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8/7/2017 12:47:00 PM Opinion on booty calls?  

sadlsticsienna
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Say you are dating someone, at what point if there IS a point, is asking for a booty/sex call ever appropriate?

Have you ever met up with someone JUST to have sex?

Ok I know for sure its a turn off for a guy to ask before we even date, Id not date them then.
Some dude tried it with me, shame he was probably pretty smart cos he was in an engineering degree. I guess was socially an idiot.T lol

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8/7/2017 12:59:49 PM Opinion on booty calls?  
4uijack
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I was drug in her door on the third date!!!!

8/7/2017 2:18:59 PM Opinion on booty calls?  

xman379
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Quote from sadlsticsienna:
Say you are dating someone, at what point if there IS a point, is asking for a booty/sex call ever appropriate?

Have you ever met up with someone JUST to have sex?

Ok I know for sure its a turn off for a guy to ask before we even date, Id not date them then.
Some dude tried it with me, shame he was probably pretty smart cos he was in an engineering degree. I guess was socially an idiot.T lol


1. The point where all parties involved are comfortable with engaging in sexual intercourse.

2. Yes, on several occasions with several women.



[Edited 8/7/2017 2:19:19 PM ]

8/7/2017 2:23:56 PM Opinion on booty calls?  
uncle_bulgaria
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Say you are dating someone, at what point if there IS a point, is asking for a booty/sex call ever appropriate?



Um well if you are dating them it's not a booty call...a booty call is when you are not dating them but it's 2am and you didn't pull so you check on your booty call list...

Kind of like a UPS backup for when the mains power goes out...It sits there waiting for the power to go out so it can kick in...same thing with booty calls, they sit by the phone while you are out dating.



[Edited 8/7/2017 2:25:19 PM ]

8/7/2017 2:32:00 PM Opinion on booty calls?  

xman379
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Actually a booty call is just that. The parties involved CAN be dating or not.

It just means that the ONLY intent of the meeting is sex.

I could be actually dating a woman, but one night call her JUST to meet for sex. THAT is a booty call.

As opposed to arranging a dinner date, THEN having sex after dinner.

Checkout Notorious B.I.G.'s song "F**king you tonight", where R.Kelly sings...

"You must be used to me spending, and all that sweet wining and dining, but I'm f**king you tonight."

8/7/2017 2:37:43 PM Opinion on booty calls?  

driver406
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To me it is wrong and I wouldn't do it, but after marriage I'll have a go!!!!!





OH! That's when she cuts me off for life isn't it to show her power in the relationship.

8/7/2017 2:47:15 PM Opinion on booty calls?  
uncle_bulgaria
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According to Urban dictionary...

booty call
(noun)a phonecall,page,or conversation aimed at getting into your pants.Not an invite to a movie or dinner, not just coffee, not a casual or formal get-together, just a plain old-fashioned "let's f**k"

..so that goes along with the "not dating" interpretation.

8/7/2017 2:54:02 PM Opinion on booty calls?  

xman379
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Quote from uncle_bulgaria:
According to Urban dictionary...

booty call
(noun)a phonecall,page,or conversation aimed at getting into your pants.Not an invite to a movie or dinner, not just coffee, not a casual or formal get-together, just a plain old-fashioned "let's f**k"

..so that goes along with the "not dating" interpretation.


I was RAISED in urban neighborhoods, trust me, I know what a booty call is.

The definition you posted is EXACTLY what I stated.

What you're thinking about is a one night stand or casual encounter as they are refered to on Craigslist.

8/7/2017 2:55:53 PM Opinion on booty calls?  
uncle_bulgaria
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I was RAISED in urban neighborhoods, trust me, I know what a booty call is.

apparently not...

The definition you posted is EXACTLY what I stated.

No you mentioned dating...dating is generally defined at going out on arranged dates...not calling/texting someone for a f**k. No the definition is what I stated.

What you're thinking about is a one night stand or casual encounter as they are refered to on Craigslist.

Again no, one night stands involve a date, on that one night...a booty call doesn't involve a date, it involves you calling/texting or showing up at 2am..and f**king, then going home...that's it.

The craiglist thing is nether a date or a booty call. One other thing about a booty call is you know the person.



[Edited 8/7/2017 2:58:03 PM ]

8/7/2017 3:12:17 PM Opinion on booty calls?  

xman379
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Quote from uncle_bulgaria:
I was RAISED in urban neighborhoods, trust me, I know what a booty call is.

apparently not...

The definition you posted is EXACTLY what I stated.

No you mentioned dating...dating is generally defined at going out on arranged dates...not calling/texting someone for a f**k. No the definition is what I stated.

What you're thinking about is a one night stand or casual encounter as they are refered to on Craigslist.

Again no, one night stands involve a date, on that one night...a booty call doesn't involve a date, it involves you calling/texting or showing up at 2am..and f**king, then going home...that's it.

The craiglist thing is nether a date or a booty call. One other thing about a booty call is you know the person.


1. I said you CAN be dating someone and have a booty call with the person.

Let me give you an example.

Let's say I have a girlfriend I've been dating for 3 months. When we DATE, we go to the movies or a restaurant or generally somewhere where there are LOTS of other people and we do NOT have sex.

One day I call her, at 12 noon and ask

"Can I come see you? I want some of that good p*ssy."

She accepts, I go over, I f**k, I leave.

THAT is a booty call, LITERALLY. I called her JUST to arrange a meeting for sex.

2. I've NEVER had a one night stand that started as a date. I've met womeb using online dating sites and we've met at hotels to F**K. A few only once, hence one night stand.

Others developed into fwb and even fewer developed into dating (actually going out and doing things OTHER than sex together).



[Edited 8/7/2017 3:12:43 PM ]

8/7/2017 3:26:35 PM Opinion on booty calls?  
uncle_bulgaria
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1. I said you CAN be dating someone and have a booty call with the person.

I know you did, and you're wrong...if you are dating them it's not a booty call.

...didn't read the rest you're just being defensive and butthurt now



[Edited 8/7/2017 3:26:56 PM ]

8/7/2017 4:02:57 PM Opinion on booty calls?  

xman379
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Quote from uncle_bulgaria:
1. I said you CAN be dating someone and have a booty call with the person.

I know you did, and you're wrong...if you are dating them it's not a booty call.

...didn't read the rest you're just being defensive and butthurt now


Why would I be "butthurt" or defensive?

It's NOT at all that serious.

You seem to think "dating"=monogamous relationship

It does NOT, but don't feel bad, MANY people are confused about this.

Just because a person is dating someone does NOT mean they are in love or monogamous. It just means they go out together sometimes.

So, what is it called if I'm dating several women and decide to call one tonight to meet up for sex?

8/7/2017 5:10:28 PM Opinion on booty calls?  

enigmaathand
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Quote from sadlsticsienna:
Say you are dating someone, at what point if there IS a point, is asking for a booty/sex call ever appropriate?

Have you ever met up with someone JUST to have sex?

Ok I know for sure its a turn off for a guy to ask before we even date, Id not date them then.
Some dude tried it with me, shame he was probably pretty smart cos he was in an engineering degree. I guess was socially an idiot.T lol
Engineers use LOGIC, which means he is intelligent enough to know females are only worth what they are willing to do with their orifices.

8/7/2017 5:52:05 PM Opinion on booty calls?  

packersbabe920
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I don't do booty call, I know my worth

8/7/2017 6:20:18 PM Opinion on booty calls?  

lucky_1million
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Quote from sadlsticsienna:
Have you ever met up with someone JUST to have sex?



This happens when I am in a relationship with someone, not when I am just dating someone.

However, I wouldn't call it a "booty call" per se.

It's usually the standard: drinks after work, a nice meal, watch a little TV, and sex.

The main purpose is sex and quality time together, but the emotions are at this point a mix of love and lust.

And... there is an on-going commitment to keep having sex with each other.

It's not a one time deal.

8/7/2017 6:31:58 PM Opinion on booty calls?  
4uijack
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I'm a deal maker!!

8/7/2017 10:49:59 PM Opinion on booty calls?  

M4mischief
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Quote from packersbabe920:
I don't do booty call, I know my worth



This.....

8/8/2017 12:34:01 AM Opinion on booty calls?  

sadlsticsienna
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Quote from enigmaathand:
Engineers use LOGIC, which means he is intelligent enough to know females are only worth what they are willing to do with their orifices.

200 dollar in that case

Ain't nothing free.
That's the problem with men they're lazy and want stuff for free. Entitlement.
Of course he wanted to date me but just after all the hilarious crap and dik pics was like narrrr

8/8/2017 7:38:26 AM Opinion on booty calls?  

enigmaathand
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They learned that from the single, lazy, entitled mother that raised them...

8/8/2017 7:44:44 AM Opinion on booty calls?  

sadlsticsienna
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Quote from enigmaathand:
They learned that from the single, lazy, entitled mother that raised them...

We don't have as many single mums here as in the US
and hardly any blacks too (probably explains it)

8/8/2017 8:12:57 AM Opinion on booty calls?  

xman379
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Quote from sadlsticsienna:
We don't have as many single mums here as in the US
and hardly any blacks too (probably explains it)


The aboriginal black people of Australia, who are actually the ORIGINAL inhabitants of the land before the Europeans decided to STEAL the land are of a different culture than black people of the U.S.

It's kinda unfair to lump all black people together.

Those aboriginal people are far from lazy, as they do not rely on modern technology as much as say you or I.



[Edited 8/8/2017 8:13:34 AM ]

8/8/2017 8:16:00 AM Opinion on booty calls?  

sadlsticsienna
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Quote from xman379:
The aboriginal black people of Australia, who are actually the ORIGINAL inhabitants of the land before the Europeans decided to STEAL the land are of a different culture than black people of the U.S.

It's kinda unfair to lump all black people together.

Those aboriginal people are far from lazy, as they do not rely on modern technology as much as say you or I.

Most aboriginals are in northern territory far far away.
Some in areas down here but it's like kinda isolated.

You don't see that many actually.

I don't classify aboriginals as black.

8/8/2017 8:18:53 AM Opinion on booty calls?  

xman379
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Quote from sadlsticsienna:
I don't classify aboriginals as black.


YOU don't have to, but they are. Their genetic heritage goes back to Africa, just like black people in the U.S.

8/8/2017 8:34:34 AM Opinion on booty calls?  

sadlsticsienna
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Quote from xman379:
YOU don't have to, but they are. Their genetic heritage goes back to Africa, just like black people in the U.S.

they have more neanderthal dna than blacks/current africans.

Aborigines carry DNA from the ancient Neanderthal and Denisovan archaic humans. Black Africans got none.
Aboriginals of Australia are actually technically probably more 'African' than american Africans, they are direct descendants from original migrants from Africa.

8/8/2017 9:31:13 AM Opinion on booty calls?  
cupocheer
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Whorish, nasty asses, sluts and no-account oxygen users.

8/8/2017 10:46:59 AM Opinion on booty calls?  

Suzhi
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OT..







8/8/2017 12:04:34 PM Opinion on booty calls?  

enigmaathand
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Quote from sadlsticsienna:
We don't have as many single mums here as in the US
and hardly any blacks too (probably explains it)
You just have less total people, than the US does. If you had 353 million people, single mothers would be a "dime a dozen" there, too. Black population, in relations to other races, is irrelevant. Most single mothers with a huge sense of entitlement, act fairly narcissistic, and are mostly lazy and on welfare, are WHITE in the US.


Blacks only account for about 13% of our population.

Meaning it is not a "race" problem. It is a "Feminism" problem....

8/8/2017 12:15:00 PM Opinion on booty calls?  

sadlsticsienna
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Quote from enigmaathand:
You just have less total people, than the US does. If you had 353 million people, single mothers would be a "dime a dozen" there, too. Black population, in relations to other races, is irrelevant. Most single mothers with a huge sense of entitlement, act fairly narcissistic, and are mostly lazy and on welfare, are WHITE in the US.


Blacks only account for about 13% of our population.

Meaning it is not a "race" problem. It is a "Feminism" problem....

Pretty sure blacks are less than 13% here lol

8/8/2017 12:18:25 PM Opinion on booty calls?  

enigmaathand
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Quote from sadlsticsienna:
Pretty sure blacks are less than 13% here lol
And yet, single mothers and poverty still exist around similar percentages to America, thus confirming my statement

8/8/2017 12:20:59 PM Opinion on booty calls?  

sadlsticsienna
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Quote from enigmaathand:
And yet, single mothers and poverty still exist around similar percentages to America, thus confirming my statement

Well I live in a good area so I don't notice it lmao

8/8/2017 12:22:47 PM Opinion on booty calls?  

mylegsarecold
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Quote from driver406:
To me it is wrong and I wouldn't do it, but after marriage I'll have a go!!!!!





OH! That's when she cuts me off for life isn't it to show her power in the relationship.

Not sure if anyone told you this but you need a working sex organ to make a booty call work.

8/8/2017 12:27:48 PM Opinion on booty calls?  

xman379
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Quote from sadlsticsienna:
Well I live in a good area so I don't notice it lmao


Wow. Enigma owned you on that.



8/8/2017 12:28:41 PM Opinion on booty calls?  

sadlsticsienna
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Quote from xman379:
Wow. Enigma owned you on that.


Lol shh

8/8/2017 12:31:55 PM Opinion on booty calls?  

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8/8/2017 3:29:57 PM Opinion on booty calls?  

truly000
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Is a booty call the same as friends with benefits?

8/8/2017 3:36:52 PM Opinion on booty calls?  
myizrstillblue2
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Quote from truly000:
Is a booty call the same as friends with benefits?




8/8/2017 3:37:57 PM Opinion on booty calls?  

sandcrabs
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Quote from truly000:
Is a booty call the same as friends with benefits?


It's anal so don't listen to these pervs.

8/8/2017 3:48:00 PM Opinion on booty calls?  
myizrstillblue2
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8/8/2017 4:14:13 PM Opinion on booty calls?  

enigmaathand
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Quote from xman379:
Wow. Enigma owned you on that.

She will never admit that Feminism os the problem. If it is a race problem, I will state that.

In this case, it is not the black community causing the epidemic of broken homes.

It is Feminism.

Somehow, I think black males are profiled for this behavior without the truth of their typical situations being fully disclosed.

I have had two friends, both date black women over the years. I have NEVER witnessed any women b*tch and nag a man about how worthless he is, and what he is going to do or else, to keep her happy in the relationship, so much in my life. No offense, but if I had to go through what they did, kid or not, I would leave her a** too. Nobody deserves the constant verbal bashing those two went through over the years they dated these women.



[Edited 8/8/2017 4:14:58 PM ]

8/8/2017 4:26:59 PM Opinion on booty calls?  

truly000
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Quote from myizrstillblue2:


Is it?

8/8/2017 6:11:17 PM Opinion on booty calls?  

sandcrabs
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Quote from truly000:
Is it?


No ! See my post ^^^ up there.

8/8/2017 6:45:23 PM Opinion on booty calls?  

hippo65
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Quote from truly000:
Is a booty call the same as friends with benefits?

Not even close.
You are not a friend to a booty call.
You should be friends with your FWB.
Hence the name.

8/8/2017 8:11:28 PM Opinion on booty calls?  

Suzhi
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I've had FWBs that were booty calls sometimes as well... If we got together early in the evening, or did a day at the lake, we were FWBs.. If I called em at 3 am, then it was a booty call.. I don't think it was ever really discussed.. People gotta name everything, these days...

8/8/2017 8:17:25 PM Opinion on booty calls?  
cupocheer
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Just trashy nasty....

8/8/2017 8:19:38 PM Opinion on booty calls?  

hippo65
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Lol...Name everything..True.
My current FWB wants to call it dating. So dating it is.


8/8/2017 9:31:25 PM Opinion on booty calls?  

lucky_1million
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I wrote her off for the tenth time today
And practiced all the things I would say
But she came over, I lost my nerve
I took her back and made her dessert

Now I know I'm being used
That's okay, man, 'cause I like the abuse
I know she's playing with me
That's okay 'cause I got no self esteem

We make plans to go out at night
I wait 'til 2 then I turn out the light
This rejection's got me so low
If she keeps it up I just might tell her so

When she's saying that she wants only me
Then I wonder why she sleeps with my friends
When she's saying that I'm like a disease
Then I wonder how much more I can spend
Well, I guess I should stick up for myself
But I really think it's better this way
The more you suffer
The more it shows you really care
Right? Yeah, yeah, yeah

Now I'll relate this little bit
That happens more than I'd like to admit
Late at night she knocks on my door
She's drunk again and looking to score

Now I know I should say "No"
But that's kind of hard when she's ready to go
I may be dumb but I'm not a dweeb
I'm just a sucker with no self esteem

When she's saying that she wants only me
Then I wonder why she sleeps with my friends
When she's saying that I'm like a disease
Then I wonder how much more I can spend
Well, I guess I should stick up for myself
But I really think it's better this way
The more you suffer
The more it shows you really care
Right? Yeah, yeah, yeah


The Offspring "Self Esteem"

8/8/2017 9:43:01 PM Opinion on booty calls?  

Suzhi
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Quote from hippo65:
Lol...Name everything..True.
My current FWB wants to call it dating. So dating it is.


.. Dating sounds better, don't it...

8/8/2017 11:36:36 PM Opinion on booty calls?  

sadlsticsienna
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Quote from enigmaathand:
She will never admit that Feminism os the problem. If it is a race problem, I will state that.

In this case, it is not the black community causing the epidemic of broken homes.

It is Feminism.

Somehow, I think black males are profiled for this behavior without the truth of their typical situations being fully disclosed.

I have had two friends, both date black women over the years. I have NEVER witnessed any women b*tch and nag a man about how worthless he is, and what he is going to do or else, to keep her happy in the relationship, so much in my life. No offense, but if I had to go through what they did, kid or not, I would leave her a** too. Nobody deserves the constant verbal bashing those two went through over the years they dated these women.

What do you expect from blacks

Besides it isn't feminism that's to blame its men.

Don't act like you don't use the system you whine about to get booty when it suits you

8/9/2017 6:19:11 AM Opinion on booty calls?  

hippo65
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Quote from Suzhi:
.. Dating sounds better, don't it...

I don't know..That sounds serious..Like you date for awhile then get down on your knees.
To propose..And that just not going to happen, I told her that. Hope she believes me.

8/9/2017 6:52:52 AM Opinion on booty calls?  
2times2many
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I don't believe in booty calls. Ain't no one getting sht. Except that one guy, the greatest man who ever walked on the face of the planet earth, ever of all time.

8/9/2017 7:09:43 PM Opinion on booty calls?  

lucky_1million
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Quote from hippo65:
I don't know..That sounds serious..Like you date for awhile then get down on your knees.
To propose..And that just not going to happen, I told her that. Hope she believes me.



IDK...If I am dating someone who I knows WANTS more... like to be in a relationship when I don't want to, I usually cut them free even if I like them a lot and would like to continue being just friends.

8/9/2017 7:22:39 PM Opinion on booty calls?  
_april67
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Quote from hippo65:
I don't know..That sounds serious..Like you date for awhile then get down on your knees.
To propose..And that just not going to happen, I told her that. Hope she believes me.

Dating someone doesn't have to lead to marriage.

8/9/2017 7:25:43 PM Opinion on booty calls?  

xman379
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Quote from sadlsticsienna:What do you expect from blacks

Ok, I know I said that I feel most (not all) American black people are lazy & self destructive, but YOU'RE suggesting ALL black people are inferior or worthless. I come from a black family, so even though I'm not particularly close to them, it is still offensive to me when white people disparages ALL black people, especially when white people control the world right now and it's the worst it's ever been in terms of world peace.

I could ask "what other than death and destruction can one expect from white people?"

8/9/2017 7:51:37 PM Opinion on booty calls?  

enigmaathand
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Quote from sadlsticsienna:
What do you expect from blacks

Besides it isn't feminism that's to blame its men.

Don't act like you don't use the system you whine about to get booty when it suits you
You forgot one very important aspect, of my involvement with the "system" in place:

I am NOT increasing the number of single mothers, in this world.

I am upfront about what my interests are, and don't beat around the bush.

Feminism tells women, they don't need a man to he in their family, so they go get knocked up and buy into the bullshit lies, then turn around and learn some hard, life lessons.


Thanks to Feminism teaching them how to blame men, for everything, they refuse to acknowledge their own choice brought them to the plight they find themselves in.


And what happens? Oh, Big Brother comes to the rescue by stealing my money(that I work for) and handing it to them for free.

8/9/2017 10:24:56 PM Opinion on booty calls?  

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Quote from xman379:
Quote from sadlsticsienna:What do you expect from blacks

Ok, I know I said that I feel most (not all) American black people are lazy & self destructive, but YOU'RE suggesting ALL black people are inferior or worthless. I come from a black family, so even though I'm not particularly close to them, it is still offensive to me when white people disparages ALL black people, especially when white people control the world right now and it's the worst it's ever been in terms of world peace.

I could ask "what other than death and destruction can one expect from white people?"



Right not all blacks lazy

8/9/2017 10:46:50 PM Opinion on booty calls?  

dejavugirl
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Nobody takes a booty call seriously...only if it gets exclusive. Decent people don't hide in the shadows...Decent people take their dates to dinners, public places, enjoy each other's company, family reunions, before getting in any sexual encounter.

8/10/2017 4:14:09 AM Opinion on booty calls?  
Mercedes_3
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I work too hard on my arse to just give it away.

8/10/2017 6:13:30 AM Opinion on booty calls?  

hippo65
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Quote from lucky_1million:
IDK...If I am dating someone who I knows WANTS more... like to be in a relationship when I don't want to, I usually cut them free even if I like them a lot and would like to continue being just friends.

It's complicated for sure. But I think she just doesn't like to be called my FWB.
Not like that's how I would introduce her.

Dating someone doesn't have to lead to marriage.
How much you willing to bet that she'll mention marriage in six months?..If we are still seeing each other.


8/10/2017 8:18:04 AM Opinion on booty calls?  

sadlsticsienna
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8/10/2017 8:19:09 AM Opinion on booty calls?  

sadlsticsienna
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Quote from enigmaathand:
You forgot one very important aspect, of my involvement with the "system" in place:

I am NOT increasing the number of single mothers, in this world.

I am upfront about what my interests are, and don't beat around the bush.

Feminism tells women, they don't need a man to he in their family, so they go get knocked up and buy into the bullshit lies, then turn around and learn some hard, life lessons.


Thanks to Feminism teaching them how to blame men, for everything, they refuse to acknowledge their own choice brought them to the plight they find themselves in.


And what happens? Oh, Big Brother comes to the rescue by stealing my money(that I work for) and handing it to them for free.

Enigma you are perpetuating the issue of no one being worth anything