| 4/28/2013 7:57:34 PM |
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1gadawg
Dublin, GA
50, joined Apr. 2013
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I made it past her birthday...I barely made it through the holidays without her...But now it soon will be a year since I lost her...With no family close by, it is going to be unbearable and I just have such confusion in my thoughts...Maybe I just needed a second to vent somewhere...thanks for reading.
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| 4/28/2013 8:10:41 PM |
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sunnydee7777
Clermont, FL
67, joined Aug. 2011
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I understand ga dawg.
It feels like the pain and emotions comes in waves. Some days seem a little ok and other days, you want to pull the covers over your head.
It has been almost 3 yrs for me and life still doesn't seem quite right.
We are glad you posted and you can vent anytime, we understand.
 be well my friend 
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| 4/28/2013 8:16:31 PM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
58, joined May. 2009
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Vent all you wish. We get it. It's great to have a place where people understand.
I sure understand the having no close family nearby. It's hard.
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| 4/28/2013 8:20:42 PM |
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1gadawg
Dublin, GA
50, joined Apr. 2013
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Thanks for reading and caring...
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| 4/29/2013 9:56:21 AM |
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justjimmy2
Arizona
Argentina
64, joined Aug. 2012
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Time marches on, find things you like to do to fill that time.
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| 5/13/2013 5:50:13 PM |
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realandoldtimer
Toledo, WA
66, joined Apr. 2013
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I know how your feeling may 22 is one year for me
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| 5/25/2013 1:23:54 PM |
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carrebear33
Newport, MI
38, joined May. 2013
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I sympathize, I have our anniversary in 10 days and then 28 days later will be one year since my husband died. One of the hardest things is staying strong for my daughter sometimes.
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| 5/25/2013 4:49:33 PM |
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kerbbasi
Salt Lake City, UT
41, joined May. 2013
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I completely understand what your talking about also. June 3rd is the 1 year anniversary for my wifes passing. Then a week later oldest birthday and July wedding anniversary.
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| 5/25/2013 5:26:01 PM |
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funnyface4him
Butler, PA
50, joined Mar. 2010
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I know it doesn't help much but boy are we lucky too have had the spouses loved ones that we did. I know that it hurts like no other feeling in the word. Im sorry for everyones pain... whoever came up with this site is amazing. at lest here we can vent and feel like someone is listening , that someone hears us but most of al that someone understands us..... and our pain ...
love and hugs too all.....
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| 6/1/2013 8:45:32 AM |
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sassycat492
Waldorf, MD
56, joined Oct. 2012
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Will be one year for me on July 23, 2013.
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| 7/14/2013 5:56:15 PM |
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tibi1983
Phoenix, AZ
34, joined Jul. 2013
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Its been almost three years for me. Those milestones, birthdays, holidays ect.. do get easier to bare. You just have to give time, time.
[Edited 7/14/2013 5:56:34 PM ]
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| 7/14/2013 6:36:53 PM |
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distancec
French Lick, IN
43, joined Jul. 2013
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| 7/14/2013 6:37:59 PM |
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distancec
French Lick, IN
43, joined Jul. 2013
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since 2000...13 years and I keep loving him. I miss him with all my heart.
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| 7/18/2013 1:48:23 PM |
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forward16
Charlotte, NC
69, joined Jul. 2013
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I know how it feels, it's not easy, only US that has lost thank God we found this site, because we here understands, it's not as easy as others may think, the first 3yrs were pure confusion for me, so anytime you feel down, remember you have brothers n sisters in here.
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| 7/18/2013 11:21:01 PM |
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sunnydee7777
Clermont, FL
67, joined Aug. 2011
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Thank you, forward 16... for the sweet message.
When I read the other posts they feel so familiar.
I am so glad to have my brothers and sisters in here
[Edited 7/18/2013 11:22:05 PM ]
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| 7/21/2013 8:36:52 PM |
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lovetoplay642
Beaverton, OR
71, joined Apr. 2011
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It's been 5 years and I still get a twinge on our anniversary, her birthday, Christmas and the day she passed. And probably always will, even if I'm fortunate enough to find someone else. And if she's a widow I expect the same of her.
After all our spouses were a huge part of our lives.
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| 7/25/2013 1:27:02 AM |
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sunnydee7777
Clermont, FL
67, joined Aug. 2011
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It's been 5 years and I still get a twinge on our anniversary, her birthday, Christmas and the day she passed. And probably always will, even if I'm fortunate enough to find someone else. And if she's a widow I expect the same of her.
Well said Lovetoplay
JMO....I feel divorced individuals just don't quite understand where we come from... if we even mention our late spouse, they assume we haven't gotten over them.
Being a widow/widower can not be compared to being divorced.
I am not saying all divorced people cannot be understanding.
I will always treasure the memories we shared. But I know I have it in my heart to make more memories and to accept my life the way it is and move forward to all
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| 7/30/2013 2:41:10 PM |
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distancec
French Lick, IN
43, joined Jul. 2013
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I know how it feels, it's not easy, only US that has lost thank God we found this site, because we here understands, it's not as easy as others may think, the first 3yrs were pure confusion for me, so anytime you feel down, remember you have brothers n sisters in here.
Thank you for your words...God bless u!!
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| 9/15/2013 2:13:55 PM |
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mstrishlivinmy
Memphis, TN
50, joined Sep. 2013
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I no how u feel its been 18 months since my husband pass just keep prayin like I do & it gonna get better 4 the both of us...we gotta keep the faith 
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| 9/15/2013 5:03:42 PM |
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whistlerblue
Lancaster, CA
60, joined Jun. 2010
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It's been 5 years and I still get a twinge on our anniversary, her birthday, Christmas and the day she passed. And probably always will, even if I'm fortunate enough to find someone else. And if she's a widow I expect the same of her.
After all our spouses were a huge part of our lives.
Yes, we will always feel a twinge on special days. Tomorrow would have been our 30th anniversary. I took the day off work in remembrance. I also now take off on her birthday and the day she passed. She was a big part of who I've become and who I am now. I do have a new lady in my life and fortunately, she understands the situation. She knows that I take these days as "personal" days and she gives me the alone time that I desire.
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| 9/15/2013 6:40:32 PM |
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carman9854
New Port Richey, FL
63, joined Sep. 2012
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Hi guys it has been a year july 29th i know i have to move on but everyone i meet is wacked different world out there.And of course i miss her very much with her for 36 years. All i am looking for is a companion someone to keep my head together.
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| 9/16/2013 12:13:53 AM |
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gdaddy47
Columbia, TN
70, joined Sep. 2009
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Time brother, time. You'll see one day. Nothing will take your late spouse's place but you will be happy once again.
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| 9/16/2013 11:24:46 PM |
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softltouch
Denver, CO
49, joined Sep. 2013
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I know how it feels each holiday or special occasion I found myself forcing myself to take the next breath I figured out that is why God made breathing involuntary cause had he not I would be dead. I made it to 3rd year so far. No one can tell you when the grieving is over all I can say is that the pain lessens
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