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9/15/2011 12:58:51 PM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  

paulanthony101
Pamplona
Spain
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While seeing someone new, when do you think its the best time to go for the first kiss?




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9/15/2011 1:04:59 PM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  
hickwithstick
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,185)
Rock Springs, WY
49, joined Sep. 2009


First kiss being a pck on the cheek, or sticking your tongue down her throat?

I usually give the peck on the cheek right away when I drop her of after the first date if not at the begining, depends on how she greets me with a handshake or a hug.

9/15/2011 1:10:48 PM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  
rlm68
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (18,110)
Aurora, CO
48, joined Apr. 2010


end of the first date before taking her home.

enjoy your date.
enjoy your meal or activity you are doing (movies, concert).
on your way back to your vehicle to take her home.
when you open her door lean in and kiss her.
then when you are at her place generally she will kiss you.

9/15/2011 1:30:08 PM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  
mirr0rmirr0r
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (21,691)
Bowling Green, KY
39, joined Oct. 2009


Most guys just don't realize how important that first kiss is to woman. Well, this should give you an idea: When you kiss a woman for the first time, she decides right then and there if she ever wants to kiss you again.

Use these 10 tips to be sure you always leave her begging for more.


Number 10

Do it in private

Privacy is key. A big mistake that too many guys make is going for a kiss in the wrong situation. Women want that first kiss to be special, and they'd prefer to share the moment with you and you alone. So if you're out somewhere social and you feel like the time is right, take her to a back room or, even better, to a completely different, more personal location.

Number 9

Know when to pull out

There's no better way to let her know that you're a catch than by being the first to call it quits. Most guys go for the gold on the first kiss... and they rarely end up getting it. By being the one to slow down, you'll show her that you're in control... and most importantly, you'll leave her dying for more.

Number 8

Feel her out

When you feel the moment is right, reach over and touch her hair while you're talking and make a comment about it. Say, "Your hair looks so soft," and lightly touch the tips of it. If she smiles, reach back over and start stroking it again, but this time shift your glance between her lips and her eyes a couple of times. If she lets you keep touching her hair, you know that she's ready to be kissed.

Number 7

Be a tease

Newsflash: There's nothing that women love more than to be teased, so let her know who's in control by driving her crazy with your lips. Go in like you're going to kiss her, then at the very last second, pull away and flash her a mischievous grin. Use this sparingly to keep her turned on and on her toes.

Number 6

Ease into it

Still feeling a little nervous about going in for the kill? Ease into it by leaning in and smelling her neck. Take a big sniff and say, "Mmm... you smell good." Then slowly brush your nose and cheek along hers as you pull your head back to make eye contact with her. When your eyes lock, close them and go for it.



Number 5

Show some passion

Every woman longs to be ravished, so why not make her fantasy come true? As you're kissing her, reach back behind her and pull her head back by gently grabbing the hair right above her neck. Slowly kiss your way down her neck and give her a playful bite, then pull back slightly and breathe heavily on her neck and in her ear. Make sure your pants are securely fastened, because at this point she'll be trying her hardest to take them off!

Number 4

Dip her down

If the mood is right, add some sensuality and chivalry to your first kiss by gently dipping her down, ballroom-style. There's no better way to make her feel like she's with a powerful and confident man. Do it right, and she'll never forget the moment.

Number 3

Use your hands

Women love to be caressed, especially while they're being kissed. Starting above her ear, run your fingers through her hair, down to her neck and all the way down her back. Then slowly slide your hand back up again. Use both hands, and alternate between using your whole hand and just the tips of your fingers to give her an experience she won't soon forget.

Number 2

Spice it up

Once initial contact has been made, spice it up a bit with some variety. Move from short, soft kisses into longer, deeper ones, then back again... and don't use your tongue any more than she does. Change the angle by moving your head to the other side, and alternate between sucking on her lower and upper lip. Be sure to stop to breathe after every few kisses. These little moves will let her know that you know exactly what you're doing.

Number 1

Explore her body

When you're ready to really turn up the heat, kiss her on her neck and move your lips slowly up to her earlobes and give a light nibble. Don't be surprised when she starts breathing heavily.



[Edited 9/15/2011 1:30:49 PM ]

9/15/2011 1:41:43 PM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  
iwannaknow2
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Grand Blanc, MI
55, joined Jun. 2011


At the same time I grab her a** but I usually don't get a second date

9/15/2011 1:52:14 PM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  
cschaeffer
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Jasper, IN
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The best time to go for a kiss is at 9:32 pm.

It's then, or right before the roofies wear off.

9/15/2011 2:16:33 PM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  

tonic451
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Saint Marys, GA
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Ya can sense it from the woman when the moment is right.

9/15/2011 2:18:37 PM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  
cschaeffer
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Jasper, IN
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So you don't get to first base much huh?


Now before you fly off the handle (again), this is where the witty would say something intelligent and funny and then we have playful banter back and forth.

You should try it after you get the broom stick out of your anus.

9/15/2011 2:19:36 PM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  
tater79
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Springfield, IL
38, joined Jun. 2008


it varies.......duh

OP FAIL

9/15/2011 2:19:59 PM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  

cutily
Over 2,000 Posts (2,565)
New York, NY
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There's a guy I see almost everyday when I leave my job, he checks me out a lot. I'm planning on talking to him. If he is single I know for a fact I will kiss him on our first date. I would say it will happen after maybe an hour together, int he middle of the date.



[Edited 9/15/2011 2:21:06 PM ]

9/15/2011 2:23:13 PM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  
tater79
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (29,647)
Springfield, IL
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I'm jealousy.....you never told me that you would kiss me in the middle of any date

9/15/2011 2:26:13 PM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  

cutily
Over 2,000 Posts (2,565)
New York, NY
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Quote from tater79:
I'm jealousy.....you never told me that you would kiss me in the middle of any date


Yeah I wanted to keep it a surprise you would enjoy it better this way.

9/15/2011 2:27:49 PM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  
tater79
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Springfield, IL
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you're sarcasm made me happier

9/15/2011 2:31:26 PM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  

cutily
Over 2,000 Posts (2,565)
New York, NY
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My pleasure, Sir...

9/15/2011 2:32:11 PM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  

george1965
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Bedford, VA
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now,

9/15/2011 2:45:52 PM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  

jerseyjon
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Mantua, NJ
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Quote from tonic451:
Ya can sense it from the woman when the moment is right.


I couldnt sense a hurricane coming ,let alone a women's time to build a nest.

9/15/2011 2:56:51 PM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  

tonic451
Over 2,000 Posts (3,139)
Saint Marys, GA
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Quote from jerseyjon:
I couldnt sense a hurricane coming ,let alone a women's time to build a nest.


A kiss and a nest are on different sides of the timeline. I did get a laugh out of it though.

9/15/2011 3:08:18 PM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  
northphxhiker
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Phoenix, AZ
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NEVER NEVER NEVER ask for a kiss -most of the time she will say "no" out of disgust -that you don't have the balls to be a man.

kissing is the elephant in the room -from the first time she meets you (if she likes what she sees) she wants you to sweep her off her feet with a warm weak-kneed kiss -you want to be the man with that proverbial broom...

watch her touchy-feely staring at you, giggling signals. -her body language and eye contact will tell you.

rule of thumb:

-if she's warm giggly and extroverted, she wants you to lean in and kiss her, make it warm and passionate, however wait for her tongue, it will come out if she wants to play...

-if she's cold, aloof and introverted, -better luck next time. -maybe steal a kiss on the cheek just to see what she does.

9/15/2011 3:09:20 PM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  
heymisterchris
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Hicksville, NY
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As soon as you think you can get away with it. I love stealing kisses.

9/15/2011 7:59:49 PM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  

mischiefmanaged
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Bellevue, WA
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Right after she says "hi". And give her a good squeeze. Ok im kidding. Signs she may be ready: eyes get bigger, slight flush, eyes "soften". After you have rapport with her, and you get physically close to her, if she feels relaxed then she is probably ready. Especially if on the date you two have felt a variety of enjoyable emotions.

9/15/2011 10:42:44 PM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  

driver406
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Saint Paul, MN
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I've always thought somewhere toward the end of the first date and if you don't get that AND her phone number AND a second date then don't waste anymore time with her.

9/15/2011 11:39:59 PM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  
northphxhiker
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Phoenix, AZ
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it's the way they look at you that makes all the determination...

one time i walked out of a store, saw a cute gal sitting in her car staring at me with her big blue eyes,
i walked over said hi, the way she was looking at me, i leaned into her car and kissed her, she put her arms around me, we smooched for quite a while...

9/16/2011 12:35:25 AM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  
christine201091
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New Athens, IL
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When you both feel that attraction and the connection is when its best.

9/16/2011 12:40:39 AM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  
nb954
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Jacksonville, FL
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Kissing is gross so I only kiss a guy if I really like him so there's never a right time for me



[Edited 9/16/2011 12:41:37 AM ]

9/16/2011 1:15:20 AM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  

knotlion
Sussex, NJ
48, joined Oct. 2009


Kiss on what? be cloooser

9/16/2011 2:02:47 AM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  

alphabetsamson
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Santa Ana, CA
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Whenever the impulse strikes you! Spontaneity add's to the excitement!!!

9/16/2011 2:42:23 AM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  

zoocitykitty
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Greensboro, NC
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As soon as you notice that she is into you. I don't buy the whole " I don't kiss on the first date" BS. If a woman is into you she won't mind you kissing her by the end of the night, if not sooner.

9/16/2011 2:47:52 AM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  
venichhe
Over 2,000 Posts (2,642)
Brooklyn, NY
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you'll find out when, if she makes the first move.

9/16/2011 3:27:09 AM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  

dshawv
Leo, IN
25, joined Sep. 2011


I always seem to ask before I randomly go for it, just to make sure it is okay, Haha

9/16/2011 7:59:12 AM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  
vivrebien
Over 2,000 Posts (2,640)
Franklin, OH
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Right after I give her a good banging, I give her a peck on the cheek. I don't like to get to forward on the first date.

9/16/2011 8:44:23 AM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  

meetme28269
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Mooresville, NC
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Just before the second kiss.


9/16/2011 8:54:16 AM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  
mckaea
Shipshewana, IN
41, joined May. 2011


Quote from christine201091:
When you both feel that attraction and the connection is when its best.



9/16/2011 12:47:33 PM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  
alpha_1
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9/17/2011 10:12:05 AM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  
icouldneverbe
South Gate, CA
43, joined Jul. 2011


You shouldn't plan it. You should just feel it. If worse comes to worse..then ask to give a kiss. Simple.

9/17/2011 11:00:17 AM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  
fackorf
Vancouver, BC
44, joined Jun. 2010


10:57pm - 11:28pm, precisely.

9/17/2011 11:06:18 AM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  

alphabetsamson
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Santa Ana, CA
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Anytime.

9/17/2011 11:40:33 AM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  
mickeyminn
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Milwaukee, WI
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I think you and your date should both sense the cues for that very first kiss together. Time, comfortability and closeness will help as well. My first date off here didn't kiss me until after we had gone out about 5 times! Although it was perfect...I would have liked one sooner.

9/17/2011 1:17:40 PM What's the best time to go for the first kiss?  
afrosirene
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Brooklyn, NY
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Quote from zoocitykitty:
As soon as you notice that she is into you. I don't buy the whole " I don't kiss on the first date" BS. If a woman is into you she won't mind you kissing her by the end of the night, if not sooner.


This!

Quote from alphabetsamson:
Whenever the impulse strikes you! Spontaneity add's to the excitement!!!


...And this!






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