Late night text

7/22/2017 7:56:06 PM	Late night text
john_cnc Charlotte, NC 50, joined Jul. 2017	So the other day, I was checking numbers on my phone. It's been years since I purged my contacts. So I sent out a few texts with just the person's name. Later, I woke up in the middle of the night. around 3 or so. Couldn't get back to sleep. So I checked my social media. I returned two emails, and saw I had a response to one of my texts which said just "???". I then texted back my name. Now granted, it was late at night to be sending a text, but it's just a text. Next thing I know my phone is ringing. It was the same person from years ago, an old acquaintance. However, last thing I wanted to do was have a 3am conversation with this person, or any person. Then it becomes an issue. My opinion is that a phone call is different and that calling me at that point was pretty darn inappropriate, bordering on rude. The other person contends I shouldn't have texted at all that late, especially if I didn't want to talk. What do you think? Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
7/22/2017 8:36:43 PM	Late night text
driver406 Saint Paul, MN 65, joined Oct. 2009	Your friend is right, but you could have saved yourself the grief by putting the phone on mute. I always mute mine before I go to bed because the thing throws a fit if I get voicemail. Delete the voicemail? It'll send it again in three minutes! So I delete it and mute the phone and I figure sooner or later it will get tired of sending it. Just mute your phone if you don't want to talk at 3 AM.
7/22/2017 8:49:20 PM	Late night text
packersbabe920 Green Bay, WI 52, joined Jul. 2013	Yes u should have waited cause once u tex, somebody was bound to respond to it
7/22/2017 9:39:28 PM	Late night text
4uijack New Port Richey, FL 82, joined Aug. 2013	Idiot!!!!
7/23/2017 1:00:17 AM	Late night text
driver406 Saint Paul, MN 65, joined Oct. 2009	I'm putting my phone on mute right now!!!! It already is!!!!
7/23/2017 1:03:11 AM	Late night text
lareveur Clinton, TN 33, joined May. 2013	Unless your phone is a jitter bug (for senior citizens) - it should have a silence feature. And even then, jitter bugs have the silence feature. Perfect feature for me, because I have some unfinished business with you, over posting Buddy's photo. I need that phone dead f**king silent by the time I get to you lol.
7/23/2017 1:11:44 AM	Late night text
dantana77 Frederick, MD 39, joined Oct. 2010	If you can text you can talk.. period
7/23/2017 2:39:35 AM	Late night text
enigmaathand Leavittsburg, OH 36, joined Mar. 2013	Maybe they really were excited to hear from you, and maybe you just screwed yourself from a possible reconnection that was meant to happen. Your situation defies logic. And Sherlock Holmes said it best, "If you eliminate all logical solutions to a problem, the illogical howvere improbable they may be, have invariably became true." You should have answered the phone.
7/23/2017 2:57:24 AM	Late night text
cavie59 Enid, OK 58, joined Feb. 2010	Never send a late night text unless you are willing to talk.
7/23/2017 3:04:35 AM	Late night text
john_cnc Charlotte, NC 50, joined Jul. 2017	Welp, my bad then. I suppose I owe my friend an apology.
7/23/2017 3:36:47 AM	Late night text
Mercedes_3 New South Wales Australia 90, joined Jun. 2016	Quote from dantana77: If you can text you can talk.. period
7/23/2017 5:16:42 AM	Late night text
_april67 San Antonio, TX 50, joined Jun. 2017	Quote from cavie59: Never send a late night text unless you are willing to talk. Right. If you text, then the other person will think you are able to talk too.
7/23/2017 5:29:32 AM	Late night text
sadlsticsienna AñatuyaNew South Wales Australia 25, joined Jan. 2016	Should of put it on silent or not picked up lol
7/23/2017 6:29:34 AM	Late night text
dances_in_woods Henderson, TX 50, joined Mar. 2011	Quote from cavie59: Never send a late night text unless you are willing to talk.
7/23/2017 6:30:55 AM	Late night text
sadlsticsienna AñatuyaNew South Wales Australia 25, joined Jan. 2016	Quote from cavie59: Never send a late night text unless you are willing to talk. Just because you send a text doesn't mean you want to talk on the phone
7/23/2017 6:39:50 AM	Late night text
easttowest72 Bremen, GA 45, joined Sep. 2014	John I agree with you. I hate sending a text and getting a phone call. Texting takes a couple of seconds while a call can last for hours.
7/23/2017 7:09:41 AM	Late night text
_april67 San Antonio, TX 50, joined Jun. 2017	There are times I'm only able to text or only want to text. When I'm at work, I text on breaks, but some want to talk on the phone.
7/23/2017 7:12:45 AM	Late night text
lightbrownie1 Johnston, IA 48, joined Feb. 2016	You could have waited later that morning to respond. Of course u didn't say what time in the evening that you sent the first text, however no matter what time they responded u could have waited to respond. Some people don't know how to fix their settings to be silent for text.
7/23/2017 7:13:32 AM	Late night text
rightguyforu732 Lisle, IL 39, joined Jun. 2017	I think that ur an annoying loser who asks lame, pathetic, boring questions, john.
7/23/2017 7:14:48 AM	Late night text
rightguyforu732 Lisle, IL 39, joined Jun. 2017	Quote from dantana77: If you can text you can talk.. period Wrong.
7/23/2017 7:24:47 AM	Late night text
_april67 San Antonio, TX 50, joined Jun. 2017	Quote from dantana77: If you can text you can talk.. period That's not always so
7/23/2017 7:28:03 AM	Late night text
spotforusername Fernandina Beach, FL 51, joined Jan. 2013	So you reached out to a person but didn't actually want any interaction? Yes, that is rude.
7/23/2017 7:31:15 AM	Late night text
rightguyforu732 Lisle, IL 39, joined Jun. 2017	Quote from spotforusername: So you reached out to a person but didn't actually want any interaction? Yes, that is rude. That's not at all what he is saying. Babe u got the beauty, but u obviously lack the brains.
7/23/2017 8:05:59 AM	Late night text
easttowest72 Bremen, GA 45, joined Sep. 2014	I send some friends text at anytime. It just means get back to me when you can. With the way people work Now everything isn't 9-9 anymore.
7/23/2017 9:18:25 AM	Late night text
xman379 Richmond, VA 38, joined Nov. 2015	Quote from sadlsticsienna: Just because you send a text doesn't mean you want to talk on the phone I agree with this. My position is, unless it's family or CLOSE friends, if I text you, that means I'm NOT trying to TALK. If I want to TALK, I will CALL you. This acquaintance SHOULD have asked if you were able or willing to talk, regardless of the time.
7/23/2017 9:27:33 AM	Late night text
sadlsticsienna AñatuyaNew South Wales Australia 25, joined Jan. 2016	Exactly its basic etiquette
7/23/2017 10:07:06 AM	Late night text
kungfu_candy Alsónémedi Hungary 28, joined Aug. 2013	You were wrong OP. Don't send late night texts if you don't want late night responses. Some people take a text as a prompt for a call. A text lets a person know you're currently on your phone and thus wont miss a call. Some people prefer talking on the phone to texting and if you initiate you have to respect their rules.
7/23/2017 10:13:28 AM	Late night text
hippo65 Albuquerque, NM 51, joined Apr. 2013	Quote from xman379: I agree with this. My position is, unless it's family or CLOSE friends, if I text you, that means I'm NOT trying to TALK. If I want to TALK, I will CALL you. This acquaintance SHOULD have asked if you were able or willing to talk, regardless of the time. This is sure a new thing for me. I always wondered why text why not call. Over the years I realized that it's a norm. Getting a text doesn't mean that the other person wants to talk to you. It doesn't mean the other person can talk.
7/23/2017 10:37:06 AM	Late night text
john_cnc Charlotte, NC 50, joined Jul. 2017	A 20 something person tells me calling people is only if there is some urgent need. Otherwise no one does it. Everyone texts and is supposed to respond in kind. Nobody should be calling anyone at 3 am unless it is an emergency. Insane to do so. Texting is the mainstream way now. [Edited 7/23/2017 10:38:17 AM ]
7/23/2017 10:41:36 AM	Late night text
xman379 Richmond, VA 38, joined Nov. 2015	Quote from hippo65: Getting a text doesn't mean that the other person wants to talk to you. It doesn't mean the other person can talk. EXACTLY. The OP stated that he hadn't been in contact with this old acquaintance in YEARS. For all that person knows, the OP has lost his voice someway and physically cannot talk. The reason text messages are available is to provide flexibility in communication, especially for those who may physically be unable to talk. [Edited 7/23/2017 10:42:35 AM ]
7/23/2017 11:18:52 AM	Late night text
hippo65 Albuquerque, NM 51, joined Apr. 2013	Quote from john_cnc: A 20 something person tells me calling people is only if there is some urgent need. Otherwise no one does it. Everyone texts and is supposed to respond in kind. Nobody should be calling anyone at 3 am unless it is an emergency. Insane to do so. Texting is the mainstream way now. That is true. But...I still prefer talking. It takes too long to text. I get a whole bunch of question mark from my daughter when we text, apparently I am a slow texted. Lol. Little off subject I know.
7/23/2017 11:30:38 AM	Late night text
M4mischief Grand Prairie, TX 99, joined May. 2016	I don't have a cell so I guess if you want to talk to me...its gonna have to be face to face or by phone...texting my number wont do much good....
7/23/2017 12:54:49 PM	Late night text
Helly_Orchid Oshawa, ON 37, joined Jan. 2017	Don't text someone at 3am. Problem solved.
7/23/2017 7:53:51 PM	Late night text
enigmaathand Leavittsburg, OH 36, joined Mar. 2013	Quote from john_cnc: Welp, my bad then. I suppose I owe my friend an apology. Yes. That would be the appropriate thing to do and don't play them for an idiot with some bullshit lie. They know you deliberately ignored that call.
7/23/2017 8:01:06 PM	Late night text
lucky_1million Pewaukee, WI 50, joined Jun. 2013	Oh sorry... I almost never answer my phone. So, don't even bother calling me. My friends think my voice message greeting is annoying because I play a long stupid song and at the end of the song, I say "send me a text message."
7/23/2017 9:39:47 PM	Late night text
john_cnc Charlotte, NC 50, joined Jul. 2017	Quote from enigmaathand: Yes. That would be the appropriate thing to do and don't play them for an idiot with some bullshit lie. They know you deliberately ignored that call. No, I never said I ignored the call. I actually took the call and was like, why are you calling me at 3am? And the other party was like, well you texted. And so on...
7/23/2017 10:26:20 PM	Late night text
bookwormtobutte Rio Rancho, NM 37, joined Jan. 2016	Quote from easttowest72: John I agree with you. I hate sending a text and getting a phone call. Texting takes a couple of seconds while a call can last for hours. Or you can spend an hour texting about something when you could have had a 5min phone conversation and been done.
7/24/2017 1:18:43 AM	Late night text
john_cnc Charlotte, NC 50, joined Jul. 2017	Still though, you can text at you leisure. A call requires your immediate attention and ties you up, especially if the speaker function is not able to be in use.
7/24/2017 1:24:32 AM	Late night text
purple_dawn73 Rome Italy 44, joined May. 2017	Quote from cavie59: Never send a late night text unless you are willing to talk. This. You might not feel like talking, and it is true, texting is not the same as calling but if you send a late night text it means you are available, so the other person might choose to call you instead of texting. They might hate texting and like voice speaking, for example. [Edited 7/24/2017 1:25:11 AM ]
7/24/2017 2:01:34 AM	Late night text
john_cnc Charlotte, NC 50, joined Jul. 2017	Quote from purple_dawn73: You might not feel like talking, and it is true, texting is not the same as calling but if you send a late night text it means you are available, Says you. Like I just said, a call requires your immediate attention and ties you up, especially if the speaker function is not able to be in use. The whole entire reason for texting is so that you don't have to be tied up with a call. Just because you send a text, regardless of the time, does NOT mean you are available. Nowadays, I never call anyone before asking, unless it is urgent or they do not have text capabilities, like my grandfather. It's the new normal. I think I'm going to take this one to Dear Abby. Seems a great topic for her. [Edited 7/24/2017 2:02:45 AM ]
7/24/2017 2:27:15 AM	Late night text
purple_dawn73 Rome Italy 44, joined May. 2017	Says the person you texted, apparently. I would have personally ignored your text. As I said though, many people hate texting and prefer calling instead. Sometimes it is also faster. But the bottom line is, if you do not want to be bothered you do no text then. Unless that person knows you, and how you feel about texting vs calling. It is as simple as that. [Edited 7/24/2017 2:29:09 AM ]
7/24/2017 2:41:17 AM	Late night text
john_cnc Charlotte, NC 50, joined Jul. 2017	Nah. Unless specifically requested, a text is not, and should not be considered, a prompt to call. That is the bottom line.
7/24/2017 2:47:33 AM	Late night text
purple_dawn73 Rome Italy 44, joined May. 2017	Not everybody shares that opinion though. So you better be sure the person you text feels the same. My mom never text for example, never. If I text her she would call me back. LOL That's one of the reasons I am very careful about the moment I text her. Whether I feel like talking, am I busy or not.
7/24/2017 2:53:43 AM	Late night text
john_cnc Charlotte, NC 50, joined Jul. 2017	I hear ya. Mom's are different though. They would always rather talk so they can ask if you're okay, and if you need anything, and if you're eating right.
7/24/2017 3:03:05 AM	Late night text
purple_dawn73 Rome Italy 44, joined May. 2017	I suppose you are right. Speaking of mom, she called me one day asking: Are you alright? I said: Yes, why are you asking? What happened? She: No nothing. There has been an accident in Puglia. A train got derailed, and I was worried. Me: Mom, you do know that I am in Milan, right? (Milan is 950 Km away) She: Yeah I know, but you never know. Just checking. [Edited 7/24/2017 3:03:21 AM ]
7/24/2017 3:16:49 AM	Late night text
john_cnc Charlotte, NC 50, joined Jul. 2017	Strangely enough, I did the same sort of thing on 911. Called the ex, then wife, to make sure her and the kids were okay. We lived about the same distance as you just said. Must be instinctive, or something like that.
7/24/2017 6:29:49 AM	Late night text
hippo65 Albuquerque, NM 51, joined Apr. 2013	Quote from john_cnc: Still though, you can text at you leisure. A call requires your immediate attention and ties you up, especially if the speaker function is not able to be in use. Just what exactly is wrong saying I can't talk right now??? Yes, just because someone texted you it doesn't mean they can or want to talk, I understand that, it's faster and easier.
7/24/2017 6:44:04 AM	Late night text
john_cnc Charlotte, NC 50, joined Jul. 2017	Quote from hippo65: Just what exactly is wrong saying I can't talk right now??? You needed three question marks? Are you a finger stutterer? Did someone say there is something wrong with that? Are you trying to change the topic to how to handle unwanted to calls? Cuz, ya know, that isn't what this thread is about.
7/24/2017 6:49:33 AM	Late night text
Suzhi Knoxville, TN 55, joined Aug. 2016 online now!	OP, can't you manage your own f**kin phone call.. I bet when that phone rang, you started prancin around sayin, omg, omg, omg, what am I gonna do??
7/24/2017 7:02:07 AM	Late night text
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7/24/2017 7:20:12 AM	Late night text
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7/24/2017 7:31:14 AM	Late night text
sinceresammy Dayton, OH 62, joined Mar. 2014	You f**king morons can't do a GD thing on your own. I often wonder how you deal with crossing the street?
7/24/2017 7:35:20 AM	Late night text
easttowest72 Bremen, GA 45, joined Sep. 2014	John admit it. If she had been more attractive you would have gladly answered the call
7/24/2017 7:46:04 AM	Late night text
john_cnc Charlotte, NC 50, joined Jul. 2017	Quote from Suzhi: OP, can't you manage your own fkin phone call.. I bet when that phone rang, you started prancin around sayin, omg, omg, omg, what am I gonna do?? Mikey, are you wanting me to start kicking your a online again? Last time I made you cry and you even complained about how hard it is for you to pay your bills. Now, I know you're a sad case, lying there on the unsheeted twin mattress you grew up on, unshowered for three days and sweating from the hangover you're feeling at the moment, yet I have no sympathy for you since this is clearly your life by choice. My suggestion to you is to step out of your bed, kick aside the bottles strewn all over the floor, get cleaned up, and do something. Maybe you can start by washing the bird shit off your home's windshield. Sammy, go ahead and block me again you irrelevant prick. You're just an angry piece of trash who society has cast aside and has nothing left to promote his self worth beyond trolling the internet, as if anyone actually cares. Not sure who is the more sad case, you or the wicked alcoholic I addressed above you, but surely the two of you deserve each other. It's the best you each can do.
7/24/2017 7:46:51 AM	Late night text
Suzhi Knoxville, TN 55, joined Aug. 2016 online now!	Quote from easttowest72: John admit it. If he had been more attractive you would have gladly answered the call Fixed..
7/24/2017 7:48:17 AM	Late night text
john_cnc Charlotte, NC 50, joined Jul. 2017	Quote from easttowest72: John admit it. If she had been more attractive you would have gladly answered the call IMG]http://www.sherv.net/cm/emoticons/embarrassed/blushing.gif[/IMG
7/24/2017 7:49:19 AM	Late night text
john_cnc Charlotte, NC 50, joined Jul. 2017	Quote from Suzhi: Fixed.. You're too much of a drunk to fix anything, mr. big red nose.
7/24/2017 7:54:03 AM	Late night text
Suzhi Knoxville, TN 55, joined Aug. 2016 online now!	Quote from john_cnc: Mikey, are you wanting me to start kicking your a** online again? Last time I made you cry and you even complained about how hard it is for you to pay your bills. Now, I know you're a sad case, lying there on the unsheeted twin mattress you grew up on, unshowered for three days and sweating from the hangover you're feeling at the moment, yet I have no sympathy for you since this is clearly your life by choice. My suggestion to you is to step out of your bed, kick aside the bottles strewn all over the floor, get cleaned up, and do something. Maybe you can start by washing the bird shit off your home's windshield. Sammy, go ahead and block me again you irrelevant prick. You're just an angry piece of trash who society has cast aside and has nothing left to promote his self worth beyond trolling the internet, as if anyone actually cares. Not sure who is the more sad case, you or the wicked alcoholic I addressed above you, but surely the two of you deserve each other. It's the best you each can do. You aren't kicking anything, Judy Patoodie.. Go wash the dingle berries off your dck, from last nights little fling with the pizza boy, ya little cherry wheat beer drinking, cck sucking, mamas boy... Ya should have blocked me with this profile like you did with your Track Empiron prof... [Edited 7/24/2017 7:56:08 AM ]
7/24/2017 7:58:37 AM	Late night text
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7/24/2017 8:00:22 AM	Late night text
john_cnc Charlotte, NC 50, joined Jul. 2017	You are a victim of what alcohol does to the body Mikey. You have it all... Dementia Brain Damage Liver Failure Anemia Cardiovascular disease and of course there's that big red nose. Get a job and get rehab. You're an unproductive waste of resources.

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