| 7/15/2010 4:04:46 PM |
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novemberrain333
Stinnett, KY
42, joined Jun. 2010
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I am thinking about asking this guy out who is very shy, and i was wondering if by doing so if it will give of the wrong impression.
In other words what would be your impression of a woman who made the first move and asked you out? Both men and women opinions are all welcome.
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| 7/15/2010 6:34:46 PM |
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coorsdrifter
Eddyville, KY
44, joined Nov. 2008
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I personally don't think it is that big a deal.Being shy myself,he may think of it as a sort of relief,not having to make the 1st move.Best of luck to you!
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| 7/15/2010 9:00:36 PM |
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torisdad
Louisville, KY
48, joined Nov. 2008
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These days, I think most men like it. Guys face rejection so much that it's nice when they get a free pass!! 
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| 7/15/2010 9:03:25 PM |
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alonely141
Barbourville, KY
47, joined Jul. 2010
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Flattered usually..
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| 7/15/2010 11:46:19 PM |
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single30yo
Owensboro, KY
36, joined May. 2010
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Very suprised
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| 7/16/2010 1:03:37 AM |
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retired_fireman
Louisville, KY
66, joined Mar. 2008
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Fist off I would think she must like me. And there is nothing wrong with that. Second I would think she goes after what she wants. Again not a bad thing. The rest would depend on how you ask and what kind of acivity you are asking him to join you in. A movie? Dinner? Just hang out? As a guy I know that what you want to do on your fist date says a lot about how much you want to be with this person. A movie is casual and not much talking. Dinner is a little more special again it depends on what resturant you want to go to. Fancy sit down dinner with suit and tie or McDonalds.
Just a few tips here. Don't ask him in front of people he knows well. Do not do in someplace where others will hear you. And be prepared for rejection.
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| 7/16/2010 10:19:37 AM |
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pinkcookie21
Richmond, KY
28, joined Sep. 2009
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not a guy but i have several guy friends and in my opinion they enjoy when a girl goes after what she wants and takes initiative. although i agree with the guy above me .. do it some place where it can be a one on one conversation. dont do it infront of alot of people. and be prepared for rejection bc it is possible that it could happen and if it does then just laugh it off, be cool about it. but i know you got this 
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| 7/16/2010 12:01:10 PM |
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novemberrain333
Stinnett, KY
42, joined Jun. 2010
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thx everyone  
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| 7/16/2010 3:59:02 PM |
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leroy_jr
Inez, KY
48, joined Jul. 2010
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just go for it the worse thing that could happen is he say no but then you wont ever know if you dont ask im kinda shy myself and it wouldnt bother me if a woman asked me out i would enjoy it 
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| 7/16/2010 5:21:38 PM |
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gloy2
Mc Dowell, KY
46, joined Jul. 2010
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First of all, if your'e seriously thinking about asking the guy out, you must be somewhat confident that he will say yes. Even tho he may be shy, if he is interested he will say yes. Good Luck, hope you all have a blast.
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| 7/18/2010 11:27:54 AM |
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littlebigdave47
Bowling Green, KY
53, joined Jul. 2010
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Hi. I have been blind all my life. I have only been with 5 women in my life. The one that asked me out first, I married. Good Luck..
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| 7/19/2010 6:21:28 PM |
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novemberrain333
Stinnett, KY
42, joined Jun. 2010
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Thanks everyone for responding to my thread. I asked him out and he said yes.
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| 7/21/2010 9:22:30 PM |
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stygian6226
Bowling Green, KY
39, joined Jul. 2010
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Can't answer 4 every1, but I respect the hell out of a woman making the 1st move. Takes grit, putting urself out there & @ risk 4 rejection is hard 4 guys. Girls R more sensitive.
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| 7/22/2010 1:00:16 PM |
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kyteacher1954
Louisville, KY
62, joined Jul. 2010
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I actually feel flattered and like it myself. women today should feel comfortable in asking a guy out. 
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| 7/22/2010 11:55:28 PM |
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novemberrain333
Stinnett, KY
42, joined Jun. 2010
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I love my responses i've got on this thread it is very eye opening.
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| 7/23/2010 1:40:19 PM |
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single30yo
Owensboro, KY
36, joined May. 2010
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Id be ok with it....at least id know she is interested.
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