| 7/29/2008 8:42:03 PM |
Women not responding to you? then be an a**hole here is why |
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cartel850
Carrabelle, FL
age: 32
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I'm confused, or maybe enlightened. I'm one of those guys. who always send the sweet email, and 60% of the time no response. So what you are saying is if I am a d*ck a little more then women will respond. Sorry, but I'll go down lonely, before I become something I,m not, Just to be noticed.
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| 7/29/2008 9:00:04 PM |
Women not responding to you? then be an a**hole here is why |
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nocturnalrose
Lubbock, TX
age: 26
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Ohhh!!!! Now THAT'S A MAN!!!!
You've got mail, sweetie!~ 
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| 7/29/2008 9:01:12 PM |
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japetto
Southport, NC
age: 26
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It all goes back to people are people. Some good. Some not. Some wise. Some...Not so much! Classifying any group as any one trait is a form of prejudice. The world of dating is full of amazing people and low lifes. Our job is to sift through it all and find someone worthy of sharing our lives.
MLK- Do you know all the women on DH muchless the world?? How can you even attempt to proclaim that you know what women are all about? You know what SOME women may appear to be. But I suggest you look closely at the caliber of woman you may be approaching.
NocturnalRose- Best of luck to you with healing from your break up.
"How can you even attempt to proclaim that you know what women are all about?"
I am sorry if you misunderstood, I did not make any statement I simply performed an experiment based on a theory and posted the results. There is absolutely no opinion included.
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| 7/29/2008 9:12:34 PM |
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blueskies08
Grantsburg, WI
age: 38
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I'm confused, or maybe enlightened. I'm one of those guys. who always send the sweet email, and 60% of the time no response. So what you are saying is if I am a d*ck a little more then women will respond. Sorry, but I'll go down lonely, before I become something I,m not, Just to be noticed.
 i agree all the way
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| 7/29/2008 9:37:55 PM |
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usakindatheart
Overton, TX
age: 48
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decent women do not respond to any b*tch comments...
had one call me a b*tch on a post once. 
i am with george on this...
neither emails were real...
1. was way to fake, and said nothing in the post that said you read my profile.
2. was just a man, angry, disillusioned about women, and disrespectful.
i would delete both...
usa.
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| 7/29/2008 10:34:44 PM |
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mlk2008
Brimfield, MA
age: 89
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It all goes back to people are people. Some good. Some not. Some wise. Some...Not so much! Classifying any group as any one trait is a form of prejudice. The world of dating is full of amazing people and low lifes. Our job is to sift through it all and find someone worthy of sharing our lives.
MLK- Do you know all the women on DH muchless the world?? How can you even attempt to proclaim that you know what women are all about? You know what SOME women may appear to be. But I suggest you look closely at the caliber of woman you may be approaching.
NocturnalRose- Best of luck to you with healing from your break up.
And that's what I have been saying. Some females. Never said all females were jacked up.
[Edited 7/29/2008 10:41:07 PM]
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| 7/29/2008 10:37:11 PM |
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mlk2008
Brimfield, MA
age: 89
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"How can you even attempt to proclaim that you know what women are all about?"
I am sorry if you misunderstood, I did not make any statement I simply performed an experiment based on a theory and posted the results. There is absolutely no opinion included
Theories, based on experience. That's where all my statements come from.
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| 7/29/2008 11:59:07 PM |
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ravishingred
Corona, CA
age: 38
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Japetto- My response was directed at MLK not you. At least not the last post. The previous ones were more to you.
As for why no responses to you guys in general.... Seriously, on here you have a quick write up maybe a picture or two and an opening email. Like it or not, it's a sales pitch. First you have to know if the merchandise is right for the customer. Then you have to sell it. We all do. Us ladies also. Then you mix in the factor that it's only online/email and unfortunately it's easy to dismiss people. It's not kind to not respond. But it's also each persons choice. It's your choice who you email. Then it's their choice to respond or not. It comes back to preferences. You don't know what a complete stranger may or may not like.
I have to add, for men, you sure are sounding like a bunch of butt hurt crybabies! Really! If you think about it. Them not responding when not interested is better then them writting back and pointing out your flaws! Don't you think?? No answer is your answer... Move on!!
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| 7/30/2008 6:07:12 AM |
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spal250
King of Prussia, PA
age: 26
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"There are a lot of "good" MEN that contact me on here and I adore all of them, they're great. So, not all of us women ignore the good guys. Some of us used to be treated like crap, realize we deserve better and like the "nice" guys."
'Good' men that contact you? How do you know they're good, 'nice' guys, because of the way they write sentences online?
"So, not all of us women ignore the good guys."
No...you just ignore the unattractive ones ie, MOST of the good guys. 'Attractive man' and 'nice guy' don't go together. They have NEVER gone together.
"Some of us used to be treated like crap, realize we deserve better and like the "nice" guys."
Then you get bored and think, "This guy is too nice and boring!" dump that guy and go back to the guys who treat you like shit. Why do women do this? Because
a.) You never know what you truly want in life. That changes like weather.
b.) You don't like nice guys, cuz all women like a**holes. Nice guys let shit happen. Assholes get shit done. Nice guys watch, a**holes do.
Sorry, gotta call ppl on their bullshit.
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| 7/30/2008 7:45:22 AM |
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mlk2008
Brimfield, MA
age: 89
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Japetto- My response was directed at MLK not you. At least not the last post. The previous ones were more to you.
As for why no responses to you guys in general.... Seriously, on here you have a quick write up maybe a picture or two and an opening email. Like it or not, it's a sales pitch. First you have to know if the merchandise is right for the customer. Then you have to sell it. We all do. Us ladies also. Then you mix in the factor that it's only online/email and unfortunately it's easy to dismiss people. It's not kind to not respond. But it's also each persons choice. It's your choice who you email. Then it's their choice to respond or not. It comes back to preferences. You don't know what a complete stranger may or may not like.
I have to add, for men, you sure are sounding like a bunch of butt hurt crybabies! Really! If you think about it. Them not responding when not interested is better then them writting back and pointing out your flaws! Don't you think?? No answer is your answer... Move on!!
I'd respect them more if they responded back. To hell with what one thinks of my flaws.
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| 7/30/2008 8:24:39 AM |
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willowgrove1
Cincinnati, OH
age: 50
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I always keep my first message short and to the point, I add something that I read in their profile and make a few commitments about it. If they answer me back that’s great and if not it’s no big deal it’s their choice, let’s face it men are the pursuers and women can sit back and pick who they want to respond to.
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| 7/30/2008 9:08:02 AM |
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ravishingred
Corona, CA
age: 38
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Okay... I got the notice about the new law of hands free cell phones in your car. But I must have missed the one stating you HAVE to write people back on DH??? Silly me! 
MLK- Last I checked people still had a right to choose. You choose who you write to. They choose who to respond to. I have written to men that did not write me back. I cried for a few days. Got some group therapy then moved on with my life. Let's try this.... Have you written to EVERY 25- 30yo woman in your state??
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| 7/30/2008 9:13:07 AM |
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donnynlc
Little Compton, RI
age: 27
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lmao thats friggen hilarious I gotta give ya some creds on pulling a survey like that although very true woman absolutly have the right to choose you can say he's just studying venus
[Edited 7/30/2008 9:15:59 AM]
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| 7/30/2008 9:18:52 AM |
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vegasstylist
Las Vegas, NV
age: 43
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So those pretty ladies you are spending your precious time to write to aren't returning the favor? hmmm, my guess its because 50 a**holes before you just finished telling her how pretty she is. So why is she going to write you back?
So I picked 20 random very nice looking women and sent them the following email
Re: Hello beautiful
I was just searching and saw the face of an angel. I really think you are pretty and I like your profile. I think the two of us have a lot in common. I don't like this online thing much but most of the ladies I meet in real life just haven't turned out being the one for me.
I love to play music and tell jokes. I know a lot of other guys have probably sent you emails too but I am thinking you would like me. It would be nice if you would email me back and tell me a little more about yourself =)
So far, 10 out of the 20 have deleted the message and given no response what so ever and the other 10 have not read it yet
On the same day I picked 20 other random beautiful women and sent them the following.
Re: Just in case you are not getting enough attention here is another ego booster.
Listen um, I'm not use to this whole online deal with trying to meet women, most of the girls I end up with from bars though have turned out to be complete b*tches, I figured I am completely waisting my time by doing this because online dating is like 80% male. So its basically a big sausage fest, I am probably like the 1,000th or so to email yah and I am not photogenic worth a damn. I am hilarious and I can jam,I can play almost every single DMB song and I am probably the best guy you are going to meet on this whole internet deal, seriously I am not even close to being a dipstick weirdo. Anyway hit me up, unless your a b*tch then please don't.
And the results are... 14 have emailed me back. Two of them called me a d*ck head the other 12 seemed interested enough and left some kind of statement at the end like "well write me back =)" the other 6 have not read the email yet.
Why is that? Both emails say the same things basically. But the cocky a**hole email gets the most positive response.
Fella's start doing this, trust me on it.
Ladies, please explain yourselves lol
you sir are a f**ktard
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| 7/30/2008 10:18:57 AM |
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rocket000
Murrayville, GA
age: 50
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I think it's important to note that just because an attractive girl/woman replies to a negative type email doesn't necessarily mean that's the right approach. We don't know the caliber of these women. Some of these women may suffer from low self esteem and think they can't do any better.
I stand by my original statement. A woman of caliber generally prefers to receive an email from a man who has read her entire profile. He should state why he thinks they have something in common(work, sports, hobbies, alma mater). He can pay her a compliment but DON'T use the adjectives HOT, SEXY, etc. How about, it's apparent from your pictures you take good care of yourself or you have a great smile! Invite her to read your profile and if she has an interest, please write. If not, wish her luck in her search.
I'm willing to bet IF you're contacting QUALITY women you will improve your odds. When I say improve it doesn't mean she will necessarily have an interest in you but a larger percentage will at least offer the courtesy of a reply.
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