9/3/2017 7:38:24 PM |
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ol39er
Cicero, IL
45, joined Jul. 2011
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I saw a meme shared on Facebook about ugly or unattractive people playing hard to get. In your experience in the dating world, online and otherwise, what sort of person most often plays hard to get, the more attractive or less attractive type?
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9/3/2017 7:40:09 PM |
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bookwormtobutte
Rio Rancho, NM
37, joined Jan. 2016
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The narcissistic.
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9/3/2017 7:43:46 PM |
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Stopsign_01
Londres
Argentina
26, joined Feb. 2017
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The Delusional old farts who think anyone who talks to them is interesting in pursuing a relationship
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9/3/2017 7:53:00 PM |
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stl1
Saint Louis, MO
63, joined Jun. 2007
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I can be easy to get.
It all starts off with the woman sending her nekkid pics to me!
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9/3/2017 8:08:03 PM |
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ol39er
Cicero, IL
45, joined Jul. 2011
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Being a person with little tolerance for games and nonsense, I move on to other prospects the first sign of someone playing hard to get.
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9/3/2017 8:31:23 PM |
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cheep_trick
Herndon, VA
37, joined Mar. 2017
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9/3/2017 8:35:13 PM |
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pento4
Norman, OK
48, joined Mar. 2017
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i dont play hard to get,,,most peeps just dont like me
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9/3/2017 8:36:20 PM |
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ssilva_13
Central Point, OR
47, joined Apr. 2017
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Playing hard to get can provide the opportunity for both parties to observe and determine if there is potential for a serious relationship, or if the other person is just looking for a meaningless hookup and booty call.
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9/3/2017 8:40:59 PM |
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cheep_trick
Herndon, VA
37, joined Mar. 2017
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If I consider someone ugly or unattractive,
I don't consider her dateable.
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9/3/2017 8:41:57 PM |
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ssilva_13
Central Point, OR
47, joined Apr. 2017
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Some girls play hard to get because they were taught from a young age that women who are easy are slutty.
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9/3/2017 8:46:00 PM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
53, joined Jun. 2012
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Has anyone factored in the possibility that they aren't "playing" ?
They may not like the person chasing them..
They not want to be chased aka they are not dating...
Etc...
Just because another human dsnt react in the way the one chasing doesn't automatically mean they are "playing"...
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9/3/2017 8:48:56 PM |
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ssilva_13
Central Point, OR
47, joined Apr. 2017
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No we're just talking about the ones that are playing .
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9/3/2017 8:59:14 PM |
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ssilva_13
Central Point, OR
47, joined Apr. 2017
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Eyes
We could talk about the one that are not playing hard to get if you would like .
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9/3/2017 9:16:26 PM |
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stanleyzee
Dayton, OH
60, joined Dec. 2012
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I saw a meme shared on Facebook about ugly or unattractive people playing hard to get. In your experience in the dating world, online and otherwise, what sort of person most often plays hard to get, the more attractive or less attractive type?
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9/3/2017 9:17:25 PM |
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stanleyzee
Dayton, OH
60, joined Dec. 2012
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i dont play hard to get,,,most peeps just dont like me Awwwwwwwu too
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9/3/2017 9:21:07 PM |
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ssilva_13
Central Point, OR
47, joined Apr. 2017
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Has anyone factored in the possibility that they aren't "playing" ?
They may not like the person chasing them..
They not want to be chased aka they are not dating...
Etc...
Just because another human dsnt react in the way the one chasing doesn't automatically mean they are "playing"...
Eyes do you play hard to get ?!?
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9/3/2017 9:25:28 PM |
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stanleyzee
Dayton, OH
60, joined Dec. 2012
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Eyes do you play hard to get ?!?
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9/3/2017 9:25:43 PM |
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moves2mymusic
Dyfed, Wales
United Kingdom
44, joined Aug. 2017
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The narcissistic.
They are not playing though. I think the phrase playing hard to get means different things to men and women generally. But, imo it was originally coined in true affection including the heart.
A narcisist has no heart or true effection to give. They might play like they do, its that classic narisist "charm" which is all you will ever get. It never developes beyond that.if anything, i believe a narcisist plays "attainable"
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9/3/2017 9:27:34 PM |
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tearsofdiamondz
Antwerp
Belgium
59, joined Jul. 2017
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she doesn't have to, no one's interested. The looks are because of her size, nothing else.
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9/3/2017 9:29:47 PM |
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ssilva_13
Central Point, OR
47, joined Apr. 2017
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How to play hard to get is not a complicated question and it is extremely effective in gaining the attention of the person and keeping their interest. .
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9/3/2017 9:30:26 PM |
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tearsofdiamondz
Antwerp
Belgium
59, joined Jul. 2017
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I was just having to play hard to get with a guy from Craiglist in Miami, wanting to purchase what I have listed. Hour on the phone. I'm thinking, yeah, sell it, then I can marry him and wear it
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9/3/2017 10:25:00 PM |
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M4mischief
Grand Prairie, TX
99, joined May. 2016
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Not for me silva....playing any kind of games at our age is a total turn off....we're all adults and should be able to act like it and be beyond games....how about a someone who is refreshingly upfront....that's what I like....so my answer is immature people play hard to get or any other kind of game for that matter...its not dependent on looks...
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9/3/2017 10:29:03 PM |
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gdaddy47
Columbia, TN
69, joined Sep. 2009
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Who's got time for that stupid stuff? That's so "high School." Hard to get my azz. Play that crap with some little boy but never try it here.
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9/3/2017 11:25:35 PM |
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stanleyzee
Dayton, OH
60, joined Dec. 2012
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I see ugly Women with ugly husband's and they're happy.
I see pretty women with handsome husband's and they're unhappy.
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9/3/2017 11:31:53 PM |
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ssilva_13
Central Point, OR
47, joined Apr. 2017
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Not to long back a girl played hard to get with me and I played along .when I did get it, it was great a lot better then some that just give it up right away . At first I thought it was a stupid game but in the end it was exciting while it lasted .
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9/3/2017 11:34:28 PM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
53, joined Jun. 2012
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Eyes do you play hard to get ?!?
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Hmmmm....wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy back in the day ? I suppose I did.
I was raised to never be easily accessible to any man .
It was the way my parents were. No accepting of last min plans...no accepting late calls etc.
As I got older I am pretty sure it was still part of who I was. As I think of it ? Yes, I was doing that.
Last 2 bfs were after me for a longggggggggggggggg time before they actually got to date me . Or consider me "theirs"...however you want to look at it.
Now ? No, I am not "playing" anything.
I am not "getable"........done playing.
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9/3/2017 11:36:09 PM |
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ssilva_13
Central Point, OR
47, joined Apr. 2017
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Eyes
Want to take this time to apologize to you for being a d*ck.
It Won't happen again
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9/3/2017 11:37:50 PM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
53, joined Jun. 2012
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Eyes
Want to take this time to apologize to you for being a d*ck.
It Won't happen again
Well, that was unexpected..........ty Silva
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9/3/2017 11:39:09 PM |
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M4mischief
Grand Prairie, TX
99, joined May. 2016
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Sometimes...when it seems someone is playing hard to get they aren't...for instance...I can find someone attractive and then I see him with 10 different women and decide he's probably a player and not for me...so the time I give him...if at all will be very limited...simply because im not interested in dating a player...
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9/3/2017 11:39:23 PM |
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ssilva_13
Central Point, OR
47, joined Apr. 2017
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Just some change I need in my life .
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9/3/2017 11:41:17 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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I saw a meme shared on Facebook about ugly or unattractive people playing hard to get. In your experience in the dating world, online and otherwise, what sort of person most often plays hard to get, the more attractive or less attractive type?
OP -- Really?
We're you dropped on your head at birth or was the injury from the temper tantrum?
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9/3/2017 11:42:13 PM |
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stanleyzee
Dayton, OH
60, joined Dec. 2012
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LOVE/LUST is the games people LOVE to play
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9/3/2017 11:56:12 PM |
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uber_goober
Danielsville, GA
51, joined May. 2016
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Your lips may say "no-no".
But your eyes......also say "no-no".
I can certainly understand playing hard to get. It helps one decide if the other is truly interested. And on those occasions when a woman is interested in me, I'm usually about the last to realize it. So there's not so much me being hard to get so much as it is... I just don't get it.
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9/3/2017 11:56:56 PM |
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inkedandsassyy
Victoria
Australia
51, joined May. 2017
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I just tell everyone to f**k off ..its not playing hard to get its just people irritate me ..
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9/3/2017 11:58:33 PM |
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ssilva_13
Central Point, OR
47, joined Apr. 2017
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I just tell everyone to f**k off ..its not playing hard to get its just people irritate me ..
I'd like to Tie you up
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9/3/2017 11:59:13 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009
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Babes because they know they can. Or the ones who just want to "take it slow". She'll accept the first date when she's as old as my father, because she's just taking it slow. (96 by Christmas)
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9/4/2017 12:02:40 AM |
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inkedandsassyy
Victoria
Australia
51, joined May. 2017
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I'd like to Tie you up I just dont let anyone do that but hey you can think about it
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9/4/2017 12:08:56 AM |
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ssilva_13
Central Point, OR
47, joined Apr. 2017
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It's not like I would give you a choice I would just do it
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9/4/2017 12:10:30 AM |
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inkedandsassyy
Victoria
Australia
51, joined May. 2017
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It's not like I would give you a choice I would just do it
Haha well Im not a push over mate .. Id like to see you try
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9/4/2017 12:16:31 AM |
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ssilva_13
Central Point, OR
47, joined Apr. 2017
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I don't believe in "trying" I just make things happen.
Just the way I am
I'm sure you would enjoy it as much as I would...
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9/4/2017 12:18:22 AM |
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stl1
Saint Louis, MO
63, joined Jun. 2007
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Not for me silva....playing any kind of games at our age is a total turn off....we're all adults and should be able to act like it and be beyond games....how about a someone who is refreshingly upfront....that's what I like....so my answer is immature people play hard to get or any other kind of game for that matter...its not dependent on looks...
Lift up that moo-moo and take a selfie, Flirty!
Direct enough?
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9/4/2017 12:29:25 AM |
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stanleyzee
Dayton, OH
60, joined Dec. 2012
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Hey STL,
I'll send you a naked pic
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9/4/2017 12:35:41 AM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009
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Book is quite correct and it seems to me that playing hard to get is an excellent way to wind up alone. After awhile the guys forget the BABE playing hard to get and start looking for someone more willing to be caught.
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9/4/2017 12:37:10 AM |
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inkedandsassyy
Victoria
Australia
51, joined May. 2017
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I don't believe in "trying" I just make things happen.
Just the way I am
I'm sure you would enjoy it as much as I would...
lol well never know because you are way over other side if the big pond
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9/4/2017 12:38:15 AM |
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killerbugs53
Palo Cedro, CA
54, joined Oct. 2016
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this one won't even play nurse
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9/4/2017 12:38:40 AM |
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ssilva_13
Central Point, OR
47, joined Apr. 2017
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Yeah that's to bad .
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9/4/2017 12:39:12 AM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009
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Being a person with little tolerance for games and nonsense, I move on to other prospects the first sign of someone playing hard to get.
I agree. At my age you don't need the bullshit anymore. If she's interested say so, if not I'll get the message quickly and find something else to do.
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9/4/2017 12:40:56 AM |
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killerbugs53
Palo Cedro, CA
54, joined Oct. 2016
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I agree. At my age you don't need the bullshit anymore. If she's interested say so, if not I'll get the message quickly and find something else to do.
Find someone else to do
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9/4/2017 12:41:15 AM |
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ssilva_13
Central Point, OR
47, joined Apr. 2017
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anticipation is a good thing as long as it isn't to long
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9/4/2017 12:43:17 AM |
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stanleyzee
Dayton, OH
60, joined Dec. 2012
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Book is quite correct and it seems to me that playing hard to get is an excellent way to wind up alone. After awhile the guys forget the BABE playing hard to get and start looking for someone more willing to be caught.
caught many timesw/respect
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9/4/2017 12:53:54 AM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
53, joined Jun. 2012
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Just some change I need in my life .
Understood...
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9/4/2017 1:27:28 AM |
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inkedandsassyy
Victoria
Australia
51, joined May. 2017
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this one won't even play nurse
.Like I said to you
. I dont like work coming into my sex life You should have had a better imagination
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9/4/2017 1:30:56 AM |
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M4mischief
Grand Prairie, TX
99, joined May. 2016
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Lift up that moo-moo and take a selfie, Flirty!
Direct enough?
No...is that direct enough?.....
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9/4/2017 5:05:29 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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I saw a meme shared on Facebook about ugly or unattractive people playing hard to get. In your experience in the dating world, online and otherwise, what sort of person most often plays hard to get, the more attractive or less attractive type?
That is a no brainer, it is WOMEN in general. No not all women do this, but MOST will as they do not want to be see as eager or easy. They want men to work for their companionship and attention.
So, the more attractive a woman is, the more choices she has, so you will have to work harder if you want to date her. Even women that are less attractive have a choice, just maybe not who they hoped for.
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9/4/2017 6:29:34 AM |
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easttowest72
Bremen, GA
45, joined Sep. 2014
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Its a good thing to take some time and date. Moving too quickly is bad.
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9/4/2017 8:34:27 AM |
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_april67
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2017
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Who's got time for that stupid stuff? That's so "high School." Hard to get my azz. Play that crap with some little boy but never try it here.
I don't care for the games. If a man plays hard to get (& yes, some men DO), I will just think he's not interested & I will move on.
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9/4/2017 8:38:46 AM |
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wiscomatic50
Friendship, WI
52, joined Jun. 2014
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anticipation is a good thing as long as it isn't to long
Kinda like waiting for Heinz ketchup to come out of the bottle ... Anticipation
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9/4/2017 8:44:19 AM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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Wisconsin, you can assist that process, you know, by sliding a case knife/flat knife/butter knife/dinner knife into the throat of the bottle and down the inside to create an air pocket.
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9/4/2017 8:50:10 AM |
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wiscomatic50
Friendship, WI
52, joined Jun. 2014
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Damn, wish I knew that years ago..
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9/4/2017 8:59:20 AM |
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playingindirt
Eugene, OR
61, joined Mar. 2014
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no matter what you look like you should never settle for a person that's wrong for you.
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