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nicerackoflamb
Colorado Springs, CO
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libertine666
West Springfield, MA
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I have several great qualities. I am an intelligent,cultured and sane gentleman. be seeing you.
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nicerackoflamb
Colorado Springs, CO
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James - You should finish the question. 
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bigbazborn
Valencia, CA
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I have a p*nis. I am simple, predictable, and strong.
Why do you think most women are straight? 
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randa_1990
Meadville, PA
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Worst thing about my personality I would say is that I can be sarcastic, and make jokes that I think are funny but that can end up hurting someones feelings or making them mad. For most people I'm working on this and trying to be more considerate, but there area always those people that are just too much fun to piss off
As for simple dating? Well with my ex it was very simple, when I tried to date afterwards I still kept it simple as I could but I was too hurt to really do it right. Now that I'm over it and have my goals that aren't dating related, when I do finally get back out there, I plan to keep it simple again. I'm not a game player.
ETA: Best quality is that for the most part I'm not judgmental and I can usually resolve disagreements or misunderstandings if the other person is willing to talk it out and listen. I have a temper, but I know how to control it.
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libertine666
West Springfield, MA
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I really don't have any bad qualities. be seeing you.
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vickyxoxo
Lakeland, FL
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best quality: im fun to be around and guys that i meet always stick around, even if things dont work out. so i pride myself in being loveable and unique!
worst quality: the things that i say when im mad. i can be hurtful and i have made a few guys cry but i have been working on calming myself down, not making assumptions, and trusting that not all men are deceptive.
i would like to believe i could go to the basics. im very open and honest, and will tell a guy what im thinking but sometimes guys cant handle it.
the only time i contradict what i say and what i really mean is when im mad and i tell him to go away. what i really mean is "fight for me, dont let me get away" but the last guy i liked took what i said literally and we barely talk anymore. (he just started messaging me every now and then but things are at a stand still between us. he doesnt want to hang out it seems- even as friends- but he still writes me  )
i AM complicated, but im trying not to be. i already ran off one guy i was interested in. im determined not to run off another.
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nicerackoflamb
Colorado Springs, CO
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@Randa - Sarcasm can be cruel, I understand why you are trying to curb that. What is your best quality? 
@Libertine - Yeah, right.
@Vicky - Such honesty. I know you are working hard on your temper. It is admirable that you recognise it and try to fix it. That will help with your second thing as well.
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libertine666
West Springfield, MA
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@ lainey. I really don't have any bad qualities. be seeing you.
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mae_m
Moultrie, GA
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making men feel inadequate by wishing they would think like women.
that's the last thing I want
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randa_1990
Meadville, PA
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So you're perfect? Sorry, but I don't buy that, I believe that we're all works in progress. It's not a bad thing, that's what life is about.
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horace_schitt
Wausau, WI
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Christ, does Listerine have to come in and ruin this thread, too? 
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nicerackoflamb
Colorado Springs, CO
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Quote from horace_schitt:
Christ, does Listerine have to come in and ruin this thread, too?
Apparently he is perfect and has no bad qualities.
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horace_schitt
Wausau, WI
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I TOLD you he was delusional.
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paganblueeyes
Yorkville, IL
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best : I have a great sense of humor and I don't lie
worst: I'm a bit judgmental -- I am working on it though
I have gone back to the simple way - he likes me, I like him ... taking it one day at a time ... 
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goodman4sum1
Reading, PA
46, joined Oct. 2009
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Best quality would depend on what value my SO places on my various personality traits.
My worst quality would also depend on her opinion.
Examples: Some women would value humor the most, others would hate my sense of humor.
Some would be happy that I'm normally correct, others would just get pissed off about it.
And I don't date men.
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libertine666
West Springfield, MA
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I'm not perfect,but I am a good man. OK. My worst quality is that I have no time for stupidity. be seeing you.
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nicerackoflamb
Colorado Springs, CO
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@Pagan - Amazing. Simple dating is the best kind there is. Taking things a day at a time and choosing to love the basics is the easiest way to have a stable, loving and respectful relationship.
Thanks! 
@Mr.Schitt - I know this to be true.
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imall4fun
Tucson, AZ
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Christ, does Listerine have to come in and ruin this thread, too?
Why does Listerine say "be seeing you"  after everything....May not be a bad quality, but definitely annoying
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slendermiss
Edmonton, AB
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Best Quality - Very forgiving nature. No matter what the situation is or how upset mad or hurt I am. I can always look at both sides of a coin to see the others perception. Not forgiving to the point of being walked all over though.
Worst Quality - I would have to say my way over thinking things and end up all wound up about something, only to find out I was very wrong. I guess it would be a communication issue because I don't want to hurt anyone either. I let a lot of things slide off my back that maybe I shouldn't. Still at 40 I am not into the whole confrontation thing.
Some people can get under my skin and I can go for blood but those people are few and far between in my life.
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nicerackoflamb
Colorado Springs, CO
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Quote from libertine666:
I'm not perfect,but I am a good man. OK. My worst quality is that I have no time for stupidity. be seeing you.
I'm going to ask a honest question of you... I'm not trying to be snarky or rude.
Do you think that the husbands of the women you see would call you a good man?
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libertine666
West Springfield, MA
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 @ "Listerine". I have never been in horaces mouth. be seeing you. @ lainey. Probably not,but that is not my problem.
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horace_schitt
Wausau, WI
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Why does Listerine say "be seeing you" after everything....May not be a bad quality, but definitely annoying
Because he's a douchebag who thinks he's being clever by stealing a line from a 40+ year old TV show that he believes was "epic", although it only lasted 17 episodes, so it obviously wasn't.
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nicerackoflamb
Colorado Springs, CO
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@goodman - I understand that. I would like to know what you think is YOUR best quality. Not what a woman would consider it to be.
@Slender - I'm bad at confrontation as well. It's something I am personally working on. Best of luck.
@Libertine - Do you feel that you are "good" regardless of the impact you have on other people? If you affect someone in a negative way, do you still feel you are a "good man" given the consequences of your actions?
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mrld_ii
Stockton, CA
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Great post, nicerack...absolutely agree with you.
I love men BECAUSE of their differences, not DESPITE them. And, I hope I never fully understand them...just accept 'em and keep being enchanted, enthralled, and enamored by 'em. When they're at their best, they allow me to be at mine...and I like that! 
My best quality? I am much more forgiving of others' missteps and miscalculations than I am of my own...it makes others feel they've found a 'safe' place.
My worst quality? I am much more forgiving of others' missteps and miscalculations than I am of my own...makes it difficult for me to find a 'safe' place, since, often, I am my biggest obstacle to finding it.
(And THAT, my dear, will be my last serious post for the day...maybe even the week!)
 
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brother_sunrize
Killeen, TX
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I don't know if women are necessarily stupid... rather, they just tend to want to make themselves sound better than they really are (like a lot of people). They may say they want a nice guy that treats them well, blah blah blah... but really, they just want a hot guy that turns them on...
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libertine666
West Springfield, MA
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I am hurting no one. I sleep very well at night. be seeing you.
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122750again
Sioux Falls, SD
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My best is I'm Loyal, to a Damned Fault most of the time
My worst, I am One Stubborn B*tch when I want to be
Thats about as Basic as I can be Calm, me
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dan9787
Laval, QC
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-My best quality is that I'm kind, humane - it sounds like two but they're kind of connected
-My worst quality, which contrasts with my first, is that I can be impatient with mean, abusive, cruel people. And when I mean impatient I mean I can be cutting, direct, and willing to use force on persisting bad guys. But... I'm not that bad, it takes a lot to get me to that point. lol
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nicerackoflamb
Colorado Springs, CO
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@Emerald - Inner reflection and self doubt are both normal. Like you said though, it's best to give yourself the same forgiveness and same chances that you are willing to give everyone else. Haha! It's almost like self-hypocrisy!!
@Sun - I know women aren't stupid. 
@Libertine - Most people who are narcissistic and self absorbed do sleep well because they never see how their actions affect others. You have a fishbowl view of life.
@Again - Stubborn to a fault? Or just stubborn when need be?
@Dan - Kindness is underrated these days. Hold onto it.
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joecool1962
Philadelphia, PA
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I am hurting no one. I sleep very well at night. be seeing you.
If you truly believe this line of bullshit I have a bridge in Brookly for sale very cheap. Eventually someone will find out about what you and their skanky wife have been up to behind their back. And if they have young children your actions will ultimately hurt them in the end so how can you stand there and say you're not hurting anyone with your actions. As long as it's all a secret you're probably right but like I said on that other thread earlier lid sooner or later everyones luck runs out and they get caught with their pants down. If you truly believe you'll never get caught then your more f**king stupid and ignorant than I gave you credit for.
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libertine666
West Springfield, MA
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@ lainey. And that is your view of my life. I know that I am a good man and live a moral life. be seeing you. @ joe. Why are you following me?
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122750again
Sioux Falls, SD
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<-----Has a Very Hard Head
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nicerackoflamb
Colorado Springs, CO
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Quote from libertine666:
@ lainey. And that is your view of my life. I know that I am a good man and live a moral life. be seeing you.
No skin off my nose.
@Joe - Lets not argue with him, I was trying to continue the theme of my thread. Please stay on topic, thanks! Participation would be appreciated though.
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horace_schitt
Wausau, WI
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Apparently, adultery is now 'moral'.
Who knew!
Idjit.
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goodman4sum1
Reading, PA
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@goodman - I understand that. I would like to know what you think is YOUR best quality. Not what a woman would consider it to be.
Best- Sense of humor.
Worst- Very black and white views of life, I don't generally do gray area.
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libertine666
West Springfield, MA
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@ lainey. Cheers.  be seeing you.
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2wheelpilot
Beatty, NV
46, joined Oct. 2010
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We say one thing and do another.
We ask for one thing when we really want something else.
Why the f**k are we so complicated?
If we dumb everything down to basics...
All women want to be appreciated for who they are, and not asked by a man to change.
All women want to feel beautiful.
All women want a man who is secure and confidant and makes his own money.
All women want to have a relationship that both partners equally participate in.
Women complicate their lives by adding in lists and lists of things that annoy us, reading between the lines of what men say, making men feel inadequate by wishing they would think like women.
LOVE yourself, ENJOY your man and LIVE life to the fullest.
Ok - Thread topic - What is your best quality and what is your worst quality when it comes your personality.
AND - Can you go back to basics? Do you think you could calm down and allow dating/mating with men to be simple?
And of course I don't mean "ALL". I am generalizing, but there are always exceptions.
all men want sex and food.
OT: my best and worst qualities are debatable, but if i were the one making the judgement they would be:
my addictive personality
best because i pursue vehemently whatever interests me and without this singular focus, i would not have found a career that not only interests me, but i am quite good at.
worst because sometimes other important things get less attention when i am on a 'mission'.
never left 'the basics', because that is what works best for me, has been the most affective and being a simple male the basics was the easy choice.
-chip
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joecool1962
Philadelphia, PA
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@Libertine not following you so don't flatter yourself. I actually came to comment on Lainey's post and saw your bullshit. @ Lainey I'm sorry if I ruined your post with my comments to the jerkoff who thinks he's not hurting anyone by f**king their wives behind their husband's backs. I guess my best quality would be compassion for those who are deserving of it and my worst would probably be my low tolerance for idiots. Again I am sorry if I ruined your post.
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gjlover
Grand Junction, CO
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According to my GF: The fact that I just accept her, don't want her to change and think (and tell her) that she is awesome. She puts up with my worst qualities in that I am opinionated and sometimes try to be funny when I should not be.
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nicerackoflamb
Colorado Springs, CO
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@goodman - Are you comfortable with those views or is it something you wish to change?
@Libertine - No thanks. But enjoy your beer.
@Chip - And clean laundry. Do you recognise when you get into singular focus mode and stop it, or does it continue until the other things have been ruined?
@gj - What do YOU consider your best and worst qualities. Not based on what a woman thinks.
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goodman4sum1
Reading, PA
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@ joe. Why are you following me?
Did you bang a married woman in Philly?
@goodman - Are you comfortable with those views or is it something you wish to change?
Comfortable with my sense of humor, although I admit that sometimes it is inappropriate.
I would like to stop allowing for the occasional gray area acceptance. It complicates things and allows for tolerance, which is "the virtue of a man without convictions" - (G.K. Chesterton).
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joecool1962
Philadelphia, PA
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Did you bang a married woman in Philly?
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gjlover
Grand Junction, CO
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Well, it is my sparkling personality, my sauve good looks, my wizardry in the kitchen, my talents in the bedroom, my ability to converse about subjects common and obscure and my modesty.
My worst aspects are still the opinions and ill timed humor.
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nicerackoflamb
Colorado Springs, CO
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Hey everyone - Please stay on topic. Libertine is not the focus of this thread.
Thanks!!
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libertine666
West Springfield, MA
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Did you bang a married woman in Philly?
"There was this girl in Philadelphia."...James Bond in "Never Say Never Again". be seeing you.
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nicerackoflamb
Colorado Springs, CO
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Quote from gjlover:
Well, it is my sparkling personality, my sauve good looks, my wizardry in the kitchen, my talents in the bedroom, my ability to converse about subjects common and obscure and my modesty.
My worst aspects are still the opinions and ill timed humor.
A good cook is hard to find! Modest AND humble.
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lanabritt
Chatsworth, CA
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there is a f@ckin example of men who think women are stupid
in my thread "living/dating overseas"
and tell us we are full of sh!t 
what the heck
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slendermiss
Edmonton, AB
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My worst aspects are still the opinions and ill timed humor.
I can feel you on this one. Sometimes my opinions have got me into trouble. Sometimes I get runaway mouth and don't realize it tell I get the "look" then I shut it lol
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2wheelpilot
Beatty, NV
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@lainey - men want clean laundry? you do realize that there are several levels of clean right? example: that shirt i wore for an hour and tossed over the kitchen chair... don't you dare pick it up and wash it again, i will wear it again later.
nothing gets ruined per say, but some things just get stamped 'very late'. sometimes i am good about containing my addictions, other times, not so much. i have learned to somewhat block time for them though, but it can run over from time to time when i become engrossed. since i am single i don't get in as much trouble now though.
let us also not forget that a beautiful woman can fall under the category of 'addictions' as well.
-chip
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petron
Garland, TX
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IDK...what you see and what I see are two, drastically different characteristics.
I've been told i'm very laid back, flexible and considerate...these can be a plus as well as a minus
as a minus, i lose interest rather quickly and need my surroundings to change rather often...chaos if you will. I'm unorganized and can be a procrastinator
give me a beach with white sand, sunscreen, flip flops and tequila and ice and i'm perfectly content to sit and sip...no change necessary
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mae_m
Moultrie, GA
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best quality: people always believe me when I lie
worst quality: people never believe me when I tell the truth
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nicerackoflamb
Colorado Springs, CO
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@Chip - I should have said "Clean underwear". My go to on this is "Men want good food, great sex and clean underpants".
So in a relationship, do you put off work because you become addicted to your "beautiful woman"?
@Petron - Sounds a lot like me. I put things off until hours before a deadline and I like to think of myself as a gypsie. If I had nothing tying me to my current situation keeping me grounded... I'd wander all over the earth. A perfect job for me would give me the opportunity to travel.
@Mae -
That sounds just horrid! Hahahaha.
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horace_schitt
Wausau, WI
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best quality: people always believe me when I lie
worst quality: people never believe me when I tell the truth
Son of a....
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shaneladd
Bakersfield, CA
61, joined Dec. 2009
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lainey, people not posting their qualities are attacking those posting their qualities. That's not fair.
Any of my good qualities have also kept me alone forever. How can that be good? My good and bad qualities are one in the same.
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
59, joined Apr. 2011
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Some of my principles and beliefs you could possibly not fully understand they came from a time, before you were born..and are not present much today....and were not passed down much in recent years.
But, before I say my piece to someone , especially asked in the form of a question I like to hear theirs too.
If those of the people are to be scrutinized and analised, I like to be able to do the same.....I think thats only fair.
Nice picture of Mary Tyler Moore, I remember that episode..where she held that sign, but it has something else written on it...can't remember what.
But, you mentioned something of listerines lifestyle...but, I heard a rumor and maybe nothing to it more than that just a rumor. But, if its true...It would show people shouldn't judge others, when there is plenty to judge them by too.
If so...I don't agree with either lifestyle.
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dancingplatypus
Greensburg, IN
42, joined Dec. 2010
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Over the years I lost myself, my dreams and good mental growth.
I no longer knew who or what I was and what qualities were still there and could be recognized.
I am now rediscovering myself and learning with someone. So, I actually have no idea right now.
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mae_m
Moultrie, GA
45, joined Dec. 2010
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Son of a....
I never lied to you horace
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goodman4sum1
Reading, PA
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I never lied to you horace
If you're telling the truth, he won't believe you.
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horace_schitt
Wausau, WI
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You're lying.
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