| 1/9/2014 10:33:37 PM |
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ladynewyork23
White Plains, NY
28, joined Jan. 2012
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I was chatting with a man online for a month now from another dating site. He is my age 25 and we talked on kik everyday. If we do meet it will be sometimes this month. A few days ago I gave him my number and he text me. I want to talk with him on the phone and sent him a text last night asking him if I could give him a call sometimes this weekend but he didn't reply. I don't know if he didn't get my text or what. Do I move on?
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| 1/9/2014 10:34:52 PM |
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rlm68
Aurora, CO
48, joined Apr. 2010
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re-text him and then decide from there.
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| 1/9/2014 10:37:50 PM |
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patriottype
Grand Prairie, TX
46, joined Jul. 2013
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Women should not chase men it what foolish women do....... do not conduct yourself like a fool. know your gender role but dont let it own you.
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| 1/9/2014 10:38:26 PM |
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jer3552
Vale, OR
62, joined Oct. 2013
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try it once more but be suspicious
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| 1/9/2014 10:38:59 PM |
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alls_fair
Thorlákshöfn
Iceland
97, joined May. 2011
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Dump his sorry ass!!!
A real man would have answered immediately...
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| 1/9/2014 10:40:23 PM |
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max811
Palmetto, FL
36, joined Aug. 2010
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You should text him 27 times every hour until he replies.Or pays his phone bill....
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| 1/9/2014 10:42:39 PM |
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1darksavior
Brooklyn, NY
55, joined Mar. 2011
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maybe he has a life and got busy
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| 1/9/2014 10:43:07 PM |
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bittentwiceshy
Port Orchard, WA
64, joined Feb. 2012
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Don't text again. Begging is for dogs not women.
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| 1/9/2014 10:43:57 PM |
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claudius5
Petaluma, CA
67, joined May. 2009
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What does your critical thinking tell you?
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| 1/9/2014 10:44:35 PM |
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ladynewyork23
White Plains, NY
28, joined Jan. 2012
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That's too soon for me, everyone is different. I'll meet when I'm ready.
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| 1/9/2014 10:44:37 PM |
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alls_fair
Thorlákshöfn
Iceland
97, joined May. 2011
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Begging is for women not dogs.
Fixed it for you...
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| 1/9/2014 10:45:42 PM |
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stan_147
Coos Bay, OR
53, joined Aug. 2010
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| 1/9/2014 10:50:04 PM |
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mrld_ii
Stockton, CA
56, joined May. 2011
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You should text him 27 times every hour until he replies.Or pays his phone bill....
OP, this ^^^ is bad, bad, BAD advice.
Doing so will only keep you too busy - and spending too much money - when you should, obviously, be investing both in
planning your wedding.
TRUST me. Time's a-wastin'!!!
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| 1/9/2014 10:50:17 PM |
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patriottype
Grand Prairie, TX
46, joined Jul. 2013
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Don't text again. Begging is for dogs not women.
Neither sex should try to hard......people that like you will not make you try to hard.
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| 1/9/2014 10:50:17 PM |
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jer3552
Vale, OR
62, joined Oct. 2013
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twicebitten was trying to be nice what she meant is begging is for dogs and men
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| 1/9/2014 10:51:26 PM |
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mrlickzher
Owensboro, KY
39, joined Mar. 2013
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 this is desperate thread material. .
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| 1/9/2014 10:54:14 PM |
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patriottype
Grand Prairie, TX
46, joined Jul. 2013
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OP you shouldnt tolerate this guys disrespect he must be punished!
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| 1/9/2014 10:55:40 PM |
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bittentwiceshy
Port Orchard, WA
64, joined Feb. 2012
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jer thank you for explaining that 
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| 1/9/2014 10:57:11 PM |
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fishnthec
Mesquite, TX
65, joined Oct. 2010
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You need to learn to use your intuition. For example, let me offer you mine; The man you have been chatting and texting with is preoccupied- most likely with either his wife or girlfriend.
[Edited 1/9/2014 10:57:40 PM ]
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| 1/9/2014 10:57:33 PM |
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ladynewyork23
White Plains, NY
28, joined Jan. 2012
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lmao you guys are too funny.
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| 1/9/2014 10:58:51 PM |
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sand_inhershoes
Milton, FL
54, joined Jul. 2011
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I know you don't want to hear this OP, but he is probably a married man.
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| 1/9/2014 11:02:58 PM |
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forumfriendly2
Norfolk, VA
40, joined Sep. 2013
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thats called being married..he just wanted a** pics but you just kept pushing for more..
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| 1/9/2014 11:03:08 PM |
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patriottype
Grand Prairie, TX
46, joined Jul. 2013
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OP if you burn his house down while he is at work he will be more likely to accept yr invitation to sleep over.
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| 1/9/2014 11:03:32 PM |
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lovessmart
Corona, CA
58, joined Feb. 2013
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I was chatting with a man online for a month now from another dating site. He is my age 25 and we talked on kik everyday. If we do meet it will be sometimes this month. A few days ago I gave him my number and he text me. I want to talk with him on the phone and sent him a text last night asking him if I could give him a call sometimes this weekend but he didn't reply. I don't know if he didn't get my text or what. Do I move on?
You are in White Plains, a heavily populated area, and should have plenty of cool guys in your area. Until you meet, talk to other guys. Then you won't be obsessing when he gets a hold of you. You haven't met yet. When you meet that's the time to decide if all that chatting works in person. Until then you really have nothing. I get you think he's great, but that remains to be seen. If he is too thoughtless you will have wasted a chance to meet someone who thinks more highly of you.
[Edited 1/9/2014 11:04:27 PM ]
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| 1/9/2014 11:04:19 PM |
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forumfriendly2
Norfolk, VA
40, joined Sep. 2013
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jer thank you for explaining that 
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| 1/9/2014 11:06:48 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011
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You chat with him for a month and kik everyday too
Then one day missed and your ready to bail..??????????????
....
[Edited 1/9/2014 11:07:02 PM ]
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| 1/9/2014 11:13:27 PM |
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bittentwiceshy
Port Orchard, WA
64, joined Feb. 2012
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yeah you're right. I am actually toothless and wear polyester slacks with smock tops.
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| 1/9/2014 11:16:49 PM |
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jer3552
Vale, OR
62, joined Oct. 2013
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I luv u twicebitten
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| 1/9/2014 11:19:54 PM |
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jer3552
Vale, OR
62, joined Oct. 2013
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pay no attention to the man behind the curtain twicebitten he masturbates too much he is right about me being broke though
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| 1/9/2014 11:23:04 PM |
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lilod
Aurora, IL
50, joined Aug. 2012
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Why not just go on about your business for a couple of days and see what happens? Not hearing from someone for 24 hours doesn't necessarily require any major life decisions.
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| 1/9/2014 11:23:42 PM |
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txrose64
Pearland, TX
53, joined Jan. 2013
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yeah you're right. I am actually toothless and wear polyester slacks with smock tops.
hey I don't wear polyester it's too hot for it in Houston!
~~adjusts my Hippie smock~~
an almost full toothed laugh too at that!
OP you've talked on the cell with this guy? like you called him? or has it been at his timing(they've alluded to involved with someone else)
you don't know... and that's all part of talking and interested to learn more about someone or not.
I'd call him, leave a voice message. (If it rolls over right away one or two rings he killed the call btw) five or six I think it is and it just didn't get picked up. (Ok you've got to pay attention to how it goes down if you are "trying to pay attention" to suss out the situation.)
Now if you don't hear back from him in a day or so move it along, it's the weekend husband/boyfriends are busy with their women then. Or he's simply lost interest. Or he's busy it's a work week and he'll call...go with the flow and you'll see in a few days..patience, patience 
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| 1/9/2014 11:25:41 PM |
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hadassah169
Dhaneswargati
Bangladesh
82, joined Dec. 2012
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Stop harassing him, a whole month??? What are you waiting for? I would have already lost interest, I hope he hasn't.
People are busy give him a chance to call you back and quit sweating him. If he calls back great if he doesn't this weekend, who cares, on to the next...
Chill, these chicks and these threads. 
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| 1/9/2014 11:29:25 PM |
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russellbr
Scarsdale, NY
43, joined Aug. 2013
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Sounds like he could be attached, OP. Messaging for a month everyday is a long time to go without meeting - especially if he lives in our area. I'd give it until the end of the weekend for him to get back to you. If he doesn't, take it as a sign that he's not serious about meeting (for whatever reason).
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| 1/9/2014 11:32:40 PM |
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russellbr
Scarsdale, NY
43, joined Aug. 2013
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Might even be sooner than that Joe...
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| 1/9/2014 11:35:18 PM |
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dan9787
Laval, QC
53, joined Apr. 2011
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I say give it some time. In case. He could be busy. And text again, he may have gotten lots of texts, not just from women, and missed yours.
If he doesn't reply for a few more days, and a few more attempts, something is up or something happened to him.
Don't jump to conclusions yet.
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| 1/9/2014 11:36:54 PM |
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playground1
Santa Monica, CA
55, joined Feb. 2011
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Im not going to chat with anybody online for a month
that's too much time invested with someone you may not
have any PHYSICAL CHEMISTRY with in person.
If he thinks the next step is texting...hell, that's
the same as online. whats he hiding? if hes been responding
promptly to you online, now he isn't, I see bullshit ahead
you don't need it. MOVE ON.
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| 1/9/2014 11:38:19 PM |
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forumfriendly2
Norfolk, VA
40, joined Sep. 2013
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Professional portraits.
A studio could make me look handsome.
its the red hair...im a sucker for it!
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| 1/9/2014 11:39:22 PM |
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mr_ctr916
Roseville, CA
54, joined Aug. 2013
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Consider it a vacation and let it be a pleasant surprise if he corresponds with you.
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| 1/9/2014 11:39:31 PM |
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rubberbanman
Sherman, TX
42, joined May. 2011
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I'm looking for an honest man means her husband cheated on her.
It also means she LIKES men who LIE and are DIS-honest.
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| 1/9/2014 11:42:01 PM |
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forumfriendly2
Norfolk, VA
40, joined Sep. 2013
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it also means she wants a man thats easy to cheat on...
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| 1/9/2014 11:43:04 PM |
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mg11223
Union City, CA
47, joined Jul. 2012
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how much do you know of this guy, he probably isnt who he says he is, online dating is for the birds. everyone seems to have a dark side. maybe he is married, or plan doesnt have text service. i say move on if he doesnt contact you.
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| 1/10/2014 12:47:45 AM |
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dances_in_woods
Henderson, TX
50, joined Mar. 2011
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I wouldn't txt him "asking" if you can call him this wknd...I would just call him, if he doesn't pickup then leave a voicemail. If he doesn't call or txt back?...you have your answer
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| 1/10/2014 12:56:40 AM |
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maybethe184
Stafford, VA
32, joined Aug. 2012
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Call the police and report him missing. He will appreciate it. Trust me.
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| 1/10/2014 1:00:47 AM |
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ltlwing
Williamsburg, OH
53, joined Oct. 2013
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Call the police and report him missing. He will appreciate it. Trust me.
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| 1/10/2014 1:42:16 AM |
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caliguy1940
Berkeley, CA
28, joined Nov. 2013
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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| 1/10/2014 1:56:53 AM |
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thecorvetteking
Kingsland, TX
40, joined Dec. 2010
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His wife took his phone
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| 1/10/2014 2:02:13 AM |
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sum12see
Alhambra, CA
33, joined May. 2013
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Well when you knock a door do you wait there all day?
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| 1/10/2014 8:32:19 AM |
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ladynewyork23
White Plains, NY
28, joined Jan. 2012
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I know you don't want to hear this OP, but he is probably a married man.
I doubt he's married because I looked him up online to see if he's legit.
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| 1/10/2014 8:33:45 AM |
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ladynewyork23
White Plains, NY
28, joined Jan. 2012
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You are in White Plains, a heavily populated area, and should have plenty of cool guys in your area. Until you meet, talk to other guys. Then you won't be obsessing when he gets a hold of you. You haven't met yet. When you meet that's the time to decide if all that chatting works in person. Until then you really have nothing. I get you think he's great, but that remains to be seen. If he is too thoughtless you will have wasted a chance to meet someone who thinks more highly of you.
I know. I been chatting with other guys. Just wasn't sure to delete his KIK messenger from my list.
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| 1/10/2014 8:34:40 AM |
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luckovich
White Plains, NY
37, joined Jun. 2013
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So you've moved into the stalking phase then.
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| 1/10/2014 9:38:03 AM |
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ladynewyork23
White Plains, NY
28, joined Jan. 2012
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Hope everyone sees this so I don't have to reply to everyone. A month chatting online with someone maybe too long but it isn't for me. Everyone is different and I want to take my time to get to know the person before meeting before I decide whether or not it's worth the time. We made plans to meet sometimes this month if we do meet but I am talking to other people.
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| 1/10/2014 11:18:35 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011
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Sure...move on.
Try California for a while.
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| 1/10/2014 11:24:15 AM |
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septembersong72
Beverly Hills, CA
48, joined Sep. 2012
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I was chatting with a man online for a month now from another dating site.
Which dating site?
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| 1/10/2014 11:31:19 AM |
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alls_fair
Thorlákshöfn
Iceland
97, joined May. 2011
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Hope everyone sees this so I don't have to reply to everyone. A month chatting online with someone maybe too long but it isn't for me. Everyone is different and I want to take my time to get to know the person before meeting before I decide whether or not it's worth the time. We made plans to meet sometimes this month if we do meet but I am talking to other people.
I am going to take my time:
Answering email
Before texting
Before talking on the phone
Before meeting
Before having sex...
By the time I get done taking my time, this poor bastard will be in the old folks home waiting on the final curtain call...
Pfffffffffffffft...
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| 1/10/2014 12:11:29 PM |
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talonn1
Jensen Beach, FL
42, joined Feb. 2012
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I know. I been chatting with other guys. Just wasn't sure to delete his KIK messenger from my list.
If you're talking to other people, why sweat it? Leave his name in the hat.
As for women not chasing, why not go after what you want? If you're repeatedly put on the back burner, give up and move on.
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| 1/10/2014 12:21:20 PM |
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rdeffley
San Jose, CA
36, joined Sep. 2009
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Why has it taken you a month just to get to the point of possibly talking on the phone? The fact that he never asked you for your number in the beginning makes me think he was never truly interested.
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| 1/10/2014 12:26:56 PM |
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barrydalmi
Baltimore, MD
54, joined Dec. 2007
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Catfish.
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| 1/10/2014 12:50:33 PM |
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24milkduds
San Francisco, CA
58, joined Mar. 2012
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Yes..moving on is the best policy
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| 1/10/2014 7:11:44 PM |
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ladynewyork23
White Plains, NY
28, joined Jan. 2012
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A prolonged "get to know him" period means the woman is working up to telling him she is FAT!
You're stupid that's not true.
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| 1/10/2014 7:13:30 PM |
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outhere925
Antioch, CA
35, joined Apr. 2013
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Yeah move on op
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