Women not responding to you? then be an a**hole here is why 106

8/4/2008 11:42:49 AM	Women not responding to you? then be an ahole here is why**
justme68 Cleveland, OH age: 42	So....if we sound like "real" a**holes, we'll get responses?
8/4/2008 11:48:17 AM	Women not responding to you? then be an ahole here is why**
lobo_corazon Kingston, ON age: 39	Quote from justme68: So....if we sound like "real" a**holes, we'll get responses? More like - If you sound like you honestly believe you have a lot going for you, she'll tend to think maybe you do. Only a few women say they actually pursue "badness" - For the rest it's extreme confidence that's attractive.
8/4/2008 12:23:00 PM	Women not responding to you? then be an ahole here is why**
irresistiblered Aurora, CO age: 43	What happened with the honest and straight forward approach? Why you guys THINK you have to play games to get acknwledged? All these scams and methods and games and all of the above will get no one anywhere. Just say you are interested...read the profile so you can come up with a few good personal things to say, and go from there. If she is not answering, no matter what you would do, will not get you anywhere...simply because: "She is NOT interested." And why would you want 40 interested woman?...You'd want only ONE to be your girl...Right?...or maybe Wrong.
8/5/2008 12:06:07 AM	Women not responding to you? then be an ahole here is why**
toddew Bussey, IA age: 47	Quote from irresistiblered: What happened with the honest and straight forward approach? Why you guys THINK you have to play games to get acknwledged? All these scams and methods and games and all of the above will get no one anywhere. Just say you are interested...read the profile so you can come up with a few good personal things to say, and go from there. If she is not answering, no matter what you would do, will not get you anywhere...simply because: "She is NOT interested." And why would you want 40 interested woman?...You'd want only ONE to be your girl...Right?...or maybe Wrong. I think your right. I think men are hardwired to try to analyse a situation, form a plan and follow thru... to women it might seem like a game, but i will be the first one to admit I could use all advise I can get. Women are so complex I will never figure them out, Thats why they are so wonderful, Thanks for caring, and girls remember men are not robots we have feelings too.
8/5/2008 12:21:41 AM	Women not responding to you? then be an ahole here is why**
bacchant Jacksonville, AR age: 23	sometimes, though, you run across a guy who is an a*hole of what i like to call the highest caliber. we have the ability, and the tendency, to use the exceptionally sharp edges of our wit against others. we don't fight, or play games, we simply cut people down where they stand with our verbiage. it earns us a reputation as being uncaring, but why put up all the noise and bluster of the average ccksure idiots walking around when the issue can be addressed in a single remark? that's where being an ahole doesn't get you anywhere. most of us are actually intelligent and caring guys who put their girlfriends/wives ahead of ourselves, however we make an attempt to show that we are, at least in part, typical guys by talking to the ladies in the first place. we don't get anywhere, but undaunted, we try again. while we ask ourselves, and like me others, where we are going wrong, but the fact is that most women are shallow and will not respond to the guy who is the proper type of ahole. what most people term "a*holes" are actually just childish, ccksure, self absorbed pricks, but for some strange reason beyond imagining, that seems to be what women want: someone who blatantly shows that they care more about themselves and their image than they do the women with whom they attempt to converse.
8/5/2008 12:53:24 AM	Women not responding to you? then be an ahole here is why**
lioness_64 Andover, MA age: 44	Quote from bacchant: sometimes, though, you run across a guy who is an a*hole of what i like to call the highest caliber. we have the ability, and the tendency, to use the exceptionally sharp edges of our wit against others. we don't fight, or play games, we simply cut people down where they stand with our verbiage. it earns us a reputation as being uncaring, but why put up all the noise and bluster of the average ccksure idiots walking around when the issue can be addressed in a single remark? that's where being an ahole doesn't get you anywhere. most of us are actually intelligent and caring guys who put their girlfriends/wives ahead of ourselves, however we make an attempt to show that we are, at least in part, typical guys by talking to the ladies in the first place. we don't get anywhere, but undaunted, we try again. while we ask ourselves, and like me others, where we are going wrong, but the fact is that most women are shallow and will not respond to the guy who is the proper type of ahole. what most people term "a*holes" are actually just childish, ccksure, self absorbed pricks, but for some strange reason beyond imagining, that seems to be what women want: someone who blatantly shows that they care more about themselves and their image than they do the women with whom they attempt to converse. that's alot of words,Bacchant lol. I like the "we" People are unique. If you see 40 people in a day-- Remembering that people act differently in person, How many would take the time to have a conversation with you? No matter what you said They'd either walk away without listening (delete) Give you the time of day,(read and delete) or...find something about you interesting and talk to you(respond--good or bad) I meet only a few people a year IRL I am interested in getting to know. Ah, but it is that 1 person that we seek, right? Like the lottery--if you don't play you can't win! You can play the a-hole card after you think I've fallen for you. lol
8/5/2008 1:00:35 AM	Women not responding to you? then be an ahole here is why**
bacchant Jacksonville, AR age: 23	Quote from lioness_64: Quote from bacchant: You can play the a-hole card after you think I've fallen for you. lol a point well made.
8/5/2008 1:31:55 AM	Women not responding to you? then be an ahole here is why**
69cunnilingus Diamond Bar, CA age: 48	Japetto, the key word here is EMPATHY. Take a moment to think how you'd feel, if you were a woman, looking for Mr.Right-- It's only natural you'd want a guy who's a good provider. This means he has a good-paying job that allows him to afford making monthly mortgage payments on a house, situated in a low-crime neighborhood. If she's young, in her late teens to late 20s, its likely she wants to have children eventually, or is open to having more children on top of what she already has (I'm assuming you're open to dating a single or divorced mother). The majority of most women here are looking for a guy who's not playing mind games, and is ready to make a life-time commitment. Now take a moment to look at the picture you've posted of yourself. There's a woman next to you with her arm on your shoulder. What do you suppose women are thinking, when they look at your picture. This is what the picture is saying; "standing to my left, is the woman who walked out of my life, when she realized I was anything but Mr-Right." The picture is sending a negative message. Women have an eye for identifying subtle clues, to a guys character. Ever heard of the old saying "trust a woman's intuition?" Though women are physically weak, they are superior in intuitive abilities. They can sense deception and impending danger, much better than men. This is how women know you've been cheating on them, when you're seeing another woman behind her back. Another thing I must criticize about your pict, is the unshave stuble on your face. It implies you don't have the discipline to fix yourself in the morning, to make yourself presentable to the people you come across to in the day. If you look at the pict I've selected of myself, I'm trying to convey the message, I have $$ issues, which is the truth. The clothes you wear is a subtle clue as to how much $$ you earn. Generally, women wants a guy who's financially secure, and the shirt you're wearing contradicts the income you claim you're earning. I suggest you change your pict, and post a picture of yourself in a business suit, or a shirt & tie. Don't post picts of you standing next to another woman. This sends a message you're not single & available.
8/5/2008 1:46:25 AM	Women not responding to you? then be an ahole here is why**
toddew Bussey, IA age: 47	all that was conveyed to me was flames
8/5/2008 1:56:20 AM	Women not responding to you? then be an ahole here is why**
jeanne51 Hitchcock, TX age: 52	what?
8/5/2008 2:07:51 AM	Women not responding to you? then be an ahole here is why**
katiescarlett72 Dallas, TX age: 36	Have not read entire thread. Did not get past OP. Both emails would go straight to the great trash basket in cyber heaven; they both sound like a load of craptastic idiocy.
8/5/2008 2:17:10 AM	Women not responding to you? then be an ahole here is why**
toddew Bussey, IA age: 47	It started as an interesting debate on nice guys /bad boys and turned into a slow motion trainwreck.
8/5/2008 2:25:53 AM	Women not responding to you? then be an ahole here is why**
katiescarlett72 Dallas, TX age: 36	Oh, dear God, the nice guy/bad boy thing. I think I'd rather have yet another discussion about BBWs. Gah.
8/5/2008 2:29:59 AM	Women not responding to you? then be an ahole here is why**
sunnyboy59 Queensland Australia age: 70	Japetto's Crap is STILL Going...ROFLMAO..
8/5/2008 4:54:17 AM	Women not responding to you? then be an ahole here is why**
arisingmercury Brandon, FL age: 47	I agree with ge0ge0

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