When someone say that "Im not looking for a relationship but whatever happens happens", what do they mean by that? Does it happens in a mutual agreement or its with the other's decision?

You're kinda stupid.
You never just FOUND something... anything? Maybe just walking and found $20? Weren't out LOOKING, yet you found something of value?

So...
Not out actively looking for someone, but met some kind of way, things clicked and blah blah blah. It's not rocket-science.

And unless in a slave/master thing (slavery's been abolished btw), a relationship is always mutual in this country. "...the other's decision?" WTF

When someone say that "Im not looking for a relationship but whatever happens happens", what do they mean by that? Does it happens in a mutual agreement or its with the other's decision?

I hate reading that on a guys profile. Make up your mind. You either want a relationship or want to date someone or you don't.

I feel its like saying "hey this doesn't mean a thing to me so... whatever, let's just see what happens."

I want to know you want to put some time and effort into it.

And I hate the phrase "go with the flow." I do use it sometimes, but try to not use it in a dating/relationship situation

It means they are not out looking for a relationship and they are just going to go with the flow .. and enjoy what comes their way ..

It means she's not looking for a relationship but if the moon was crashing into the earth you could probably talk her into a cool threesome

It means they are not out looking for a relationship and they are just going to go with the flow .. and enjoy what comes their way ..

When someone say that "Im not looking for a relationship but whatever happens happens", what do they mean by that? Does it happens in a mutual agreement or its with the other's decision?

Whenever anyone says or writes anything, what they mean depends on how well and carefully they are using the language.

In this case in particular, we see the word "but" is used to join the two sentence fragments. If the person is using that word correctly, it means that the second fragment is a contradiction of the first, or an exception to it in some way.

Therefore, "I am not looking for a relationship but whatever happens happens," would mean that even though they are NOT looking to become deeply involved with someone, that if they discover that they do care deeply about someone, that they will not run away from that.

The thing to keep in mind, is, that the people who are careful about what they say in this world, are few and far between. Most people blurt out catch phrases which they have heard, as though they are a programmed response machine, or a magic 8 ball. often as not, when you ask someone to re-explain what they mean about something, they will completely reverse what they just said a moment before using a catch phrase, and will deny that they every said otherwise.

Therefore, although that statement means what I said, there's no guarantee that the person who said it to you meant you to understand that.

I would worry myself, because I have found again and again, that most of the people who like to use the phrase "whatever happens happens," tend to be callous, selfish hedonists, with no sense of honor or loyalty to anyone but themselves. A very few, are deeply caring people who accept responsibility for everything, and will go the distance for you, no questions asked.

So you'll have to learn more about the person who said that, to find out what kind of person they really are.

This isn't gender specific. I've seen a whole lot of male profiles that make that statement.

It does mean exactly what it says. Not purposely seeking to be in a committed relationship but if it works out that way then I'm good with that too. You never know when you'll meet the right person.

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That's what I say.

When someone say that "Im not looking for a relationship but whatever happens happens", what do they mean by that? Does it happens in a mutual agreement or its with the other's decision?