| 7/28/2008 5:08:00 PM |
Women not responding to you? then be an a**hole here is why |
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ravishingred
Corona, CA
age: 38
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Yo redneck.... Ya read the mens profiles??? You all write the same things you say us women write! "Looking for a woman that likes long walks, fine dinning and snuggling up with that someone special." First off it's not easy to really communicate who you are and what you are looking for in a paragraph or two. Most people stray on the un-original side while attempting. But that does not mean that women are lying about what they want. We want a nice man. Not a bad boy as all the whining self proclaimed nice guys want to think. Truth is... You look at any single, can't get laid "Nice guy" and I guarantee you will find some major flaws. There's the "He's a nice guy but he speaks Klingon fluently" There's the "He's a nice guy but he's way to femm" And the "He's a nice guy but he is WAY to much of a Momma's Boy" As well as countless other variations.
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| 7/28/2008 5:08:17 PM |
Women not responding to you? then be an a**hole here is why |
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krob60
Pleasanton, KS
age: 48
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My experience with women tell me most women are used to being treated poorly and that is all they can relate to. They think a guy is fake even when he is a nice guy. Most women have never experienced a nice guy. I wish I was able to treat them the way they are used to being treated. Call them names like you b*tch, c-nt, wh*re. Just wasn't raised that way so if women don't respond to a nice guy approach they never know what they may be missing out on. A true man that really Loves treats all people with respect,kindness,tenderness, meekness, longsuffering, considerate, loyal. The list goes on. Maybe there aren't many men out there that are like that. I could say that all women are unfaithful based on my own experiences but I don't believe it. I believe there are women that are faithful. So women out there if you want a guy to beat you around mentally and physically then listen to B.S.'rs and you will get what you are looking for.
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| 7/28/2008 5:10:45 PM |
Women not responding to you? then be an a**hole here is why |
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sprylynnx
Fairfax, VA
age: 43
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Why is that? Both emails say the same things basically. But the cocky a**hole email gets the most positive response.
Honestly, I wouldn't have answered either of them and I'll tell you why. The first one sounds and looks like a chain letter. The second one oozed of hostility and would turn me off immediately.
I'm going to key you in as to why you're most likely not receiving responses---it's because you are not "paying attention" [key words here] to the lady's message (profile) 
If you took just a few minutes other than scanning the pic, and actually jotted down some of things you learned about her, and listened to what she was telling you about herself, and are still interested, then start the message with "I see you're a nurse, what's your area of expertice?" Or "I see you like to ski, what's your favorite ski resort? Keep it short and about THEM, and if she decides to correspond further then you can start telling her a little about yourself. Try it a
Try it and see if it works. BUT please know you have to be REALISTIC too!!! How far a way do you live from the lady? What's the age difference (a 60yo hitting on a 30yo is not realistic). W or w/o children? Just don't email any woman hoping for a "hit" -- be sincere and realistic or it won't work.
[Edited 7/28/2008 5:39:32 PM]
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| 7/28/2008 5:14:37 PM |
Women not responding to you? then be an a**hole here is why |
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mlk2008
Brimfield, MA
age: 89
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A REAL and MATURE woman wouldn't have responded to that disrespectful message. Apparantly, there's a bunch of little girls on DH, especially the 20-somethings.
Now I know what type of females I'm dealing with on this site. I agree with what operator1983 said.
[Edited 7/28/2008 5:16:36 PM]
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| 7/28/2008 5:17:19 PM |
Women not responding to you? then be an a**hole here is why |
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night001
Lawrence, MA
age: 27
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No offense2 the stable women on here, but in my opinion most on here have sum sort of mental problem no matter what u say 2them. I read this 1 lady's pro & sent her an email saying sorry to bother u &askin what something in it meant. She replied with the answer wich was funny & I wrote back " lol thnx". I didnt try asking4her number, email, real name or anything. All I wrote was thnx. Can u believe she wrote back "swing away"? Like im a monkey or something lol. Damn racist remark but @ the same time her pro says her fave music is rap & reggae...go figure. Most women on here r luny... 
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| 7/28/2008 5:18:48 PM |
Women not responding to you? then be an a**hole here is why |
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ravishingred
Corona, CA
age: 38
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The reason he isn't getting any responses is that he is looking to prove his own ego based opinion that women are all b*tches. That is easier for him to face than the fact that he's just not all that likable.
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| 7/28/2008 5:31:55 PM |
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jrbogie
Red Bluff, CA
age: 59
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So those pretty ladies you are spending your precious time to write to aren't returning the favor? hmmm, my guess its because 50 a**holes before you just finished telling her how pretty she is. So why is she going to write you back?
So I picked 20 random very nice looking women and sent them the following email
Re: Hello beautiful
I was just searching and saw the face of an angel. I really think you are pretty and I like your profile. I think the two of us have a lot in common. I don't like this online thing much but most of the ladies I meet in real life just haven't turned out being the one for me.
I love to play music and tell jokes. I know a lot of other guys have probably sent you emails too but I am thinking you would like me. It would be nice if you would email me back and tell me a little more about yourself =)
So far, 10 out of the 20 have deleted the message and given no response what so ever and the other 10 have not read it yet
On the same day I picked 20 other random beautiful women and sent them the following.
Re: Just in case you are not getting enough attention here is another ego booster.
Listen um, I'm not use to this whole online deal with trying to meet women, most of the girls I end up with from bars though have turned out to be complete b*tches, I figured I am completely waisting my time by doing this because online dating is like 80% male. So its basically a big sausage fest, I am probably like the 1,000th or so to email yah and I am not photogenic worth a damn. I am hilarious and I can jam,I can play almost every single DMB song and I am probably the best guy you are going to meet on this whole internet deal, seriously I am not even close to being a dipstick weirdo. Anyway hit me up, unless your a b*tch then please don't.
And the results are... 14 have emailed me back. Two of them called me a d*ck head the other 12 seemed interested enough and left some kind of statement at the end like "well write me back =)" the other 6 have not read the email yet.
Why is that? Both emails say the same things basically. But the cocky a**hole email gets the most positive response.
Fella's start doing this, trust me on it.
Ladies, please explain yourselves lol
nah, think i'll stick to my style. not only does every woman i message return my emails, about half pass my profile and email on to a half dozen other ladies who aren't even members of dhu. they join just to email me and some day hope for a date. every one wants cybersex during our first chat after photo exchanging nude pictures. hell no i'm not posting a copy of the email i send them here. takes real arrogance to actually put such plans into effect and you're not near a**hole enough for that. if ya can't run with the big dogs, stay on the pourch.
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| 7/28/2008 5:51:01 PM |
Women not responding to you? then be an a**hole here is why |
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777lavender
Prudenville, MI
age: 37
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well im definitely going to respond to a nice guy, dealt with enough asses
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| 7/28/2008 5:54:08 PM |
Women not responding to you? then be an a**hole here is why |
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noredneckhere
Sevierville, TN
age: 48
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Yo redneck.... Ya read the mens profiles??? You all write the same things you say us women write! "Looking for a woman that likes long walks, fine dinning and snuggling up with that someone special." First off it's not easy to really communicate who you are and what you are looking for in a paragraph or two. Most people stray on the un-original side while attempting. But that does not mean that women are lying about what they want. We want a nice man. Not a bad boy as all the whining self proclaimed nice guys want to think. Truth is... You look at any single, can't get laid "Nice guy" and I guarantee you will find some major flaws. There's the "He's a nice guy but he speaks Klingon fluently" There's the "He's a nice guy but he's way to femm" And the "He's a nice guy but he is WAY to much of a Momma's Boy" As well as countless other variations.
Yo Red, notice I said "For the most part". You, however said "You ALL write the same"
So should I assume yer another one of those "All people...." dingdongs?
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| 7/28/2008 6:34:51 PM |
Women not responding to you? then be an a**hole here is why |
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rig216
Red Deer, AB
age: 46
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Ya ya, sounds like groundhog day. Murray thought he had the perfect romantic script which he had to modified on a daily basis. After so many face slaps, He finally realized that in order to conquer the heart of a woman, he had to become a better man, improve his artistic skills, and be himself.
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| 7/28/2008 6:35:50 PM |
Women not responding to you? then be an a**hole here is why |
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mlk2008
Brimfield, MA
age: 89
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Women are f**ked up, yo. This shit is crazier than a motherf**ka. I can only wonder what kind of shit I'ma get from them if I straight called them stuck-up a** hoes.
I know that's the f**k right!
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| 7/28/2008 6:37:21 PM |
Women not responding to you? then be an a**hole here is why |
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chillytoes
Braidwood, IL
age: 47
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first impression..........waaaaaaaaaaana
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| 7/28/2008 6:38:56 PM |
Women not responding to you? then be an a**hole here is why |
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chillytoes
Braidwood, IL
age: 47
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OK>>>>>>>JMO............second impression.....wwwwwwwwwwwaaaaaannnnnnnnnnnnaaaaaaaaaaaa
[Edited 7/28/2008 6:45:56 PM]
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| 7/28/2008 6:44:45 PM |
Women not responding to you? then be an a**hole here is why |
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chillytoes
Braidwood, IL
age: 47
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third impression...give it up
ok........says I'm not on topic.......well....ok....a**hole...
I'm not interested?
LMAO............I can't post???.......Holy cats........I' m the good one
around here?
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| 7/28/2008 6:45:01 PM |
Women not responding to you? then be an a**hole here is why |
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betterdazes
Swartz Creek, MI
age: 48
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I can spot a pre-typed, pre-written, copy pasted email a mile away. If you are gonna write to me, then write to ME! If you send me some mass email you are sending out to a 100 other women, move along! I wouldn't answer any of those....so obvious you are mass mailing! You must have picked 12 stupid women, the ones that answered you,and the two that called you a "d*ck" were the smart women LOL. The ones that didn't answer you at all, well they wouldn't even be bother to respond to such gibberish. I on the other hand take great pride in calling mass e mailers out, just so they know....hey guess what, I have a brain, maybe you should get one too!
[Edited 7/28/2008 6:46:47 PM]
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