| 3/21/2011 3:06:52 PM |
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copperboa
Albuquerque, NM
27, joined Mar. 2011
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How can I make this without hurting anyone? Hmmmm...I've been dating for 5 years. I've been engaged 4 times, the last one was the closest I've ever been to walking down the isle. Is it so hard to find a man who wants marriage because they love a girl? Instead of benefits of money or discounts? I am an independent woman who is only 21 in age but I know what I want. I want kids and marriage but every guy I meet is either not interested in those, just wants to screw it and leave, or they are cheaters, liars and "bad boys". why is it so hard to find decent men in this F***ing city?!
Guys please respond I'd like to know why you never love girls like me. Please use brutal honesty.
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| 3/21/2011 4:45:21 PM |
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stormpainted_sk
Albuquerque, NM
43, joined Jul. 2010
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The fault is not you, nor in your values or things you want and desire.
Keep to those and don't settle for less.
Be patient. It will happen.
*HE* is out there. And may possibly show up where you least expect him!
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| 3/21/2011 9:45:32 PM |
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krasota23
Albuquerque, NM
67, joined Dec. 2008
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 Do what he said. Very good words.
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| 3/22/2011 1:49:23 AM |
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funny12u
Rio Rancho, NM
43, joined Feb. 2011
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I ask myself that every day... i was with someone for 10yrs, married 7+, so I thought, til he gambled my company away and I found out that he never divorced his first wife.. 2 kids, no help at all...
HERE'S THE TRICK and it sucks and takes more time than you think you can stand, but you DON'T SETTLE!! Not even a little... If you have to give too much at the beginning... well, those are the best times....
I hear if you stop looking, you'll find him, but as it appears you are, i am a "dater hater" and hate the single scene.. Time to be all growed up..
Good luck honey, DON'T SETTLE, the time goes by WAY to fast.
-K
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| 3/22/2011 2:55:15 AM |
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littledopey86
Albuquerque, NM
31, joined Feb. 2011
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Hey its Michael but well I meet u and ur ok I wanted to have more time with u but when I texts u and asked to see u u allways got something eals to do or go see so u can't say that I never tryed with u so its ur loss . If ur always doing something or going somewhere and don't have time for a man then let them know that's gose for all women if u don't have the time then don't try Dating.
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| 3/22/2011 9:49:07 AM |
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benigno41
Albuquerque, NM
48, joined Feb. 2011
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What is your rush? You are 21 and been engaged 4 times, seems like you should just take some time to take a breather. Your one well eventually find you, there are a lot of good guys out there. I see too many women being attracted to the bad boys but then wondering why they lie and cheat. They guy you ignore, the geeky guy that isn't full of muscles is the guy who well treat you like a queen. Might be time to look at the type of guys you have been dating.
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| 4/1/2011 7:09:48 PM |
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hazeone
Albuquerque, NM
32, joined Mar. 2011
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its cuz you are crazy i met you once and you fent all crazy saying that i broke your heart ilike i said your nuts its not the men its you just back off a bit
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| 4/9/2011 4:26:58 PM |
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froggienm71
Albuquerque, NM
46, joined Apr. 2011
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Like the other wise ones said, never settle for less than your highest standards. Don't give in to a guy just because he is cute or comes across as a bad boy. Bad boys will treat you badly and abuse you. A nice guy will give you the world! Also, the only way to find a good man is to stay out of the bars and be truly ready to settle down with a family. Men at the bars aren't worth your time.
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| 4/9/2011 8:57:33 PM |
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sxtreme
Deming, NM
51, joined Apr. 2011
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| 7/24/2011 1:05:12 AM |
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bearboy12
Albuquerque, NM
34, joined Nov. 2010
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I Am good man
i would like get know you better
just keep looking
you are very attractive girl
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| 7/25/2011 11:09:22 AM |
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ralph559
Albuquerque, NM
29, joined Jul. 2011
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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| 9/11/2011 7:54:05 PM |
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mousy31
Albuquerque, NM
28, joined Aug. 2011
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I'll find someone special out there. jus give it time... 
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| 9/15/2011 3:50:18 AM |
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ssmith20
Providence, RI
29, joined May. 2011
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Its how females carry themselves as well as males in nm period....
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| 9/23/2011 11:40:08 PM |
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bejamin
Albuquerque, NM
33, joined Aug. 2011
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Yeah can agree with alot of the advise on here... U know what u want but it takes time to get to mariage and kids... This dose not happen over night... Also the bad boy thing yeah they just want to hit it and quit it... U go for the geek type they do treat u right... They would give u the world to make u happy... Just give it time and open up to more people that u would normaly not talk to and u will find mr. Right...
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| 9/26/2011 5:45:38 PM |
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gentleiron
Albuquerque, NM
36, joined Sep. 2011
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No MATTER HOW HARD YOU TRY TO CONTROL A GUYS MIND AND HEART ...THE SPIRIT WILL JUST KEEP KICKING IN GEAR...DONT LET A MAN KNOW HOW YOU FEEL CUZ WE WILL JUST TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU TILL YOU CANT GIVE ANYMORE
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| 10/7/2011 8:53:25 AM |
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jeffapp
Fort Sumner, NM
40, joined Oct. 2011
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You should try an old fashion country boy we're pretty reliable.
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| 10/7/2011 10:36:42 AM |
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cindy7777
Albuquerque, NM
32, joined Mar. 2011
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i believe they are some true men out there but they are hard to find so if u find one you have to treat him right........ and u have to look pass things like looks, money, if they have children or not stuff like that
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