Good responses thanks. Seems many are having the same issues as me. I'm on several other sites and they aren't much better. I either have women 50 to 100 miles away that are interested. Probably because they've already burned up the options near them. Or none near me interested. Its also interesting the horror stories from some of the women I have talked to as far as dates and men. From what they've told me I'm a par above what they have dated but not interested in me?

I wish women were more honest as to what exactly they'er looking for. If it's a guy with money, his own place, a dream job, state as much. But I can also take a hint. In my age group of 50 and up is pretty strange. You either have very successful women who aren't going to share seeking equally successful men. Or you have women with children still at home looking for a baby daddy. I guess this could be all age groups though. And single men with every thing going on at my age are pretty rare. And even these guys aren't doing so good either don't be fooled.

Yep it looks more pointless the longer you stick with it I'm afraid. So I guess my question is why not date someone? It isn't going to freaking kill you. Is alone really better than enjoying the company of another human being even is he or she isn't your dream mate? My god I'm certainly not hideous a jerk or a disgusting pig. And maybe that's why these people are alone? So stubborn and head strong in their belief only Mr or Miss perfect will make me happy. Its really a sad world we live in if that's what its come down to. Mc perfect or nothing.

It goes both ways in regards to being honest. I am a single mom of one adult son who happens to have special needs. I have always been up front about it on this site. As well as other sites. In my experience, most, not all, but most, only want sex. I even had one guy tell me that I had to accept the fact that he wants to have a triad relationship and have it in the a** since he was going to have to "put up" with my son. I told him to kiss my a** and move on.

So both genders deal with all kinds. Sometimes, it's just better to be alone.

If women expect men to be financial stable and have great jobs. Why shouldn't those same men have preferences over who they date? And sorry your child is a monster. But guess what? That's not any man's problem is it? And to expect men to deal with it is pretty ridiculous when they clearly don't have to. Except for the one you had the child with. Now where is he?

I figure if you're going with a woman who has a special need child, u gotta except the child as well, after all with me it's a package deal and my son is autistic he can walk, very smart but can't talk either, uses sign language children are gods children