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rightguyforu592
Lisle, IL
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hissykissflips
New York, NY
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The "right thing" for you to do is have him cancel his name on it, and get it put back into your name....instead of trying to find secret reasons that don't exist to why he did this.
I asked him to do that too.. As soon as he moved out, at that.
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hissykissflips
New York, NY
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You might be right Matt
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playingindirt
Eugene, OR
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I think you are "over thinking" this.
I think simply, you split up, he left and didn't disconnect the cable, so that you wouldn't have to go without T.V....while getting everything transferred to your name.
It shows compassion and perhaps too much trust, because some people would order everything available and rack up a huge three month behind bill...then dump that on him, then change it over to their own name.
The first girlfriend I had after my divorce who moved in with me after a while, we split the bills and names on them and when we split up and she moved out, she left her part in her name...but unfortunately she was behind on her part...which meant I had to pay that to keep my electricity on... I did that and transferred everything back to my name only.
The "right thing" for you to do is have him cancel his name on it, and get it put back into your name....instead of trying to find secret reasons that don't exist to why he did this.
lol the right thing? the right to do would have been for him to take care of that already considering its something they shared that's in HIS name not hers. it's not her account so it's not her place to fiddle with it. he knows that.
if he was worried about it he would have said something to her about what he's doing with it but he hasn't.
so who cares what he wants done with it. lol elvis has left the building.
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iam_resurrected
Reno, NV
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what do you want done with the cable is the real question.
1. disconnect it and end the problem with this guy
2. keep it and hope the guy is using it to get back in
3. spend precious time out of your life wondering what he is going to do
it really depends on what you want from this more than anything else, Op.
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
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Yep, he left a control feature in place. Either he can have it turned off on you for whatever spiteful reason or he'll use it as an excuse to still be tied to you.
Something like this:
I paid your damn cable bill for the last ___ months, the least you could
do is ___ my ____ you ungrateful _____.
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de_aardbei
Montreal, QC
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True^
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Olaf_the_german
Houston, TX
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Well yeah, didn't read it all but you can cancel the cable if he left...it's still in his name so he'll take the credit hit if there is any..not you.
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vanilla_cream2
Philadelphia, PA
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Can't believe people actually fall for this
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5/24/2017 10:12:18 AM |
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hissykissflips
New York, NY
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Well idk
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Olaf_the_german
Houston, TX
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It's not based on the address it's based on the person who signed the contract.
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5/24/2017 10:14:08 AM |
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
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Well idk
As I_Am said, what do you want done about it? Nothing else really matters.
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sarahgoldsmith
Chantilly, VA
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OP, it's very simple & very clear to see. Do the right thing, change the bill back to your name. Don't stick him with the bill. He is probably a very busy person & he forgot all about his cable bill. He probably forgot, that's all it is. But you be the responsible person & do the right thing. Change the bill back into your name. Don't make him be stuck with the bill if he is not using the cable anymore. It's not right, & it's irresponsible to stick the bill on him. Do the right thing, OP.
Contracts are not signed in blood. You are allowed to break the contract, you just have to pay the early termination fees, that's all.
Michelleisgreat: "The boyfriend is sleeping with another woman. But she still lives with her cheating boyfriend. She can't move out because her name is still on the lease."
It sounds like Michelleisgreat is making her story up as she goes along. Contracts & leases are not signed in blood. The laws allowed you to break the lease. You just have to pay the early termination fees, that's all.
^ Michelleisgreat blocked me after I've made that comment. Michelleisgreat is crazy.
She claimed to have a master's degree but she is making dumb comments like that.
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hissykissflips
New York, NY
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I have been paying it
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Olaf_the_german
Houston, TX
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Well don't..it's in HIS name...just drop the equipment off at the cable store and tell them the guy moved out. You are no more responsible for it than a landlord is for his tenants cable bill.
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easttowest72
Bremen, GA
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If you enjoy the cable keep paying it so you don't have to be under contract. He would probably cancel but he would be responsible for early cancellation.
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4uijack
New Port Richey, FL
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stanlyzee is a blocking c*nt!!1 who would've known!!
If the b*tch can't handle the responses, don't open your d*cksucker!!!!
...or in her case, p*ssylicker!!!
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playingindirt
Eugene, OR
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it's in HIS name...just drop the equipment off at the cable store and tell them the guy moved out. You are no more responsible for it than a landlord is for his tenants cable bill.
if she does that she won't have a reason to dwell on him like she is.
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
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She can be held liable even if it is in his name.
In small claims court they will ask if she watched any
of the cable service. Even though it is not in her
name she benefited from it.
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5/24/2017 3:45:29 PM |
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playingindirt
Eugene, OR
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just drop the equipment off at the cable store and tell them the guy moved out.
lol that's too simple for some people.
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Olaf_the_german
Houston, TX
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She can be held liable even if it is in his name.
In small claims court they will ask if she watched any
of the cable service. Even though it is not in her
name she benefited from it.
Not true...watching someone elses cable doesn't equate to a contract or agreement...
If I go to the sports bar and watch their cable TV and the bar doesn't pay it's bill, the cable company don't come knocking on my door "Well you watched it too!"
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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lol the right thing? the right to do would have been for him to take care of that already considering its something they shared that's in HIS name not hers. it's not her account so it's not her place to fiddle with it. he knows that.
if he was worried about it he would have said something to her about what he's doing with it but he hasn't.
so who cares what he wants done with it. lol elvis has left the building.
I see what you saying in combination of what she said about her asking him to do that, right as he left...I didn't know that had happened, I don't read every page in a thread, just a few of them...
I guess I was seeing it as what I would have done, so her cable wouldn't have been cut off and go without T.V...and what happened to me before....
I don't know what he is up to...maybe he figured on it being a little revenge or something, its in his name, she can't change it until he cancels it...at least unless she files a bunch of stuff and goes thru courts or something...just to give her a hard time.
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rubyrose2015
Seagrove, NC
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Well yeah, didn't read it all but you can cancel the cable if he left...it's still in his name so he'll take the credit hit if there is any..not you.
When I had to kick my ex out for damned good reasons, he called AT&T because I had stupidly let him put the phone in his name. He canceled the caller ID service, and long distance. I called AT&T and told them I had to put him out and he no longer lived here, and I wanted the phone put back in my name. They told me they could not cancel it because it was in his name! I even talked to a supervisor and the b*tch told me the same thing. I called Time Warner and had them put in a phone here in MY name. So, I no longer the AT&T phone service.
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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If you enjoy the cable keep paying it so you don't have to be under contract. He would probably cancel but he would be responsible for early cancellation.
Well...if he is paying the bill on time, even now. Then it could be he just wants her to have to go thru a bunch of red tape in order to get him to cancel the account, because its her address, and get her own account.
If that's the case and he knows not paying the bills will delete his account in time, and he's paying them to lead her to going thru this red tape.
Figure out a way to order everything they have including every pay for view event..watch all the pay movies, so it appears he ordered it.
and enjoy having him pay for all that....plus if its too much, he'll cancel his account and that solves the problem...
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playingindirt
Eugene, OR
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I don't know what he is up to...maybe he figured on it being a little revenge or something, its in his name, she can't change it until he cancels it...at least unless she files a bunch of stuff and goes thru courts or something...just to give her a hard time.
possible but why is she guessing?
why assume there is hidden agenda or hidden meaning?
if she was really worried about his intentions being like that she wouldn't have wasted any time taken the box in.
apparently the cable being there isn't really a problem to her.
it's possible that she's trying to drag things out herself.
for all we know she's using the box to hang on to him.
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hissykissflips
New York, NY
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possible but why is she guessing?
why assume there is hidden agenda or hidden meaning?
if she was really worried about his intentions being like that she wouldn't have wasted any time taken the box in.
apparently the cable being there isn't really a problem to her.
it's possible that she's trying to drag things out herself.
for all we know she's using the box to hang on to him.
Yeah.. I miss him.. But I also dont really want the responsibility of having it my name, I guess.
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rubyrose2015
Seagrove, NC
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Responsibility? Don't you pay all of your bills?
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5/25/2017 8:55:05 AM |
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playingindirt
Eugene, OR
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Yeah.. I miss him.. But I also dont really want the responsibility of having it my name, I guess.
it's understandable that you'll miss him. but elvis has left the building and you weren't invited.
it's cool to hold down the fort when he's not around like he's coming back but he hasn't expressed coming back intentions since he hasn't delt the cable or your mention of it. he hasn't even bothered to speak you about it. the cable is not a priority to him. neither are you.
it's not a secret way to hang on unless one or both of y'all are playing with each others heads in a bad way.
let go or be dragged and not by him. you're be doing it to yourself.
if he was concerned about his cable or you he wouldn't have left it for you to deal with.
so handle it the way you like.
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Olaf_the_german
Houston, TX
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When I had to kick my ex out for damned good reasons, he called AT&T because I had stupidly let him put the phone in his name. He canceled the caller ID service, and long distance. I called AT&T and told them I had to put him out and he no longer lived here, and I wanted the phone put back in my name. They told me they could not cancel it because it was in his name! I even talked to a supervisor and the b*tch told me the same thing. I called Time Warner and had them put in a phone here in MY name. So, I no longer the AT&T phone service.
If they refuse to cancel something in his name it will resolve itself when the bill doesn't get paid...simple as that...either way it wont affect the other person as their name isn't on it.
If they want cable (or in your case phone service) they can get their own.
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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Yeah.. I miss him.. But I also dont really want the responsibility of having it my name, I guess.
So...were you asking this question in the hopes, some would tell you, that there is hope, he may figure on coming back?
It just didn't sound like it, consider the comments you made about it...about being controlling and etc...
this is all why it make it hard to respond to some questions with any degree of accuracy.
as far as not wanting the responsibility of it in your name...I don't understand that, if its in your house and you are the sole user of it...then it should be your responsibility and we go back to my first comment about the right thing to do.
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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I understand that you the op brought it up as he was leaving.
Okay...later on things have settled down, much different than when two people just split up and are in the process of leaving.
so...why not ask him now? and see what the answer is and try to figure out what it means.
That much better than our speculations could be.
If it were me, and I didn't get the answer or one I wanted. I'd simply get it changed back to my name and be done with the whole thing..
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playingindirt
Eugene, OR
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Quote from hissykissflips:
But I also dont really want the responsibility of having it my name, I guess.
.........
you're making it your responsibility. you're paying it anyway. he's not. so what's the difference with it being in your name?
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Olaf_the_german
Houston, TX
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Onto page 7 of "how not to pay someone elses bill"
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hissykissflips
New York, NY
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Idk.
But I do need him to disconnect before I switch it to my name.
Verizon is tough with that stuff
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frecklefarmer
Lebanon, MO
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Show em a utility bill or something with your name on it.
Proof of residence should end the issue
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Olaf_the_german
Houston, TX
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Idk.
But I do need him to disconnect before I switch it to my name.
Verizon is tough with that stuff
Well no, you don't really need to do anything with the old service...again it will take care of itself when it goes unpaid and only his credit will take a hit...let it.
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frecklefarmer
Lebanon, MO
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Olaf is correct..if the guy is dumb enough to leave it in his name,you have zero legal obligations
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
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Not true...watching someone elses cable doesn't equate to a contract or agreement...
If I go to the sports bar and watch their cable TV and the bar doesn't pay it's bill, the cable company don't come knocking on my door "Well you watched it too!"
You have never been to small claims court, they use 'reasonableness' as
their guiding factor.
If you moved into the sports bar and watched cable almost daily then
yes you likely would be held liable.
The court would say that the reason you owe the bill is that it was you
who benefited from the service.
Go as DrknowNothing, he watches Judge Judy all the time.
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5/25/2017 10:59:08 AM |
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Olaf_the_german
Houston, TX
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You have never been to small claims court, they use 'reasonableness' as
their guiding factor.
If you moved into the sports bar and watched cable almost daily then
yes you likely would be held liable.
The court would say that the reason you owe the bill is that it was you
who benefited from the service.
Go as DrknowNothing, he watches Judge Judy all the time.
You've been watching too much TV...probably on someone elses dime.
Show me one case where this has happened..the bad publicity the cable company would get wouldn't be worth the few hundred they *might* get back...and no they wouldn't win...even in small claims court an agreement would have to have been made..and there isn't one...
Common sense son
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playingindirt
Eugene, OR
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Idk.
But I do need him to disconnect before I switch it to my name.
Verizon is tough with that stuff
you still expecting him to deal with it won't make it happen. if he wanted to deal with it he would have made it a priority.
that's out of your hands.
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Suzhi
Knoxville, TN
54, joined Aug. 2016
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Damn, 7 pages over a cable bill..... Never know which threads will take off do you??
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playingindirt
Eugene, OR
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Damn, 7 pages over a cable bill... .. Never know which threads will take off do you??
If she really wanted to be done with it and with him she'd have returned the cable box instead of paying it and calling it good faith.
it sounds more and more like hoping that he'll be back if she pays it.
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hissykissflips
New York, NY
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If she really wanted to be done with it and with him she'd have returned the cable box instead of paying it and calling it good faith.
it sounds more and more like hoping that he'll be back if she pays it.
What's up.. You getting off on this Annie?
You tryin to bate into an online catty little word fest with you?
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Suzhi
Knoxville, TN
54, joined Aug. 2016
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Hiss hiss..
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playingindirt
Eugene, OR
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What's up.. You getting off on this Annie?
You tryin to bate into an online catty little word fest with you?
nah. that wouldn't be no fun at all.
I have paid it.
I just wonder why he left it on though..
it should not matter what he's doing if he left leaving it in your hands.
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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You have never been to small claims court, they use 'reasonableness' as
their guiding factor.
If you moved into the sports bar and watched cable almost daily then
yes you likely would be held liable.
The court would say that the reason you owe the bill is that it was you
who benefited from the service.
Go as DrknowNothing, he watches Judge Judy all the time.
What can happen is this...Lets say the dude decided not to pay the bill for a couple of months. Then that causes notices and phone calls to come to her address and she receives these and explains everything to them.
They will tell her that if "she" wants her cable to stay on, and to transfer this into her name...that "she" will have to catch up the months that he didn't pay...in order to do this, If this was an electric bill in the same situation...she'd have to pay the deposit and set up fee that you usually have to pay to get it turned on in your name too.....""then its up to her to take "him" to small claims court to get reimbursed for her paying those months that were behind."
That's how it works.
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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I know the above is true...because the first woman that lived her with me...we spilt the bills, and had what we each paid put into our own names.
When we parted ways, she was behind a couple on months on a couple of her bills, that applied to this house. I had to catch them up in order to keep them on and get them into my name.
I could have taken her to court and won...but you can't get blood out of a stone.
However what she left here, as in the Fridge and a couple of things...equaled about how much she was behind in the bills that I had to catch up on.
So..I called it even.
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brl2526
Beverly Hills, CA
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I know the above is true...because the first woman that lived her with me...we spilt the bills, and had what we each paid put into our own names.
When we parted ways, she was behind a couple on months on a couple of her bills, that applied to this house. I had to catch them up in order to keep them on and get them into my name.
I could have taken her to court and won...but you can't get blood out of a stone.
However what she left here, as in the Fridge and a couple of things...equaled about how much she was behind in the bills that I had to catch up on.
So..I called it even.
My gay dad is so smart! You rock bee
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
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urealysucklol
San Benito, TX
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Wow! All this over a cable bill. Smh,
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queennawty
Middlesex
United Kingdom
45, joined Oct. 2015
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Shoulda seen what happened with the electric
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urealysucklol
San Benito, TX
45, joined Jul. 2014
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No wonder he left,
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hissykissflips
New York, NY
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Come again...
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korbyn
Bat Cave, NC
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Better watch it while you can.
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korbyn
Bat Cave, NC
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Demons come out of the tv set anyways. Mind control transmissions. The Despair Code.
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sinceresammy
Dayton, OH
62, joined Mar. 2014
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Soon as I get hard babe!
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hissykissflips
New York, NY
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@ korbyn
I've read about that somewhere once..
...creepy stuff..
I ony have a few choice shows that I check out from time to time though..
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jakebearr
Simi Valley, CA
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Is that an act of good faith or is he just careless about his credit.
He moved out so I don't expect him to pay the monthly bill (that would've been good faith) but I'm just curious as to what you guys think.
What about the child support OP
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6/2/2017 3:50:21 PM |
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urealysucklol
San Benito, TX
45, joined Jul. 2014
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Come again...
Oh hell yeah
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6/2/2017 3:51:46 PM |
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rightguyforu602
Lisle, IL
39, joined May. 2017
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Shut up, fords.
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