7/7/2017 7:35:33 PM |
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rubyrose2015
Seagrove, NC
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Did all of you have to sit at a table and eat dinner together? Were you allowed to talk? Did you have to eat everything you put on your plate? Was it a pleasant experience? These days would you prefer everyone eat at a table or wherever they want to eat?
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7/7/2017 7:57:12 PM |
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sarahgoldsmith
Chantilly, VA
46, joined Jan. 2014
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My parents were not strict with food. We can what ever we want in the house, as much as we want. We were told not to waste food, so only put as much on your plate as you can eat. If you don't finish you can it eat tomorrow. We tried not to throw out food.
We can talk & disagree at the dinner table but not argue or fight. You would say to your parents, "May I be excused when you leave the table?"
There are 5 people in the family, if we have 10 mangoes in the house, just eat 2 mangoes, eat only your share. Leave the other food alone unless the other person didnt want to eat it. We can have friends over & offer them snacks, or dinner. Sometimes friends sleeps over & they eat dinner with our family.
We don't have to eat dinner together if we have to be somewhere else, like math tutoring, or swimming practice. The whole family don't have to wait to eat dinner with you.
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7/7/2017 7:57:38 PM |
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westy602
Phoenix, AZ
45, joined May. 2013
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Mom was a standout cook..
All seven of us gathered around the family 6 seat dining table...except for our little sister..she had to sit at the counter..
I dint like chicken much though...yucky
Dad was meaner than hell...
I had to sit next to Dad...fml!
pleasant?...lol
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7/7/2017 8:01:19 PM |
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purple_dawn73
Rome
Italy
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Most of the time was a fight, trying to protect the food from been stolen from the other kids.
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7/7/2017 8:02:01 PM |
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rubyrose2015
Seagrove, NC
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We had to say "May I please be excused?" before leaving the table also. Us five kids and mother waited until father got home before we could eat. We were not allowed to talk at the table. We had to eat everything on our plates. It was not pleasant. I never eat at a table, even though I have one. I just let everyone eat wherever they want to when I make a family dinner.
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7/7/2017 8:04:52 PM |
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sarahgoldsmith
Chantilly, VA
46, joined Jan. 2014
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When ever they want to eat. We don't believe in making people waiting for you to eat your dinner with them. You eat together when you can, when it's possible.
Mom doesn't put food on our plate. We serve ourselves. We put as much as we think we can eat. We are told not to throw out food because it's expensive & cost money. We can have 4 bowls of icecream if we want to. They were not strict with food. But none of us were fat.
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7/7/2017 8:12:20 PM |
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rubyrose2015
Seagrove, NC
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None of us were fat either, and none are still to this day. We never had any candy bought for us, except at Christmas. We did not get soft drinks or cookies, except once a week when our father got paid. He would give us all some money to go to the store and buy them on Saturday. Our mother made three meals a day. We did not have anything like steaks, but we did have good food. But, now I buy whatever I want in the way of foods, because I can afford to do so. I like having lots of treats, just in case I want any.
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7/7/2017 8:14:43 PM |
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sarahgoldsmith
Chantilly, VA
46, joined Jan. 2014
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We can eat what ever we want in the house, as much as we want in the house. My parents don't limit the food we eat.
If they bought only 10 donuts or 10 mangoes, then it's understandable that it's two for each person. If my brother didn't want his donut or his mango, then I can eat it.
Some parents limit the food their kids eat, like only one Popsicle per day. They worried about the sugar & the kids getting fat. My parents were not strict with food.
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7/7/2017 8:15:11 PM |
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frecklefarmer
Lebanon, MO
45, joined Oct. 2014
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Dinner time was all out war..
There was never enough to go round..
I got stabbed real good with a fork once
Still carry the scar 35 years later
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7/7/2017 8:38:39 PM |
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rubyrose2015
Seagrove, NC
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It took and still takes a lot of money to feed seven people. My parents were never on anything like food stamps. My father did not make a lot of money, but we still had three meals, and all the other necessities , like a roof over our heads, etc. To this day, I like to eat all vegetables, and most meats. I don't like wild game, because we never ate that. I do not like fried fish, even though we went fishing and caught them. My mother was not the best at taking the bones out of the fish.
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7/8/2017 3:38:45 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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1.Did all of you have to sit at a table and eat dinner together?
2.Were you allowed to talk?
3.Did you have to eat everything you put on your plate?
4.Was it a pleasant experience?
5.These days would you prefer everyone eat at a table or wherever they want to eat?
1. Yes
2. as a child, no talking.
3.Yes, or it was save for the next night and that was all you had.
4. Sometimes yes, and sometimes no.
5.I live by myself so I eat where I want to.
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7/8/2017 4:24:15 AM |
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april67_
San Antonio, TX
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I really don't remember. I do remember when my parents were no longer together & when I was a teen, we just ate after my mother cooked dinner...not necessarily together at the kitchen table.
I do remember that when my grandmother was watching my brother & I, she told us we had to eat all of our meal before we could have anything to drink.
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7/8/2017 4:27:28 AM |
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miss_tapp
Rowlett, TX
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My mom had to work a lot, so they mainly included frozen meals in front of the tv.
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7/8/2017 4:35:05 AM |
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woniota
Jacksonville, FL
52, joined Jul. 2014
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Every day when my dad came home from work he'd open the door and yell in a singsong way "suppertime".
We all ate together. Old school.
Thank you for this thread. It has made me happy and sad at the same time.
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7/8/2017 5:12:31 AM |
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easttowest72
Bremen, GA
45, joined Sep. 2014
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Dinner time was good. It was nice everyone sitting around the table. We could talk. Wasn't made to eat food. Wasn't wasteful but whatever was leftover went outside to the dog.
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7/8/2017 5:33:23 AM |
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yetskimama
Walterboro, SC
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The 3 of us eat together on our Dinner Table, white Table cloths and all ..We eat at 6pm not 5 min . before or after. One eat what was on your Plate, you didn't leave the Table until grandmother got up. Never brought Kids Home because Grandma liked a perfect clean place. Hello my German Buddy
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7/21/2017 10:09:22 PM |
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korbyn
Bat Cave, NC
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7/21/2017 10:37:16 PM |
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rubyrose2015
Seagrove, NC
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I eat where I want to eat. And, anyone who comes over to eat can do the same.
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7/21/2017 11:17:48 PM |
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sparks_01
Ocala, FL
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sat together every night at 5
me my brother and parents
sundays there was a whole family dinner,aunt,gramma,ect
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7/22/2017 5:04:36 AM |
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jakebearr
Simi Valley, CA
52, joined Sep. 2013
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Mom was a standout cook..
All seven of us gathered around the family 6 seat dining table...except for our little sister..she had to sit at the counter..
I dint like chicken much though...yucky
Dad was meaner than hell...
I had to sit next to Dad...fml!
pleasant?...lol
Poor Cindy
But did you shag Alice
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7/22/2017 5:52:21 AM |
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barrydalmi
Belleville, IL
54, joined Dec. 2007
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Most nights some subset of the family ate together at the table. Later on we migrated to those fold out TV trays (late 70's along with most families)... one constant though was eat what was served (no special orders) and eat everything you take.
The modern reality makes it hard to have the whole "family" at a table regularly- but it is nice at least from time to time to sit that way, civilized, with silverware, cloth napkins and conversation.
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7/22/2017 6:45:03 AM |
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ms_Champagne
AngualastoAustralian Capital
Australia
97, joined Aug. 2016
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Did all of you have to sit at a table and eat dinner together? Were you allowed to talk? Did you have to eat everything you put on your plate? Was it a pleasant experience? These days would you prefer everyone eat at a table or wherever they want to eat?
Yes we all ate at the dining table.. yes we were allowed to speak.. lots of discussion at dinner time.
It was never an issue with my family.
I also always had dinner sitting at the dining table, in all my relationships... even when I was alone with my two boys.. we always ate at the table...
'Every' Friday after dinner while still at the table the three of us had, what I called a "family meeting" and discussed any stuff, issues, rules that were broken/new or ones that need to be changed or adapted. Each one of us had a turn... I think one of the best things I did.
Now I eat wherever I want LOL but when my boys come to dinner we still sit at the table. When I go and visit with them we sit at the table to eat.
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7/22/2017 10:37:35 AM |
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sinceresammy
Dayton, OH
62, joined Mar. 2014
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All I ever got was a cold bowl of porridge:
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7/22/2017 5:08:01 PM |
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queennawty
Middlesex
United Kingdom
45, joined Oct. 2015
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Rice, beans and tortillas
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7/22/2017 5:13:38 PM |
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westy602
Phoenix, AZ
45, joined May. 2013
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Every day??..
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7/22/2017 5:15:39 PM |
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queennawty
Middlesex
United Kingdom
45, joined Oct. 2015
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The occasional possum or armadillo or rabbit ya know normal stuff
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7/22/2017 5:25:13 PM |
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dan9787_3
Laval, QC
54, joined Jul. 2014
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We were all at the table, could talk, leave the table etc but we were together...
not people sitting just anywhere
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7/22/2017 5:28:48 PM |
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queennawty
Middlesex
United Kingdom
45, joined Oct. 2015
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We did the whole situation down thing and praying before meals
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7/22/2017 5:29:53 PM |
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westy602
Phoenix, AZ
45, joined May. 2013
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I woulda prayed for better food, Ma...
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7/22/2017 5:31:18 PM |
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queennawty
Middlesex
United Kingdom
45, joined Oct. 2015
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I bet ya ate alot of white ppl food huh?
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7/22/2017 5:33:27 PM |
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jakebearr
Simi Valley, CA
52, joined Sep. 2013
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The occasional possum or armadillo or rabbit ya know normal stuff
Rice, beans and tortillas
Hillbilly Mexicans ...
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7/22/2017 5:36:11 PM |
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queennawty
Middlesex
United Kingdom
45, joined Oct. 2015
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State Farm we can't all be born with silver spoons up our a** sheesh
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7/22/2017 5:37:40 PM |
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westy602
Phoenix, AZ
45, joined May. 2013
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I bet ya ate alot of white ppl food huh?
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lol..yeah I spose..
you mean like Spaghetti O's and Swanson Tv dinners??..yum..
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7/22/2017 5:38:42 PM |
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jakebearr
Simi Valley, CA
52, joined Sep. 2013
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State Farm we can't all be born with silver spoons up our a** sheesh
insurance business pays off
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7/22/2017 5:39:34 PM |
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queennawty
Middlesex
United Kingdom
45, joined Oct. 2015
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Hell I didn't even know about most the unhealthy tasty stuff until I was a teenager
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7/22/2017 5:41:56 PM |
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westy602
Phoenix, AZ
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State Farm we can't all be born with silver dildos up our a** sheesh
Jake was spoiled...
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7/22/2017 5:44:20 PM |
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jakebearr
Simi Valley, CA
52, joined Sep. 2013
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Westy and SCD ...
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7/22/2017 5:50:14 PM |
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westy602
Phoenix, AZ
45, joined May. 2013
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Poor Cindy
But did you shag Alice
Jake..
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7/22/2017 7:16:54 PM |
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uber_goober
Danielsville, GA
51, joined May. 2016
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We generally all sat together at the kitchen table or outside on the porch during warm grilling out months. Sometimes ate on little tables in front of the tv after my older brother went off to college. Watched The Muppet Show, Gong Show, etc. You know. Intellectual gripping stuff like that.
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7/22/2017 7:44:02 PM |
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Lil_Miss_Tia
Anaheim, CA
26, joined Jul. 2016
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I would always eat at the dinner table, sometimes on my own, sometimes as a family - just depended how late my pops would be working.
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7/22/2017 9:47:23 PM |
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bookwormtobutte
Rio Rancho, NM
37, joined Jan. 2016
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We would eat at the dinner table most of the time. But if there was a TV show we all liked to watch like Star Trek Next Gen we'd take our plates into the living room (we didn't have DVR or Hulu then).
Yes we had to talk to each other. Mom was all about how was school and what did you learn today.
It was usually OK unless my Step dad was in one of his moods and acting an ass.
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7/23/2017 11:07:56 PM |
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korbyn
Bat Cave, NC
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7/23/2017 11:41:56 PM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
58, joined May. 2009
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We all sat together and ate. We talked, discussed, laughed, told stories, listened, teased, heard about all our days, even us kids. And yes, it was also a time to have some rather spirited and heated discussions. I think it was great for teaching us to communicate and that emotion was fine and that arguments were just that and that good communication could work anything out.
It was also a place to learn manners and how to use various dinner ware and stuff. My family were immigrants and I learned a more European way of eating and using silverware.
We were not forced to eat what we didn't like but we did have to taste it. There was very little I liked when I was young because I didn't care for the textures. My aunt didn't force it and allowed me the time to grow into the tastes. She would make what she knew I could handle.
I've done the dinner table thing much like she did because its a time for us to connect and enjoy and grow strong together. It's not a place to disconnect and be uncomfortable.
Had to laugh the other day--i was telling my daughter how to signal to the wait staff by your silverware if you were done or not. She just asked if I thought the wait staff got that same lesson when the waiter tried to take her plate when she hadn't finished yet.
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7/24/2017 2:25:59 AM |
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renee398
Chilhowie, VA
38, joined Jan. 2015
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Did all of you have to sit at a table and eat dinner together? Were you allowed to talk? Did you have to eat everything you put on your plate? Was it a pleasant experience? These days would you prefer everyone eat at a table or wherever they want to eat?
Everyone ate at the table,always around 5pm.you said grace before each meal,you didn't talk much til after the meal was over.and yes everyone had to come to the table, my grandfather and grandmother had a certain spot where they sat.everyone else just grabbed a seat...those were the good old days..
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7/24/2017 2:28:08 AM |
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scoobs78
Tasmania
Australia
39, joined Jun. 2013
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Hey snot! How are things?
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7/24/2017 2:32:36 AM |
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renee398
Chilhowie, VA
38, joined Jan. 2015
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Snot?
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7/24/2017 2:42:02 AM |
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scoobs78
Tasmania
Australia
39, joined Jun. 2013
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Oh brother! ol fluffy buns
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7/24/2017 2:44:15 AM |
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renee398
Chilhowie, VA
38, joined Jan. 2015
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Are you drinking?
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7/24/2017 2:56:06 AM |
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scoobs78
Tasmania
Australia
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No just trying to stay cool in the central air it's been freakin hot n humid here for a month or so! I carry a water bottle around just to stay hydrated! I go two fans on me now plus the ac Kicks on every once in a while
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7/24/2017 2:59:21 AM |
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renee398
Chilhowie, VA
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It was 99 here Saturday, yesterday I think was a tid bit cooler..
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7/24/2017 3:03:45 AM |
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scoobs78
Tasmania
Australia
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3-4 summers ago it was straight temps in the 70s it wasnt too hot or cold! It was nice! Damn trump and his non belief in global warming!
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7/24/2017 6:54:02 AM |
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jakebearr
Simi Valley, CA
52, joined Sep. 2013
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KFC..
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7/24/2017 7:50:52 AM |
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uncle_bulgaria
Houston, TX
50, joined Apr. 2017
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Dinner for me and my brother was on a plate with us sitting on the sofa watching TV...the rents sat at a table in the kitchen.
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7/24/2017 10:31:04 AM |
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korbyn
Bat Cave, NC
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7/24/2017 3:32:34 PM |
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korbyn
Bat Cave, NC
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7/24/2017 6:04:47 PM |
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korbyn
Bat Cave, NC
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7/25/2017 5:46:12 PM |
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korbyn
Bat Cave, NC
98, joined Jun. 2013
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Mostly when I was a kid, I just wanted to be left the hell alone. So if I could I would just go eat by myself somewhere.
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7/25/2017 5:59:57 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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I'm sorry that was your experience. What do you do today or when you have been in a relationship?
We ate as a family. We had 2 eating areas. The kitchen (informal), the dining room (company, formal, holiday, Sunday).
There was always a butter dish , a pot of fresh honey&comb,a Ball jar of apple butter, a pitcher of warm, frothy milk, a plate of cat eye biscuits, and cooked/home canned vegetables, green beans or pintos cooked with fatback, fried potatoes, quartered onion, chow chow.
Prayers were offered.
What you put on your plate you ate. No waste. No seconds.
We stayed at table until everyone was finished and then wevasked permission to be excused and the adults had coffee while we kids began washing the dishes, sweeping & mopping the kitchen and taking the slop bucket to the hog trough.
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7/25/2017 6:02:48 PM |
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rubyrose2015
Seagrove, NC
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I read that Michael landon disliked family meals as a kid, because of all of the arguing at the table, and the strict rules. So, when he grew up he let everyone eat where ever they wanted to eat. I feel the same way.
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7/25/2017 6:06:36 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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If there were strict rules at the dining table (and Landon was older than me) there was no arguing.
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