happyladyme
Stephens City, VA
74, joined May. 2014
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I guess you mean a man who's only interested in his own satisfaction ..
In every way
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12/22/2016 7:02:52 PM |
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couplm
North Bend, OH
34, joined Oct. 2016
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Me&mygirlfried wanting a girlfriend,in are around Cincinnati Ohio that drive we can't
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12/30/2016 6:31:14 AM |
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aussiechill
AngastacoVictoria
Australia
97, joined Jan. 2014
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l don't know if l'll be lucky enough to ever have this again because
l've been lucky enough to have it already but many l see or meet
have never found anything like it ever, so l feel honored to have.
But l'd like to be mindblowingly in love again .
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1/6/2017 11:47:54 PM |
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aussiechill
AngastacoVictoria
Australia
97, joined Jan. 2014
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And l found her,another one. l still can not believe it
But we're over.
One of her biggest things was being insanely paranoid an
ideas she would get in her head that you just could not budge.
And that flowed through to trust and endless frustration until
l just couldn't do it anymore.
She basically destroyed the best thing either of us had ever
had or will find again now ,with this bullshit in her head
that didn't even exist.
And l know now she'll spend the rest of her life doing it
to herself.
What a waste.
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1/11/2017 9:40:22 PM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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And l found her,another one. l still can not believe it
But we're over.
One of her biggest things was being insanely paranoid an
ideas she would get in her head that you just could not budge.
And that flowed through to trust and endless frustration until
l just couldn't do it anymore.
She basically destroyed the best thing either of us had ever
had or will find again now ,with this bullshit in her head
that didn't even exist.
And l know now she'll spend the rest of her life doing it
to herself.
What a waste.
She must have been related to my ex.
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1/19/2017 5:53:17 PM |
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happyladyme
Stephens City, VA
74, joined May. 2014
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@aussie and you are 96 years old? Oh my.
For me I am looking for a gentleman that is able to relate to me, enjoys just staying around the house or going for long drives enjoying nature. There are other places to go to have fun as well. So for this brief description, I am seriously looking for a great companion. Not messing around at all.
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2/28/2017 8:05:16 AM |
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tame_tiger
Radford, VA
70, joined Apr. 2011
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Peace and happiness.
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2/28/2017 10:26:08 AM |
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winkwink2u
Alpharetta, GA
52, joined Jun. 2015
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Good conversations and companionship!!
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3/7/2017 5:58:22 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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What I want does not matter, as a woman will ONLY give a man what SHE wants.
I know that in today's life, the man's wants are ALWAYS secondary.
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3/17/2017 4:06:38 PM |
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illan615
Holland, MI
55, joined Oct. 2012
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What I want does not matter, as a woman will ONLY give a man what SHE wants.
I know that in today's life, the man's wants are ALWAYS secondary.
You're hanging with the wrong women, or shooting for women beyond your reach.
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3/18/2017 10:25:09 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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You're hanging with the wrong women, or shooting for women beyond your reach.
WOW, so some people do believe they are better than everyone else.
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3/19/2017 5:13:07 PM |
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illan615
Holland, MI
55, joined Oct. 2012
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WOW, so some people do believe they are better than everyone else.
What I want does not matter, as a woman will ONLY give a man what SHE wants.
I know that in today's life, the man's wants are ALWAYS secondary"
^^^ the above post was what I was commenting to.
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3/21/2017 1:26:01 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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You're hanging with the wrong women, or shooting for women beyond your reach.
I doubt it. I do not even try and date women any longer. I know that I do not stand a chance in the first place. All a man has to do is watch a woman and he will know what she is looking for, as her actions will betray her words every single time.
MOST (not all) women say they want a good, honest, caring, and faithful man, yet they go after men that are just the opposite.
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3/27/2017 11:28:30 PM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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I doubt it. I do not even try and date women any longer. I know that I do not stand a chance in the first place. All a man has to do is watch a woman and he will know what she is looking for, as her actions will betray her words every single time.
MOST (not all) women say they want a good, honest, caring, and faithful man, yet they go after men that are just the opposite.
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3/28/2017 8:42:29 AM |
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jrbogie1949
Ventura, CA
68, joined Mar. 2009
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just lookin' for a gal who'll talk dirty to me.
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4/2/2017 11:04:25 PM |
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no_thanx
Kissimmee, FL
42, joined Aug. 2014
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I stopped looking for anything. I prefer peace of mind right now.
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4/13/2017 5:54:59 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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Are you serious in really finding one special person or are you just messing around?
I stopped looking. So right now I am looking for nothing.
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4/15/2017 2:25:33 AM |
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happyladyme
Stephens City, VA
74, joined May. 2014
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I stopped looking. So right now I am looking for nothing.
Why did you stop looking?
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4/17/2017 5:31:39 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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Why did you stop looking?
I stopped due to the fact I wasted the first 5 or 6 years of singledom after my divorce trying to date, and failing.
When one can not garner even one date in that time frame, that is a single to stop looking and trying. Now if a woman would like to date me, let her step up to the plate and ask.
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4/28/2017 10:06:06 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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I stopped due to the fact I wasted the first 5 or 6 years of singledom after my divorce trying to date, and failing.
When one can not garner even one date in that time frame, that is a single to stop looking and trying. Now if a woman would like to date me, let her step up to the plate and ask.
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4/30/2017 10:06:54 AM |
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happyladyme
Stephens City, VA
74, joined May. 2014
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I stopped due to the fact I wasted the first 5 or 6 years of singledom after my divorce trying to date, and failing.
When one can not garner even one date in that time frame, that is a single to stop looking and trying. Now if a woman would like to date me, let her step up to the plate and ask.
Good answer. It is said when you stop looking you find the one you are searching for.
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5/1/2017 5:10:33 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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Good answer. It is said when you stop looking you find the one you are searching for.
It might be a good answer, however nothing has happened since I stopped looking. Not even one woman has shown the least bit of interest in me.
But that is O.K. as I resigned myself to singledom long ago.
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5/1/2017 7:22:43 PM |
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happyladyme
Stephens City, VA
74, joined May. 2014
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It might be a good answer, however nothing has happened since I stopped looking. Not even one woman has shown the least bit of interest in me.
But that is O.K. as I resigned myself to singledom long ago.
This site isn't the best for finding someone but maybe if you put a profile picture and a few others of you this could help you.
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5/4/2017 1:55:20 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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This site isn't the best for finding someone but maybe if you put a profile picture and a few others of you this could help you.
Yea, neither is The Real world. This site is nothing more than entertainment for me. Plus along the way I do learn a thing or two.
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6/10/2017 8:16:45 PM |
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happyladyme
Stephens City, VA
74, joined May. 2014
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Yea, neither is The Real world. This site is nothing more than entertainment for me. Plus along the way I do learn a thing or two.
There is entertainment here. You are right but I find some of the entertainment some folks like is not very nice...not speaking about you. Just my general observations.
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6/16/2017 2:34:23 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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Are you serious in really finding one special person or are you just messing around?
Neither one. There is no reason to look for someone.
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7/3/2017 3:03:13 PM |
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happyladyme
Stephens City, VA
74, joined May. 2014
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Neither one. There is no reason to look for someone.
Then why do you say, in your profile, that you are looking for someone special?
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7/4/2017 1:20:03 PM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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Then why do you say, in your profile, that you are looking for someone special?
Just goes to shoe indecision isn't gender specific.
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7/5/2017 6:36:24 AM |
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april67_
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2017
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I'd love to find a special man to be a permanent part of my life. Not on here though. It never was working on here.
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7/5/2017 3:58:56 PM |
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happyladyme
Stephens City, VA
74, joined May. 2014
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I'd love to find a special man to be a permanent part of my life. Not on here though. It never was working on here.
I agree, april. The same here. They are few and far between on DH IMO.
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7/6/2017 2:20:13 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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Then why do you say, in your profile, that you are looking for someone special?
Because I have not bothered to update my profile, plus just because I am not looking does not mean a woman is not looking for me.
I stopped making the first move due to always striking out. So I have left the door open for a woman to make the first move.
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