8/2/2017 11:02:17 AM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
53, joined Jun. 2012
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"Why do you post all your pics on Dating Site just to chat in the forums? It's kinda odd that you don't wanna be contacted, yet YOURE ON A DATING SITE!!!"
This was left in my inbox..I get this or variation X amount of times per week...as I am sure many do
Now..the irony is...they almost always hv the phrase "open minded" in their pro...
When quite clearly they...are..not
Ladies and Gents...what kind of...odd lil juxtapositions in the whole message vs pro hv you seen ?
Goodmorning all
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8/2/2017 11:07:34 AM |
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archer513
Cincinnati, OH
44, joined Dec. 2014
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"Not here for sex or hookups!"
Every pic they're half naked and lookin as pornographic as possible...
*if you fish on the bottom you will catch carp...don't be surprised when bass aren't hitting your line*
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8/2/2017 11:16:14 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
New South Wales
Australia
25, joined Jan. 2016
online now!
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Well I don't have any pics of me up on my actual profile lol
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8/2/2017 11:17:05 AM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
53, joined Jun. 2012
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"Not here for sex or hookups!"
Every pic they're half naked and lookin as pornographic as possible...
*if you fish on the bottom you will catch carp...don't be surprised when bass aren't hitting your line*
Hmmmm.....I am a bit conflicted on this one...but I understand it in theory....
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8/2/2017 11:17:40 AM |
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gotheon123
Apex, NC
49, joined Jul. 2013
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I love the ones that go on about how "God fearing" they are and how they treat women with respect and send a d*ck pic or lead with....
Wanna f**k?
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8/2/2017 11:18:44 AM |
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4uijack
New Port Richey, FL
82, joined Aug. 2013
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8/2/2017 11:20:41 AM |
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
55, joined May. 2011
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It is a valid question. Why do we need to see a picture?
Not sure what the correlation is with open minded. Many people have
that on their profile, it is a common phrase.
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8/2/2017 11:24:46 AM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
53, joined Jun. 2012
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It is a valid question. Why do we need to see a picture?
Not sure what the correlation is with open minded. Many people have
that on their profile, it is a common phrase.
Openminded usually..means I am down to fk anyone..anywhere..anyhow...I hv learned.
But it means to me...live and let live..
So in this context...his issue with me was...ironic.
And u don't need ..to see my pic...
Dnt click on it..all good.
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8/2/2017 11:26:42 AM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
53, joined Jun. 2012
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I love the ones that go on about how "God fearing" they are and how they treat women with respect and send a d*ck pic or lead with....
Wanna f**k?
Omggggg..yes
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8/2/2017 11:30:54 AM |
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john_cnc
Buffalo, NY
50, joined Jul. 2017
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In other words, I need to modify my tactics.
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8/2/2017 11:31:21 AM |
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uncle_bulgaria
Houston, TX
50, joined Apr. 2017
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I keep invis to avoid the whole debacle.
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8/2/2017 11:32:33 AM |
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john_cnc
Buffalo, NY
50, joined Jul. 2017
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You wouldn't have to worry either way.
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8/2/2017 11:34:39 AM |
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lalapops
Daphne, AL
33, joined Jul. 2017
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I rarely read my messages unless I see a familiar pro name
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8/2/2017 11:40:03 AM |
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archer513
Cincinnati, OH
44, joined Dec. 2014
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I rarely read my messages unless I see a familiar pro name
You have 37 of my best dic pic work goin to waste!
I used artsy props and everything!
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8/2/2017 11:40:10 AM |
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kandykayn
Clarksville, TN
30, joined Dec. 2013
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I rarely read my messages unless I see a familiar pro name
This but my profile lets others know I am here for forums only.
People give me shit for being married on a FORUM dating site don't take it personal OP.
Why is it soo hard to believe that some of us like to just read the forums. I read EVERYTHING.
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8/2/2017 11:41:59 AM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
53, joined Jun. 2012
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This but my profile lets others know I am here for forums only.
People give me shit for being married on a FORUM dating site don't take it personal OP.
Why is it soo hard to believe that some of us like to just read the forums. I read EVERYTHING.
Girllll...this is entertainment...
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8/2/2017 11:43:35 AM |
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uncle_bulgaria
Houston, TX
50, joined Apr. 2017
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Why is it soo hard to believe that some of us like to just read the forums.
Dumb folk is always the answer.
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8/2/2017 11:44:53 AM |
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lunaglider
DPO, AA
98, joined Dec. 2013
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They ask for nudes...then when I send them
They send them back!
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8/2/2017 11:52:01 AM |
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tellitlkittis
Los Angeles, CA
63, joined Nov. 2012
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"Not here for sex or hookups!"
Every pic they're half naked and lookin as pornographic as possible...
*if you fish on the bottom you will catch carp...don't be surprised when bass aren't hitting your line*
My interpretation of what the above quote might possibly mean: (A) He AIN'T F**KING with them HOE'S (wh*re's) (B) Being on DH is the "BOTTOM" so he's not fishing, casting his line here, because.......there ain't nothing HERE! (C)Sooooooo, to every woman one here, Y O U 'ain't" SHIT!(low self esteem women, go to the corner(any corner, your choice, strong women, laugh)(D)He's "not here for sex or hook ups" he get's a lot of pictures of "hoeish" looking women that he's tired of seeing,who keep trying to lure him into watching pornography. He's here for entertainment just as many are.
Don't be confused Dusa,just say F it and Chuck it, right out your mind. HaHa Or, did I make it worse?
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8/2/2017 11:54:02 AM |
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
55, joined May. 2011
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Openminded usually..means I am down to fk anyone..anywhere..anyhow...I hv learned.
But it means to me...live and let live..
So in this context...his issue with me was...ironic.
And u don't need ..to see my pic...
Dnt click on it..all good.
Well how can you presuppose what it means to him?
To me it means someone willing to try new things.
Your picture is already visible, not possible to unsee it. But that wasn't his
point. It was why take the time to post it in the first place if you are just
posting in the forums?
Same goes for a profile, so my answer is: Those people who say they are here
just for the forums but ALSO have a profile written as if they are here for
dating.
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8/2/2017 11:56:29 AM |
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lalapops
Daphne, AL
33, joined Jul. 2017
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You have 37 of my best dic pic work goin to waste!
I used artsy props and everything!
Pfft I've been masturbating for weeks. Just didn't tell you.
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8/2/2017 11:56:37 AM |
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bookwormtobutte
Rio Rancho, NM
37, joined Jan. 2016
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I think its funny when guys from other states and even countries get all bent out of shape cause I won't accept the friend requests or answer their lewd messages. I mean seriously, why waste my time when you in freaking England!!!
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8/2/2017 12:02:16 PM |
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archer513
Cincinnati, OH
44, joined Dec. 2014
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My interpretation of what the above quote might possibly mean: (A) He AIN'T F**KING with them HOE'S (wh*re's) (B) Being on DH is the "BOTTOM" so he's not fishing, casting his line here, because.......there ain't nothing HERE! (C)So oooooo, to every woman one here, Y O U 'ain't" SHIT!(low self esteem women, go to the corner(any corner, your choice, strong women, laugh) (D)He's "not here for sex or hook ups" he get's a lot of pictures of "hoeish" looking women that he's tired of seeing,who keep trying to lure him into watching pornography. He's here for entertainment just as many are.
Don't be confused Dusa,just say F it and Chuck it, right out your mind. HaHa Or, did I make it worse?
I'm totally confused by this post
I thought my point was obvious. If you're selling sex...don't get all butt hurt when that's what comes down the pike. It had nothing to do with DH on its own...dating sites in general. I've seen this a bunch of times.
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8/2/2017 12:29:58 PM |
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tellitlkittis
Los Angeles, CA
63, joined Nov. 2012
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They ask for nudes...then when I send them
They send them back!
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8/2/2017 12:31:27 PM |
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kandykayn
Clarksville, TN
30, joined Dec. 2013
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I think its funny when guys from other states and even countries get all bent out of shape cause I won't accept the friend requests or answer their lewd messages. I mean seriously, why waste my time when you in freaking England!!!
Right like even if I was single that would be a expensive relationship.
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8/2/2017 12:32:54 PM |
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uncle_bulgaria
Houston, TX
50, joined Apr. 2017
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You can't put a price on true love kandy...
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8/2/2017 12:41:30 PM |
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sparks_01
Ocala, FL
97, joined Feb. 2017
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I don't get why people post selfies,looking cute,pretty, and dressed up..
But have no interest in dating. .
I once put a thread about dressing to lure....
I still believe people seek,their own level, regardless of what the heck level it is.....
Maybe it's their own level. ..
But honestly why post sexy,pics,then Know the response, then shoot yaself,in your own foot by being upset about a MAN,finding Large boos a turnon,,,..
I see it daily on Facebook, constantly posting selfies...
Then shutting down the response
Why even? ??????????????
I don't date,I serial f**k,,,
Couldn't care less about a relationship with anyone
I date a great friend, have no problem with the drama bs..
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8/2/2017 12:42:00 PM |
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tellitlkittis
Los Angeles, CA
63, joined Nov. 2012
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I'm totally confused by this post
I thought my point was obvious. If you're selling sex...don't get all butt hurt when that's what comes down the pike. It had nothing to do with DH on its own...dating sites in general. I've seen this a bunch of times.
Now I'm confused,Wonder who was confused first?
Are there actually women that regularly post on DH that are selling SEX?
Just, one more question,are you saying you spend/spent a lot of time on dating sites, (in general), a bunch of times, and have come to the conclusion, that dating sites have a lot of hoeish, begging women on them?
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8/2/2017 12:42:38 PM |
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sparks_01
Ocala, FL
97, joined Feb. 2017
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I rarely read my messages unless I see a familiar pro name
Yup..exactly
HI b*tch
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8/2/2017 12:48:04 PM |
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lalapops
Daphne, AL
33, joined Jul. 2017
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Not today Sparks
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8/2/2017 12:51:15 PM |
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uncle_bulgaria
Houston, TX
50, joined Apr. 2017
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Are there actually women that regularly post on DH that are selling SEX?
Umm yes. It's like hooker central...you probably don't get those emails being a woman.
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8/2/2017 12:54:06 PM |
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sparks_01
Ocala, FL
97, joined Feb. 2017
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Lala,I know you from another site
Glad you're here girl
It's like trolls united
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8/2/2017 12:54:39 PM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
53, joined Jun. 2012
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Well how can you presuppose what it means to him?
To me it means someone willing to try new things.
Your picture is already visible, not possible to unsee it. But that wasn't his
point. It was why take the time to post it in the first place if you are just
posting in the forums?
Same goes for a profile, so my answer is: Those people who say they are here
just for the forums but ALSO have a profile written as if they are here for
dating.
I came here to date...the site taught me not to do that.
I kept the pro because I post in forums.
I hv a pic because I choose to...you know land of the free..blah blah blah..
This is my only pro...no need for 2..
I just asked him..what open minded meant to him...
You said try new things...this was a new thing to me...forums were new to me...but I wasn't aware I had to conform to anothers idea to be acceptable.
Good thing I am not concerned with being acceptable
Telllllllll
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8/2/2017 12:57:27 PM |
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lalapops
Daphne, AL
33, joined Jul. 2017
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Lala,I know you from another site
Glad you're here girl
It's like trolls united
Sparks I've been on and off DH for like 7 years. Sit yo damn drunk a** down somewhere. I said not today.
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8/2/2017 1:00:26 PM |
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beverduster
La Feria, TX
52, joined Apr. 2008
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I love the ones that go on about how "God fearing" they are and how they treat women with respect and send a d*ck pic or lead with....
Wanna f**k?
im able if you are mabel oooops, but i mean it too
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8/2/2017 1:01:01 PM |
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archer513
Cincinnati, OH
44, joined Dec. 2014
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Are there actually women that regularly post on DH that are selling SEX?
Umm yes. It's like hooker central...you probably don't get those emails being a woman.
What unc said.
Forum posters no. the women that are left on here give no fux and are merely here to waste time.
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8/2/2017 1:32:10 PM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
53, joined Jun. 2012
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I don't get why people post selfies,looking cute,pretty, and dressed up..
But have no interest in dating. .
I once put a thread about dressing to lure....
I still believe people seek,their own level, regardless of what the heck level it is.....
Maybe it's their own level. ..
But honestly why post sexy,pics,then Know the response, then shoot yaself,in your own foot by being upset about a MAN,finding Large boos a turnon,,,..
I see it daily on Facebook, constantly posting selfies...
Then shutting down the response
Why even? ??????????????
I don't date,I serial f**k,,,
Couldn't care less about a relationship with anyone
I date a great friend, have no problem with the drama bs..
This is how I see it...
Idgaf what ppl see in my pics..
Not my job to...not my responsibility.
If they saw me in real world..that is how I look...
Still not my job to dress a certain way to satiate humans who can't control self.
If they can't control self..the I will assist them in doing so
I am not b*tchin...I find it funny as fk that men and women think an outfit is permission to treat a human a certain way...i find it entertaining ad hell..
I find a diamond ring in a display ..but only for display..not for sale...very alluring...
I dnt go chastise the store owner for not having it for sale..
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8/2/2017 1:38:50 PM |
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queennawty
Middlesex
United Kingdom
45, joined Oct. 2015
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I do it to get the chick's
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8/2/2017 1:47:41 PM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
53, joined Jun. 2012
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I do it to get the chick's
There is that
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8/2/2017 1:49:05 PM |
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queennawty
Middlesex
United Kingdom
45, joined Oct. 2015
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Duesa
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8/2/2017 2:00:50 PM |
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sparks_01
Ocala, FL
97, joined Feb. 2017
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Sparks I've been on and off DH for like 7 years. Sit yo damn drunk a** down somewhere. I said not today.
Stfu skank....
I know you well
Moco,slow b*tch
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8/2/2017 2:08:29 PM |
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sparks_01
Ocala, FL
97, joined Feb. 2017
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I came here to date...the site taught me not to do that.
I kept the pro because I post in forums.
I hv a pic because I choose to...you know land of the free..blah blah blah..
This is my only pro...no need for 2..
I just asked him..what open minded meant to him...
You said try new things...this was a new thing to me...forums were new to me...but I wasn't aware I had to conform to anothers idea to be acceptable.
Good thing I am not concerned with being acceptable
Telllllllll
And now what??
Reality strikes most of us...
There's nothing worth dating
Your in the upper dark world here
Men that strike a woman either emotionally or directly
You have men that strike,families and friends
You wanna look cute ??,update pictures? ?????????
Ffs.......
Day I put up my last pic,,,gimme a break. ..
When they really realize it is me?????
Gimme a fkn,break
There's not one dude I converse with or would want to????
Why the duck would anyone surf,f**kmates,in a sewer
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8/2/2017 2:21:39 PM |
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sparks_01
Ocala, FL
97, joined Feb. 2017
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This is how I see it...
Idgaf what ppl see in my pics..
Not my job to...not my responsibility.
If they saw me in real world..that is how I look...
Still not my job to dress a certain way to satiate humans who can't control self.
If they can't control self..the I will assist them in doing so
I am not b*tchin...I find it funny as fk that men and women think an outfit is permission to treat a human a certain way...i find it entertaining ad hell..
I find a diamond ring in a display ..but only for display..not for sale...very alluring...
I dnt go chastise the store owner for not having it for sale..
Yah,u do...
Or you wouldn't constantly post them...
What you seek in not what you will find here,there or anywhere else
I say this as a friend. I'm harsh at times.....
BUT what you seek will come when you least expect it, I hope ,after all the bs on different sites you will open your beautiful eyes,and not pass it by,don't ever let the past define your path,,,,,
Are you personally ready to put all your luggage on anothers doorstep???
If not lighten the luggage
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8/2/2017 2:41:21 PM |
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tellitlkittis
Los Angeles, CA
63, joined Nov. 2012
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I came here to date...the site taught me not to do that.
I kept the pro because I post in forums.
I hv a pic because I choose to...you know land of the free..blah blah blah..
This is my only pro...no need for 2..
I just asked him..what open minded meant to him...
You said try new things...this was a new thing to me...forums were new to me...but I wasn't aware I had to conform to anothers idea to be acceptable.
Good thing I am not concerned with being acceptable
Telllllllll
Dh was my try a new thing..... taught you what not to do....me too, haha. I have no pic cause....................it was no longer necessary.
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8/2/2017 3:15:13 PM |
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lunaglider
DPO, AA
98, joined Dec. 2013
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What unc said.
Forum posters no. the women that are left on here give no fux and are merely here to waste time.
I'm here...to sell my body for sex
and
to sell.....Avon.
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8/2/2017 3:31:11 PM |
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tellitlkittis
Los Angeles, CA
63, joined Nov. 2012
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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8/2/2017 3:38:13 PM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
53, joined Jun. 2012
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I hid...for a long time. Decades..
I became so fearful of attention...
Long..boring story.
I realize the damage I did to myself..
I post pics...for me.
I can't really explain it other than I spent almost 40 plus yrs listening to the hatefilled words in my head..from others....over an over and over again.
Now...I am working thru that...
One way is to take pics and post them as I choose.
I also allow others to keep their issues..and not make them my issues.
Just because some see these pics as they do..is not my cause for concern.
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8/2/2017 3:45:05 PM |
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uncle_bulgaria
Houston, TX
50, joined Apr. 2017
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I post pics...for me.
I do something similar with the mirrors at the house...I cover them for me.
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8/2/2017 4:14:14 PM |
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tellitlkittis
Los Angeles, CA
63, joined Nov. 2012
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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8/2/2017 4:22:12 PM |
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hello_bad_kitti
Edgerton, WI
51, joined May. 2013
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I used to get hateful messages from men because I was in a relationship even though this is where we met and we both post .I would tell them mind your own f**ken business .Do not worry about what I'm doing.
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8/2/2017 4:33:56 PM |
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sparks_01
Ocala, FL
97, joined Feb. 2017
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I hid...for a long time. Decades..
I became so fearful of attention...
Long..boring story.
I realize the damage I did to myself..
I post pics...for me.
I can't really explain it other than I spent almost 40 plus yrs listening to the hatefilled words in my head..from others....over an over and over again.
Now...I am working thru that...
One way is to take pics and post them as I choose.
I also allow others to keep their issues..and not make them my issues.
Just because some see these pics as they do..is not my cause for concern.
O,I don't agree. ..
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8/2/2017 5:02:54 PM |
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playingindirt
Eugene, OR
62, joined Mar. 2014
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hey ms eyes
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8/2/2017 5:06:06 PM |
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PSFAKE6655496
Bonetice
Czech Republic
47, joined Jul. 2017
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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8/2/2017 5:12:35 PM |
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uber_goober
Danielsville, GA
51, joined May. 2016
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Aside from the scammers who contact me several times weekly, pretty much the only messages I receive are from friends I've made along the way here on DH.
But I do enjoy the inconsistencies I've noticed on some people's profiles I've perved. i.e. The multiple photos of women with cigarettes in their fingers who claim not to be smokers. Assertions that they will not let drama come into their lives but a good portion of their written profile clearly indicates their life and attitude is rife with it already. Little things like that just tickle me.
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8/2/2017 5:41:29 PM |
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lunaglider
DPO, AA
98, joined Dec. 2013
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Aside from the scammers who contact me several times weekly, pretty much the only messages I receive are from friends I've made along the way here on DH.
But I do enjoy the inconsistencies I've noticed on some people's profiles I've perved. i.e. The multiple photos of women with cigarettes in their fingers who claim not to be smokers. Assertions that they will not let drama come into their lives but a good portion of their written profile clearly indicates their life and attitude is rife with it already. Little things like that just tickle me.
I tried scamming you for phone sex....
But
you said you were busy knitting!
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8/2/2017 6:02:32 PM |
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huedathunkit
Omaha, NE
40, joined Nov. 2009
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Well shit! I thought this thread was about 'why chicks should do me'? I wasted 15 mins tryin to take the perfect penis pic!
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8/2/2017 6:21:33 PM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
53, joined Jun. 2012
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Ms Ann
PSfake...umm...hello
Goober
Luna damnit
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8/2/2017 6:57:39 PM |
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Lil_Miss_Tia
Anaheim, CA
26, joined Jul. 2016
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Live & let live - I don't think anybody should ever need to justify what they do or explain themselves to anybody as long as they ain't hurting nobody.
Do whatever makes u happy.
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8/2/2017 7:22:07 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009
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I don't have a pic. Sent one on two different occasions and the site never posted them. It is useless to search since the women never respond beyond a line or two once or twice and that is the exception not the rule. I only search when extremely bored or too lazy to go to bed and the babes have kept my expectations lower than humanly possible. In such a case why post a pic even if the site would let me? The whole thing is an exercise in futility.
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8/2/2017 7:28:29 PM |
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tellitlkittis
Los Angeles, CA
63, joined Nov. 2012
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I tried scamming you for phone sex....
But
you said you were busy knitting!
Luna, you're so Ffing crazy. lol
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