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1/1/2017 3:44:09 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  
jester0011
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what are the things that make u want to get married in todays times?




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1/1/2017 4:19:33 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  

driver406
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NOTHING! What the hell would I do with a woman about the house criticizing everything I do? If she wants everything platonic then fine, but no shacking up, no sex, no joint finances.

1/1/2017 5:25:15 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  
_Flapjack_
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Bloomingdale, GA
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Marriage is the leading cause of divorce..

1/1/2017 7:03:24 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  

enigmaathand
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Leavittsburg, OH
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Quote from jester0011:
what are the things that make u want to get married in todays times?
It would be more productive to make a list of all the reasons NOT to get married.

1/1/2017 7:42:10 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  

Mercedes_3
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,929)
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Australia
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Absolutely nothing.

1/1/2017 8:08:54 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  

testsignup
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It depends on what you compare marriage to.

There are said to be a few tax advantages, over living together permanently.

It's vastly better to be HAPPILY married, than alone and lonely, but it's vastly worse to be UNhappily married, than alone and lonely.

1/1/2017 8:14:47 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  
jester0011
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Lake Waccamaw, NC
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mangina above me

1/1/2017 9:47:26 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  

enigmaathand
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,752)
Leavittsburg, OH
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Quote from testsignup:
It depends on what you compare marriage to.

There are said to be a few tax advantages, over living together permanently.

It's vastly better to be HAPPILY married, than alone and lonely, but it's vastly worse to be UNhappily married, than alone and lonely.
How is a wife just like a hand grenade?


Pull the ring off, and lose your house.

What do women and hurricanes have in common?

They both come in wet 'n' wild, and when they leave, they both take your house and your car.

1/2/2017 11:12:35 AM Question to me about wanting to get married  
jester0011
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so true so true

1/2/2017 11:42:10 AM Question to me about wanting to get married  
cupocheer
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Assumption, IL
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OP, with all the things other posters day about you in the forums you don't have to worry, do you?

1/2/2017 1:12:23 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  

playingindirt
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (15,465)
Eugene, OR
61, joined Mar. 2014


living together forever: yes
marriage: no

when I'm in a relationship I enjoy having a man in my life. it's awesome

1/2/2017 3:28:40 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  

maniacmassager
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Lawrence, MA
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Nothing

1/2/2017 3:41:08 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  

stl1
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Saint Louis, MO
63, joined Jun. 2007


Quote from playingindirt:
living together forever: yes
marriage: no



In other words, separate stashes for Annie.



1/2/2017 3:48:30 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  

playingindirt
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Quote from stl1:
In other words, separate stashes for Annie.



living together was no different than marriage. the only difference was you're minus a piece of paper saying you're married.

1/2/2017 4:25:20 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  
jester0011
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Lake Waccamaw, NC
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Quote from stl1:
In other words, separate stashes for Annie.

woohoohoo

1/2/2017 4:38:32 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  

dr_i_got_answer
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,494)
Gwynn Oak, MD
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Quote from jester0011:
mangina above me


I coulda told you that.

1/2/2017 5:07:34 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  
aussiechill
AngastacoVictoria
Australia
96, joined Jan. 2014


Quote from testsignup:
It depends on what you compare marriage to.

There are said to be a few tax advantages, over living together permanently.

It's vastly better to be HAPPILY married, than alone and lonely, but it's vastly worse to be UNhappily married, than alone and lonely.



Yep , that bottom parts very bloody true, for sure.
l think you do need a life your happy in if your not married or
it could end up like that very easily.



[Edited 1/2/2017 5:09:09 PM ]

1/2/2017 5:17:39 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  
aussiechill
AngastacoVictoria
Australia
96, joined Jan. 2014


Tough call though with all the downers and divorce rates these days.
if you like to mix it up with women then marriage is hard and forced.
Times l wondered if l could make it but other times l was so thankful l was married and felt very lucky to have what we had .
lf it all goes wrong though in the end , in ways you wish you never went there in the first place.

But now , if l met the right girl , think l'd get married again but only if l was 100% confident in our thing. Single life doesn't really agree with me. Maybe it might one day but it sure don't right now. life was mostly much better before.

But what makes you wanna get married ,for me given the right girl and it was just this silly thing l wanted do.



[Edited 1/2/2017 5:20:40 PM ]

1/2/2017 6:23:45 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  

afrosirene77
Newark, NJ
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Marriage can be a beautiful thing when you have found the right person.

1/2/2017 7:24:56 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  

enigmaathand
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Leavittsburg, OH
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Quote from afrosirene77:
Marriage can be a beautiful cash cow for women when you have found the rich men.
Fixed that for you.

1/2/2017 7:26:46 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  

enigmaathand
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Leavittsburg, OH
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Quote from aussiechill:
Tough call though with all the downers and divorce rates these days.
if you like to mix it up with women then marriage is hard and forced.
Times l wondered if l could make it but other times l was so thankful l was married and felt very lucky to have what we had .
lf it all goes wrong though in the end , in ways you wish you never went there in the first place.

But now , if l met the right girl , think l'd get married again but only if l was 100% confident in our thing. Single life doesn't really agree with me. Maybe it might one day but it sure don't right now. life was mostly much better before.

But what makes you wanna get married ,for me given the right girl and it was just this silly thing l wanted do.
Someone is a glutton for punishment......

Riddle me this. Riddle me that.....

How many times does one grab a hot skillet, before they learn to use an oven mit or let the skillet cool down?

1/2/2017 7:57:47 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  
aussiechill
AngastacoVictoria
Australia
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Quote from afrosirene77:
Marriage can be a beautiful thing when you have found the right person.


Yep, for sure.

1/3/2017 9:50:34 AM Question to me about wanting to get married  

bookwormtobutte
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Rio Rancho, NM
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Quote from testsignup:
It depends on what you compare marriage to.

There are said to be a few tax advantages, over living together permanently.

It's vastly better to be HAPPILY married, than alone and lonely, but it's vastly worse to be UNhappily married, than alone and lonely.


I agree 100%

1/3/2017 2:01:51 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  
jester0011
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Lake Waccamaw, NC
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lets look at statistics,,,by the age if 35 over 90 percent of people have been divorced at least one time,and being divorced 2 times by 35 is an average of 75 percent.what makes any man think his odds of not being divorced at some point in there life will not happen.and the man pays big times with money and other things.

1/3/2017 8:45:40 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  

enigmaathand
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Quote from jester0011:
lets look at statistics,,,by the age if 35 over 90 percent of people have been divorced at least one time,and being divorced 2 times by 35 is an average of 75 percent.what makes any man think his odds of not being divorced at some point in there life will not happen.and the man pays big times with money and other things.
As long as Feminism and media false narratives continue to put women on some kind of pedestal, there will always be stupid men that are dumb enough to lose everything they have worked for by marrying one of the worthless-ass rib stealers.

Intelligent, educated men(such as you and I) will never get married because we know it is a losing investment. It is like buying a Ford, but no option to trade in, at the end of the lease agreement......

1/22/2017 6:58:17 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  
jester0011
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Lake Waccamaw, NC
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men just don't do it

1/22/2017 6:59:11 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  
jester0011
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Lake Waccamaw, NC
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Quote from afrosirene77:
Marriage can be a beautiful thing when you have found the right person.
uhahaha.well I guess most don't find the right one...look at the divorce rate at over 93 percent now

1/23/2017 4:16:23 AM Question to me about wanting to get married  

hongyafan
Shanghai
China
39, joined Nov. 2016


Quote from jester0011:
uhahaha.well I guess most don't find the right one...look at the divorce rate at over 93 percent now


We can not give up the pursuit of life because of fear of failure.
If you look closely around you, you may also find that a happy marriage is always there.
A Cadillac car as you buy, you will be surprised to find that there are so many Cadillac cars on the street!
The point is that your attention is changing.

1/23/2017 4:18:24 AM Question to me about wanting to get married  

hongyafan
Shanghai
China
39, joined Nov. 2016


Quote from enigmaathand:
As long as Feminism and media false narratives continue to put women on some kind of pedestal, there will always be stupid men that are dumb enough to lose everything they have worked for by marrying one of the worthless-ass rib stealers.

Intelligent, educated men(such as you and I) will never get married because we know it is a losing investment. It is like buying a Ford, but no option to trade in, at the end of the lease agreement......


Life is long and long
I bet if you meet your true love
You must be eager to marry her!
Because you want to be with her forever.
Good luck!

1/23/2017 4:48:47 AM Question to me about wanting to get married  
time2relaxx
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San Antonio, TX
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Quote from afrosirene77:
Marriage can be a beautiful thing when you have found the right person.



1/23/2017 4:53:26 AM Question to me about wanting to get married  
cavie59
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Enid, OK
57, joined Feb. 2010


Who files for divorce the most?? Women.

What is the leading cause of divorce?? Marriage.

I can say that after losing everything twice, I did not learn my lesson the first time, that marriage is not something I will ever do again.

1/23/2017 11:55:45 AM Question to me about wanting to get married  

bumblebee7
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To me there is only one reason.

True love within both people...and that you are compatible enough that it stands a good chance to work.


I understand with these times we are in the apprehension of most people.

but...I go by my lifetime...not theirs.



[Edited 1/23/2017 11:56:51 AM ]

1/23/2017 6:48:44 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  

driver406
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (51,374)
Saint Paul, MN
64, joined Oct. 2009


Couldn't think of even one thing if you gave me until the end of eternity! I'm too old to enter into some doomed marriage with a feminist who thinks horseshit is more valuable than me. At least being impotent I won't be expected to have sex not that feminists give a guy much of an opportunity.

1/23/2017 9:58:30 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  

pickygirl72
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Death Valley, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011


Oh please stop blaming us for failed marriage and bad relationships.

Man the fu ck up! and this goes for both men and women,

If you DO NOT like the following things than stay out of a marriage/relationship-
Their ex'es, their family, their bad habits, their views/dreams, if you can't stand their friends or job. Their kids or pets or maybe they drink or do drugs or are mental.

You have to right to say yes or hell no. Stop blaming others for your fu cked up life and bad decisions.


1/23/2017 10:35:24 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  

bookwormtobutte
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Rio Rancho, NM
36, joined Jan. 2016


I know it probably seems pathetically traditionalist. But I've thought a lot about it, and for me personally, if I ever have a child I need to be married. Married first and then get pregnant, I know the popular way is to do it in reverse or get pregnant and never married at all. But that doesn't sit right with me. It never has.
I have total respect for single parents my mom raised my sister and I on her own, so I know it can be done.But not what I want for my child.

1/24/2017 9:56:46 AM Question to me about wanting to get married  

enigmaathand
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Leavittsburg, OH
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Quote from hongyafan:
We can not give up the pursuit of life because of fear of failure.
If you look closely around you, you may also find that a happy marriage is always there.
A Cadillac car as you buy, you will be surprised to find that there are so many Cadillac cars on the street!
The point is that your attention is changing.
Their aren't as many Cadillacs on the road, as you would think. Most of them find an early grave from blown head gaskets or cracked engine blocks. They are "Genuine GM" junk, nowadays.

1/24/2017 9:59:01 AM Question to me about wanting to get married  

enigmaathand
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Leavittsburg, OH
36, joined Mar. 2013


Quote from hongyafan:
Life is long and long
I bet if you meet your true love
You must be eager to marry her!
Because you want to be with her forever.
Good luck!
Where I live, most of them are single mothers with a bunch of kids.

Not exactly in any hurry to be raising another man's mistakes.

Appreciate you wishing me good luck, and all, but I will never find what I want, because very few women don't want children.

I can't have them, anymore, and I sure as hell don't want them.

1/24/2017 10:35:02 AM Question to me about wanting to get married  
kungfu_candy
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Alsónémedi
Hungary
28, joined Aug. 2013


Honestly?

Because there's a lot of things I want to do sexually that are too explicit for me to do with someone not committed enough to be legally tied to me.

That was my shallow reason. I wanted to come baring sexual dowry's.

Thank god, I realized I don't want to be married. But I am obsessed with wedding cakes.

1/24/2017 7:52:23 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  

hongyafan
Shanghai
China
39, joined Nov. 2016


Quote from enigmaathand:
Where I live, most of them are single mothers with a bunch of kids.

Not exactly in any hurry to be raising another man's mistakes.

Appreciate you wishing me good luck, and all, but I will never find what I want, because very few women don't want children.

I can't have them, anymore, and I sure as hell don't want them.


Yes!
You're right!
This is the reason why we need to go out to travel!

Because all around us, we don't find happiness.

That's what we need social, know many friends!

As our circle of friends, may be very low, no we want to happiness.

However, happiness has been around forever.

Ha, please forgive me.
This is an optimistic character of woman, give your reply.


1/24/2017 8:07:02 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  

hongyafan
Shanghai
China
39, joined Nov. 2016


Quote from cavie59:
Who files for divorce the most?? Women.

What is the leading cause of divorce?? Marriage.

I can say that after losing everything twice, I did not learn my lesson the first time, that marriage is not something I will ever do again.


What are the main reasons for divorce?
Not happy.
Some poor couples, there is no divorce.
Some rich couples, there is no divorce.
There are couples who have raised many children, and there is no divorce.
Some couples who do not have children, and there is no divorce.
Of course, more couples, divorced.
I appreciate the loyalty of marriage in Western culture.
I did it, I was loyal to the marriage.
When I think of my marriage, 2 people will not be happy,
I decided to end.
Of course, I feel the sadness, anger, resentment, pain, contradictions, entanglements, grievances..
All this, I've been through.
I almost got addicted to it....
Now, I decided to get out of the gloom.
I'm back to myself. No longer affected by marriage.
You can also?

There is no difference between marriage and mountain climbing
The first time I climbed a mountain, I failed.
Well, I'm ready,
Then the second summit.
And that?



[Edited 1/24/2017 8:10:33 PM ]

1/26/2017 10:00:39 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  
korbyn
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Bat Cave, NC
97, joined Jun. 2013


Quote from hongyafan:
What are the main reasons for divorce?
Not happy.
Some poor couples, there is no divorce.
Some rich couples, there is no divorce.
There are couples who have raised many children, and there is no divorce.
Some couples who do not have children, and there is no divorce.
Of course, more couples, divorced.
I appreciate the loyalty of marriage in Western culture.
I did it, I was loyal to the marriage.
When I think of my marriage, 2 people will not be happy,
I decided to end.
Of course, I feel the sadness, anger, resentment, pain, contradictions, entanglements, grievances..
All this, I've been through.
I almost got addicted to it....
Now, I decided to get out of the gloom.
I'm back to myself. No longer affected by marriage.
You can also?

There is no difference between marriage and mountain climbing
The first time I climbed a mountain, I failed.
Well, I'm ready,
Then the second summit.
And that?





1/27/2017 9:32:14 AM Question to me about wanting to get married  

dr_i_got_answer
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Gwynn Oak, MD
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Quote from Yugo_3:
Absolutely nothing.


You sure are! And that's why you're single now.

1/27/2017 10:03:33 AM Question to me about wanting to get married  

dr_i_got_answer
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Gwynn Oak, MD
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Quote from playingindirt:
living together was no different than marriage. the only difference was you're minus a piece of paper saying you're married.


True! But women don't mind those "pieces of papers" when they are COURT ORDERS to give up his house, child support, arrest warrants, alimony, car titles and dead presidents.

But a piece of paper a man MIGHT benefit from... like being able to hold a woman responsible for infidelity... if he also have a good lawyer... HOW DARE A MERE MAN HAS THAT!

1/27/2017 10:22:47 AM Question to me about wanting to get married  

dr_i_got_answer
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Gwynn Oak, MD
50, joined Jun. 2014


At this stage in life... it would be the "happily ever after!" Let me explain...

The cruises, the cabins, vacations, trip to places I've never been. The islands, the mountains, the non fires, enjoying the hot tub in my back yard, the holidays.

Then you have someone to fix you a bowl soup if sick or speak for you with doctors. To put lotion on your back after a bath or rub your feet if they hurt and medical related things.

BUT... that wouldn't happen with an "strong independent Gov't WORSHIPPING" woman. That would be suicide.

So it would have to be someone who DESERVED and EARNED that by staying in HER place and taking HER responsibilities. From a foreign culture.

Bcuz I'm not giving that to someone just LAYING UP! I don't care how long she's there. You never give things like that to anyone but A Good Wife!

1/27/2017 1:51:36 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  

mylegsarecold
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Gainesville, FL
54, joined May. 2011


So I can live longer.

1/28/2017 12:22:05 AM Question to me about wanting to get married  

dr_i_got_answer
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,494)
Gwynn Oak, MD
50, joined Jun. 2014


Quote from mylegsarecold:
So I can live longer.


That's not gonna help.

Bcuz one day your mouth is gonna write a check your a** can't cash.

Won't be able to hide behind the PC.

They'll find you laid out on your back coughing up teeth just like that lame a** profile pic.

She'll just be there to f**k other men bcuz of your impotency problems you spineless maggot.

1/28/2017 1:03:43 AM Question to me about wanting to get married  

LOT_US
Bacolod
Philippines
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Quote from afrosirene77:
Marriage can be a beautiful thing when you have found the right person.



well said,i agree on that.

1/28/2017 1:11:19 AM Question to me about wanting to get married  

stratus55
Jackson, GA
51, joined Jan. 2017
online now!


mine was good for 23 years an cancer took her away..........

1/28/2017 1:24:18 AM Question to me about wanting to get married  

LOT_US
Bacolod
Philippines
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sorry to hear that@strat.

1/28/2017 1:36:26 AM Question to me about wanting to get married  

dr_i_got_answer
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,494)
Gwynn Oak, MD
50, joined Jun. 2014


Quote from bookwormtobutte:
I know it probably seems pathetically traditionalist. But I've thought a lot about it, and for me personally, if I ever have a child I need to be married. Married first and then get pregnant, I know the popular way is to do it in reverse or get pregnant and never married at all. But that doesn't sit right with me. It never has.
I have total respect for single parents my mom raised my sister and I on her own, so I know it can be done.But not what I want for my child.


That's a very precious thought you just expressed. HOLD ON to that and NEVER let it go. That is an ancient quality no govt can memic or mock.

And that very very rarely heard even come out a woman's mouth nowadays with all this "independent feminist" bullshit!

Salute!!!

1/28/2017 1:43:37 AM Question to me about wanting to get married  

dr_i_got_answer
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,494)
Gwynn Oak, MD
50, joined Jun. 2014


Quote from pickygirl72:
Oh please stop blaming us for failed marriage and bad relationships.

Man the fu ck up! and this goes for both men and women,

If you DO NOT like the following things than stay out of a marriage/relationship-
Their ex'es, their family, their bad habits, their views/dreams, if you can't stand their friends or job. Their kids or pets or maybe they drink or do drugs or are mental.

You have to right to say yes or hell no. Stop blaming others for your fu cked up life and bad decisions.


Your rant is the main ingredient in a failed relationship. All that tough talk and combativeness! Huh ain't no man gonna shut you up ain't that right cookie?

You're bad marriage and a mistake just waiting to happen.

1/28/2017 1:52:33 AM Question to me about wanting to get married  

dr_i_got_answer
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,494)
Gwynn Oak, MD
50, joined Jun. 2014


Quote from afrosirene77:
Marriage can be a beautiful thing when you have found the right person.


But it's the "find the right person" that makes the detriments GREATLY outweigh benefits.

And after the United Snakes Govt turned this entire country into a f**king cesspool for finding a good catch the risks are too great to even try.

Mention a prenuptial and women act like you raped their dead mothers. So how does that help?

1/28/2017 7:04:08 AM Question to me about wanting to get married  

lightbrownie1
Johnston, IA
48, joined Feb. 2016


Quote from jester0011:
what are the things that make u want to get married in todays times?


There isn't.

1/28/2017 8:50:07 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  

packersbabe920
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (71,453)
Green Bay, WI
51, joined Jul. 2013


Quote from pickygirl72:
Oh please stop blaming us for failed marriage and bad relationships.

Man the fu ck up! and this goes for both men and women,

If you DO NOT like the following things than stay out of a marriage/relationship-
Their ex'es, their family, their bad habits, their views/dreams, if you can't stand their friends or job. Their kids or pets or maybe they drink or do drugs or are mental.

You have to right to say yes or hell no. Stop blaming others for your fu cked up life and bad decisions.



Picky u said a mouth full

1/29/2017 11:09:20 AM Question to me about wanting to get married  

dr_i_got_answer
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,494)
Gwynn Oak, MD
50, joined Jun. 2014


Quote from packersbabe920:
Picky u said a mouth full


A mouth full of shit!

You forgot that part PBaby.

1/29/2017 12:34:07 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  

stl1
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (19,568)
Saint Louis, MO
63, joined Jun. 2007


Quote from jester0011:
uhahaha.well I guess most don't find the right one...look at the divorce rate at over 93 percent now




Are you quoting Trump alternative truths now?

Where are you getting these figures from?

Did you learn them at Trump University?

1/29/2017 12:50:23 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  

stl1
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Four Ways to Measure Divorce Rates

There are four main ways scholars measure current divorce rates, and these four main measurements provide four different answers because they examine the elephant from different perspectives. I will start with the less frequently used measures and conclude with the most popular, which leads us to the very good news. The explanation of these four is drawn from the work of Professor Paul R. Amato, the scholar leading sociologists go to for insight on such issues.

1. Crude Divorce Rate

This number refers to the number of divorces per 1,000 people in a population. The crude annual divorce rate is currently around 3.6 divorces for every 1,000 people in the US, regardless of age. The age-adjusted crude divorce rate is currently thirteen divorces for every 1,000 people age fifteen and older.

Pro: This measure provides the largest-scale picture of divorce prevalence in a population and makes it easy to compare divorce rates of different countries.

Con: This number isn’t very useful, since it includes all people, even those—such as children, the unmarried, and elderly couples—who are not at risk for divorce.

2. Percent Ever Divorced

This is the percentage of ever-divorced adults in a population. This, of course, is not an annual rate. Currently, 22 percent of women and 21 percent of men have ever been divorced. Of course, some of those have remarried; 11 percent of women and 9 percent of men are currently divorced—that is, they have not remarried.

Pro: This is a very straightforward, easy-to-understand number.

Con: As it includes all divorces, it includes those who married badly then divorced—perhaps when very young—and are now in a subsequent strong, enduring marriage of many decades. It also fluctuates relative to general marriage rate.

3. Refined Divorce Rate

This is the number of divorces per 1,000 married women. Like the crude rate, it is an annual rate. In 2011, nineteen out of every 1,000 marriages ended in divorce. As Paul Amato explains, “An advantage of the refined divorce rate is that it has a clear interpretation. That is, dividing the rate by 10 yields the percentage of marriages that end in divorce every year.” So, the refined annual divorce rate is currently 1.9 percent.

Pro: A very precise annual number that gives the rate of divorce as a subset of the actual married population, the proper comparison.

Con: Doesn’t give the bigger, longitudinal number of divorces over time.

4. Cohort Measure Rate

This is the “40-50 percent” number that most people cite. It is not a hard, objective number, but an educated projection. It is calculated by looking at a particular “cohort”—a large group of people marrying within a particular measure of time—relative to general life-tables.

Pro: It is the measure most scholars use and most widely known, giving the larger picture of the overall marital lifetime expectation.

Con: It doesn’t give an objective number of actual divorces.

The 40-50% number comes from a detailed analysis of various population demographics, including ages, life span projections, etc. It represents a sophisticated projection of a calculated risk, much like projected life span for babies born today. . . . [It] is a valid projection under current conditions and it pertains to new, first time marriages.

The major factors that determine a couple’s risk of divorce include:

- Cohabitation: cohabiting couples have a 50-80 percent higher likelihood of divorce than non-cohabiting couples.

- Race: the general lifetime risk of divorce is 1.5 percent higher for African American couples than for Whites.

- Age: those who marry after age eighteen have a 24 percent reduced risk of divorce.

- Age Difference: marriages where there is a significant difference in age have twice the risk of divorce than those in which the couples are close in age.

- Education: only 27 percent of college graduates will divorce by middle age.

- Family Background: having parents who have never divorced reduces divorce risk by 14 percent.

- Marital History: being previously divorced markedly elevates one’s risk of divorce.

- Income: having a collective annual household income of $50,000 or more is associated with a 30 percent lower divorce risk.

- Beliefs: going into a marriage with husband and wife holding a strong personal conviction that marriage is for life protects against divorce.

- Religion: those with a strong common faith have a 7-14 percent lower risk of divorce. However, having a nominal faith has no protective effect.

- Childbearing: having one’s first child after marriage reduces divorce risk somewhere between 24 and 66 percent.

- Desire for Children: a marriage in which the wife desires children but the husband does not is at a 50 percent greater risk of divorce.

- Sexual History: marrying as non-virgins is associated with “considerably higher” risk of divorce and “dramatically more unstable first marriages.”

- Smoking: couples in which one partner smokes and the other does not are markedly more likely to divorce compared to couples in which neither spouse does. Marriages in which both smoke were more than twice as likely to dissolve compared with non-smoking couples.

1/29/2017 1:00:26 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  
missamicable
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No marriage. Just want to be friends. It looks like relationships last a long time, but as soon as the couple gets married the divorce follows.

1/29/2017 3:17:33 PM Question to me about wanting to get married  

enigmaathand
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Quote from missamicable:
No marriage. Just want to be friends. It looks like relationships last a long time, but as soon as the couple gets married the divorce follows.
And almost always filed by the WOMAN, so WHY does divorce seem to always follow marriage?

70% of divorces are filed by women........

So, if divorce follows, WHO is likely the reason? Because it doesn't look to me like MEN go around discarding a marriage, like everything else in his life.....

1/31/2017 8:03:37 AM Question to me about wanting to get married  

dr_i_got_answer
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Quote from missamicable:
No marriage. Just want to be friends. It looks like relationships last a long time, but as soon as the couple gets married the divorce follows.


When women meet men they AUTOMATICALLY start looking for the financial benefits of taking her close off. She really cares nothing about what kinda man he is just the possibilities of him spending money on her. Now...

After careful calculations if the benefits DO NOT outweigh the effort and time put into it then THEY wanna remain friends! Do they can reap a little more and BAIL when the next ship sails by.

But if that man got fat stacks or a career job where she can reap crazy benefits just being his wife and still get the finances? THEN SHE WANTS TO GET MARRIED!