The plain fact of the matter is that fat is a self-inflicted injury. You can choose hot men or you can choose twinkies. It is your choice and it is just as simple as that. I have read a lot of threads in a lot of forums and blogs where the fat women rationalize their weight in one way or another and give each other reasons to stay fat and tell each other it is ok to be fat. Nonsense! There is NOTHING good about being fat. It will slowly break down and destroy your body, give you diabetes in time and cause you to spend your later years crippled up and unable to have fun. Today is the first day of the rest of your life. Go to your refrigerator and throw out the twinkies, the ice cream and the leftover pizza.
Let me tell you how I have lost almost seventy pounds in the last year and a half. I met a gorgeous woman, ten years younger than me. We hit it off and got into a relationship. I looked in the mirror and with horror, I asked myself, how could anybody possibly love that. It was all it took. The fat had to go and that was that. I took up a regimen that I am still holding onto and still losing weight with. My girlfriend is gone now, but I am still doing it for myself. During the five-day work week, I eat no fat, only fruit, vegetables and absolutely lean small portions of fish or other extremely low-fat meats. On the weekends I let myself eat whatever I want in whatever amount I want. This causes me to gain back a bit of what I lost over the week, but it strengthens the ability to stay on the diet because I always have something to look forward to rather than just continuous and constant starvation. Do this and you will lose your weight and you will be happy and feel great. Men will flock to you like flies to spilled yogurt. Oh, I forgot the other part of my regiment. Every day during the five-day work week, I do 100 situps, 100 pushups and 100 arm curls with a heavy 4 ft 4x4. All the exercises are done in increments of 25.
Trust me. You can do this. You can change your life and be a real babe rather than sitting around wondering why men don't like fat chicks. You are young and pretty. If you do not do something, you are suddenly going to realize that you are 60 yrs old, still fat and still unhappy. Come on. Just do it! Keep a chart and weigh yourself every day and let us know how you are doing.

Girl, I don't think it has anything to do with weight. That might be their excuse...but I am beginning to think men have forgotten the art of pursuing and fear rejection so badly that they set the chain of events in motion so it comes to an end before it ever begins.

And then there are the women (not all because I don't) who are demanding, overbearing and emasculating to their men making them feel worthless. Men mistakenly think we all must be like that. Why not? It's played out to death in TV sitcoms where the wife bullies the husband who always acts like a snivling little boy.

THOSE types of women mixed with men that fear rejection so badly they wont even send a simple hello email (or don't know HOW to approach a woman) ....leave you and I wondering what the hells wrong with us. When in fact, nothing is.

but one thing I can say from bbw to bbw is that as long as you own it.... you'll have it

I'd rather have a girl with some meat. Too skinny is gross.

when my self esteem was at its lowest,,i would do fatties,,they are easy,,they lack self esteem also,,then it dawned on me,,i decided i was done with fatties,,it was getting harder and harder to enjoy sex with them,,when inside,,i was disgusted with myself,,then i realised my worst fears,,a mans c*ck hardness is directly related to what hes sticking it into,,if the man struggles to maintain an erection even with his eyes closed,,its time to make some life decisions,,so i stopped dating fatties,,and made a list of requirements my next girl had to have,,athletic,,skinny,,shapely,,tall,,wanted to maintain a healthy lifestyle,,maybe she was fat at one time and now is skinny,,so this old, fat, balding crusty man landed just that babe,,if men just stopped doing fatties,,they would start to take a more active role in their appearance,,dont get me wrong,,fat,,doesnt mean ugly,,ive seen some beautiful fatties,,its just a shame their thighs are bigger around than mine,,