| 4/2/2017 12:56:11 PM |
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pickygirl72
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011
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Forum is keep your topic related to Relationship issues.
This forum has turned into another "General Discussion"
Forum
"Did you catch the flu yet?"
"Grilled or baked chicken?"
"What if your fav word?"
"Sopranos vs Breaking Bad?"
Really!
Come on people you can do better than this?
Think before you post!!
So my question is, when dating someone how long do you wait before having sex?
Have fun
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| 4/2/2017 12:58:22 PM |
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foreal2015
Cadiz, OH
35, joined Aug. 2015
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That depends on both of us some longer others not so much. I guess the answer would be it happens at the pace both are comfortable with.
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| 4/2/2017 1:21:23 PM |
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inde_5
Bonaire, GA
42, joined Sep. 2014
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No bums
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| 4/2/2017 1:55:50 PM |
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thebigugly0
Kent, OH
46, joined Sep. 2012
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It may be on the first date. It may be the third. Fifth. Who knows.
You do it when it feels right for both people.
Although, some might wait too long and miss the opportunity. I know a girl who has been dating the same guy for five years, and no sex as yet. He wants to wait until marriage.
I don't think I'm that good of a person to be able to wait more than, say, two months.
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| 4/2/2017 2:15:34 PM |
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thread_killer
Turin, GA
22, joined Sep. 2016
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Forum is keep your topic related to Relationship issues.
This forum has turned into another "General Discussion"
Forum
"Did you catch the flu yet?"
"Grilled or baked chicken?"
"What if your fav word?"
"Sopranos vs Breaking Bad?"
Really!
Come on people you can do better than this?
Think before you post!!
So my question is, when dating someone how long do you wait before having sex?
Have fun
Your question is about dating & sex.
There is no "relationship" aspect to
it.
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| 4/2/2017 2:24:37 PM |
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scpiper25
Cheraw, SC
49, joined Jan. 2017
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It does depend on the situation and the peoples cultural beliefs...
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| 4/2/2017 2:42:29 PM |
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dark_gable0585
Sacramento, CA
32, joined Feb. 2014
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Forum is keep your topic related to Relationship issues.
This forum has turned into another "General Discussion"
Forum
"Did you catch the flu yet?"
"Grilled or baked chicken?"
"What if your fav word?"
"Sopranos vs Breaking Bad?"
Really!
Come on people you can do better than this?
Think before you post!!
So my question is, when dating someone how long do you wait before having sex?
Have fun 
Oh by the way...almost anything is irrelevant...except for this comment
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| 4/2/2017 2:44:36 PM |
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Light_bringer
Bay Bulls, NL
37, joined Feb. 2017
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Forum is keep your topic related to Relationship issues.
This forum has turned into another "General Discussion"
Forum
"Did you catch the flu yet?"
"Grilled or baked chicken?"
"What if your fav word?"
"Sopranos vs Breaking Bad?"
Really!
Come on people you can do better than this?
Think before you post!!
So my question is, when dating someone how long do you wait before having sex?
Have fun
Those four topics you mentioned are kinda kindergarten-ish. I have to agree with you, pickygirl72.. Silly smart alect questions and answers. Meh.
As for sex, it all comes down to timing, as one and the other feel open and committed with each other. Their feelings for each other and their desires exchanged wanting to have sex, whenever possible, the right moment they feel comfortable together.
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| 4/2/2017 2:47:04 PM |
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dark_gable0585
Sacramento, CA
32, joined Feb. 2014
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you should practice what you preach...its funny how you calling someone out b*tching about issues and you doing the same thing
Oh by the way...almost anything is irrelevant...except for your comment
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| 4/2/2017 4:39:44 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009
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2 things, picky.
First, who said half the folks in here could think?
Second, you know no one posts in the proper thread anymore nd they haven't for many years.
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| 4/2/2017 4:44:32 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009
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Before stuffing your joy stick in her hot box and shooting your love goo in her tunnel of love? Wait until marriage, longer if you can. You're better off watching ESPN than making a bunch of screaming babies and you know she's going to dump you eventually and you'll owe her alimony and child support and the kids will be on the payroll at least until they're 21 and guess who's paying to put them through college? She needs a new roof or car? Get out your checkbook boy and you know she has no reason to be reasonable. Wait on the sex. The seconds of pleasure are nice, but the responsibilities can last a lifetime!
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| 4/2/2017 6:31:44 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
52, joined Jul. 2013
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Before stuffing your joy stick in her hot box and shooting your love goo in her tunnel of love? Wait until marriage, longer if you can. You're better off watching ESPN than making a bunch of screaming babies and you know she's going to dump you eventually and you'll owe her alimony and child support and the kids will be on the payroll at least until they're 21 and guess who's paying to put them through college? She needs a new roof or car? Get out your checkbook boy and you know she has no reason to be reasonable. Wait on the sex. The seconds of pleasure are nice, but the responsibilities can last a lifetime!
 Driver, u said more than a mouth full, I'm done
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| 4/2/2017 6:42:02 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011
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I wait...until I can't fight her off anymore....
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| 4/2/2017 6:43:31 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011
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But op...you said dating...not referring to a relation yet.
This is the relation section.
DG is the dating section.
.... bad girl...you posted in the wrong section.
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| 4/2/2017 6:43:54 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
52, joined Jul. 2013
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More like it
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| 4/2/2017 6:44:50 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011
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I was going to put that...and the smiley face....lol
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| 4/2/2017 7:47:12 PM |
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lightbrownie1
Johnston, IA
48, joined Feb. 2016
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Blame it Korbyn.
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| 4/2/2017 10:13:51 PM |
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stratus55
Jackson, GA
51, joined Jan. 2017
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too many categories here anyway..just mix it up,or get close,an go with it..we aint in school or gettin graded..if so many would be gettin detention,an whipped like they used to do......
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| 4/2/2017 11:25:09 PM |
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pickygirl72
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011
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Your question is about dating & sex.
There is no "relationship" aspect to
it.
I think dating someone qualifies as a relationship. I am not talking about one night stands.
So you think
"Did you get the flu yet?" Qaulifies to be here?
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| 4/2/2017 11:42:13 PM |
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dark_gable0585
Sacramento, CA
32, joined Feb. 2014
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I think dating someone qualifies as a relationship. I am not talking about one night stands.
So you think
"Did you get the flu yet?" Qaulifies to be here?
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| 4/2/2017 11:50:31 PM |
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stratus55
Jackson, GA
51, joined Jan. 2017
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i dont have a good relationship with 50 categories..
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| 4/3/2017 12:03:55 AM |
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thread_killer
Turin, GA
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I think dating someone qualifies as a relationship. I am not talking about one night stands.
So you think
"Did you get the flu yet?" Qaulifies to be here?
I choose to be contrary, for the sake of
being contrary.
Whilst I agree, that people in relationships
should continue to have dates with each
other...
The very concept of dating, (pre sex, as
your question stipulates) is to determine
if the person is sex & relationship material.
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| 4/3/2017 12:08:09 AM |
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thread_killer
Turin, GA
22, joined Sep. 2016
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"have you caught the flu yet"
That thread belongs in s&d chat,
with the plethora of pointless shit
already there.
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| 4/3/2017 1:50:53 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
57, joined Feb. 2010
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So my question is, when dating someone how long do you wait before having sex?
Till the woman is ready and gives written approval that sex was consensual and her idea.
Anything else is asking for trouble.
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| 4/3/2017 2:31:48 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
24, joined Jan. 2016
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My threads are bang on topic 
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| 4/3/2017 2:57:24 AM |
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houston_rocker
Houston, TX
46, joined Aug. 2014
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We ain't nekkie yet?!?!
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| 4/3/2017 12:24:57 PM |
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pickygirl72
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011
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You know I do not give a sh it anymore
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| 4/3/2017 12:30:54 PM |
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
55, joined May. 2011
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I wait till I have an erection.
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| 4/3/2017 12:52:53 PM |
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easttowest72
Bremen, GA
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| 4/3/2017 2:05:14 PM |
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viper1e
Jeannette, PA
59, joined Dec. 2013
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Forum is keep your topic related to Relationship issues.
This forum has turned into another "General Discussion"
Forum
"Did you catch the flu yet?"
"Grilled or baked chicken?"
"What if your fav word?"
"Sopranos vs Breaking Bad?"
Really!
Come on people you can do better than this?
Think before you post!!
So my question is, when dating someone how long do you wait before having sex?
Have fun
I try to wait at least 6 hours, but I don't make it that far most of the time.. 
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| 4/3/2017 2:15:32 PM |
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OrchideaPorpora
BadraoMilan
Italy
44, joined Feb. 2017
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If I like the person I don't wait.
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| 4/3/2017 2:20:15 PM |
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burt_hurt
Beverly Hills, CA
37, joined Jan. 2017
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#2 rule in the relationship.
Always do a courtesy flush.
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| 4/3/2017 4:11:43 PM |
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pickygirl72
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011
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My threads are bang on topic
Your threads are too whiny.
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| 4/3/2017 4:17:26 PM |
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orchidpurple
Milan
Italy
44, joined Feb. 2017
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^
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| 4/3/2017 4:19:30 PM |
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
55, joined May. 2011
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OOOOOOOOO. you're back. You scared me, don't do that.
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| 4/3/2017 4:34:45 PM |
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thebigugly0
Kent, OH
46, joined Sep. 2012
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Your threads are too whiny.
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| 4/3/2017 4:42:04 PM |
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orchidpurple
Milan
Italy
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OOOOOOOOO. you're back. You scared me, don't do that.
I was frozen.
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| 4/3/2017 4:43:02 PM |
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Light_bringer
Bay Bulls, NL
37, joined Feb. 2017
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Nice jeans, Alba.
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| 4/3/2017 5:08:24 PM |
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orchidpurple
Milan
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| 4/3/2017 5:57:05 PM |
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Light_bringer
Bay Bulls, NL
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It's the black top with your jeans and you being a raven haired beauty. 
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| 4/3/2017 6:12:39 PM |
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orchidpurple
Milan
Italy
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sweet gentleman.
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| 4/3/2017 6:17:45 PM |
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Light_bringer
Bay Bulls, NL
37, joined Feb. 2017
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My pleasure. Anytime.
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| 4/3/2017 9:23:05 PM |
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viper1e
Jeannette, PA
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| 4/3/2017 10:09:13 PM |
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pickygirl72
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011
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"have you caught the flu yet?"
Nope. But thanks for asking.
I had grilled chicken last night in case you ask ne that question.
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| 4/3/2017 10:10:14 PM |
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pickygirl72
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011
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#2 rule in the relationship.
Always do a courtesy flush.
No doubt!
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| 4/3/2017 11:52:50 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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Rules
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| 4/4/2017 1:43:22 AM |
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apokernut
Elk Grove Village, IL
54, joined Jan. 2008
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Forum is keep your topic related to Relationship issues.
This forum has turned into another "General Discussion"
Forum
"Did you catch the flu yet?"
"Grilled or baked chicken?"
"What if your fav word?"
"Sopranos vs Breaking Bad?"
Really!
Come on people you can do better than this?
Think before you post!!
So my question is, when dating someone how long do you wait before having sex?
Have fun
I try to have it the day before the date!!
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| 4/4/2017 1:38:05 PM |
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pickygirl72
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011
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I never slept with a guy close to just getting to know him. 
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| 4/5/2017 9:40:22 PM |
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stratus55
Jackson, GA
51, joined Jan. 2017
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every first date..everything all my life it was that evening or nite as far back as i remember,allways so easy..
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| 4/5/2017 9:57:25 PM |
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lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
50, joined Jun. 2013
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So my question is, when dating someone how long do you wait before having sex?
I've been celibate since my last romantic relationship ended... so I am currently waiting for divine intervention.
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| 4/5/2017 10:08:25 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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I've slept with a guy.
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| 4/6/2017 5:07:58 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
24, joined Jan. 2016
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wth is it even like having sex with another person? lol
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| 4/9/2017 11:38:16 PM |
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__h_
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Nov. 2016
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Till the woman is ready and gives written approval that sex was consensual and her idea.
Anything else is asking for trouble.
WRITTEN approval? No one does that.
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| 4/10/2017 1:39:04 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
57, joined Feb. 2010
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WRITTEN approval? No one does that.
Without it I will stay celibate. A woman could give vocal approval before and during sex, then change her mind the next morning and claim that it was rape. Then the man is charged, and sent to prison for something that was consensual at the time.
No thank you, I am not willing to risk that.
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| 4/10/2017 1:40:16 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
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and how many years have you been celibate?
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| 4/10/2017 1:55:06 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
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and how many years have you been celibate?
Well over half your age.
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| 4/10/2017 2:00:32 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
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| 4/10/2017 5:48:25 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
57, joined Feb. 2010
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There are ONLY three rules in a relationship, and they are:
1. The woman is ALWAYS right
2. IF she is ever wrong, refer to rule #1.
3. A man should be seen and not heard.
Very simple, very effective for no hassles.
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| 4/10/2017 6:08:16 AM |
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__h_
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Nov. 2016
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Without it I will stay celibate. A woman could give vocal approval before and during sex, then change her mind the next morning and claim that it was rape. Then the man is charged, and sent to prison for something that was consensual at the time.
No thank you, I am not willing to risk that.
I've never known of anyone who expects or does written approval for that. And most women are not going to verbally agree to having sex, then later claim rape.
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| 4/10/2017 6:09:17 AM |
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__h_
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Nov. 2016
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There are ONLY three rules in a relationship, and they are:
1. The woman is ALWAYS right
2. IF she is ever wrong, refer to rule #1.
3. A man should be seen and not heard.
Very simple, very effective for no hassles.
Those aren't rules. It's just what you have stuck in your head.
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