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hogaseman
Benátky nad Jizerou
Czech Republic
66, joined Jun. 2014
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Went to lreland for our 25 th anniversary. .3weeks later l cought her in a motel with a guy she met on Facebook. May all her teeth fall out but one and that one have a toothache
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| 12/11/2014 7:42:35 PM |
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bluerosemama
Evansville, IN
54, joined Aug. 2009
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Our daughter died- we loved each other but couldn't get last the loss. I was so alone, even when we were in the same room. I Iost my mind from grief and he couldn't handle me or the situation. He left us and began having an affair. Then I had one to try to hurt him back. We finally sat down one day and I told him I was leaving before we killed everything good we ever had. He said he hated me and hoped I would kill myself.
It's been most 20 years.
I think his last words were what finally snapped me back awake.
Most couples don't survive the loss of a child.
He was my best friend - losing that hurt way more than the divorce.
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| 12/11/2014 11:11:23 PM |
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mboots31
Albion, NE
35, joined Jun. 2014
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She thought it was cool to shag her sisters husband on my 30th birthday well she got caught by her mom and sister.
She was suppose to be putting the kids to bed like she said oh there's some lying.
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| 12/12/2014 7:19:43 AM |
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lifeishort19d
Oneonta, NY
39, joined Apr. 2014
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She didn't like to try anything new sex was a chore for her no fun, not even willing to try. I wanted her but she didn't want me so I cheated for many years. She found out and when I tried to talk to her she shut me out. So here I am
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| 12/12/2014 4:16:15 PM |
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hogaseman
Benátky nad Jizerou
Czech Republic
66, joined Jun. 2014
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Hi there Blue eyes
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| 12/20/2014 10:43:43 PM |
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ms_sweetcookie
Dallas, TX
61, joined Mar. 2014
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After dating my ex-husband for a couple months, and him insisting; he was the perfect gentleman, and generous until we got married. After he proposed, everything went very fast, proposed on a Saturday, he was on my door-step on Wednesday claiming he and his mom had a falling out; and he couldn't take it anymore( that was an excuse); I loved this one: he stated why pay bills in two places, we'll be getting married soon anyway he said
(1.) Before I could protest, this man neglected to tell me he had all his belongings in his car in my driveway. Bells and red flag were going up all over the place. I told him I didn't believe in living with a man before marriage (cause sure as hell was no sex going on), and had never done such, but it was too late, or so I thought.
(2.) He started forging my name and social security number on life insurance policies, and lied about it when the policies arrive in the mail; I started to contact these companies while he watched to get to the bottom, and me requesting copies of the applications, come to find out he did forge my information, I recognize his handwriting from forging his mother's name on a life insurance policy, and calling it and her an investment. Can you believe that? he lied in my face he didn't.
(3.) he throw a tantrum when I refused to put his name on my properties, See he thought I was going to die from a heart attacked I suffered, but I lived, he started dividing my life for his rotten adult children by his first wife as if I didn't matter, and I knew they didn't like me (man I could blow your mind with this)
(4.) he wrecked my vehicle, lied in my face, stop paying attention to his hygiene, criticize everything and everybody, drank like a fish, he needed me to get increase in Federal student loan payment and his VA benefits (and he's a marine too),but forgot to ask if he could use me to commit fraud against the Federal govtmnt.,
(5.) worst of all he refused to repair my vehicle and had the nerve to hit me; that was his mistake. after I kicked his a** and blacken his eye, busted his ear-drum (tried to knock his teeth down his throat), convinced police he attacked me, and without question they locked his a** up for 14 months, but wait, it gets better;
My vehicle was repaired by his money, I took it from his account he'd changed the week before trying to be a smart-ass and got out smarted; after 14 months of thinking about this marriage and all that I know, my mind was made up to get rid of him, he was real trouble. I was his 5th wife and from the stories by the ex's and his own mother , son, sister and the neighbors, he was a real loser.
How long does it take to get a BA degree, 4 yrs., right? well, he was working on year 7 and to this date, no degree. I figured it was okay to marry him after he near bragged me to the court house, I went alone with it to show him, anything not ordain to happen will surely fail; and besides, he didn't love me, he needed me to finance a lifestyle he couldn't afford to give himself. I guess he figured since I've completed my degree work (Master) he would use me to make him look good for the next wife, but my thing is
I don't fatten frogs for snakes; and I'm not a sugar mama either; everybody for himself, including the roaches. He was a user, jerk, a dead-beat lying, uneducated, ignorant homosexual (found that out later)he liked it both ways, I'm not into that, hell his whole family is screwed up, and it took near two month to consummate the marriage after having no sex prior to; and has an a**hole for a son, and his daughter is worst than he is all 5 of the bastards.
 what the hell was I on is the question I ask myself every time I think about it   
Dishonesty is a real relationship killer, this guy got everything he deserved, and it felt good I gave it to him too
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| 12/21/2014 8:29:01 AM |
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purplerider1200
South Bend, IN
61, joined Aug. 2011
online now!
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You need to be as far away from that loser, as you can. Life is hard enough without those lazyasses around you
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| 12/21/2014 2:09:47 PM |
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a4umposter
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Dec. 2014
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The crappy way he consistently treated me
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| 12/23/2014 2:29:49 AM |
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msangelrn69
Southern Pines, NC
53, joined Jul. 2014
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Got moved away from all my family and everyone I knew..ring went on the finger..the beatings began when I wouldn't pay for everything..sometimes divorce isn't both people's fault
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| 12/26/2014 2:04:13 AM |
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upina_tree
Crestwood, KY
49, joined Dec. 2014
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Things really do go both ways. She is a bit of a psychotic fool. Our family life was just toxic. Finally I just had enough. I really felt for her and her situation. I didn't want it to be over, but it had been over for a long time. Now I can clearly see that if I had handled things differently, especially early in the marriage, maybe things would not have become so toxic. But another way was not apparent to me at the time.
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| 12/29/2014 5:07:23 PM |
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clo_e
West Columbia, SC
56, joined Aug. 2014
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Too many outside influences.
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| 12/29/2014 9:47:25 PM |
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dadof3looking
Bellmawr, NJ
37, joined Jul. 2013
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I was diagnosed with MS so she cheated ran up bills opened cards in my name then said she couldn't do it anymore. All I want to do is love another woman and treat and honor her like the way she should be.
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| 2/20/2015 4:37:42 AM |
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a_new_me_71
Arkadelphia, AR
45, joined Dec. 2014
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I kept getting beat on and cheated on...
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| 2/22/2015 11:01:11 AM |
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northken
Nikiski, AK
38, joined Apr. 2013
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She chose her addictions over family, and just walked away...
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| 2/22/2015 4:53:31 PM |
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46samuel46
Normal, IL
57, joined Sep. 2014
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It wasn't all her fault but big part of it was her wanting to be the children's friend instead of their parent
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| 2/27/2015 5:34:30 AM |
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69goldwing
Kingston, OK
57, joined Oct. 2013
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Well my xs never understood what word LOVE,OR MARRIED,TRUST,YALL KNOW,, JUST A LOSSER...STAYED 35YRS AN NO YOU CANT FIX OR CHANGE SORRY.AN DONT STAY FOR KIDS LOVE OR WHAT I WANTED...SO NOW I INJOY MYSELF,AN IF SOME ONE COMES ALONG COOL IF NOT IM HAPPER WITH OUT DROMA AN BULL SH..SO GRAND KIDS ARE FOR SPOILING.....I KNOW GOD HAS MY SMILE WAITING FOR ME AN SHE WILL FIND ME...AN THEN SPIOL HER...
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| 2/27/2015 5:51:10 PM |
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purplerider1200
South Bend, IN
61, joined Aug. 2011
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Well my xs never understood what word LOVE,OR MARRIED,TRUST,YALL KNOW,, JUST A LOSSER...STAYED 35YRS AN NO YOU CANT FIX OR CHANGE SORRY.AN DONT STAY FOR KIDS LOVE OR WHAT I WANTED...SO NOW I INJOY MYSELF,AN IF SOME ONE COMES ALONG COOL IF NOT IM HAPPER WITH OUT DROMA AN BULL SH..SO GRAND KIDS ARE FOR SPOILING.....I KNOW GOD HAS MY SMILE WAITING FOR ME AN SHE WILL FIND ME...AN THEN SPIOL HER...
Your Wing will give you more. And cost less in the long run.
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| 3/3/2015 2:03:30 PM |
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nurseshanna1972
San Marcos, TX
44, joined Oct. 2013
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lets see
First one was from being raped and left for dead.
Second one was car accident and death
last one was from abuse, rape , used and the idea that he could not tell the differnce between me and my 13 year old daughter. after that his interests in men and boys.
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| 3/3/2015 2:06:51 PM |
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txcountrymedic
Pleasanton, TX
39, joined Mar. 2014
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Been cheated on and left. Twice.
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| 3/7/2015 7:24:26 AM |
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greeleybro
Longmont, CO
50, joined Oct. 2013
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bipolar disorder and her kids!
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| 3/9/2015 10:21:43 PM |
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manofgringo
Flossmoor, IL
58, joined Jan. 2012
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amen!
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| 3/13/2015 5:31:30 PM |
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avengingangel19
Exton, PA
58, joined Dec. 2014
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Impotent husband who blamed his medical problem on me. He didn't have a problem "self medicating" with what ever ho he could find.
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| 3/14/2015 7:25:05 AM |
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inknpink
Castle Rock, CO
32, joined Feb. 2015
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He decided after 5 years of marriage and our daughter was 4 he "doesn't want a family".
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| 3/19/2015 4:47:24 AM |
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imagoogman63
Cullman, AL
54, joined Aug. 2014
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Lying, deception, and in laws. Her daughter and family came back from the navy and moved in with us. Next thing was I was asked what I thought about giving them our house and moving in with her parents. She and her mom were bipolar and had a Borderline personality disorder (a LA Fatal Attraction.) It was hell but I put up with everything because its what you do ya know? We literally became roommates. I isolated in my room to avoid conflict. Next thing I know she says she don't love me anymore and tells me to get out. The family was It all I an and mafia like and would have killed me if I hadn't left. 2 years later, she wants back together if I get counseling so I can think "Normal" like them. AINT HAPPNIN!
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| 3/19/2015 4:59:03 AM |
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imagoogman63
Cullman, AL
54, joined Aug. 2014
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I'm so sorry you had to go through that. It broke my heart just hearing it. I cannot begin to fathom what it did to yours.
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| 3/19/2015 5:02:38 AM |
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imagoogman63
Cullman, AL
54, joined Aug. 2014
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Hard to imagine anyone treating you badly. You are precious!
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| 3/19/2015 8:40:57 AM |
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olivia81
Hanceville, AL
54, joined May. 2012
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He cheated on me twice and  funny thing is that he thinks I don't know he still seeing and talking to her. So all I have to do is come up with the money to put divorce papers in courthouse, then I'll be free.
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| 3/22/2015 12:27:14 PM |
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jredd2528
Edmond, OK
34, joined Jul. 2014
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I couldn't keep it in my pants. Anytime she wouldnt have sex with me I'd go elsewhere. Once she caught me I didnt even care. Since then I've stopped cheating but our relationship is on empty. We dont sleep together nor do we have a romantic life anymore. I killed our relationship because of my addiction too sex.
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| 3/22/2015 3:13:57 PM |
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mylovestorm76
Hohenwald, TN
40, joined Sep. 2014
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He decided after 5 years of marriage and our daughter was 4 he "doesn't want a family".
I know that hurts it's good that you're trying again to find whatever it may be your looking for.you have a beautiful daughter out of it I'm sure that's what matters most and that you're trying to heal your heart I wish you good luck you're way too beautiful to worry about somebody being a jerk I wish you and your daughter happiness good luck and have a nice day.
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| 3/22/2015 3:15:56 PM |
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mylovestorm76
Hohenwald, TN
40, joined Sep. 2014
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Been cheated on and left. Twice.
sorry that you were cheated on twice I wish you happiness with a faithful woman that you might find I'm here .wishing you a blessed day and lots of love
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| 3/23/2015 7:34:13 AM |
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waki_1
Suwanee, GA
51, joined Sep. 2014
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He would say I got fat and b*tchy....I have a different take...but those are echos I still hear!!"
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| 3/24/2015 5:51:21 PM |
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gussgrace1
Sunnyvale, CA
57, joined Aug. 2013
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He was a a** at the beginning and I did not see it and after he spent all my money, I had the judge remove him from the house we lost.
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| 3/24/2015 11:30:01 PM |
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indianadave1951
Mishawaka, IN
66, joined Dec. 2010
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I was 26, most of the women close to my age were married and she showed interest in me. I knew I was not deeply in love with her but I wanted a wife and (someday) children.
What little romance we had died after the kids came. I admit the mistake as mine.
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| 3/27/2015 6:21:55 AM |
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louise7xo
Fraser, MI
35, joined Mar. 2015
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That my ex cared more about were he was going to get his next high than his family. After a while I was tired of trying to get him help. I lost my jobs do to it. Ran bank account to the ground abusive and much more. So I had to walk for my children and me.
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