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1/9/2014 10:33:37 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  
ladynewyork23
White Plains, NY
28, joined Jan. 2012


I was chatting with a man online for a month now from another dating site. He is my age 25 and we talked on kik everyday. If we do meet it will be sometimes this month. A few days ago I gave him my number and he text me. I want to talk with him on the phone and sent him a text last night asking him if I could give him a call sometimes this weekend but he didn't reply. I don't know if he didn't get my text or what. Do I move on?

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1/9/2014 10:34:52 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  
rlm68
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (18,110)
Aurora, CO
48, joined Apr. 2010


re-text him and then decide from there.

1/9/2014 10:37:50 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  

patriottype
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,758)
Grand Prairie, TX
46, joined Jul. 2013


Women should not chase men it what foolish women do....... do not conduct yourself like a fool. know your gender role but dont let it own you.

1/9/2014 10:38:26 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  

jer3552
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (35,209)
Vale, OR
62, joined Oct. 2013


try it once more but be suspicious

1/9/2014 10:38:59 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  
alls_fair
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (29,637)
Thorlákshöfn
Iceland
97, joined May. 2011


Dump his sorry ass!!!

A real man would have answered immediately...



1/9/2014 10:40:23 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  

max811
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,416)
Palmetto, FL
36, joined Aug. 2010


You should text him 27 times every hour until he replies.Or pays his phone bill....

1/9/2014 10:42:39 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  

1darksavior
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,859)
Brooklyn, NY
55, joined Mar. 2011


maybe he has a life and got busy

1/9/2014 10:43:07 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  
bittentwiceshy
Port Orchard, WA
64, joined Feb. 2012


Don't text again. Begging is for dogs not women.

1/9/2014 10:43:57 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  

claudius5
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,941)
Petaluma, CA
67, joined May. 2009


What does your critical thinking tell you?

1/9/2014 10:44:35 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  
ladynewyork23
White Plains, NY
28, joined Jan. 2012


That's too soon for me, everyone is different. I'll meet when I'm ready.

1/9/2014 10:44:37 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  
alls_fair
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (29,637)
Thorlákshöfn
Iceland
97, joined May. 2011


Quote from bittentwiceshy:
Begging is for women not dogs.


Fixed it for you...

1/9/2014 10:45:42 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  

stan_147
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (18,525)
Coos Bay, OR
53, joined Aug. 2010




1/9/2014 10:50:04 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  

mrld_ii
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (24,775)
Stockton, CA
56, joined May. 2011


Quote from max811:
You should text him 27 times every hour until he replies.Or pays his phone bill....


OP, this ^^^ is bad, bad, BAD advice.


Doing so will only keep you too busy - and spending too much money - when you should, obviously, be investing both in



planning your wedding.





TRUST me. Time's a-wastin'!!!





1/9/2014 10:50:17 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  

patriottype
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,758)
Grand Prairie, TX
46, joined Jul. 2013


Quote from bittentwiceshy:
Don't text again. Begging is for dogs not women.
Neither sex should try to hard......people that like you will not make you try to hard.

1/9/2014 10:50:17 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  

jer3552
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (35,209)
Vale, OR
62, joined Oct. 2013


twicebitten was trying to be nice what she meant is begging is for dogs and men

1/9/2014 10:51:26 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  
mrlickzher
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (17,976)
Owensboro, KY
39, joined Mar. 2013


this is desperate thread material. .

1/9/2014 10:54:14 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  

patriottype
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,758)
Grand Prairie, TX
46, joined Jul. 2013


OP you shouldnt tolerate this guys disrespect he must be punished!

1/9/2014 10:55:40 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  
bittentwiceshy
Port Orchard, WA
64, joined Feb. 2012


jer thank you for explaining that

1/9/2014 10:57:11 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  

fishnthec
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (26,995)
Mesquite, TX
65, joined Oct. 2010


You need to learn to use your intuition. For example, let me offer you mine; The man you have been chatting and texting with is preoccupied- most likely with either his wife or girlfriend.



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1/9/2014 10:57:33 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  
ladynewyork23
White Plains, NY
28, joined Jan. 2012


lmao you guys are too funny.

1/9/2014 10:58:51 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  

sand_inhershoes
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,222)
Milton, FL
54, joined Jul. 2011


I know you don't want to hear this OP, but he is probably a married man.

1/9/2014 11:02:58 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  

forumfriendly2
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,894)
Norfolk, VA
40, joined Sep. 2013


thats called being married..he just wanted a** pics but you just kept pushing for more..

1/9/2014 11:03:08 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  

patriottype
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,758)
Grand Prairie, TX
46, joined Jul. 2013


OP if you burn his house down while he is at work he will be more likely to accept yr invitation to sleep over.

1/9/2014 11:03:32 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  

lovessmart
Over 2,000 Posts (3,969)
Corona, CA
58, joined Feb. 2013


Quote from ladynewyork23:
I was chatting with a man online for a month now from another dating site. He is my age 25 and we talked on kik everyday. If we do meet it will be sometimes this month. A few days ago I gave him my number and he text me. I want to talk with him on the phone and sent him a text last night asking him if I could give him a call sometimes this weekend but he didn't reply. I don't know if he didn't get my text or what. Do I move on?
You are in White Plains, a heavily populated area, and should have plenty of cool guys in your area. Until you meet, talk to other guys. Then you won't be obsessing when he gets a hold of you. You haven't met yet. When you meet that's the time to decide if all that chatting works in person. Until then you really have nothing. I get you think he's great, but that remains to be seen. If he is too thoughtless you will have wasted a chance to meet someone who thinks more highly of you.



[Edited 1/9/2014 11:04:27 PM ]

1/9/2014 11:04:19 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  

forumfriendly2
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,894)
Norfolk, VA
40, joined Sep. 2013


Quote from bittentwiceshy:
jer thank you for explaining that
this broad is the hottest 61 yr old i have ever seen

1/9/2014 11:06:48 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  

bumblebee7
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (72,460)
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011


You chat with him for a month and kik everyday too

Then one day missed and your ready to bail..??????????????


....



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1/9/2014 11:13:27 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  
bittentwiceshy
Port Orchard, WA
64, joined Feb. 2012


yeah you're right. I am actually toothless and wear polyester slacks with smock tops.

1/9/2014 11:16:49 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  

jer3552
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (35,209)
Vale, OR
62, joined Oct. 2013


I luv u twicebitten

1/9/2014 11:19:54 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  

jer3552
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (35,209)
Vale, OR
62, joined Oct. 2013


pay no attention to the man behind the curtain twicebitten he masturbates too much he is right about me being broke though

1/9/2014 11:23:04 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  
lilod
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,074)
Aurora, IL
50, joined Aug. 2012


Why not just go on about your business for a couple of days and see what happens? Not hearing from someone for 24 hours doesn't necessarily require any major life decisions.

1/9/2014 11:23:42 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  

txrose64
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (30,691)
Pearland, TX
53, joined Jan. 2013


Quote from bittentwiceshy:
yeah you're right. I am actually toothless and wear polyester slacks with smock tops.


hey I don't wear polyester it's too hot for it in Houston!

~~adjusts my Hippie smock~~

an almost full toothed laugh too at that!

OP you've talked on the cell with this guy? like you called him? or has it been at his timing(they've alluded to involved with someone else)

you don't know... and that's all part of talking and interested to learn more about someone or not.

I'd call him, leave a voice message. (If it rolls over right away one or two rings he killed the call btw) five or six I think it is and it just didn't get picked up. (Ok you've got to pay attention to how it goes down if you are "trying to pay attention" to suss out the situation.)

Now if you don't hear back from him in a day or so move it along, it's the weekend husband/boyfriends are busy with their women then. Or he's simply lost interest. Or he's busy it's a work week and he'll call...go with the flow and you'll see in a few days..patience, patience



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1/9/2014 11:25:41 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  
hadassah169
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,941)
Dhaneswargati
Bangladesh
82, joined Dec. 2012


Stop harassing him, a whole month??? What are you waiting for? I would have already lost interest, I hope he hasn't.

People are busy give him a chance to call you back and quit sweating him. If he calls back great if he doesn't this weekend, who cares, on to the next...


Chill, these chicks and these threads.

1/9/2014 11:29:25 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  

russellbr
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,513)
Scarsdale, NY
43, joined Aug. 2013


Sounds like he could be attached, OP. Messaging for a month everyday is a long time to go without meeting - especially if he lives in our area. I'd give it until the end of the weekend for him to get back to you. If he doesn't, take it as a sign that he's not serious about meeting (for whatever reason).

1/9/2014 11:32:40 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  

russellbr
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,513)
Scarsdale, NY
43, joined Aug. 2013


Might even be sooner than that Joe...

1/9/2014 11:35:18 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  
dan9787
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,296)
Laval, QC
53, joined Apr. 2011


I say give it some time. In case. He could be busy. And text again, he may have gotten lots of texts, not just from women, and missed yours.

If he doesn't reply for a few more days, and a few more attempts, something is up or something happened to him.

Don't jump to conclusions yet.

1/9/2014 11:36:54 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  

playground1
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,567)
Santa Monica, CA
55, joined Feb. 2011


Im not going to chat with anybody online for a month
that's too much time invested with someone you may not
have any PHYSICAL CHEMISTRY with in person.

If he thinks the next step is texting...hell, that's
the same as online. whats he hiding? if hes been responding
promptly to you online, now he isn't, I see bullshit ahead

you don't need it. MOVE ON.

1/9/2014 11:38:19 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  

forumfriendly2
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,894)
Norfolk, VA
40, joined Sep. 2013


Quote from joefriday20500:
Professional portraits.

A studio could make me look handsome.
its the red hair...im a sucker for it!

1/9/2014 11:39:22 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  

mr_ctr916
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,310)
Roseville, CA
54, joined Aug. 2013


Consider it a vacation and let it be a pleasant surprise if he corresponds with you.

1/9/2014 11:39:31 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  

rubberbanman
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,157)
Sherman, TX
42, joined May. 2011


Quote from joefriday20500:
I'm looking for an honest man means her husband cheated on her.



It also means she LIKES men who LIE and are DIS-honest.

1/9/2014 11:42:01 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  

forumfriendly2
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,894)
Norfolk, VA
40, joined Sep. 2013


it also means she wants a man thats easy to cheat on...

1/9/2014 11:43:04 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  

mg11223
Union City, CA
47, joined Jul. 2012


how much do you know of this guy, he probably isnt who he says he is, online dating is for the birds. everyone seems to have a dark side. maybe he is married, or plan doesnt have text service. i say move on if he doesnt contact you.

1/10/2014 12:47:45 AM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  

dances_in_woods
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,568)
Henderson, TX
50, joined Mar. 2011


I wouldn't txt him "asking" if you can call him this wknd...I would just call him, if he doesn't pickup then leave a voicemail. If he doesn't call or txt back?...you have your answer

1/10/2014 12:56:40 AM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  
maybethe184
Stafford, VA
32, joined Aug. 2012


Call the police and report him missing. He will appreciate it. Trust me.

1/10/2014 1:00:47 AM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  
ltlwing
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (12,239)
Williamsburg, OH
53, joined Oct. 2013


Quote from maybethe184:
Call the police and report him missing. He will appreciate it. Trust me.





1/10/2014 1:42:16 AM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  
caliguy1940
Over 1,000 Posts (1,991)
Berkeley, CA
28, joined Nov. 2013


(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)

1/10/2014 1:56:53 AM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  

thecorvetteking
Over 1,000 Posts (1,616)
Kingsland, TX
40, joined Dec. 2010


His wife took his phone

1/10/2014 2:02:13 AM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  
sum12see
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,600)
Alhambra, CA
33, joined May. 2013


Well when you knock a door do you wait there all day?

1/10/2014 8:32:19 AM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  
ladynewyork23
White Plains, NY
28, joined Jan. 2012


Quote from sand_inhershoes:
I know you don't want to hear this OP, but he is probably a married man.



I doubt he's married because I looked him up online to see if he's legit.

1/10/2014 8:33:45 AM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  
ladynewyork23
White Plains, NY
28, joined Jan. 2012


Quote from lovessmart:
You are in White Plains, a heavily populated area, and should have plenty of cool guys in your area. Until you meet, talk to other guys. Then you won't be obsessing when he gets a hold of you. You haven't met yet. When you meet that's the time to decide if all that chatting works in person. Until then you really have nothing. I get you think he's great, but that remains to be seen. If he is too thoughtless you will have wasted a chance to meet someone who thinks more highly of you.


I know. I been chatting with other guys. Just wasn't sure to delete his KIK messenger from my list.

1/10/2014 8:34:40 AM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  

luckovich
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,966)
White Plains, NY
37, joined Jun. 2013


So you've moved into the stalking phase then.

1/10/2014 9:38:03 AM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  
ladynewyork23
White Plains, NY
28, joined Jan. 2012


Hope everyone sees this so I don't have to reply to everyone. A month chatting online with someone maybe too long but it isn't for me. Everyone is different and I want to take my time to get to know the person before meeting before I decide whether or not it's worth the time. We made plans to meet sometimes this month if we do meet but I am talking to other people.

1/10/2014 11:18:35 AM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  

bumblebee7
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (72,460)
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011


Sure...move on.

Try California for a while.

1/10/2014 11:24:15 AM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  

septembersong72
Over 2,000 Posts (2,328)
Beverly Hills, CA
48, joined Sep. 2012


Quote from ladynewyork23:
I was chatting with a man online for a month now from another dating site.


Which dating site?

1/10/2014 11:31:19 AM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  
alls_fair
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (29,637)
Thorlákshöfn
Iceland
97, joined May. 2011


Quote from ladynewyork23:
Hope everyone sees this so I don't have to reply to everyone. A month chatting online with someone maybe too long but it isn't for me. Everyone is different and I want to take my time to get to know the person before meeting before I decide whether or not it's worth the time. We made plans to meet sometimes this month if we do meet but I am talking to other people.


I am going to take my time:
Answering email
Before texting
Before talking on the phone
Before meeting
Before having sex...

By the time I get done taking my time, this poor bastard will be in the old folks home waiting on the final curtain call...

Pfffffffffffffft...



1/10/2014 12:11:29 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  

talonn1
Over 1,000 Posts (1,902)
Jensen Beach, FL
42, joined Feb. 2012


Quote from ladynewyork23:
I know. I been chatting with other guys. Just wasn't sure to delete his KIK messenger from my list.


If you're talking to other people, why sweat it? Leave his name in the hat.


As for women not chasing, why not go after what you want? If you're repeatedly put on the back burner, give up and move on.

1/10/2014 12:21:20 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  
rdeffley
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,158)
San Jose, CA
36, joined Sep. 2009


Why has it taken you a month just to get to the point of possibly talking on the phone? The fact that he never asked you for your number in the beginning makes me think he was never truly interested.

1/10/2014 12:26:56 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  

barrydalmi
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (21,474)
Baltimore, MD
54, joined Dec. 2007


Catfish.

1/10/2014 12:50:33 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  
24milkduds
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,783)
San Francisco, CA
58, joined Mar. 2012


Yes..moving on is the best policy

1/10/2014 7:11:44 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  
ladynewyork23
White Plains, NY
28, joined Jan. 2012


Quote from joefriday20500:
A prolonged "get to know him" period means the woman is working up to telling him she is FAT!


You're stupid that's not true.

1/10/2014 7:13:30 PM This guy didn't respond to my text do I move on?  
outhere925
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,904)
Antioch, CA
35, joined Apr. 2013


Yeah move on op