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| 9/12/2010 9:32:13 AM |
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morningowl67
Manchester, NH
50, joined Aug. 2010
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Okay, yes, I smoke and have made it a habit not even look at non-smoker's profiles. Should I not be ruling non-smokers out? The general impression I've gotten over the years is non-smokers don't want a smoker. I've even had replies from non-smokers and double checked with them, and they didn't notice and did not want to date a smoker.
So do I try for non-smokers or stick with only other smokers?
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| 9/13/2010 12:41:21 AM |
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bigman76
Suncook, NH
32, joined Mar. 2008
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A lot of women ive met advertise non smoking and they do. Or they are "social" smokers blah blah blah
Look at everyone. In the grand scheme of things, if a women is willing to not get to know me, and everything that i stand for and have to offer, because i smoke...she isnt someone i want in my life anyway.
I understand the health risks, factors, whatever your reason is...and I respect you. But, if you cant even give me the chance to quit, then you suck
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| 9/23/2010 5:02:13 AM |
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dazzlinblueeyes
Lowell, MA
52, joined Feb. 2010
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I smoke and don't hide it in my profile. I have nonsmokers contact me and one thing I make clear is that I smoke, on a regular basis, not ocassionally, how do you do that? To me that is someone who is either lying or only smokes when having a few drinks and the next day goes back to nonsmoking. I respect nonsmokers, will not smoke in front of them, however, I will not be scoulded for my smoking. Some day I would like to quit, however, I don't need to be scoulded when I am right up front with smoking.
Dazzlin 
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| 9/23/2010 8:50:27 AM |
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morningowl67
Manchester, NH
50, joined Aug. 2010
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I smoke and don't hide it in my profile. I have nonsmokers contact me and one thing I make clear is that I smoke, on a regular basis, not ocassionally, how do you do that? To me that is someone who is either lying or only smokes when having a few drinks and the next day goes back to nonsmoking. I respect nonsmokers, will not smoke in front of them, however, I will not be scoulded for my smoking. Some day I would like to quit, however, I don't need to be scoulded when I am right up front with smoking.
Dazzlin
I am totally with you on that! I don't like being scolded for a habit I have by someone who knew it prior to meeting. My ex-girlfriend was okay with it until things got more serious (she smoked too but wanted to quit)...a lot of things and values changed at that point, driving us to break up. That's for another forum though.
I also make it clear that I smoke, especially if someone who doesn't smoke sends me a message. I am very considerate and won't smoke around them, but at the same time, I smoke in my home and probably won't stop doing that. I do feel that if it matters to them so much, they should look at the smoke/don't smoke section of my profile, but 1/2 of them don't and they end up saying no thanks after I tell them I smoke. I don't hide that I smoke, I even mention it in the text of my description.
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| 9/23/2010 3:02:55 PM |
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buffalohunter10
South Tamworth, NH
70, joined Jul. 2010
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If someone cares about you, they may not want you to smoke...obvious reason...most smokers die a lot sooner than they would have had they not smoked. I have lost good friends to cigaretts, Still loved my friends but wish they were still with us. Its not because they want to scold you, its because they want you around for as long as they can have you. One of my best friends who is 64 is worried about one of his sons that smokes, he told me he did not want to live long enough to go to his sons funeral. Its because they love you that they care and I understand that. Smoking does not make you a lessor person...but it does shorten your life ...in most cases.
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| 9/23/2010 4:31:41 PM |
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morningowl67
Manchester, NH
50, joined Aug. 2010
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If someone cares about you, they may not want you to smoke...obvious reason...most smokers die a lot sooner than they would have had they not smoked. I have lost good friends to cigaretts, Still loved my friends but wish they were still with us. Its not because they want to scold you, its because they want you around for as long as they can have you. One of my best friends who is 64 is worried about one of his sons that smokes, he told me he did not want to live long enough to go to his sons funeral. Its because they love you that they care and I understand that. Smoking does not make you a lessor person...but it does shorten your life ...in most cases.
Oh I agree completely. I do want someone to care for me that much, but if it is apparent I am not about to try quitting, I don't want to be nagged about it. Someday I intend to try, I just don't want someone pushing me when I am not ready. My last girlfriend (also a smoker) was nagging the hell out of me and honestly, she knew I wasn't ready. She pushed anyway...we broke up, for more than just smoking, but it was part of the reason.
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