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6/25/2017 2:27:12 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

sadlsticsienna
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So obviously most, like 99% of people WANT to find a mate right, like a partner/lover/boyfriend/girlfriend but seeing as so many people go through a lot of pain in the process

If you had the option of no longer wanting to be with someone would you take that option?
Instead of wanting to be with someone but not having a good time dating or/and being hurt by people? and probably being alone most of the time anyway lol

Ok I got distracted, as I was saying

What about love, if you had the option to not feel love anymore really, would you take that option or not?

What about sex/the desire to have sex with someone, if you had the option to not desire that, would you take that, why or why not?

Kinda like 3 part Question here

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6/25/2017 2:45:39 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  
Mercedes_3
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I don't think about shit like that.

6/25/2017 3:24:15 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  
anglicus_femina
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If you had the option of no longer wanting to be with someone would you take that option?

You mean anyone for the sake of it. No


What about love, if you had the option to not feel love anymore really, would you take that option or not?

No

What about sex/the desire to have sex with someone, if you had the option to not desire that, would you take that, why or why not?

Desire can be very fullfilling. So no I would not want to not have desire.

6/25/2017 3:52:48 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  
cavie59
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Quote from sadlsticsienna:
So obviously most, like 99% of people WANT to find a mate right, like a partner/lover/boyfriend/girlfriend but seeing as so many people go through a lot of pain in the process

1.If you had the option of no longer wanting to be with someone would you take that option?
2.Instead of wanting to be with someone but not having a good time dating or/and being hurt by people? and probably being alone most of the time anyway lol

Ok I got distracted, as I was saying

3.What about love, if you had the option to not feel love anymore really, would you take that option or not?

4.What about sex/the desire to have sex with someone, if you had the option to not desire that, would you take that, why or why not?

Kinda like 3 part Question here


1. Yes I would, in my case it was called DIVORCE.

2. It is easy to walk away and cut someone out of your life, JUST DO IT.

3. A person that can control their emotions, will choose when to feel and not feel.

4. Once you have been celibate long enough, sexual desire dies. After a decade or two, you get use to it.

6/25/2017 4:09:54 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

sadlsticsienna
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Interesting.
Just because

My antipsychotic makes me pretty much unable to feel love and I think as a result it's made me not really give a crap about being with someone/anyone.

and for some reason or other, I have little desire to sleep with people.
I thought it was because of the pill but now I'm off it and I still don't really want to so lol

I was a lot more miserable when I could feel love though so I guess it is an improvement

6/25/2017 4:30:57 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  
korbyn
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Yes. You are better off not feeling like you need to be with anyone else. Yes, you are better off being in control of your urges.

6/25/2017 4:41:33 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  
anglicus_femina
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Which should tell anyone that where your mind is at controls your thoughts and feelings.

Which is where some people truly on here show their current dateability.

Maybe they can take part in the series the walking dead.



[Edited 6/25/2017 4:43:19 AM ]

6/25/2017 4:46:28 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

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I was had enough of being sad lol





[Edited 6/25/2017 4:48:27 AM ]

6/25/2017 5:08:21 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  
korbyn
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I could tell you a long personal story about how, I used to feel like I had to be "with someone". Not just for sex. But for various reasons (mostly my fault, sometimes not) things always ended in pain. And there came a point where something broke, or changed inside me, like flipping a switch, and suddenly I didn't need love or anyone anymore and it was a great relief. It was a real blessing to me. But as time rolled on, yeah its like there came a bit of a void inside me. Not that I had a big problem with that, but it began to effect personal interaction skills. I can only compare it to feeling like (as time went by) being less than "human" and more like something else, like an alien or something. Different. It wasn't a huge problem though and much more convenient to deal with than needing to be normal. But then came another time when I slowly and gradually found a balance of a sort. There's more than one type of love.

6/25/2017 5:14:18 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  
Mercedes_3
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Quote from cavie59:
1. Yes I would, in my case it was called DIVORCE.

2. It is easy to walk away and cut someone out of your life, JUST DO IT.

3. A person that can control their emotions, will choose when to feel and not feel.

4. Once you have been celibate long enough, sexual desire dies. After a decade or two, you get use to it.



Yes we get use to it

6/25/2017 10:36:07 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  
sinceresammy
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I got lost in your argument! What was the question?

6/25/2017 11:25:39 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

dr_i_got_answer
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Quote from Ford_3:
I don't think about shit like that.


Bcuz you have accepted the fact that NO MAN wants an old, bitter, ugly, nasty ass, argumentive b*tch who's p*ssy stink and can't clean her a** properly after her period. What man wants that??

Taking all those pics in those funky a** "work out" clothes with your legs partially open trying to somebody think your into fitness. But refuse to post a clear pic of aging face with all the crows feet.

So ACTING like you're not interested in men is just an "Emotional Cover Up" for the fact that "Men don't want YOU!!!

Try that Summer Eve or that Massengill Disposable Douche.

6/25/2017 11:36:57 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

sadlsticsienna
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Lol your first post today Mr obsessed, in my thread of course.

Don't you have anything better to do?
Like say, dialysis

6/25/2017 12:03:59 PM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

lightbrownie1
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Dont think about things like that because my life and future is not based on whether I'm with someone or not.

6/25/2017 12:09:28 PM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

pickygirl72
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Quote from sadlsticsienna:
My antipsychotic makes me pretty much unable to feel love and I think as a result it's made me not really give a crap about being with someone/anyone.

Seriously you have what they call "Borderline Personality Disorder." Symptoms are major problems with relationships, anxiety, abandoment (sp?) issues, jealousy issues, you tend to be clingy than push away people, and low self esteem. It's curable but its hard work to change your life and your thoughts. You can't have a normal relationship because of that disorder. Go to therapy and work on and through your issues. You are too young to be giving up on love now.

6/25/2017 12:15:23 PM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

sadlsticsienna
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I don't have bpd. Lol

6/25/2017 12:36:13 PM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

dr_i_got_answer
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Quote from psychoticsienna:
Interesting.
Just because

My antipsychotic makes me pretty much unable to feel love and made me not give a crap about being with someone/anyone.

for some reason I have little desire to sleep with people.

I was a lot more miserable when I could feel love though so I guess it is an improvement


Well thank you for admitting AGAIN that you're on crazy meds and for my new name for you.

1. Those meds does the same as a lobotomy and electrical shock treatments. To shut you down mentally and emotionally so you CAN NOT think or feel wanted bcuz NO ONE wants you. Which explains all these FANTASY threads you keep making about ALL THESE EXES YOU HAVE (now even your high school math teach) that wants you back so badly.

2. The REASON you have no desire to sleep with ppl is bcuz THE MEDS WORK! They can't tie ur tubes or do a hysterectomy bcuz retards can't consent. So they give you meds that'll keep you from being sexually excited but emotionally detached so you CAN'T reproduce. The rest is on your parents to keep boys away. Hence keeping you home, never out their site, forbidding company and NO PHONE!

3. The improvement is YOU not reproducing. So there won't be a bunch of little retarded a** "It's Alive" or "Rosemary Baby" muf**kas chewing on power cords, torturing small animals or taking anymore taxpayers money to house those little bastards in mental facilities.

6/25/2017 12:40:50 PM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

sadlsticsienna
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Forgot what I was gonna say so I'll just go off on a random tangent

If I have kids if its a boy I like Yuri as a name. Such a cute russian name
And Sei if its a girl. I believe that is Japanese.
Hopefully its with the highschool math teacher because He's good looking lol.

6/25/2017 12:45:47 PM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

dr_i_got_answer
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Quote from psychoticsienna:
I was had enough of being sad lol



Was ppl suppose to see this then start crying for your retarded ass? Obviously you don't feel like this when you're busy running off at your retarded a** mouth.

Was this REALLY some kind of attempt to extract sympathy????

Are you suppose to be the sad little cartoon turd crying in the fantasy pic? Are you kidding me??

6/25/2017 12:58:37 PM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

sadlsticsienna
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Where is Enigma

6/25/2017 12:59:59 PM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

dr_i_got_answer
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Quote from Ford_3:
Yes we get use to it


I get it now!

This is your admitting in an acknowledgement to Cavie's statement that you haven't had sex in a decade or two or more! Try washing your p*ssy and visit a few homeless shelters.

But PLEASE don't wear that stinking a** black workout bullshit you're wearing in your pics.

6/25/2017 1:24:15 PM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

sadlsticsienna
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Well I'm going to bed


6/25/2017 1:43:22 PM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

dr_i_got_answer
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Quote from psychoticsienna:
I don't have bpd. Lol


B*tch you got ADHD, BPD, N.W.A, OCD, ABC, B.W.P, NBC, AIDS, CBS, Notorious BIG, ASD, BDD, GAD, GID (Gender Identify Disorder), HSDD, IED, MDD, SAD and MAD bcuz you DON'T have any GOD!

And you seem to be enjoying you ECD (excessive cartoon disorder. But what you really want is that BBC! Ain't that right you retarded a** lab monkey??

6/25/2017 1:48:27 PM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

dr_i_got_answer
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Quote from sadlsticsienna:
Well I'm going to bed


Well don't forget those diapers you retarded a** Down Syndrome muf**kas wear in case you THINK one of Scooby Doo's haunted mysteries is under your bed and you piss & shit yourself.

6/25/2017 2:04:26 PM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

mylegsarecold
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Sienna, you been asking for a slave, looks like you found one.

6/25/2017 3:10:06 PM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

dr_i_got_answer
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Quote from myassisbleeding:
Sienna, you been asking for a slave, looks like you found one.


But won't the United Snakes gov't miss your a** kissing?? And who's gonna duck Uncle Sam's red, white and blue d*ck if you're busy busy eating that retards feces??

Who you maggot??

6/25/2017 3:55:54 PM If you had these options would you take any or not?  
4uijack
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Quote from dr_i_got_answer:
B*tch you got ADHD, BPD, N.W.A, OCD, ABC, B.W.P, NBC, AIDS, CBS, Notorious BIG, ASD, BDD, GAD, GID (Gender Identify Disorder), HSDD, IED, MDD, SAD and MAD bcuz you DON'T have any GOD!

And you seem to be enjoying you ECD (excessive cartoon disorder. But what you really want is that BBC! Ain't that right you retarded a** lab monkey??


Mad much?

You're a real piece of scum, n**ger!!!

6/26/2017 3:00:09 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

teigeasaurus
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I accept love and I am in the receptive mode.

If I choose to go against that, then I would be going against what my inner being really wants.

I am happy. I am happy. I am happy NOW. I will be happy THEN.

Everything always works perfectly for me. In knowing that, I enjoy the natural unfolding of all of the things I truly desire. They are coming.

6/26/2017 8:33:39 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

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Quote from mylegsarecold:
Sienna, you been asking for a slave, looks like you found one.


God coming off my Pill has made me really depressed. I guess the lack of hormones is effecting me. Lots of migraines too.



6/26/2017 10:50:53 PM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

driver406
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If I were married I'd stay. It is something I would have vowed to do.

If we were just dating and the flame died then I'd dump her just like she'd do to me. There is no moral requirement to stay at that point.

6/27/2017 4:09:55 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  
Mercedes_3
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Quote from dr_i_got_answer:
Bcuz you have accepted the fact that NO MAN wants an old, bitter, ugly, nasty ass, argumentive b*tch who's p*ssy stink and can't clean her a** properly after her period. What man wants that??

Taking all those pics in those funky a** "work out" clothes with your legs partially open trying to somebody think your into fitness. But refuse to post a clear pic of aging face with all the crows feet.

So ACTING like you're not interested in men is just an "Emotional Cover Up" for the fact that "Men don't want YOU!!!

Try that Summer Eve or that Massengill Disposable Douche.



My pics are very clear you old decrepit useless dead corpse.

Come on gummy smile and show the world those slimy grey gums

Jealous old f**k

6/27/2017 4:13:55 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  
Mercedes_3
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Quote from Mercedes_3:
My pics are very clear you old decrepit useless dead corpse.

Come on gummy smile and show the world those slimy grey gums

Jealous old f**k









[Edited 6/27/2017 4:15:12 AM ]

6/27/2017 4:21:09 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  
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6/27/2017 6:30:39 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

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I wish I could mine for opals at Coober Pedy lol.

Kinda random but yaaa



6/28/2017 2:13:09 PM If you had these options would you take any or not?  
4uijack
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Quote from Mercedes_3:






Funny as shit!!!!

6/29/2017 5:31:29 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

sadlsticsienna
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This guy is cute, idk if he is real or not lol



6/29/2017 5:35:59 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  
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6/29/2017 7:28:37 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  
cupocheer
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Sadistic, if you had the option to not start a beaucoup of redundent threads like KORBYN does, what would your alternate option be?

6/29/2017 7:40:02 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  
Olaf_the_german
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Quote from sadlsticsienna:
So obviously most, like 99% of people WANT to find a mate right


Nah, probably no where near 99%.

Sure when you are young because your hormones are running around your body like n**gers running from cops, but as people get older and have been through a few not so fulfilling relationships that "need/want" lessens to the point that a nice cup of cocoa and a pair of furry lined house shoes is more appealing.

6/29/2017 7:51:54 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

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Quote from cupocheer:
Sadistic, if you had the option to not start a beaucoup of redundent threads like KORBYN does, what would your alternate option be?

don't tempt me to start another one




[Edited 6/29/2017 7:52:06 AM ]

6/29/2017 7:53:09 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

sadlsticsienna
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Quote from Olaf_the_german:
like n**gers running from cops

Fvk that was gud
A+++ LOL

6/29/2017 8:04:43 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  
4uijack
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Quote from Mercedes_3:





Too f**kin' funny!!!!!

6/29/2017 8:05:57 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

sadlsticsienna
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Finally he is controlling himself

Took him long enough Huh

6/29/2017 8:08:13 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  
4uijack
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Steal a mans dentures and you've got him (em) in the palm of your hand!! LOL

6/29/2017 9:01:57 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

sadlsticsienna
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Must be killing him lololol

6/29/2017 9:34:42 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  
cupocheer
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Quote from sadlsticsienna:
don't tempt me to start another one


Sadistic, why would you want to experience homosexuality when all you need is a good annual exam?

6/29/2017 9:48:33 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

sadlsticsienna
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what does that mean?

6/29/2017 11:02:46 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  
4uijack
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It means ole doc fingers in the poo poo door!

6/29/2017 1:18:25 PM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

mylegsarecold
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"If you had the option to stab yourself in the eye with a restaurant steak
knife but you would get to keep the steak knife for free, would you take it?"

This thread makes as much sense as that question.

6/29/2017 9:59:19 PM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

enigmaathand
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Quote from sadlsticsienna:
So obviously most, like 99% of people WANT to find a mate right, like a partner/lover/boyfriend/girlfriend but seeing as so many people go through a lot of pain in the process

If you had the option of no longer wanting to be with someone would you take that option?
Instead of wanting to be with someone but not having a good time dating or/and being hurt by people? and probably being alone most of the time anyway lol

Ok I got distracted, as I was saying

What about love, if you had the option to not feel love anymore really, would you take that option or not?

What about sex/the desire to have sex with someone, if you had the option to not desire that, would you take that, why or why not?

Kinda like 3 part Question here
Question #1: Yes. It would make it a lot easier, to NOT want somebody that I do want.

Question #2: I already don't feel "love", to begin with. And if I do, I am perfectly ok with not feeling it ever again.

Question #3: Shockingly, life would be a lot easier without a desire to nail pretty much any female I find attractive, because then I could write them off entirely and live a very, VERY peaceful, stress-free life.

6/29/2017 10:26:42 PM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

driver406
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I'd like to have love and affection and sex if it were physically possible for me anymore, but it seems my time for that was gone many many many decades ago.

6/30/2017 4:32:13 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

sadlsticsienna
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Quote from enigmaathand:
Question #1: Yes. It would make it a lot easier, to NOT want somebody that I do want.

Question #2: I already don't feel "love", to begin with. And if I do, I am perfectly ok with not feeling it ever again.

Question #3: Shockingly, life would be a lot easier without a desire to nail pretty much any female I find attractive, because then I could write them off entirely and live a very, VERY peaceful, stress-free life.

Don't you have some sort of love for that girl though, othwise ud not be so hung up over her?

I mean, what I can say from having little desire to sleep with men and being unable to feel love, its relaxing but lonely. Kinda just want to find someone to fill the void of boredom and loneliness lol. But I'm extremely needy and sensitive. So I end up either getting g pissed at the guys over little things or them not fullfiling my neediness.
Also difficult because a lot of guys message me and its exhausting to reply to them and I have a bad memory lol.
So some probably lose interest because maybe I don't say that much or take a while to reply but god damn I'm doing my best uegh

6/30/2017 4:33:38 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

sadlsticsienna
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Quote from mylegsarecold:
"If you had the option to stab yourself in the eye with a restaurant steak
knife but you would get to keep the steak knife for free, would you take it?"

This thread makes as much sense as that question.

How so?

I was way more depressed and miserable before

6/30/2017 4:35:23 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  
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Steal a mans dentures and you've got him (em) in the palm of your hand!! LOL




6/30/2017 10:42:17 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  
april67_
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No, I wouldn't want any of those options.

6/30/2017 12:21:07 PM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

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Quote from april67_:
No, I wouldn't want any of those options.

You must not be on anti-psychotic medications like the OP then.

6/30/2017 3:06:00 PM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

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Quote from sadlsticsienna:
Don't you have some sort of love for that girl though, othwise ud not be so hung up over her?

I mean, what I can say from having little desire to sleep with men and being unable to feel love, its relaxing but lonely. Kinda just want to find someone to fill the void of boredom and loneliness lol. But I'm extremely needy and sensitive. So I end up either getting g pissed at the guys over little things or them not fullfiling my neediness.
Also difficult because a lot of guys message me and its exhausting to reply to them and I have a bad memory lol.
So some probably lose interest because maybe I don't say that much or take a while to reply but god damn I'm doing my best uegh
I'm so mixed up, after her, that I don't even know what O should feel. If I could explain it, I would. We both know that.

I just know what I felt, then, but not what it was in clear depth.

I know it is not solely lust. I just know it as "desire" or "want"

6/30/2017 10:02:16 PM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

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Quote from sadlsticsienna:
Interesting.
Just because

My antipsychotic makes me pretty much unable to feel love and I think as a result it's made me not really give a crap about being with someone/anyone.

and for some reason or other, I have little desire to sleep with people.
I thought it was because of the pill but now I'm off it and I still don't really want to so lol

I was a lot more miserable when I could feel love though so I guess it is an improvement


1. Love from a scientific point of view is nothing more than ADDICTION to PLEASURE (be it physical or emotional).

So not feeling love isn't necessarily a bad thing. Love can be pretty dangerous.

2. There are really only 2 reasons for coupling.

A. Procreation

B. Survival

That's not to say that coupling with someone is necessary to achieve either, just that those are generally the bottom line reasons that men and women enter into long term relationships.

That said, if you have no plans or intention of having children and can.survive well enough on your own or without a mate, then there's little need/reason to seek one out.

7/1/2017 2:09:13 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

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Quote from enigmaathand:
I'm so mixed up, after her, that I don't even know what O should feel. If I could explain it, I would. We both know that.

I just know what I felt, then, but not what it was in clear depth.

I know it is not solely lust. I just know it as "desire" or "want"

I have pined over people before, then been dragged through the dirt by them. 3 times in different ways. Got sick of it fast. Kind of like after being treated like shjt I realized they weren't really that great and I was misleading myself lol, especially with the whole pining for them.

Its like you pine for what you THINK you could have, like a delusion and ideal that doesn't exist. If it did I'd still be with them and not broken up etc. Always the same issues and problems that you had in the first place.

7/1/2017 2:19:42 AM If you had these options would you take any or not?  

sadlsticsienna
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Quote from xman379:
1. Love from a scientific point of view is nothing more than ADDICTION to PLEASURE (be it physical or emotional).

So not feeling love isn't necessarily a bad thing. Love can be pretty dangerous.

2. There are really only 2 reasons for coupling.

A. Procreation

B. Survival

That's not to say that coupling with someone is necessary to achieve either, just that those are generally the bottom line reasons that men and women enter into long term relationships.

That said, if you have no plans or intention of having children and can.survive well enough on your own or without a mate, then there's little need/reason to seek one out.

Well love is an emotion that is created from neurochemicals like dopamine and oxytocin. With other chemicals like norepinephrine, serotonin and testosterone playing a role as well.

And yeah it is addiction. When you/your brain is getting such a high/reward for mate seeking and mating behaviors its hard NOT to do it. And people who don't are either unhappy in some way or somehow abnormal, like they have autism or personality or cognitive issues.

As side from that we are also programmed to socialize and group up.

Anyway I think the antipsychotic is suppressing in some way the high (oxytocin and dopamine) that I should of been getting from talking to guys etc. Essentially it holds certain neurotransmitters in the synapse for longer, so as to stabilize it from large fluctuations. So either literally it is either stopping it or just stabilizing it to the point where I don't feel it. Kinda like making a large wave flattened out to almost smooth but longer wave.