Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?

No way time to move on especially if you still hurt and have feelings all you will do is just prolong the pain because when her new man comes along its done again and you will have more pain... relationship done time to cut ties to move on she will continue to get what she can til she is done. Not worth it man.

Wish she would have it would have made things easy.
She had past relationship DAMAGE.

11/28/2013 4:59:00 AM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
stormcloud411 Etowah, TN 63, joined Aug. 2013	State "Yes", or "No", but give a reason for your answer. Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
11/28/2013 6:52:16 AM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
donnie_37 Hamilton, OH 40, joined Jun. 2013	Absolutely yes! A thousand heartbreaks is worth that one great love that lasts forever.
11/28/2013 6:53:01 AM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
lookin4ones Hurst, TX 56, joined Oct. 2010	Let's find out.
11/28/2013 6:53:20 AM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
donnie_37 Hamilton, OH 40, joined Jun. 2013	And I wish I lived in Ovieda, Florida.
11/28/2013 6:53:33 AM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
deneez Rochester, MI 57, joined Apr. 2012	According to those with life long marriages, the death of the spouse was unspeakable pain to the point that the survivor wished it on themselves. But they would not have changed a thing. Yes.
11/28/2013 7:19:51 AM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
innocentlacee Louisville, KY 30, joined Oct. 2013	Most definately. There is no other feeling that is greater than love. Yeah you might get hurt in the process of finding love, thats a risk that you have to be willing to take. You cant expect to find the right person for yourself right away.
11/28/2013 8:17:30 AM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
stamina1975 Madison Heights, VA 98, joined Apr. 2012
11/28/2013 8:30:20 AM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
gac1961 Maryville, TN 55, joined Aug. 2013	Yes it is worth it! All love is painful! Pain is a component of love. If it was not painful then imagine what people would be like. For without love and pain, of the heart, then there would not be a need for self awareness!!!!!
11/28/2013 8:35:59 AM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
stamina1975 Madison Heights, VA 98, joined Apr. 2012	What is love? Five theories on the greatest emotion of all http://gu.com/p/3cfjh/tw
11/28/2013 10:27:16 AM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
rey2140 Sullivan, OH 47, joined Sep. 2013	yes it is. But love doesn't bring pain.
11/28/2013 10:38:17 AM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
smthgabouther Baltimore, MD 36, joined Dec. 2012	Yes yes yes! Love is worth the pain. Love can suck sometimes. Like when you tell a guy you love him and he doesn't say it back. Love hurts sometimes but that's not neccessarily a bad thing. It shows you have a heart that is capable of feeling and hasn't run cold.
11/28/2013 11:08:47 AM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
sandu469 Phoenix, AZ 34, joined Sep. 2013	Yes and No... I am greatful for the years and memories I have of Love but the pain and scars will always remain because love is temporary and people change when love can not fix the issue and is lost the pain is a rememberance to never truely give yourself for when you do you lose yourself and give someone control of shattering a peice of your soul. So Yes worth the pain because I would have never known how strong love can be what people will do for love but in the end I don't need to ever feel that pain again and nobody will ever get keys to the inner heart.. may see it may touch it may feel it but will never control it. I think everyone should experience it thou just some of us not designed to have a multishattered soul
11/28/2013 11:25:48 AM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
susansheart839 Port Saint Lucie, FL 69, joined Mar. 2008	Real love begets real love, not pain. Please remember that.
11/28/2013 11:40:37 AM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
lovethelake17 Henderson, NV 58, joined May. 2009	Quote from rabbitbrown: Yes. Love is the reward for the risk taken. When it is unrequited, it is a gift, when it is returned, it is wonderful. This and this Quote from deneez: According to those with life long marriages, the death of the spouse was unspeakable pain to the point that the survivor wished it on themselves. But they would not have changed a thing. Yes. The love is worth the pain. And there will be pain, because the relationship will end, either in death or in breaking up. You can't let that inevitability keep you from loving because the pain of never loving is much, much worse.
11/28/2013 11:47:36 AM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
zimzane2 High Point, NC 56, joined Jan. 2013	Quote from stormcloud411: State "Yes", or "No", but give a reason for your answer. Is ( love ) it worth the risk? Yes, but life is a gamble anyway.
11/28/2013 12:30:52 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
smthgabouther Baltimore, MD 36, joined Dec. 2012	Quote from donkey_punche: If you realize life is pain, then yes. If you are a coddled immediate gratification junky that thinks being unemployed for a year is hell, or not having enough money for the super size value meal means you are downtrodden, or you get mad when you can't play call of duty that day, or spend most of your time high, then no. Wow, where did he go with it? I thought this thread was about love. I must've misread the op or something...
11/28/2013 2:31:11 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
bubblyblond4u Crestline, CA 58, joined Jan. 2013	Quote from sandu469: Yes and No... I am greatful for the years and memories I have of Love but the pain and scars will always remain because love is temporary and people change when love can not fix the issue and is lost the pain is a rememberance to never truely give yourself for when you do you lose yourself and give someone control of shattering a peice of your soul. So Yes worth the pain because I would have never known how strong love can be what people will do for love but in the end I don't need to ever feel that pain again and nobody will ever get keys to the inner heart.. may see it may touch it may feel it but will never control it. I think everyone should experience it thou just some of us not designed to have a multishattered soul I think this is the answer for me. It seems there may be many different answers, depending on our life experiences. I believe some fall harder than others. So the pain may be more excruciating to some, and question "was it worth it". Can't give a yes or no answer to this. JMHO
11/28/2013 2:35:51 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
joat111026 Port Saint Lucie, FL 53, joined Oct. 2011	Quote from rabbitbrown: Yes. Love is the reward for the risk taken. When it is unrequited, it is a gift, when it is returned, it is wonderful.
11/28/2013 2:39:38 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
lovethelake17 Henderson, NV 58, joined May. 2009	Quote from bubblyblond4u: I think this is the answer for me. It seems there may be many different answers, depending on our life experiences. I believe some fall harder than others. So the pain may be more excruciating to some, and question "was it worth it". Can't give a yes or no answer to this. JMHO I understand what you're saying, but I'm not sure I agree with at least one part. I don't know if I think one might feel it more excruciating than another. It may be that they can handle it better or work through it better. That might be what you mean, though. I don't like to say that one person's pain is more than another's because that, to me, seems a little judgemental or condescending. It seems like comparing and finding wanting, or something, and I don't think that's what you mean at all. I think much of it is about our makeup and how we handle things, and knowing ourselves enough to know if we can go through it again. At least, not until we make changes in how we deal with it, be that to be more protective of self or whatever measures we take.
11/28/2013 2:46:16 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
mr_crash Corpus Christi, TX 49, joined Oct. 2013	Quote from deneez: According to those with life long marriages, the death of the spouse was unspeakable pain to the point that the survivor wished it on themselves. But they would not have changed a thing. Yes. It was worth every second of pain I am now going through. I hope everyone can find a love like we had but be spared the pain from the death of a spouse. We all have to die I just hope for y'all it don't come so soon.
11/28/2013 3:21:08 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
muddylum Mountain City, GA 57, joined Oct. 2013	Quote from mr_crash: It was worth every second of pain I am now going through. I hope everyone can find a love like we had but be spared the pain from the death of a spouse. We all have to die I just hope for y'all it don't come so soon. Mr crash I feel for ya,I also lost my first love. The wife was my rock ,and me hers. When I finally met someone that I had common interests and values for we didn't talk much about are past. We focused on are future. 3 months later I said the love word. Didn't take long for that one to end. Hurt ,bitter,angry. Moving on now has me guarded. Was it worth it. Not a clue. I'm still healing. Not having the love returned sucks. Let me ask everyone should I remain friends with a women who broke my heart or should I just tell her to take a hike ? No it hurts Yes hurts also. Lol. Double Standard's
11/28/2013 3:24:14 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
livinfree1o1 Long Island City, NY 36, joined Nov. 2012	yes. pain conditions you, it makes you stronger. no pain, no gain.
11/28/2013 3:26:42 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
sandu469 Phoenix, AZ 34, joined Sep. 2013	Let me ask everyone should I remain friends with a women who broke my heart or should I just tell her to take a hike ? No it hurts Yes hurts also. Lol. Double Standard's
11/28/2013 3:29:58 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
lovethelake17 Henderson, NV 58, joined May. 2009	Quote from muddylum: Mr crash I feel for ya,I also lost my first love. The wife was my rock ,and me hers. When I finally met someone that I had common interests and values for we didn't talk much about are past. We focused on are future. 3 months later I said the love word. Didn't take long for that one to end. Hurt ,bitter,angry. Moving on now has me guarded. Was it worth it. Not a clue. I'm still healing. Not having the love returned sucks. Let me ask everyone should I remain friends with a women who broke my heart or should I just tell her to take a hike ? No it hurts Yes hurts also. Lol. Double Standard's If remaining friends will prolong the pain then don't do it. If you can accept her feelings as not being what you want it to be, and not resent her for it, then try to be friends. We don't always get what we want. But the point is is to love. Love is a gift, and we don't always look to getting a return gift, right? I've been lucky. I did find love again after my husband died. But my giving love, while much better when reciprocated, isn't predicated on it being returned. It's not a tit for tat thing, or shouldn't be. While I'm not talking about endless love when someone doesn't return it and sticking around to moon over the person, I am talking about accepting their feelings, and not hating them for not being able to be what we want.
11/28/2013 4:25:41 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
muddylum Mountain City, GA 57, joined Oct. 2013	Quote from sandu469: Let me ask everyone should I remain friends with a women who broke my heart or should I just tell her to take a hike ? No it hurts Yes hurts also. Lol. Double Standard's No way time to move on especially if you still hurt and have feelings all you will do is just prolong the pain because when her new man comes along its done again and you will have more pain... relationship done time to cut ties to move on she will continue to get what she can til she is done. Not worth it man.
11/28/2013 4:38:53 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
muddylum Mountain City, GA 57, joined Oct. 2013	Quote from lovethelake17: If remaining friends will prolong the pain then don't do it. If you can accept her feelings as not being what you want it to be, and not resent her for it, then try to be friends. We don't always get what we want. But the point is is to love. Love is a gift, and we don't always look to getting a return gift, right? I've been lucky. I did find love again after my husband died. But my giving love, while much better when reciprocated, isn't predicated on it being returned. It's not a tit for tat thing, or shouldn't be. While I'm not talking about endless love when someone doesn't return it and sticking around to moon over the person, I am talking about accepting their feelings, and not hating them for not being able to be what we want. I do like your approach to how love Might work.Yeng/Yang Love is that funny little thing that can hurt at times. But saying a yes or no is tough!!! We all have heard how powerful the word NO means. It is much stronger then saying Yes. We are in the minority with are years on us. Sorry I'm still on the fence.
11/28/2013 4:50:10 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
mepps_58 Woodbridge, VA 58, joined Jan. 2011	Love doesn't bring pain. The results from the end of a relationship, for whatever reason, cause hurt. If one gives true, heartfelt love to another, that's an indication that they can do it again and a favorable characteristic.
11/28/2013 4:55:02 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
marydenton Aubrey, TX 41, joined Jun. 2011	Yeah and he lives in Algeria! .
11/28/2013 4:59:16 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
muddylum Mountain City, GA 57, joined Oct. 2013	Quote from marydenton: Yeah and he lives in Algeria! .
11/28/2013 6:28:44 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
victus_puella1 Seattle, WA 24, joined Nov. 2013	Quote from stamina1975: I agree with stamina's picture quote.. Love doesn't cause pain.
11/29/2013 12:22:32 AM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
driver406 Saint Paul, MN 65, joined Oct. 2009	I gave up on women 30 years ago and I've yet to find one who cares.
11/29/2013 10:38:48 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
tasgosa Knob Noster, MO 62, joined Jul. 2013	Quote from rabbitbrown: Yes. Love is the reward for the risk taken. When it is unrequited, it is a gift, when it is returned, it is wonderful. YES!! . . Very Worth it!!! (Even when it is lost to tragedy!)~~ ...and the Pain...is having it Ignored...when it's offered... Sincerely [Edited 11/29/2013 10:40:34 PM ]
11/30/2013 7:27:46 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
209kalico Modesto, CA 42, joined Apr. 2012	Yes; It would be heartless not to have loved someone. let alone to be "inlove". give them a gift to feel.
11/30/2013 7:52:34 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
4boojie_brenda Washington, DC 46, joined Oct. 2013	Quote from donnie_37: Absolutely yes! A thousand heartbreaks is worth that one great love that's lasts forever.
11/30/2013 7:53:39 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
barbiedollgirl Vienna, VA 60, joined Aug. 2010	no, it is not pain sucks
11/30/2013 9:06:06 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
early_frost Lebanon, CT 53, joined Sep. 2013	Yes. It's the only game in town.
11/30/2013 10:22:46 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
stumppy Wind Gap, PA 71, joined Jan. 2008	Love does NOT cause pain. Our beliefs about losing love is what we allow for us to cause a sense of pain. Any loss of close companionship will create a sense of loss, how we allow our belief to respond is what creates our pain.
12/1/2013 3:33:22 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
sherbear1980 Omaha, NE 36, joined Jul. 2013	I used think so but now f**k love I'm sick of being hurt
12/2/2013 5:02:56 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
antdat69 Fort Worth, TX 56, joined Aug. 2012	yes it is, because it's not always gonna be rainbows and unicorns but it's nice to know someone is there to go through it with you.
12/2/2013 5:04:56 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
userx79 Richmond, VA 38, joined Mar. 2013	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings? This is a question that ONLY each INDIVIDUAL can answer for him/herself.
12/2/2013 8:14:04 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
lookin4him2012 Boone, NC 48, joined Jan. 2012	Quote from stormcloud411: State "Yes", or "No", but give a reason for your answer. Yes but not if I know it will bring pain. I got really selective in who I chose to date after getting hurt by the first 2 men I met after my ex-H and I split up. I started dating the safer men, the ones I didn't think as soon as I met them that they would use me, lie to me or cheat on me. If it happens at some point then it happens, can't prevent that unfortunately, but I steer clear of the types that just give off the impression they can't be trusted.
12/2/2013 8:15:02 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
lookin4him2012 Boone, NC 48, joined Jan. 2012	Quote from userx79: Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings? This is a question that ONLY each INDIVIDUAL can answer for him/herself. umm...isn't that what we are already doing in this thread?
12/2/2013 8:18:12 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
gamerman17 New York, NY 29, joined Apr. 2010	For me, it is. When you love something and have to fight fight hard for it, even though it may not end the way you expect, the experience of feeling the emotion is enough for me to constantly experience it. I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world personally.....gamer
12/2/2013 8:59:57 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
userx79 Richmond, VA 38, joined Mar. 2013	Quote from rey2140: love doesn't bring pain. Exactly [Edited 12/2/2013 9:00:24 PM ]
12/3/2013 3:46:17 AM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
grneyesrme Sacramento, CA 49, joined Aug. 2013	Of course it is. It is always better to have loved & lost then never to have loved at all.
12/3/2013 8:55:33 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
mysticalsag9 Clarksburg, WV 60, joined Jan. 2013	Quote from grneyesrme: Of course it is. It is always better to have loved & lost then never to have loved at all. That has always been a great saying about love...
12/3/2013 9:02:13 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
driver406 Saint Paul, MN 65, joined Oct. 2009	Not in my experience, but I'm waiting for someone to change my mind, but not holding my breath either.
12/4/2013 1:48:45 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
micuzi007 Macdoel, CA 35, joined Apr. 2011	SNOOP LION: there will be ups and downs, share with me fairytale i make believe
12/4/2013 2:06:24 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
1svelte Chino Valley, AZ 39, joined Apr. 2010	Love doesn't have to be painful. If it is painful, then it's not a good relationship. Time to abandon ship.
12/4/2013 2:06:36 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
e_lizabeth Jacksonville Beach, FL 45, joined Apr. 2012	Love in all its forms will bring some pain because no one escapes suffering and it brings us pain to see someone we love suffer. However, love in and of itself does not equal pain and if an intimate relationship is painful there is an absence of love somewhere.
12/4/2013 2:07:24 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
1svelte Chino Valley, AZ 39, joined Apr. 2010	Quote from e_lizabeth: Love in all its forms will bring some pain because no one escapes suffering and it brings us pain to see someone we love suffer. However, love in and of itself does not equal pain and if an intimate relationship is painful there is an absence of love somewhere. Well said.
12/4/2013 3:12:23 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
unboxurebox Middletown, OH 28, joined Nov. 2013	is love worth the pain you say ? well that's up for u to decide love can be painful to a existent not a everyday thing not a on going thing we all have ups and downs in love and thats ok its healthy yes but to many ups and downs unhealthy we live we learn we love being single can be painful too depression sets in for many and most of us cant get over our last love always with the what ifs and what could have beens just know in the end life gose on yes with or without love life is just full of ups and downs pain and let downs so live on ppl
12/4/2013 11:05:48 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
sunshineoftoday Knoxville, TN 60, joined Jun. 2012	ALWAYS!!!! I have spent more time in love than pain... and I'm sure at the end of my life love will be more important than the pain..and I'm sure the next guy will feel this from me and I will give him the chance without thinking about my past pain.
12/5/2013 9:21:01 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
softltouch Denver, CO 48, joined Sep. 2013	I don't think love brings pain. People bring pain to themselves and others while they are in a relationship when love suppose to be the center of their attention instead of selfishness
12/5/2013 9:59:53 PM	Is LOVE worth the pain it often brings?
joe182121 Bourbonnais, IL 65, joined Aug. 2013	Quote from stamina1975: This is the truth. The only thing left is, you have to decide if the risk of pain of the loneliness, or the rejection is worth the risk you are taking in being vulnerable to love.. I say yes! But that's me. Many don't want to risk it again once they have felt the pain that often happens when it is lost..

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