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12/4/2016 11:59:54 PM I want to create a happy marriage.  

hongyafan
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12/5/2016 12:04:29 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  

hongyafan
Shanghai
China
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I want to know what is the difference between the idea of a Chinese girl and the idea of a Western girl?

I am a Chinese girl, no, Chinese woman

12/5/2016 12:05:58 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  
korbyn
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Quote from hongyafan:
I want to know what is the difference between the idea of a Chinese girl and the idea of a Western girl?

I am a Chinese girl, no, Chinese woman



Chinese woman makes a better wife than Western woman.

12/5/2016 12:09:36 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  
korbyn
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Chinese women are more ladylike and more capable.



[Edited 12/5/2016 12:09:57 AM ]

12/5/2016 12:12:51 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  

hongyafan
Shanghai
China
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Quote from korbyn:
Chinese woman makes a better wife than Western woman.


Thank you?Me too

China's marriage is not the most perfect.
I'm confused.


12/5/2016 12:13:20 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  
korbyn
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Most chinese woman are smarter than most western women. If you really compare western women to any other kind of women in the world, then other kind of women are better. In a general sense.

12/5/2016 12:16:34 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  
korbyn
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Quote from hongyafan:
Thank you?Me too

China's marriage is not the most perfect.
I'm confused.



I am certain that marriage is better in asia than in the west.

I do not like to seem like I dislike western women, but the truth is that asian women are better than western women in just about every way. Not all ways, but in general.

12/5/2016 12:18:07 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  
abbalahdun
Omaha, NE
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Then for the love of all that's holy don't ask for advice here.

12/5/2016 12:23:20 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  

hongyafan
Shanghai
China
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Quote from korbyn:
Most chinese woman are smarter than most western women. If you really compare western women to any other kind of women in the world, then other kind of women are better. In a general sense.


You're going to offend a group of Western women.

12/5/2016 12:27:19 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  

hongyafan
Shanghai
China
39, joined Nov. 2016


Quote from korbyn:
I am certain that marriage is better in asia than in the west.

I do not like to seem like I dislike western women, but the truth is that asian women are better than western women in just about every way. Not all ways, but in general.


Chinese women and Western men's marriage will be happy?

12/5/2016 12:38:31 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  
sarahgoldsmith
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@hongya

Do you really live in china?
How are you able to go online?
I thought Chinese government is very strict, they don't let people go on the internet to talk to Americans or to western countries?

I've heard the Middle East is very strict too. They don't let them talk to Americans or to people in Europe.

12/5/2016 12:42:03 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  
sarahgoldsmith
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They are afraid that Americans will corrupt them & influence their minds. That's why they don't allow them to talk to Americans.

Are you really in china?
I don't believe you live in china.
I thought Chinese are not allow to go online to talk to Americans?



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12/5/2016 12:51:54 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  

chris3357m
Columbus, OH
29, joined Dec. 2012


you say the chinese marriage is not the most perfect. please explain why you think marriage in your country is worse than marriage here in the western world? i'm interested to hear this from someone who is in china =D



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12/5/2016 12:55:53 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  

chris3357m
Columbus, OH
29, joined Dec. 2012


Quote from hongyafan:
Chinese women and Western men's marriage will be happy?


i think the simplest answer for you is that it depends on who you marry in the western world, hongyafan. marriage with an educated and well off man here in the states who is respectable and looks out for your best interests may serve you well. if you pick a narcissistic a**hole who only thinks of himself, then yes your marriage may be doomed here in the western world as well as in china. but you can find respectable men who will treat you right, who will do good by you if you look hard enough. i hear they are hard to find though. good luck

12/5/2016 12:58:49 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  

hongyafan
Shanghai
China
39, joined Nov. 2016


Quote from sarahgoldsmith:
@hongya

Do you really live in china?
How are you able to go online?
I thought Chinese government is very strict, they don't let people go on the internet to talk to Americans or to western countries?

I've heard the Middle East is very strict too. They don't let them talk to Americans or to people in Europe.


I am in Shanghai, China, and now.
What you hear is not all right. I like China

12/5/2016 1:07:13 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  

hongyafan
Shanghai
China
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Quote from chris3357m:
i think the simplest answer for you is that it depends on who you marry in the western world, hongyafan. marriage with an educated and well off man here in the states who is respectable and looks out for your best interests may serve you well. if you pick a narcissistic a**hole who only thinks of himself, then yes your marriage may be doomed here in the western world as well as in china. but you can find respectable men who will treat you right, who will do good by you if you look hard enough. i hear they are hard to find though. good luck


Thank you very much!
I decided to end my marriage. We had a happy life for 15 years. That was the best time of my life.
I still want to have a good time. I'm looking forward to a happy marriage.

12/5/2016 1:07:53 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  
korbyn
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Quote from hongyafan:
Chinese women and Western men's marriage will be happy?



If it is a good western man.



Make sure he has a good job, money, education. Things like that.



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12/5/2016 1:10:41 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  
korbyn
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Quote from hongyafan:
You're going to offend a group of Western women.



Yeah, I don't like to say it that way. I have sisters, whole family of western women. Known western women my whole life. I am not saying that they are all a certain way, but in general women from other places are better at being wives and things like that.

12/5/2016 1:13:40 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  

hongyafan
Shanghai
China
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Quote from korbyn:
If it is a good western man.



Make sure he has a good job, money, education. Things like that.


How to judge and measure the good men in the west?
Property? Work? Occupation? Character? Appearance? Married?

12/5/2016 1:15:02 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  
sarahgoldsmith
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Korbyn

You can marry a Chinese girl & teach her English.


One with no kids. It's less of a burden & a hassle. You don't have to deal with babies' daddies.

Or maybe a fillipino girl.


12/5/2016 1:16:54 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  
sarahgoldsmith
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Quote from hongyafan:
How to judge and measure the good men in the west?
Property? Work? Occupation? Character? Appearance? Married?


They want the girl to look like a broom stick with breasts. That's what American men like. They don't like fat women.

12/5/2016 1:22:04 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  

chris3357m
Columbus, OH
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Quote from hongyafan:
How to judge and measure the good men in the west?
Property? Work? Occupation? Character? Appearance? Married?


sounds fair to me. however, be careful to notice what you are told versus what is actually true. statistics have shown that 40-50% of everything that comes out of peoples mouths in general is a lie. we are creatures of emotion, not of logic. i would suggest you judge based on actions, not words.

judge based on what is most important to you. are you looking for a man that is kind, loving, appreciative? that man may not be the man with all the money, property, and possessions. the man that owns the world may be the same man that abuses and uses you. be careful what you wish for! as they say, nothing in life is free. you always pay for it in the end.

12/5/2016 1:26:30 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  

hongyafan
Shanghai
China
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Quote from sarahgoldsmith:
They want the girl to look like a broom stick with breasts. That's what American men like. They don't like fat women.

"They", including you?

12/5/2016 1:29:58 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  

hongyafan
Shanghai
China
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Quote from chris3357m:
sounds fair to me. however, be careful to notice what you are told versus what is actually true. statistics have shown that 40-50% of everything that comes out of peoples mouths in general is a lie. we are creatures of emotion, not of logic. i would suggest you judge based on actions, not words.

judge based on what is most important to you. are you looking for a man that is kind, loving, appreciative? that man may not be the man with all the money, property, and possessions. the man that owns the world may be the same man that abuses and uses you. be careful what you wish for! as they say, nothing in life is free. you always pay for it in the end.


I judge a good man's first standard: do not complain about life
What about you?


I found that in life, those who like to complain about the man, do not succeed, nor happy, not to bring happiness to their families.



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12/5/2016 1:41:08 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  

chris3357m
Columbus, OH
29, joined Dec. 2012


Quote from hongyafan:

I judge a good man's first standard: do not complain about life
What about you?


umm well it's all in what you're looking for in life... i want a person i can be honest with, someone who is trustworthy and loyal. a best friend and lover. i'm looking for love and appreciation, understanding, acceptance. i think there are many things that play in to it for me. physical, mental, intellectual, and emotional attraction to my lady is extremely important. i want to feel a strong bond, a strong connection with the person i marry that will see us through anything.

i enjoy trying to eat healthy and stay fit. someone with the same interests is always good. i majored in business so someone who will be there to support my goals and my dreams is important i think. someone who accepts my dorky, nerdy side is always good.

but it's hard to say. and again, i am only one man in america. i'm very indepedent from the rest. i enjoy contemplation and i'm a pleasure seeker. other people are after different things - many in my country appear to only interest their selves in money and greed and what you can do for them. again, it's all in what you want in life and who best suits those needs for you. that's my belief anyways, when it comes to relationships. many here are very individualistic and it will be all about what you can do for them, instead of what you can build and create together. i like to be a part of a family and the bigger picture.

12/5/2016 1:44:50 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  
sarahgoldsmith
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Hong

Do you have kids?
American men don't like women with kids. They see it as a lot of trouble.

They want women that look skinny.
They want skinny women with breasts. They don't like fat women.

http://photobucket.com/images/victorias%20secret%20models

I am not looking for a woman.
I like men that look like Jim Morrison from The Doors with the brain of Bill Gates. That's my type.

12/5/2016 1:45:47 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  
cavie59
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Marriage is marriage world wide. ONLY you can decide if you are happy and making it a happy marriage.

Too many women think that ONLY they should be happy in the marriage and that it is the husbands responsibility to make it happen.

12/5/2016 1:50:44 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  

hongyafan
Shanghai
China
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Quote from chris3357m:
umm well it's all in what you're looking for in life... i want a person i can be honest with, someone who is trustworthy and loyal. a best friend and lover..


You're terrific.
Like to think of man, very COOL.
I also like to think, although sometimes it is no use. But more time, give me joy and progress.

12/5/2016 2:00:26 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  

hongyafan
Shanghai
China
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Quote from sarahgoldsmith:
Hong

Do you have kids?
American men don't like women with kids. They see it as a lot of trouble.
.


No, I feel the happiness and a sense of achievement, in raising children is the most precious in my life, the most beautiful, the most interesting memories.
My child has grown up.
We and the children together every moment is wonderful. Because of the time, is irreversible, it is the only one.

12/5/2016 2:03:50 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  

chris3357m
Columbus, OH
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Quote from hongyafan:
You're terrific.
Like to think of man, very COOL.
I also like to think, although sometimes it is no use. But more time, give me joy and progress.


what are you progressing towards exactly? i guess i would feel successful if in love, life, and work i were successful. that's how i guage it. and by my standards, i'm getting there. however, if you are only considering financial success - then by all means, i'm behind the curve! again, it's all in what you want out of life. the belief in money is ingrained in our societies and so to be financially successful holds power, unfortunately. otherwise i would only be concerned with being the best person i can possibly be for myself, my family, my significant other, my friends, my community, and my society.

12/5/2016 2:05:29 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  

Mercedes_3
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OP my fried rice is way better than yours.

12/5/2016 2:14:39 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  

hongyafan
Shanghai
China
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Quote from cavie59:
Marriage is marriage world wide. ONLY you can decide if you are happy and making it a happy marriage.

Too many women think that ONLY they should be happy in the marriage and that it is the husbands responsibility to make it happen.


Thank you for your reply!
I fully agree with your point of view.
I am a person who could transform dilemma into fun, in 15 years of marriage, I let oneself have the ability to do this.
I am looking for, can appreciate my strengths and those men who do not complain about life, we will have fun and happy life together.

I don't like to complain life man!

12/5/2016 2:17:03 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  

Mercedes_3
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Quote from hongyafan:
Thank you for your reply!
I fully agree with your point of view.
I am a person who could transform dilemma into fun, in 15 years of marriage, I let oneself have the ability to do this.
I am looking for, can appreciate my strengths and those men who do not complain about life, we will have fun and happy life together.

I don't like to complain life man!



Complaining ^^^^^^^^^^^

12/5/2016 2:31:52 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  

hongyafan
Shanghai
China
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Quote from Mercedes_3:
OP my fried rice is way better than yours.


Your figure is cool.
I will do a lot of Chinese dishes too. I like to cook and study Chinese cuisine.
My family all like to eat!
I can't give you a picture here. What a pity

12/5/2016 3:00:45 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  

chris3357m
Columbus, OH
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Quote from hongyafan:
Your figure is cool.
I will do a lot of Chinese dishes too. I like to cook and study Chinese cuisine.
My family all like to eat!
I can't give you a picture here. What a pity


very cool . i'm still learning the ins and outs of cooking myself =P. i'm about to start back up as a cook again and i'm super excited to learn more. although, i'm not the fastest cook. quality over quantity i guess. if only i could apply that logic to the restaurants i work for, i'd be golden lol...

12/5/2016 3:03:37 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  

Mercedes_3
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Australia
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Quote from hongyafan:
Your figure is cool.
I will do a lot of Chinese dishes too. I like to cook and study Chinese cuisine.
My family all like to eat!
I can't give you a picture here. What a pity
\



12/5/2016 3:13:36 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  

hongyafan
Shanghai
China
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Quote from chris3357m:
very cool . i'm still learning the ins and outs of cooking myself =P. i'm about to start back up as a cook again and i'm super excited to learn more. although, i'm not the fastest cook. quality over quantity i guess. if only i could apply that logic to the restaurants i work for, i'd be golden lol...


A cool idea.
I don't know how to introduce Chinese food to you. Too much, too rich!
Well, if you come to Shanghai in the future, I can invite you to eat.

12/5/2016 4:02:50 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  

chris3357m
Columbus, OH
29, joined Dec. 2012


Quote from hongyafan:
A cool idea.
I don't know how to introduce Chinese food to you. Too much, too rich!
Well, if you come to Shanghai in the future, I can invite you to eat.


lol thanks. i've never been out of the country but who knows, maybe some day soon ^_^. i'd probably travel to Australia if anywhere, though =D.

12/5/2016 7:21:52 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  
crumpet_dreams
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Quote from hongyafan:
I want to know what is the difference between the idea of a Chinese girl and the idea of a Western girl?




Chinese girls don't tend to call the cops when you beat them.

12/5/2016 8:58:14 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  

bumblebee7
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Fort Payne, AL
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Quote from hongyafan:
Thank you?Me too

China's marriage is not the most perfect.
I'm confused.


I'm sure many say that about their countries too.

Well, it just goes to show you...good and bad marriages can happen anywhere.

Personally, I can't give any opinions about China or Chinese women, because I've never lived there or been with a Chinese woman to know...but one wouldn't be enough to judge them all by anyway.

From what I have seen, I think Chinese Women would be a better option...but without experiencing it....one never knows.

The reason why some men think they would be better, is because of the image we see of the Chinese, being good and respectful people, hard working people with good principles and that it appears Chinese women would be more appreciative and treat a man better then American women do.

But now you tell us that it appears marriages and relations between men and women aren't too good....well, that sure sparks my curiosity, but before you try and explain...forget it, I'd have to hear the men's side too.

I can't answer you if an American man and a Chinese woman would be a good pair, but I can tell you that if the guy is legit and a woman treats him like he wants to be treated, not by what she thinks, but how he thinks....any man would die for that to be and treat her like gold and it will be a long and happy relation for both.



[Edited 12/5/2016 8:59:18 AM ]

12/5/2016 9:25:04 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  

enigmaathand
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Quote from hongyafan:
I want to know what is the difference between the idea of a Chinese girl and the idea of a Western girl?

I am a Chinese girl, no, Chinese woman
Well, Western women have been poisoned with Feminism and are fed the "Man-Hating" rhetoric from birth. They act like men, want to be like men, and still want men to act and be like men. They hold double standards able gender equality, only when it benefits them, and they wail in discord when they are actually expected to act equal to us men.

On average, Western women are more abusive to men, than men are to them. They are more likely to commit acts of violence against their men, and they cheat on us more often, all while blaming us for their acts of infidelity. They value money and social status over character, which results in most of them being single moms relying on government handouts to survive.

I know very little about Chinese culture, other than you are a Communist country.

But, if Chinese women are anything like American women, then I wouldn't recommend marrying an American man. It will end poorly for both of you.

12/5/2016 9:39:34 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  

sadlsticsienna
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Quote from chris3357m:
lol thanks. i've never been out of the country but who knows, maybe some day soon ^_^. i'd probably travel to Australia if anywhere, though =D.


12/5/2016 10:06:17 AM I want to create a happy marriage.  

enigmaathand
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^^^^^^ Just as soon as Trump starts allowing the taxpayers fund deportation of anti-American people still living in our country. Liberals don't like work, so they tend to not have money to afford such expenses.

12/5/2016 6:12:08 PM I want to create a happy marriage.  

bumblebee7
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I'll say this.

The op's English is amazing.

Better than some from here.


Surely you didn't learn such a complicated language to just be on the forums.

12/5/2016 7:05:09 PM I want to create a happy marriage.  

chris3357m
Columbus, OH
29, joined Dec. 2012


Quote from bumblebee7:
I'll say this.

The op's English is amazing.

Better than some from here.


Surely you didn't learn such a complicated language to just be on the forums.


i guess you haven't ever tried to learn mandarin, a language spoken by over 730 million. most foreigners know how to speak many languages including english, bumblebee. welcome to the modern world.

12/5/2016 7:09:46 PM I want to create a happy marriage.  

urealysucklol
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Quote from korbyn:
Chinese woman makes a better wife than Western woman.

True, Chinese women follow orders
American women don't listen for shit!

12/5/2016 7:16:00 PM I want to create a happy marriage.  

urealysucklol
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Wow the op has sum hot pics

12/5/2016 8:59:22 PM I want to create a happy marriage.  

driver406
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I'm told Asian women are more traditional and still like men while American woman are man hating, radical, arrogant, condescending feminists. One of their ilk shot me the bird today just to prove her superiority. I'd be happy to give an Asian woman a chance, but I'm well above your age range. It works for the brother of the guy next door. She was from the Philippines. There just aren't many women in this country who still want a man. Seems most are lesbians as it is the politically correct thing to do. Write to me if you're interested, OP.

12/5/2016 9:00:08 PM I want to create a happy marriage.  

driver406
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Quote from urealysucklol:
Wow the op has sum hot pics


You're in her desired age range too.

12/5/2016 9:06:47 PM I want to create a happy marriage.  
sarahgoldsmith
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Driver & Korbyn should marry a girl from the fillipines or Thailand. Maybe china too.

Driver, she has a child. Are you sure you want the challenge of being a step daddy? Otherwise seek out one with no kids. Raising another man's child is hard, driver. The kid will think you are trying to take his dad's place. Then there are kids who are wild & won't listen to your orders. You are the adult, the parent, you have the right to give orders.

12/5/2016 9:16:02 PM I want to create a happy marriage.  

hongyafan
Shanghai
China
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Quote from sarahgoldsmith:
Driver & Korbyn should marry a girl from the fillipines or Thailand. Maybe china too.

Driver, she has a child. Are you sure you want the challenge of being a step daddy? Otherwise seek out one with no kids. Raising another man's child is hard, driver. The kid will think you are trying to take his dad's place. Then there are kids who are wild & won't listen to your orders. You are the adult, the parent, you have the right to give orders.


My child is already an adult. So I want to continue to look for a happy marriage. I think he has begun his life, I love him forever

12/5/2016 9:20:54 PM I want to create a happy marriage.  

hongyafan
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China
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Quote from driver406:
I'm told Asian women are more traditional and still like men while American woman are man hating, radical, arrogant, condescending feminists..


Thank you very much for your reply.
I want to look for a marriage that will make each other happy, understand each other, appreciate each other, and be willing to try new life.
If there is such a person, I think I do not mind the gap between age.

12/5/2016 9:49:44 PM I want to create a happy marriage.  
sarahgoldsmith
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She speaks English a lot better than we can speak Chinese. Foreigners can speak English a lot better than we can speak their language. White folks have a fear of learning another language.

12/5/2016 10:08:22 PM I want to create a happy marriage.  

hongyafan
Shanghai
China
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Quote from crumpet_dreams:
Chinese girls don't tend to call the cops when you beat them.


There are some poor places in China. That kind of place where a woman meets domestic violence, usually does not choose the alarm.
But now, most cities in China have been lifted out of poverty. The more affluent cities, the higher the degree of human civilization, men will not fight less women.
Women have been to college, but also can not tolerate violence. Of course alarm

China is an interesting country.
Every city has different customs, culture, food, men and women are different too. It was interesting.
But I don't know what you're interested in?

12/5/2016 10:14:48 PM I want to create a happy marriage.  

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Quote from sarahgoldsmith:
She speaks English a lot better than we can speak Chinese. Foreigners can speak English a lot better than we can speak their language. White folks have a fear of learning another language.


Maybe you don't believe me, my English sucks. I chat with you by means of translation software.
Thanks to the Internet era, I can learn English, while the use of tools to increase the fun of their own learning.
But I know that Chinese is one of the most difficult languages in the world. I'm proud of my mother tongue.

12/5/2016 10:16:08 PM I want to create a happy marriage.  

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Quote from hongyafan:
There are some poor places in China. That kind of place where a woman meets domestic violence, usually does not choose the alarm.
But now, most cities in China have been lifted out of poverty. The more affluent cities, the higher the degree of human civilization, men will not fight less women.
Women have been to college, but also can not tolerate violence. Of course alarm

China is an interesting country.
Every city has different customs, culture, food, men and women are different too. It was interesting.
But I don't know what you're interested in?
Well, with the way all our American jobs have left and gone to China, I would hope most areas are out of poverty, but I have heard that China's economy is on the verge of collapsing. This is not a good thing, for any country, but China accounts for over 46% of the total WORLD population. If that were to happen, it would be globally catastrophic.

12/5/2016 11:05:21 PM I want to create a happy marriage.  

hongyafan
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Quote from enigmaathand:
Well, with the way all our American jobs have left and gone to China, ... but China accounts for over 46% of the total WORLD population. If that were to happen, it would be globally catastrophic.


I don't know much about economic problems. And China's politics are not allowed to talk about.
If the economic collapse is the bankruptcy of the enterprise, a large number of workers unemployed, then China has experienced 40 years ago. Those who have been laid off have found their own lives, and have accumulated a lot of wealth.
Now is the age of the Internet, we Chinese people are very smart, very strong. We can find ways to get through the hard times.

Hee hee, buy gold to shock the world Chinese aunt, a lot of people who are 40 years ago one of the laid-off workers

12/5/2016 11:36:06 PM I want to create a happy marriage.  

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Quote from hongyafan:
Thank you?Me too

China's marriage is not the most perfect.
I'm confused.


No marriage, race, circle or culture IS perfect. It's not about perfection and we need to get out the habit of bringing into our understanding of how things work.

But some marraiges, races, cultures and circles ARE MUCH BETTER OFF than others bcuz of their beliefs and cultural practices.

Asian women have western women BEAT in every possible, known, conceivable aspect of companionship.

Asian women will support their men, assume their rightful role, support their family and put NO ONE before them.

Western women challenge and compete to destroy their men and use their own children as weapons against them. They worship gov't who they often bring into their homes to defeat their men. And chose "independence" over a loving family who sticks together and love each other.

12/5/2016 11:43:40 PM I want to create a happy marriage.  

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Quote from hongyafan:
You're going to offend a group of Western women.


True but if they're offended it's NOT bcuz we're lying or making any of this up.

It's bcuz we're exposing them to a woman who would be chosen a 1000 times over them as a better choice of companion.

And they feel shame and embarrassed putting Gov't before their families and destroying the lives of their own kids just to prove they can.

12/5/2016 11:53:26 PM I want to create a happy marriage.  

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Quote from sarahgoldsmith:
They are afraid that Americans will corrupt them & influence their minds. That's why they don't allow them to talk to Americans.


So ask yourself this question Sara...

If they believe that Americans will corrupt and influence them into doing bad then WHAT DOES YHAT DAY about how think?

Especially when Americans aren't saying listening to other cultures will corrupt and influence us?

Doesn't that tell you that something is seriously wrong here with american (social,gov't) way of thinking towards relationships and marriage?