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Single Women Atlantic City, New Jersey, NJ, Shaved Hair, Brown Eyes
 Location: Atlantic City New Jersey
 Zip Code: 08401
 Age: 36, Taurus
 Height: 5 ft. 1 in.
 Hair, Eyes: Shaved, Brown
 Body: Full figured
 Ethnicity: Other
 Religion: Other
 Politics: Liberal
 Education: PhD
 Income: Didn't Say
 Job: Doctor
 Smoke: Smoke Occasionally
 Has Kids: Yes, living with me
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About Me
This is lengthy, but I'd rather give you the opportunity to feel me, than to "keep it a mystery". I like a good mystery myself, but not with partners, so here goes: I'm a 5'1" proportionate BBW, "creole-rican", with naturally auburn hair and cherry brown eyes. I'm seeking someone who is (relatively) secure in themselves.

I'm definitely a foodie, and love cooking everything I can, from scratch with homegrown everything. I'm a poet, I love computers (semi-Tech Nerd), and books (COMPLETE bookworm...LOL!). I'm a flamenco-loving Belly Dancer who practices herbalism, a lover of online shopping, kitchen gizmos, gummi bears, electronic gadgets, and ridiculously lipsynching songs, as well. I really can sing well, but I love being silly with the kids. Zumba is my latest passion. Gimme a good drum rhythm, guitar, or some native flutes and it's on. LOL! I'm also an avid video game collector, from console to PC, so yes... definitely a tech nerd. I'm also a budding rope artist.

I'm openly Pansexual. I'm very outspoken, and far from vanilla, so, naturally, who I'm with should (ideally) be comfortable with her sexuality. I can be discreet when absolutamente necessary, so don't let this factor intimidate you. I practice Ethical Non-monogamy. I base my partnerships in complete HONESTY. I expect open communication from all my partnerships.

I'm currently seeking a feminine-identified partner. I love all genders and preferences. Period. I'm not concerned with what's in your pants, but what's in your mind/heart. That said, biological sex and gender expression are totally different things.

***PLEASE NOTE: I am neither what I consider femme, girlie, stud, nor butch, though it's koo if you are. Labels can sometimes be very limiting, but if I were to use one, I would call myself Genderqueer/Genderfluid. I enjoy my "femaleness", and do not run from my "maleness". Both binaries are equally at home in my spirit (Androgynous). It would help greatly if you have an understanding of Androgyny and Non-Duality. If the possibility of encountering a "man", or male energy, scares/turns you off in any way, please know that I will not be offended if you decide not to message me. I've been known to be very "dude-ish", in my expression at times. I'm usually the one to take the lead, not because I want control, but because it's just what happens. I am, however, willing to take things as they come and ride the wave. I'm exploring different types of relationships on the spectrum, and am VERY much into BDSM/Kink. I don't expect to be everyone's "type", so if this disturbs you, it's fine. I'm just me.***

P.S. If you'd like to see more pix, let me know. (^_^) I have Kik and Tango, just ask.

I love gardening, foraging, mixology, giving readings, and other forms of "Witch doctor-y". I'm admittedly a music junkie. I DO NOT smoke tobacco products. I'd prefer my partner(s) to be tobacco-free as well, but I exclude no one.

I'm a Metaphysician, and I love helping others live their happiest healthiest lives. I'm a fan of life really. I most closely identify with Native American spiritual practices, and consider myself VERY much Pagan. I prefer my partner to be similar-minded or, at the very least, to be open to learning more.

Honestly, I'd like to remove all labels and just enjoy a loving connection with someone, no pressure, whatever the title, doesn't matter. Growth is my aim, for me as well as my partner. Either way it goes, I'd like for us to find chemistry before anything sexual happens, so wherever you are be willing to meet up.

I'm currently a newly single parent,
and am quite busy but I strongly believe that we make time for what/who we want in life. Please know that I'm VERY much into forging connections before play. I'm not hard into the "package deal" mentality, and am not selling it either. Ultimately, I'd like for my partner to feel comfortable with my family, and maybe even be part of that. Sex isn't expected, but respect for my tribe is, definitely. I stay open to all possibilities. I want someone who is of the same mind, allowing things to flow naturally. No pressure here, just honesty.

I'm not hung up on appearances, but more so on personal qualities. While I enjoy connecting, I'm also happy to enjoy me time. I work during the week, so someone who has their own interests and hobbies outside of our interactions is necessary.

Whatever your style, again, please be open-minded, honest, and allow the rest to "just happen" as it will. Peace! XOXOXO

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Androgyny, Aromatherapy, Auctions, Authenticity, BDSM, Bowling, Boxercise, Building Tribes, Chanting, Compersion, Cooking, Crystals, Dancing, Drums, Dubstep, Exercise, Farmer's Markets, Fetish, Flea Markets, Foraging, Gardening, Gemstones, Growth, Herbalism, Holistic Nutrition, Honesty, Japanese Culture, Locavorism, Magick, Meditation, Metaphysics, Moonlight, Movie Nights, Multidimensional, Music, Native American Spirituality, Nintendo (ALL), Numerology, Organics, Paganism, Pain Play, Philosophy, PlayStation (ALL), Polyamory, Reading, Sacred KinK, Shibari, Singing, Spirituality, Stars, Tae Kwon Do, Tantra, Tarot, Tea, Tengerism, Theosophy, Thrift Stores, Tribal Belly Dancing, Video Games, Windchimes, Wine, XBOX, Zumba
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