| 9/11/2012 5:47:23 AM |
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th6231
Point Pleasant Beach, NJ
68, joined Jul. 2007
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My rent is overdue--my insurance payment is overdue---my electric bill is overdue--my girlfriend is overdue---can you send me some dough!!
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| 9/11/2012 6:51:08 AM |
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elkgroveca
Elk Grove, CA
97, joined May. 2012
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I think you are full of shit. I think this is your way to let the ladies see you cut lose of your cash for your woman.
So aren’t you a wonderful catch?
Of course I don’t think you have a woman. I think you are playing a poor pitiful me card in hopes.
Anyone want a puppy dog?
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| 9/11/2012 7:02:18 AM |
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mustangwriter
Boerne, TX
55, joined Nov. 2009
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Why not just do your own thing and if she wants to hang with you then ok.
If she needed $30 from me...I'd hand her the laundry to do.
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| 9/11/2012 7:05:36 AM |
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kclady41
Kansas City, MO
46, joined Jun. 2011
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This guy insulted me in one of my threads. I take back what I said and hope this gal takes him to the poorhouse
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| 9/11/2012 8:01:47 AM |
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ladyeden
Waynesville, MO
56, joined Apr. 2008
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So find a woman you have to pay less to put up with you.
Problem solved.
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| 9/11/2012 8:12:10 AM |
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nondescript
Houston, TX
49, joined Jul. 2012
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Everything costs money..taking a shit costs money...the toilet, the paper, the utilities bill, maintenance of the sewer system, the sewage processing plant etc etc.
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| 9/11/2012 8:54:24 AM |
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savonagirl
Waterdown, ON
57, joined Aug. 2012
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Why am I with her? I wish I knew. boredom, sex, companionship, Im a caretaker type.
Shes not in school. She is my age. But she really does not appreciate it, she expects it! Because, well she just doesnt have the money for what she wants, shoes, vitamins, supplement, herbs, booze, cigs, etc. And she wont spend her money on the important things like electricity and the dentist. Oh I forgot I just paid for 2 dental visits.
I am not going to ever marry her. Not happening. Yes if she were full time, marriage material, I would spend everything I make to provide a home and life for her and ask for nothing in return. She doesnt show me proper respect so shell never be the one for me.
I don't get your problem. She does her bedroom duties and you don't ever plan to make her permanent in your life. Seems like you and her have already struck a deal.
So why complain?
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| 9/11/2012 9:37:15 AM |
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1shortnsweet
Reading, PA
62, joined Aug. 2011
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I would tend to wonder about you. You sure have everything itemized.....and her bedroom duties....Guess everything is a "deal" to you.....
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| 9/11/2012 9:46:18 AM |
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xpuckerr_uppx
Abilene, TX
24, joined Jun. 2012
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Umm okay.
My hubby pays for everything ..doesn't let me pay. And op that's fine.
But this girl is a spoiled brat. You don't need a "girl" you need a woman.
This is pathetic ..grow some balls and tell this chick how it is.
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| 9/11/2012 9:46:47 AM |
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1shortnsweet
Reading, PA
62, joined Aug. 2011
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OOOrrrr...she could be an easy target for steady bedroom duties. Maybe if you figure out the cost per hour you could shop around. Get something cheaper....always good to comparison shop....
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| 9/11/2012 10:01:56 AM |
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esmeraldar
Toms River, NJ
68, joined Jan. 2009
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If Realwoman sees this (s)he will lock you in a room and make you watch Tom Leykis videos 24/7.
Your sometimes girlfriend should be your no time girlfriend. If she can't manage on disability and foodstamps and doesn't want to work she needs to give up some of her bad habits or find a roommate to help pay the bills.
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| 9/11/2012 10:23:25 AM |
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shellbehappy
Fallbrook, CA
45, joined Jun. 2012
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He's putting the p*ssy on a pedastool. Lol
That must be some good p*ssy....
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| 9/11/2012 10:24:20 AM |
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akindler
Salem, OR
63, joined Feb. 2012
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Op - YOU chose her. The point is that you knew what you were getting, got what you wanted, and are now whining about it. At least she is honest about her motives. You aren't.
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| 9/11/2012 11:13:05 AM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
57, joined May. 2009
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Everything costs money..taking a shit costs money...the toilet, the paper, the utilities bill, maintenance of the sewer system, the sewage processing plant etc etc.
You are so pragmatic.
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| 9/11/2012 11:20:57 AM |
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sutherncutee
Sylacauga, AL
43, joined Aug. 2012
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You seem attractive and maybe intelligent. You want someone to take care of have children or get a dog. Lose the loser skank. This is not a relationship. 
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| 9/11/2012 11:25:03 AM |
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nondescript
Houston, TX
49, joined Jul. 2012
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You are so pragmatic.
To the point I save my '#2 toilet functions' to deposit at work and then calculate based on the time expended how much I got paid to take it.
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| 9/11/2012 11:26:22 AM |
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myblessing2004
Mannheim
Germany
40, joined Aug. 2012
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Lake...you can always tell what mood Non will be in depending on if he has the fro pic up or not.
Non. Be good today. I see you stirring up mess all over these threads this fine morning. 
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| 9/11/2012 11:26:53 AM |
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max811
Palmetto, FL
35, joined Aug. 2010
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Desperate much?
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| 9/11/2012 11:27:31 AM |
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nondescript
Houston, TX
49, joined Jul. 2012
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Lake...you can always tell what mood Non will be in depending on if he has the fro pic up or not.
Non. Be good today. I see you stirring up mess all over these threads this fine morning.
Has there ever been a day where I was 'good'????
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| 9/11/2012 11:32:47 AM |
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myblessing2004
Mannheim
Germany
40, joined Aug. 2012
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^^^ You have had your moments (all teary eyed here) 
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| 9/11/2012 11:33:59 AM |
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nondescript
Houston, TX
49, joined Jul. 2012
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Must have been one of my drunk days...
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| 9/11/2012 11:34:01 AM |
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jtsgirl
Peckville, PA
44, joined Feb. 2012
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You are so pragmatic.
To the point I save my '#2 toilet functions' to deposit at work and then calculate based on the time expended how much I got paid to take it.
omg that's something my boyfriend would say...I found a younger version of non, with more hair!  
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| 9/11/2012 11:34:39 AM |
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nondescript
Houston, TX
49, joined Jul. 2012
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omg that's something my boyfriend would say...I found a younger version of non, with more hair!
I've probably go the same amount of hair, mine is on my chest, back, belly and a** though.
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| 9/11/2012 11:35:08 AM |
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myblessing2004
Mannheim
Germany
40, joined Aug. 2012
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I've probably go the same amount of hair, mine is on my chest, back, belly and a** though.
Don't forget the belly button fuzz 
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| 9/11/2012 11:36:11 AM |
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nondescript
Houston, TX
49, joined Jul. 2012
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^ oh yes, thanks...and nose and ears.
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| 9/11/2012 11:39:43 AM |
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jtsgirl
Peckville, PA
44, joined Feb. 2012
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He is of italian descent, so a bit fuzzy but perhaps it all evens out
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| 9/11/2012 11:40:57 AM |
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rockhead400
New Orleans, LA
51, joined Jul. 2010
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As I said in the orig post, I always pay for all dates always and like it that way. I do like buying her some clothes and shoes sometimes. I don't like it when she needs me to go to 5 stores to buy all kinds of stuff some of which she doesn't need, cigs vitamins, accessories, booze, etc. she is not responsible with money and should only buy what she needs, especially if she expects me to pay.
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| 9/11/2012 11:47:36 AM |
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nondescript
Houston, TX
49, joined Jul. 2012
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As I said in the orig post, I always pay for all dates always and like it that way. I do like buying her some clothes and shoes sometimes. I don't like it when she needs me to go to 5 stores to buy all kinds of stuff some of which she doesn't need, cigs vitamins, accessories, booze, etc. she is not responsible with money and should only buy what she needs, especially if she expects me to pay.
So learn to say 'no b*tch, get your own f**king cigs'
Easy huh?
..the fault is with you for enabling.
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| 9/11/2012 11:50:22 AM |
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rockhead400
New Orleans, LA
51, joined Jul. 2010
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You mention that she is on disability...depending on the disability, she might not be able to work, or she loses her disability benefits...they can work only so many hours a week and no more.
Was she like this when you met her? If so, you knew what you were getting into when you started, and only you can change your own behavior.
Her ability to work is limited. She can't be on her feet long. She could do part time office work or clean houses for a few hours here and there. I have done lots of housecleaning and tons of yard work to make ends meet and provide her what I do. It's just a one way street. I mean she rarely even fixes me food. Other than sex she really does nothing for me.
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| 9/11/2012 1:36:39 PM |
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igotcrnack
Bedford, TX
22, joined Sep. 2012
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This was one of the first things my dad taught me....nothing in life is free.
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| 9/11/2012 2:17:40 PM |
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bigggabe
Riverdale, GA
27, joined Dec. 2011
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You're dumb AF or u must have a little Peter.. you craaaay AF
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| 9/11/2012 2:32:55 PM |
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worldsbest1
Sun City, CA
52, joined Apr. 2012
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Find your equal and then you'll see what a real woman can return all your doing and more,stop
Being used since you now know what that feels like,good luck.
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| 9/11/2012 3:55:53 PM |
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rmk13
Tampa, FL
45, joined Aug. 2012
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Do not allow the  Beaver Power to manipulate you.
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| 9/11/2012 4:02:01 PM |
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jstlkng1964
Adrian, MI
51, joined Feb. 2012
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YOU picked her...either unpick her or.....
You aren't going to change her!!!
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| 9/11/2012 4:05:11 PM |
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poshmandi
Columbia, SC
29, joined Jul. 2012
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I would never ask a man to pay for MY bills! They're MY bills for a reason.
Also gifts are nice and something I'm completely not used to! I would rather have a thank you, kiss, and a bath drawn or dinner made then a gift!
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| 9/11/2012 4:06:35 PM |
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playground1
Santa Monica, CA
54, joined Feb. 2011
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Her ability to work is limited. She can't be on her feet long. She could do part time office work or clean houses for a few hours here and there. I have done lots of housecleaning and tons of yard work to make ends meet and provide her what I do. It's just a one way street. I mean she rarely even fixes me food. Other than sex she really does nothing for me.
just admit it, you love her, there is no other explanation why anyone would put up with this hot mess.
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| 9/11/2012 4:43:54 PM |
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whays
Payson, AZ
72, joined Nov. 2008
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So she has physical limitations and cleans houses. And leeches. If you continue with her you should
simply shoot yourself.
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| 9/11/2012 4:57:38 PM |
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hollywoodstar13
Colona, IL
35, joined Aug. 2011
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Someone needs to fix this guy up with kitty, lol 
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| 9/11/2012 5:29:50 PM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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Its ok to buy somethings for a s/o, but man, I think your over doing it. She is now expecting hand outs. If she is getting a monthly check she needs to learn how to budget better. If she runs out of $, that's her fault not yours.
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| 9/11/2012 5:42:50 PM |
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rcook5678
Fort Myers, FL
47, joined Oct. 2011
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This thread needs to die....
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| 9/11/2012 5:55:35 PM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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Oh my god OP I was going to read all the comments and your responses, but I can't stand it anymore...man your a pushover.
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| 9/11/2012 6:11:13 PM |
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ineedmyebony
Jacksonville, FL
34, joined Jul. 2012
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So this is what my sometimes gf told me this weekend. Dont get me wrong, Im old fashioned and believe that the man should always pay to take his woman out. I like to give gifts. I dont like being asked for them.
So in one day I bought her 2 pairs of shoes, took her to beauty supply and spent about 20, 6 at the pharmacy, 12 at dollar general, 18 on sushi at grocery, 10 for wine, took her to applebees for an appetizer and drinks. Im not cheap and I dont mind spending money on her. The problem is she has no job and no income and is not looking. She barely pays her rent with disability check, and food stamps for food. Smokes like a train, drinks daily like a fish most days.
I work hard for my money and it is not my responsibility to pay for her every need. She has always hit me up for light bills, gas bills, water bills, vet bills, dog food, and on and on.
I tell her to get a job doing anything to earn something and stop expecting me to pay for everything, cause I refuse to be an atm machine. I do give her some cash as well, like 30 bucks this weekend. I usually give her 60-100. I am not giving her that much anymore cause she will just drink and smoke it. So tell me how you feel people? How much is too much? Lots of women out there have jobs and income and are not just leaches. 
I need some new shoes!!!
NO dating a broke a** Gold digging woman cost money!
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| 9/11/2012 6:16:58 PM |
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1sly
Pahrump, NV
58, joined Dec. 2008
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Well yes she is attractive when shes not sloppy drunk and raising hell. I dont mind taking her shopping cause she doesnt drive and needs some help here. Its just she is not trying to fix her own finanical dilemma. She just wants other people to pick up her slack.
Dude, you must be extremely desperate to date someone like that!!!
Is that the best you can do? 
If so maybe start working on yourself so that more normal type females will look your way
Dang it, I'd much whether be alone then be with someone like that!!!
Sly
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| 9/11/2012 6:58:30 PM |
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whiterose89
Philadelphia, PA
26, joined Aug. 2012
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She's not appreciating the way you are helping her ! She thinks you will always be there and she can get whatever she wants from you. She's basically using you  !! 
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| 9/11/2012 7:00:15 PM |
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hoperomantic
West Palm Beach, FL
45, joined Jan. 2012
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Some women can abuse but never use just don't get that shit confused..We all have needs
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| 9/11/2012 7:08:29 PM |
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moonbeams73
Grand Rapids, MN
61, joined Sep. 2009
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You deserve a lot better. Run away as fast as you can!
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| 9/11/2012 7:09:49 PM |
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peass
Argyle, NY
33, joined Aug. 2012
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Ha, I work full time cook clean and pay my bills..I just wish someone else would mow the damn lawn... Where do I find that?
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| 9/11/2012 7:22:24 PM |
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rcook5678
Fort Myers, FL
47, joined Oct. 2011
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Ha, I work full time cook clean and pay my bills..I just wish someone else would mow the damn lawn... Where do I find that?
But it's MY lawn!
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| 9/11/2012 7:31:10 PM |
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robw1990
Roebling, NJ
26, joined Nov. 2010
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come on dude... Your are 44 and havnt learned you are getting used? Seriously?
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| 9/11/2012 7:49:27 PM |
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peass
Argyle, NY
33, joined Aug. 2012
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Ok....where do I get someone to mow my lawn...lol 
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| 9/11/2012 7:52:12 PM |
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gigi63146
Saint Louis, MO
49, joined Aug. 2012
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I don't even know where to start...first of all I don't believe your post. Which is fine you just wanted to start a conversation and see where it went. That worked, but all the extra bs you wrote is just plain stupid.
You know damn well you are not doing all of this for a sloppy, disabled, unemployed, drunken leech (your words) give me a break.
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| 9/11/2012 7:55:14 PM |
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mrobie
Philadelphia, PA
24, joined Sep. 2011
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I don't even know where to start...first of all I don't believe your post. Which is fine you just wanted to start a conversation and see where it went. That worked, but all the extra bs you wrote is just plain stupid.
You know damn well you are not doing all of this for a sloppy, disabled, unemployed, drunken leech (your words) give me a break.
Can't believe that a guy is doing this?
Trust me, they are, a lot of them are!
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| 9/11/2012 8:05:31 PM |
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tcretiredhippie
Durand, WI
58, joined Apr. 2012
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Man i hate whiners
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| 9/11/2012 9:17:33 PM |
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cupidnj
Glendora, NJ
31, joined May. 2012
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Thats why you dont have a girlfriend juat get and escort or a massage lol.. Alot better cheaper and dont have to deal with them they next day
Perfection
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| 9/11/2012 9:20:19 PM |
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whiterose89
Philadelphia, PA
26, joined Aug. 2012
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Some women can abuse but never use just don't get that shit confused..We all have needs
Taking advantage of someone else to fulfill ones need! Sounds like using to me. Then again you are more experienced
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| 9/11/2012 9:21:48 PM |
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whiterose89
Philadelphia, PA
26, joined Aug. 2012
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I don't even know where to start...first of all I don't believe your post. Which is fine you just wanted to start a conversation and see where it went. That worked, but all the extra bs you wrote is just plain stupid.
You know damn well you are not doing all of this for a sloppy, disabled, unemployed, drunken leech (your words) give me a break.
Hard to believe yes! But hey.. I know a few just like him... 
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| 9/12/2012 1:09:06 AM |
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nelleo
Pemberton, NJ
27, joined Aug. 2012
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Hellooooo! Is this mike on??? *taps on mike* Can u hear me? I need you to get as close as possible. Little closer...alittle closer...jus a bit more. *reaches over n slaps him in the face* SHE'S USING YOU! DUH?! Are u playing? She's living off of u n the gov't. You probably only see her when she needs something...which is probably all the time...
Don't get me wrong I believe in being shivery but LORD. She ain't trying to work... I never understood who some people can sit on their a** all day n do nothing. I would be so bored... But I'm getting off topic...but anyway
DUMP THE BUM B*TCH AND GET WITH SOMEONE ON YA LEVEL. Set some standards, don't be with just anybody, there isn't anything wrong with having standard...
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| 9/12/2012 2:43:34 AM |
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playground1
Santa Monica, CA
54, joined Feb. 2011
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I don't even know where to start...first of all I don't believe your post. Which is fine you just wanted to start a conversation and see where it went. That worked, but all the extra bs you wrote is just plain stupid.
You know damn well you are not doing all of this for a sloppy, disabled, unemployed, drunken leech (your words) give me a break.
i think you're right..we've been hoodwinked
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| 9/12/2012 2:50:57 AM |
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imthegrl
Amarillo, TX
48, joined Feb. 2012
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I don't even know where to start...first of all I don't believe your post. Which is fine you just wanted to start a conversation and see where it went. That worked, but all the extra bs you wrote is just plain stupid.
You know damn well you are not doing all of this for a sloppy, disabled, unemployed, drunken leech (your words) give me a break.
He has been complaining about this woman for months. They go back and forth using each other...he complains on here about her hitting him a as well a** the drunk part but just keeps going back. He needs to start spending that money on a therapist instead.
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| 9/12/2012 3:17:18 AM |
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curvycharms
Starkville, MS
39, joined May. 2011
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wow go find a relationship.....and not just a leech
co-sign!!!!!!!
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