| 7/28/2008 3:35:09 PM |
Women not responding to you? then be an a**hole here is why |
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japetto
Southport, NC
age: 26
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So those pretty ladies you are spending your precious time to write to aren't returning the favor? hmmm, my guess its because 50 a**holes before you just finished telling her how pretty she is. So why is she going to write you back?
So I picked 20 random very nice looking women and sent them the following email
Re: Hello beautiful
I was just searching and saw the face of an angel. I really think you are pretty and I like your profile. I think the two of us have a lot in common. I don't like this online thing much but most of the ladies I meet in real life just haven't turned out being the one for me.
I love to play music and tell jokes. I know a lot of other guys have probably sent you emails too but I am thinking you would like me. It would be nice if you would email me back and tell me a little more about yourself =)
So far, 10 out of the 20 have deleted the message and given no response what so ever and the other 10 have not read it yet
On the same day I picked 20 other random beautiful women and sent them the following.
Re: Just in case you are not getting enough attention here is another ego booster.
Listen um, I'm not use to this whole online deal with trying to meet women, most of the girls I end up with from bars though have turned out to be complete b*tches, I figured I am completely waisting my time by doing this because online dating is like 80% male. So its basically a big sausage fest, I am probably like the 1,000th or so to email yah and I am not photogenic worth a damn. I am hilarious and I can jam,I can play almost every single DMB song and I am probably the best guy you are going to meet on this whole internet deal, seriously I am not even close to being a dipstick weirdo. Anyway hit me up, unless your a b*tch then please don't.
And the results are... 14 have emailed me back. Two of them called me a d*ck head the other 12 seemed interested enough and left some kind of statement at the end like "well write me back =)" the other 6 have not read the email yet.
Why is that? Both emails say the same things basically. But the cocky a**hole email gets the most positive response.
Fella's start doing this, trust me on it.
Ladies, please explain yourselves lol
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| 7/28/2008 3:46:10 PM |
Women not responding to you? then be an a**hole here is why |
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teachorbeach
Wappapello, MO
age: 39
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My opinion - its because the first one sounds like a load of BS - we're just not trusting that anyone is that sweet - the second one sounds more real .... maybe not as sweet or sincere, but it doesn't sound like you're trying to be something you're not.
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| 7/28/2008 4:19:33 PM |
Women not responding to you? then be an a**hole here is why |
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japetto
Southport, NC
age: 26
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My opinion - its because the first one sounds like a load of BS - we're just not trusting that anyone is that sweet - the second one sounds more real .... maybe not as sweet or sincere, but it doesn't sound like you're trying to be something you're not.
They both sound like BS to me 
They are both bs and that is the point. None of them are directed toward the women I write in a personal manner, this is what spammers do make BS generalizations that appeal to the masses. But guess what it works cause there are a lot of spammers and they are making money.
Hmm I wonder if male spammers send women emails sounding like over confident a**holes in order to get them to join websites like the girls with huge boobies do to us?
If not should they? interesting.
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| 7/28/2008 4:20:21 PM |
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cgrl
Norristown, PA
age: 46
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Your results:
Becuase your first email sounds like a big ole sappy NICE GUY.
Just freaking pathetic and drooling all over a woman without
ever meeting her which SHOWS women you do this to all them-
she is not special.
The second email - Gets results because you SOUND like a real guy,
You came across her profile, thought you would write- does not sound
scripted like the first email.
You did not get responses because you acted like a a**hole-
you got responses because you sounded REAL.
[Edited 7/28/2008 4:22:26 PM PST]
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| 7/28/2008 4:24:52 PM |
Women not responding to you? then be an a**hole here is why |
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japetto
Southport, NC
age: 26
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Your results:
Becuae your first email sounds like a big ole sappy NICE GUY.
Just freaking pathetic and drooling all over a woman without
ever meeting her which SHOWS women you do this to all them-
she is not special.
The second email - Gets results because you SOUND like a real guy,
You came across her profile, thought you would write- does not sound
scripted like the first email.
You did not get responses because you acted like a a**hole-
you got responses because you sounded REAL.
Ok thats the second response from a woman that says "in the second post you are being real"
I don't understand, what is so "fake" about the first post?
Is it because you think that all "real" guys are cocky a**holes or because you consider a man a real man if he is cocky and confident?
honestly, if I didn't give the results then which one would you think would get the most responces?
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| 7/28/2008 4:32:50 PM |
Women not responding to you? then be an a**hole here is why |
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thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34
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Your results:
Becuae your first email sounds like a big ole sappy NICE GUY.
Just freaking pathetic and drooling all over a woman without
ever meeting her which SHOWS women you do this to all them-
she is not special.
The second email - Gets results because you SOUND like a real guy,
You came across her profile, thought you would write- does not sound
scripted like the first email.
You did not get responses because you acted like a a**hole-
you got responses because you sounded REAL.
Ok thats the second response from a woman that says "in the second post you are being real"
I don't understand, what is so "fake" about the first post?
Is it because you think that all "real" guys are cocky a**holes or because you consider a man a real man if he is cocky and confident?
honestly, if I didn't give the results then which one would you think would get the most responces?
Good point...
It's basically the same as the nice guy - jerk situation.
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| 7/28/2008 4:35:19 PM |
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bryneyes174
Loves Park, IL
age: 34
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When my profile was visable, the emails that I would respond to were the ones where the guy had clearly read it and told me about himself. I would never respond to someone who used profanity in their email. The men who were confident, but not arrogant were the ones that I talked to. The guy that I'm dating that I meet on this site, I actually winked at him first. I read his posts and thought that he sounded articulate and kind. I was right.
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| 7/28/2008 4:39:43 PM |
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ravishingred
Corona, CA
age: 38
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The first post is too complimentary in an overly cliche way. "Hello Beautiful" "You have the face of an angel" Despite what you and your damaged yet moronically inflated ego think, women are not stupid. Yes, we tend to hope that at least half the sweet nothings told to us are true....However life teaches us that they are called sweet NOTHINGS for a reason.
For a man that appears to have very little respect or affection for women....You sure do spend a whole lot of time trying to figure out how to get with them. Or is it get back AT them??
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| 7/28/2008 4:42:42 PM |
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cgrl
Norristown, PA
age: 46
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Okay - I have to be more specific-
Its the face of an angel crap-thats bullshit, its a picture.
I really think you are pretty and I like your profile- yeah if you ACTUALLY
read it and we KNOW you didnt- your STUCK ON THE PICTURE.
Now the second:
most of the girls I end up with from bars though have turned out to be complete b*tches-
Yeah see we know this because we are these b*tches so we can relate to this, we also
have friends with the same complaint- again we can relate.
So its basically a big sausage fest, I am probably like the 1,000th or so to email yah and I am not photogenic worth a damn. - Wow, HONESTY - we can see that you know. Yup,
we know its a big f**king pathetic sausage fest, we are knee deep in it- thank
you for recognizing it and telling us right up front your not all that. We like
NOT ALL THAT.
Anyway hit me up, unless your a b*tch then please don't. - Yes - you recognize again we
are all b*tches and hate when you are fake to us.
Your second email was in no way mean or ignorant- it was real. This is how people are.
When they are sweet and gooey - it makes us suspicious. See you dont know us to
be sweet and gooey. Just be yourself. Lifes a gamble. So is on line dating.
[Edited 7/28/2008 4:46:12 PM PST]
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| 7/28/2008 4:48:57 PM |
Women not responding to you? then be an a**hole here is why |
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roadrisingup
Waldo, OH
age: 39
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the love guru speaks
 
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| 7/28/2008 4:49:53 PM |
Women not responding to you? then be an a**hole here is why |
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noredneckhere
Sevierville, TN
age: 48 online now!
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My opinion - its because the first one sounds like a load of BS - we're just not trusting that anyone is that sweet - the second one sounds more real .... maybe not as sweet or sincere, but it doesn't sound like you're trying to be something you're not.
Well unfortunately, when we read womens profiles, they are all very similar for the most part, all sweet and sugary. "Longs walks, kisses, cuddling, snuggling, kids, foofy dog" So why would a guy think to write "Yo biatch, wazzup ?" They respond in kind if they like what they see.
So, either you're all on here for the forums and yapping, or yer lying about what you REALLY want. Which is it ?
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| 7/28/2008 4:57:44 PM |
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operator1983
Philadelphia, PA
age: 25
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Women are f**ked up, yo. This shit is crazier than a motherf**ka. I can only wonder what kind of shit I'ma get from them if I straight called them stuck-up a** hoes.
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| 7/28/2008 5:06:43 PM |
Women not responding to you? then be an a**hole here is why |
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fredricko
Pico Rivera, CA
age: 49
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might be because the second one you sound like you have hurt feelings referring to women as complete b*tches, also the remark about the sausagefest would make her think that you are looking for something other than sex and the second one has alot of sincerity in it,the only thing in the second one is that you used the word b*tch,alot of women dont get offended by someone using that word as long as its not directed towards them,second one sounds like youve been walked on by alot of women and are looking for real relationship and not just sex,
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| 7/28/2008 5:08:00 PM |
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ravishingred
Corona, CA
age: 38
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Yo redneck.... Ya read the mens profiles??? You all write the same things you say us women write! "Looking for a woman that likes long walks, fine dinning and snuggling up with that someone special." First off it's not easy to really communicate who you are and what you are looking for in a paragraph or two. Most people stray on the un-original side while attempting. But that does not mean that women are lying about what they want. We want a nice man. Not a bad boy as all the whining self proclaimed nice guys want to think. Truth is... You look at any single, can't get laid "Nice guy" and I guarantee you will find some major flaws. There's the "He's a nice guy but he speaks Klingon fluently" There's the "He's a nice guy but he's way to femm" And the "He's a nice guy but he is WAY to much of a Momma's Boy" As well as countless other variations.
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| 7/28/2008 5:08:17 PM |
Women not responding to you? then be an a**hole here is why |
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krob60
Pleasanton, KS
age: 48
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My experience with women tell me most women are used to being treated poorly and that is all they can relate to. They think a guy is fake even when he is a nice guy. Most women have never experienced a nice guy. I wish I was able to treat them the way they are used to being treated. Call them names like you b*tch, c-nt, wh*re. Just wasn't raised that way so if women don't respond to a nice guy approach they never know what they may be missing out on. A true man that really Loves treats all people with respect,kindness,tenderness, meekness, longsuffering, considerate, loyal. The list goes on. Maybe there aren't many men out there that are like that. I could say that all women are unfaithful based on my own experiences but I don't believe it. I believe there are women that are faithful. So women out there if you want a guy to beat you around mentally and physically then listen to B.S.'rs and you will get what you are looking for.
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