Moving on, with out closure

8/20/2017 10:11:06 AM	Moving on, with out closure
Russsign New York, NY 41, joined Jul. 2017	How do you handle having to move on from a person you cared for? Knowing you can never speak again but having no closure at all.... Any ideas Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
8/20/2017 10:12:32 AM	Moving on, with out closure
missamicable Austin, TX 83, joined Jul. 2014 online now!	Time heals all wounds.
8/20/2017 10:27:47 AM	Moving on, with out closure
Russsign New York, NY 41, joined Jul. 2017	Does it? Or is that just what people say? Life goes on, I get that but some people are irreplaceable and with many open ends, questions will never be answered.... Thank you tho
8/20/2017 10:55:11 AM	Moving on, with out closure
Stopsign_01 Londres Argentina 26, joined Feb. 2017	“Closure /kloZH?r/ Noun 1. The thing women tell you what they want, but secretly they really want you to tell them why you don’t want them again, so they can try one last time to convince you that you were wrong. 2. The warped mentality that having someone tell you honestly why they don’t want you is going to somehow make you feel peace, so you can move on. 3. The neat packaging of finishing conversations because you have been stewing over it insecurely about the length of what a stalker does. 4. The one thing women don’t give themselves because if they didn’t care about the jerk they wouldn’t still be hanging onto another conversation that tells them what they already know: He just isn’t that interested in you. 5. The anal retentive art of perfecting every ending with meaning, rather than just excepting you went through something rather sucky and he doesn’t care. 6. The act of closing something with someone, when in reality you should slam the door.” --Shannon L. Alder Translation: There's no such thing as closure I never believed in closure. It's little more than a false psychological concept. Something invented by therapists to assuage white Western guilt. Let's just call it what it really is.....needing “closure.” You need revenge. You need distance. Perhaps forgivenesses and a good lawyer, but never closure. Oftentimes people mistake suicide, murder, lap band surgery, interracial marriage, and overtipping for closure, when in reality what they’ve achieved is erasure..... Close the fking door and move the fk on...... [Edited 8/20/2017 10:57:37 AM ]
8/20/2017 10:57:10 AM	Moving on, with out closure
sparks_01 Ocala, FL 97, joined Feb. 2017	forgive,let go of negatives concentrate on the positives if you miss them,give it time true friends look past that they will make contact again... theres good in everyone we spoke of this yesterday
8/20/2017 10:58:53 AM	Moving on, with out closure
sparks_01 Ocala, FL 97, joined Feb. 2017	Quote from Stopsign_01: “Closure /kloZH?r/ Noun 1. The thing women tell you what they want, but secretly they really want you to tell them why you don’t want them again, so they can try one last time to convince you that you were wrong. 2. The warped mentality that having someone tell you honestly why they don’t want you is going to somehow make you feel peace, so you can move on. 3. The neat packaging of finishing conversations because you have been stewing over it insecurely about the length of what a stalker does. 4. The one thing women don’t give themselves because if they didn’t care about the jerk they wouldn’t still be hanging onto another conversation that tells them what they already know: He just isn’t that interested in you. 5. The anal retentive art of perfecting every ending with meaning, rather than just excepting you went through something rather sucky and he doesn’t care. 6. The act of closing something with someone, when in reality you should slam the door.” --Shannon L. Alder Translation: There's no such thing as closure I never believed in closure. It's little more than a false psychological concept. Something invented by therapists to assuage white Western guilt. Let's just call it what it really is.....needing “closure.” You need revenge. You need distance. Perhaps forgivenesses and a good lawyer, but never closure. Oftentimes people mistake suicide, murder, lap band surgery, interracial marriage, and overtipping for closure, when in reality what they’ve achieved is erasure..... Close the fking door and move the fk on...... never close the door on anyone you truly care about
8/20/2017 11:00:06 AM	Moving on, with out closure
playingindirt Eugene, OR 61, joined Mar. 2014	walk around feeling lost and vulnerable until you get a handle on it. there are no magic remedies. whether you like it or not it takes time to regroup emotionally after a break up. [Edited 8/20/2017 11:03:02 AM ]
8/20/2017 11:07:22 AM	Moving on, with out closure
Stopsign_01 Londres Argentina 26, joined Feb. 2017	Quote from sparks_01: never close the door on anyone you truly care about The difference between my darkness and your darkness is that I can look at my own badness in the face and accept its existence while you are busy covering your mirror with a white linen sheet. The difference between my sins and your sins is that when I sin I know I'm sinning while you have actually fallen prey to your own fabricated illusions....
8/20/2017 11:07:49 AM	Moving on, with out closure
Russsign New York, NY 41, joined Jul. 2017	Quote from Stopsign_01: “Closure /kloZH?r/ Noun 1. The thing women tell you what they want, but secretly they really want you to tell them why you don’t want them again, so they can try one last time to convince you that you were wrong. 2. The warped mentality that having someone tell you honestly why they don’t want you is going to somehow make you feel peace, so you can move on. 3. The neat packaging of finishing conversations because you have been stewing over it insecurely about the length of what a stalker does. 4. The one thing women don’t give themselves because if they didn’t care about the jerk they wouldn’t still be hanging onto another conversation that tells them what they already know: He just isn’t that interested in you. 5. The anal retentive art of perfecting every ending with meaning, rather than just excepting you went through something rather sucky and he doesn’t care. 6. The act of closing something with someone, when in reality you should slam the door.” --Shannon L. Alder Translation: There's no such thing as closure I never believed in closure. It's little more than a false psychological concept. Something invented by therapists to assuage white Western guilt. Let's just call it what it really is.....needing “closure.” You need revenge. You need distance. Perhaps forgivenesses and a good lawyer, but never closure. Oftentimes people mistake suicide, murder, lap band surgery, interracial marriage, and overtipping for closure, when in reality what they’ve achieved is erasure..... Close the fking door and move the fk on...... Yeah number 5 is close, though it's a bit different than that but that's exactly what I'm trying to do, successful thus far. Thanks
8/20/2017 11:10:07 AM	Moving on, with out closure
Russsign New York, NY 41, joined Jul. 2017	Quote from sparks_01: forgive,let go of negatives concentrate on the positives if you miss them,give it time true friends look past that they will make contact again... theres good in everyone we spoke of this yesterday Somethings can't be rectified. Somethings for your own good you can never look passed and forgive and forget. Some people go too far even for me
8/20/2017 11:11:52 AM	Moving on, with out closure
sillylaugher61 Murrysville, PA 55, joined Aug. 2011	well I have a son that I have had no contact with in about a handful of years. It really hurts if you allow yourself to dwell on about the situation.
8/20/2017 11:16:45 AM	Moving on, with out closure
Russsign New York, NY 41, joined Jul. 2017	Quote from playingindirt: walk around feeling lost and vulnerable until you get a handle on it. there are no magic remedies. whether you like it or not it takes time to regroup emotionally after a break up. It wasn't a break up, break up...just someone I care for who I trusted and thought we were close, crossing a line I can't forgive tho I wish I could
8/20/2017 11:16:53 AM	Moving on, with out closure
sadlsticsienna AñatuyaNew South Wales Australia 25, joined Jan. 2016	Think about all the bad things about them and how they aren't good for you anyway etc
8/20/2017 11:17:21 AM	Moving on, with out closure
sparks_01 Ocala, FL 97, joined Feb. 2017	Quote from Stopsign_01: The difference between my darkness and your darkness is that I can look at my own badness in the face and accept its existence while you are busy covering your mirror with a white linen sheet. The difference between my sins and your sins is that when I sin I know I'm sinning while you have actually fallen prey to your own fabricated illusions.... youve never taken any responsibility for your evil outbursts case in point look at the bs your posting about brenda who cares ....nobody grow up and block her instead of following her from thread to thread
8/20/2017 11:18:13 AM	Moving on, with out closure
Russsign New York, NY 41, joined Jul. 2017	Quote from sillylaugher61: well I have a son that I have had no contact with in about a handful of years. It really hurts if you allow yourself to dwell on about the situation. True but I have a family and this could have hurt them, me....I'm unsure how innocent it was and I will surely never find out
8/20/2017 11:18:20 AM	Moving on, with out closure
sinceresammy Dayton, OH 62, joined Mar. 2014	Quote from Russsign: How do you handle having to move on from a person you cared for? Knowing you can never speak again but having no closure at all.... Any ideas You are kind of vague. Why did you move on? Did he drop dead? If he did, you have your closure. If he didn't, your closure is probably contained within the circumstances of the breakup. Too much lifetime is wasted looking for answers or not accepting the obvious.
8/20/2017 11:21:07 AM	Moving on, with out closure
sparks_01 Ocala, FL 97, joined Feb. 2017	Quote from sinceresammy: You are kind of vague. Too much lifetime is wasted looking for answers or not accepting the obvious. i think we all mull things over,,at times morning sammy
8/20/2017 11:27:04 AM	Moving on, with out closure
sinceresammy Dayton, OH 62, joined Mar. 2014	Afternoon Sparky.
8/20/2017 11:41:44 AM	Moving on, with out closure
Stopsign_01 Londres Argentina 26, joined Feb. 2017	Quote from sparks_01: youve never taken any responsibility for your evil outbursts case in point look at the bs your posting about brenda who cares ....nobody grow up and block her instead of following her from thread to thread As expected you've completely missed the point Not that anyone here expected you to apply your standards to yourself...... It's only wrong when it's not you doing it.....right Go kiss the a** of someone who might respond....unlike you I don't spend my life flip flopping... Heather.... While you seem to continually fall for this losers bs at least you're real and consistent.....
8/20/2017 11:46:13 AM	Moving on, with out closure
sparks_01 Ocala, FL 97, joined Feb. 2017	must you turn every thread into your pathetic stalking bs yawns
8/20/2017 1:03:09 PM	Moving on, with out closure
easttowest72 Bremen, GA 45, joined Sep. 2014	If he is dead piss on his grave. If he is still alive, don't worry he will be back.
8/20/2017 1:56:00 PM	Moving on, with out closure
Russsign New York, NY 41, joined Jul. 2017	Quote from sinceresammy: You are kind of vague. Why did you move on? Did he drop dead? If he did, you have your closure. If he didn't, your closure is probably contained within the circumstances of the breakup. Too much lifetime is wasted looking for answers or not accepting the obvious. I try very hard not to give too many details in my life any more here. It has been twisted and used against me one too many times...I know it's tough with our knowing the story Sorry sin
8/20/2017 2:20:28 PM	Moving on, with out closure
queennawty Middlesex United Kingdom 45, joined Oct. 2015	Depends is it someone who you were with physically or someone you wanted. And on the relationship some relationships are better coming to an end. And ohh Bahahahaha sooo we meet again my nemesis [Edited 8/20/2017 2:21:11 PM ]
8/20/2017 2:23:55 PM	Moving on, with out closure
Russsign New York, NY 41, joined Jul. 2017	"Heather.... While you seem to continually fall for this losers bs at least you're real and consistent" It wasn't really like that. I have a problem of overlooking very obvious flaws in people because I see something in them I feel outweighs the flaws. So I often am disappointed and hurt by others but I have no one to blame but myself. I am overly forgiving because everyone makes mistakes and I can accept that we are all human. I look at the issue at hand through their eyes and often can see where the miscommunication came in, I then evaluate the damage done and if what they mean to me outweighs the problem, I forgive. I love my friends and to others it seems that, especially here, that I allow my friends to treat me poorly but you see about 2% of what they are to me. Using sparks as an example....we have a blast talking on the phone. She knows my friends and family and have spoken to them and visa Versa. She has such a huge heart, she is so giving, she is so thoughtful of me....never forgetting,me on holidays and birthdays. Do I call her on those days? No cuz I'm terrible at that but she never gets mad about it.she has helped me through things that none of you would ever understand and she cared when no one else in my entire life did. We worry about each other if we haven't heard from one another in a day or two. I NEED her as my friend. I NEED her in my life. I love her to death.this has nothing to do with forums or dh or anyone else. I don't need backing here, she and I barely speak of this place....I NEED her because she has become my sister and that will never change
8/20/2017 2:26:54 PM	Moving on, with out closure
Russsign New York, NY 41, joined Jul. 2017	Oh my wise little nawty nemesis lol He was a very close friend love
8/20/2017 2:28:41 PM	Moving on, with out closure
korbyn Bat Cave, NC 98, joined Jun. 2013	Quote from Russsign: How do you handle having to move on from a person you cared for? Knowing you can never speak again but having no closure at all.... Any ideas Is this about Jake?
8/20/2017 2:29:49 PM	Moving on, with out closure
_april67 San Antonio, TX 50, joined Jun. 2017	It takes time. Over time I move on.
8/20/2017 2:30:58 PM	Moving on, with out closure
Russsign New York, NY 41, joined Jul. 2017	Quote from korbyn: Is this about Jake? Haha haha no honey. Its not a person from dh
8/20/2017 2:33:27 PM	Moving on, with out closure
_april67 San Antonio, TX 50, joined Jun. 2017	Quote from Russsign: Does it? Or is that just what people say? Life goes on, I get that but some people are irreplaceable and with many open ends, questions will never be answered.... Thank you tho It is something people say, but time does truly help for many. It takes more time for some than for others. And for some people time may not help & they never really get over it or heal.
8/20/2017 2:37:29 PM	Moving on, with out closure
legaleye Columbus, OH 65, joined Mar. 2008	This is actually a more serious reply, but when I have to disassociate from someone, especially someone close to me, I remember the song, Roy Clark singing "Thank God And Greyhound" (you're gone). Closure is one of those things that may or may not have a real meaning. Since you havent discussed details, sometimes it is just best to let them go on down the road and move on. This comes home to roost when you start second guessing yourself about what you may have done wrong. Doesnt matter. It becomes a learning experience and you take the new knowledge, incorporate it into your life and make your life better. You can also consider that the triggering event that caused a breakup, loss of a friend, etc. would have eventually happened anyway, often from a lack of a foundation for the relationship. If you truly were close with someone, I truly think you can get past most anything and be stronger for it as a couple. But people today dont take the time to cement relationships and live sound bite to sound bite, and run at the first sign of trouble. Good luck.
8/20/2017 2:37:55 PM	Moving on, with out closure
Stopsign_01 Londres Argentina 26, joined Feb. 2017	Quote from Russsign: "Heather.... While you seem to continually fall for this losers bs at least you're real and consistent" It wasn't really like that. I have a problem of overlooking very obvious flaws in people because I see something in them I feel outweighs the flaws. So I often am disappointed and hurt by others but I have no one to blame but myself. I am overly forgiving because everyone makes mistakes and I can accept that we are all human. I look at the issue at hand through their eyes and often can see where the miscommunication came in, I then evaluate the damage done and if what they mean to me outweighs the problem, I forgive. I love my friends and to others it seems that, especially here, that I allow my friends to treat me poorly but you see about 2% of what they are to me. Using sparks as an example....we have a blast talking on the phone. She knows my friends and family and have spoken to them and visa Versa. She has such a huge heart, she is so giving, she is so thoughtful of me....never forgetting,me on holidays and birthdays. Do I call her on those days? No cuz I'm terrible at that but she never gets mad about it.she has helped me through things that none of you would ever understand and she cared when no one else in my entire life did. We worry about each other if we haven't heard from one another in a day or two. I NEED her as my friend. I NEED her in my life. I love her to death.this has nothing to do with forums or dh or anyone else. I don't need backing here, she and I barely speak of this place....I NEED her because she has become my sister and that will never change Okie Dokie We've read her posts about you.....bad mother/drug addict/slut/abortions/coke head/DUI's/passed out while on the phone with her, kids in the backgroun/ ambien/sex with anyone/liar/cheater/in and out of "syche" wards(her misspelling ).....too much deplorable shit to even mention in its totality here.... Man have your friends mistreated you if all that.....which we've ALL WITNESSED here first hand.....is considered a "sister" .......but I digress We'll wait patiently, because we're all certain she'll be blowing your shit up here in public again shortly......like clockwork How very sorry I feel for someone like you who considers that kind of public abuse something they're worthy of. Like Stockholm Syndrome......she manipulates you like a puppet and shits all over you here for our entertainment Says a lot about both of you
8/20/2017 2:43:46 PM	Moving on, with out closure
anglicus_femina Staffordshire United Kingdom 43, joined May. 2016	You form your own closure eventually. By not having contact with the person and time. Once you've passed all the emotional pain that is.
8/20/2017 3:02:54 PM	Moving on, with out closure
Stopsign_01 Londres Argentina 26, joined Feb. 2017	Stockholm Syndrome (SS) can also be found in family, romantic, and interpersonal relationships. The abuser may be a husband or wife, boyfriend or girlfriend, father or mother, or any other role in which the abuser is in a position of control or authority. It’s important to understand the components of Stockholm Syndrome as they relate to abusive and controlling relationships. Once the syndrome is understood, it’s easier to understand why victims support, love, and even defend their abusers and controllers. Every syndrome has symptoms or behaviors and Stockholm Syndrome is no exception. While a clear-cut list has not been established due to varying opinions by researchers and experts, several of these features will be present: Positive feelings by the victim toward the abuser/controller Negative feelings by the victim toward family, friends, or authorities trying to rescue/support them or win their release Support of the abuser’s reasons and behaviors Positive feelings by the abuser toward the victim Supportive behaviors by the victim, at times helping the abuser Inability to engage in behaviors that may assist in their release or detachment The “Small Kindness” Perception In threatening and survival situations, we look for evidence of hope – a small sign that the situation may improve. When an abuser/controller shows the victim some small kindness, even though it is to the abusers benefit as well, the victim interprets that small kindness as a positive trait of the captor. In criminal/war hostage situations, letting the victim live is often enough. Small behaviors, such as allowing a bathroom visit or providing food/water, are enough to strengthen the Stockholm Syndrome in criminal hostage events. In relationships with abusers, a birthday card, a gift (usually provided after a period of abuse), or a special treat are interpreted as not only positive, but evidence that the abuser is not “all bad” and may at some time correct his/her behavior. Abusers and controllers are often given positive credit for not abusing their partner, when the partner would have normally been subjected to verbal or physical abuse in a certain situation. An aggressive and jealous partner may normally become intimidating or abusive in certain social situations, as when an opposite-sex coworker waves in a crowd. After seeing the wave, the victim expects to be verbally battered and when it doesn’t happen, that “small kindness” is interpreted as a positive sign. Isolation from Perspectives Other than those of the Captor In abusive and controlling relationships, the victim has the sense they are always “walking on eggshells” – fearful of saying or doing anything that might prompt a violent/intimidating outburst. For their survival, they begin to see the world through the abuser’s perspective. They begin to fix things that might prompt an outburst, act in ways they know makes the abuser happy, or avoid aspects of their own life that may prompt a problem. If we only have a dollar in our pocket, then most of our decisions become financial decisions. If our partner is an abuser or controller, then the majority of our decisions are based on our perception of the abuser’s potential reaction. We become preoccupied with the needs, desires, and habits of the abuser/controller. Perhaps educate yourself as to why you feel you don't deserve better than what we've witnessed......Facebook alerts you of your "friends" birthdays and other important events.....we all know Sparks spends an excessive amount of time on social media and this among other forums.... http://drjoecarver.makeswebsites.com/clients/49355/File/love_and_stockholm_syndrome.html It's your life......but I wouldn't treat an animal the way we've seen her treat you. I'm guessing in private it's most likely far worse than you'll admit to...yourself anyhow
8/20/2017 3:05:30 PM	Moving on, with out closure
Russsign New York, NY 41, joined Jul. 2017	Quote from legaleye: This is actually a more serious reply, but when I have to disassociate from someone, especially someone close to me, I remember the song, Roy Clark singing "Thank God And Greyhound" (you're gone). Closure is one of those things that may or may not have a real meaning. Since you havent discussed details, sometimes it is just best to let them go on down the road and move on. This comes home to roost when you start second guessing yourself about what you may have done wrong. Doesnt matter. It becomes a learning experience and you take the new knowledge, incorporate it into your life and make your life better. You can also consider that the triggering event that caused a breakup, loss of a friend, etc. would have eventually happened anyway, often from a lack of a foundation for the relationship. If you truly were close with someone, I truly think you can get past most anything and be stronger for it as a couple. But people today dont take the time to cement relationships and live sound bite to sound bite, and run at the first sign of trouble. Good luck. Thank you. I was just trying to throw the idea of it out there and see how others have dealt with it. I have never before in my life regarding friends or boyfriends had a situation with no closure at all...its eating at me yet it was my choice and will remain my choice, so unsure why it is eating me up
8/20/2017 3:16:58 PM	Moving on, with out closure
Russsign New York, NY 41, joined Jul. 2017	Quote from Stopsign_01: Okie Dokie We've read her posts about you.....bad mother/drug addict/slut/abortions/coke head/DUI's/passed out while on the phone with her, kids in the backgroun/ ambien/sex with anyone/liar/cheater/in and out of "syche" wards(her misspelling ).....too much deplorable shit to even mention in its totality here.... Man have your friends mistreated you if all that.....which we've ALL WITNESSED here first hand.....is considered a "sister" .......but I digress We'll wait patiently, because we're all certain she'll be blowing your shit up here in public again shortly......like clockwork How very sorry I feel for someone like you who considers that kind of public abuse something they're worthy of. Like Stockholm Syndrome......she manipulates you like a puppet and shits all over you here for our entertainment Says a lot about both of you Very few of my friends in my life have mistreated me actually. I am very good friend and pride myself on being such. I never just turn my back in a friend for any reason which is why this whole thing is killing me inside. Why do I care what ANYONE says on forums about me? There has been much worse said of me and to me by many of the same posters who try to convince me how "terrible" sparks has been. She says all that untrue shit, well aware I don't care what people think of me here when she knows every detail of the truth. Do you think lies or the truth would have hurt me more? She was merely one example of many friends I have had here over the years but since she is always your main focus that was the example I chose. I have had many friends, most since the age of three. I'm not desperate for them and I like being a loner anyway but when I come in contact with an individual who can stand on their own two feet, that don't just "yes" me to death , that I can lean on and they can share the same way with me, admit their faults and accept mine, give more than they take as I do, can understand my sarcasm,and my obscure humor and a person that I never have to feel like I have to be anything other than myself around....I keep that person around
8/20/2017 3:19:31 PM	Moving on, with out closure
4uijack New Port Richey, FL 82, joined Aug. 2013	May I get another blowjob, OP?
8/20/2017 3:22:45 PM	Moving on, with out closure
Russsign New York, NY 41, joined Jul. 2017	She has "shit on me" a handful of times I can only think of few people here that have not. She DOESNT manipulate me, she sometimes unknowingly may try but it doesn't phase me as she well knows. She makes her own decisions as do I. The people I have not liked here I had my very own reasons. I am friends with many now she doesn't like, it changes nothing. Actually the only people that change are those that have a problem with HER. Every friend no matter how close recieves the same respect from me as every other friend. Whether sparks likes them or not I do not share things about them with her, nor does she expect me to. I would love to see one time this "supposed manipulation" has in any way manipulated me EVER
8/20/2017 3:22:55 PM	Moving on, with out closure
uber_goober Danielsville, GA 51, joined May. 2016	I'm sorry doll. It's tough I know. It's been done to me a few times and I have been guilty of it twice myself. There's nothing for it but to keep your chin up and continue with life. Other more pressing responsibilities always seem to fill the vacuum given enough time.
8/20/2017 3:31:30 PM	Moving on, with out closure
Stopsign_01 Londres Argentina 26, joined Feb. 2017	Quote from Russsign: Very few of my friends in my life have mistreated me actually. I am very good friend and pride myself on being such. I never just turn my back in a friend for any reason which is why this whole thing is killing me inside. Why do I care what ANYONE says on forums about me? There has been much worse said of me and to me by many of the same posters who try to convince me how "terrible" sparks has been. She says all that untrue shit, well aware I don't care what people think of me here when she knows every detail of the truth. Do you think lies or the truth would have hurt me more? ......(quite possibly the saddest yet most revealing thing I've seen posted by you) She was merely one example of many friends I have had here over the years but since she is always your main focus that was the example I chose. I have had many friends, most since the age of three. I'm not desperate for them and I like being a loner anyway but when I come in contact with an individual who can stand on their own two feet, that don't just "yes" me to death , that I can lean on and they can share the same way with me, admit their faults and accept mine, give more than they take as I do, can understand my sarcasm,and my obscure humor and a person that I never have to feel like I have to be anything other than myself around....I keep that person around Lies don't end relationships the truth does.......
8/20/2017 3:50:39 PM	Moving on, with out closure
Stopsign_01 Londres Argentina 26, joined Feb. 2017
8/20/2017 3:53:08 PM	Moving on, with out closure
vanilla_cream2 Philadelphia, PA 41, joined Sep. 2014	(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
8/20/2017 3:54:34 PM	Moving on, with out closure
sparks_01 Ocala, FL 97, joined Feb. 2017	Lies don't end relationships the truth does....... very true ,you wouldnt know truth if the truth hit you in the face look at the stupid memes and articles you post about me total obsession you spend all day creating more bs to back up your original bs.
8/20/2017 3:55:41 PM	Moving on, with out closure
sparks_01 Ocala, FL 97, joined Feb. 2017	Quote from Stopsign_01: or just block your rancid malice towards others
8/20/2017 4:02:34 PM	Moving on, with out closure
Stopsign_01 Londres Argentina 26, joined Feb. 2017	Quote from sparks_01: or just block your rancid malice towards others Does this mean you don't wanna be my friend any more [Edited 8/20/2017 4:03:40 PM ]
8/20/2017 4:08:51 PM	Moving on, with out closure
lovethelake17 Henderson, NV 58, joined May. 2009	I agree with Sammy. Too much lifetime is wasted looking for answers. Sometimes you don't get them. One of my favorite quotes and one I refer to often is "do not seek the answers that cannot be given you. You are not ready so rather live your life into the answers." That's roughly paraphrased. It's by Rilke if you want to lol it up. But did I understand you correctly? This person crossed the line and could harm your family? Why is there need for closure? It is your decision to end it, right? I'd be worrying more about why I was so conflicted about it rather than needing some kind of reason for finality.
8/20/2017 4:09:24 PM	Moving on, with out closure
Mercedes_3 New South Wales Australia 90, joined Jun. 2016	(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
8/20/2017 4:10:23 PM	Moving on, with out closure
sparks_01 Ocala, FL 97, joined Feb. 2017	Quote from Stopsign_01: Does this mean you don't wanna be my friend any more i was never your friend whatsoever.. that was a stupid meme.. why do some of your memes follow the same patterns of blowing them up and adding same effects as the other peoples you make.. i should have special ones,with sparks and fireworks god knows i fire you up
8/20/2017 4:13:20 PM	Moving on, with out closure
sparks_01 Ocala, FL 97, joined Feb. 2017	A little angel told me theres a novel in the making
8/20/2017 4:20:49 PM	Moving on, with out closure
Russsign New York, NY 41, joined Jul. 2017	Quote from uber_goober: I'm sorry doll. It's tough I know. It's been done to me a few times and I have been guilty of it twice myself. There's nothing for it but to keep your chin up and continue with life. Other more pressing responsibilities always seem to fill the vacuum given enough time. Thank you doober...im baking cupcakes and Ziti and a whole bunch of crap for the 7 gremlins eating here tonight but I will get back to you shortly [Edited 8/20/2017 4:21:01 PM ]
8/20/2017 4:28:39 PM	Moving on, with out closure
Russsign New York, NY 41, joined Jul. 2017	Quote from Mercedes_3: Shut the fk up you demented DH dirty slut!~ You're a user and unless some stupid following sap kisses your a and agrees with your every low class, man btch self, immature, unintelligent, half assed Australian slang insult against another, you are a total cnt to them with out provocation. You HATE AND OBSESS over sparks, FK YOU! I am so fking glad your wanna-be, but too ugly to be a whre ass, does hate me; it means I'm doing something f*king right
8/20/2017 4:32:06 PM	Moving on, with out closure
Stopsign_01 Londres Argentina 26, joined Feb. 2017	Quote from sparks_01: i was never your friend whatsoever.. that was a stupid meme.. why do some of your memes follow the same patterns of blowing them up and adding same effects as the other peoples you make.. i should have special ones,with sparks and fireworks god knows i fire you up Awwww......you a little butt hurt there Mullett?? It must be humiliating for you.... groveling at my feet only to be rejected.....again Of course I'm like the sixth person here within two weeks to tell you to f**k off after you tried kissing their asses.. But still, it's gottta hurt....poor thing You feel free to subdue your pain by following me from thread to thread making lame bs posts until you block me again. [Edited 8/20/2017 4:32:44 PM ]
8/20/2017 4:35:01 PM	Moving on, with out closure
eyesofmedusa San Antonio, TX 53, joined Jun. 2012	No such thing as closure.. You just move forward...
8/20/2017 4:35:23 PM	Moving on, with out closure
sparks_01 Ocala, FL 97, joined Feb. 2017	Quote from Stopsign_01: Awwww......you a little butt hurt there Mullett?? It must be humiliating for you.... groveling at my feet only to be rejected.....again Of course I'm like the sixth person here within two weeks to tell you to f**k off after you tried kissing their asses.. But still, it's gottta hurt....poor thing You feel free to subdue your pain by following me from thread to thread making lame bs posts until you block me again. groveling i could care less what you post. nobody here cares either you post the bs on a site with 10 known members its not like you got a huge fan base
8/20/2017 4:37:22 PM	Moving on, with out closure
Russsign New York, NY 41, joined Jul. 2017	Really Stop sign? 6 huh? Name them.... I know you can't cuz for some reason you feel,this inherent urge to lie about others here backing a claim,you could easily state as an individual opinion, have just as little impact as you do now seeing invisible unknown profiles are not taken seriously, and maybe not look like a total liar who can't back up their statements
8/20/2017 4:38:04 PM	Moving on, with out closure
sparks_01 Ocala, FL 97, joined Feb. 2017	Quote from Russsign: You're a user and unless some stupid following sap kisses your a** and agrees with your every low class, man btch self, immature, unintelligent, half assed Australian slang insult against another, you are a total cnt to them with out provocation. You HATE AND OBSESS over sparks, FK YOU! I am so fking glad your wanna-be, but too ugly to be a whre ass, does hate me; it means I'm doing something f*king right i like the way uou expressed that very dignified merc is charles bronson in tights practicing to be a ballerina a few southern comforts she'll be postin the video on you tube
8/20/2017 4:47:50 PM	Moving on, with out closure
Stopsign_01 Londres Argentina 26, joined Feb. 2017	Oh no!!!! Mullett said no one likes me @heather Goth Yets Sherri Stan Blue Queen Lsu Mva Mrzipzip Iam_ Brenda Mike.......there are more...but these are the first who come to mind Even medusa hinted at being beyond tired of her bs [Edited 8/20/2017 4:49:37 PM ]
8/20/2017 4:47:58 PM	Moving on, with out closure
Russsign New York, NY 41, joined Jul. 2017	Thank you. She needs a new career/hobby/life...what good is being in shape and working out just to sit on this website the rest of the time, looking like some ugly human Gumby....
8/20/2017 4:50:32 PM	Moving on, with out closure
stanleyzee Dayton, OH 60, joined Dec. 2012	Z
8/20/2017 4:51:00 PM	Moving on, with out closure
Russsign New York, NY 41, joined Jul. 2017	In the last two weeks huh? Goth Yets-didn't happen Sherri -didn't happen Queen-didn't happen Lsu- no idea Mva -didn't happen Mrzipzip -not been around and have each other blocked. Didn't happen Brenda - no idea Mike-didn't f**king happen Oh and if I'm wrong please post the screen shots from the last two weeks of them rejecting her kissing their asses
8/20/2017 4:52:26 PM	Moving on, with out closure
Mercedes_3 New South Wales Australia 90, joined Jun. 2016	Quote from Russsign: Thank you. She needs a new career/hobby/life...what good is being in shape and working out just to sit on this website the rest of the time, looking like some ugly human Gumby.... Do you think I care what you reckon? You care what I reckon because you took my advice and got ya self a set of teeth You should thank me You're no where close enough as good looking as me but hey that's because my parents genes were far superior compared to your parents genes. Take that up with your lawyer and sue the bastards I'm off now I suggest you be off and see what your kids are up to!~ Go on you can do it go on see if they need a sandwich as I'm sure they do!~ [Edited 8/20/2017 4:53:34 PM ]

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