Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?

10/6/2014 6:59:06 AM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
nicola33 Lawrenceville, GA 36, joined Sep. 2014	I met this guy at the car wash. He approached me and we started to conversate. I gave him my number and he texted me later that day. We met up and went to see a movie and went to have drinks and a bite to eat. He was a nice guy smelled good, dressed good, and had a nice car, but he wanted to hold hands while we were walking as if we were in a relationship. As we were watching the movie he grabbed my hand and kissed it. It felt a bit awkward being that I just met you today. My question is: Is it ok to hold hands on the first date? Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
10/6/2014 7:03:20 AM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
gotheon123 Apex, NC 49, joined Jul. 2013	Of course it's ok. Now whether or not it's ok with you is your choice and it sounds like not so much.
10/6/2014 7:10:04 AM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
chitowngirl78 Oak Lawn, IL 39, joined May. 2014	He's just holding your hand... its not a marriage proposal. I've noticed--reading some of these forums--that a lot of women seem to get freaked out at the most gentlemanly (or polite, even) and innocent gestures. -holding hands -opening doors -Simple "hello's" -A complement!! If youre not comfortable with it, then maybe you dont like him as much as you think you do. Or maybe youre just weird...
10/6/2014 7:22:02 AM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
asiancawk Houston, TX 50, joined Sep. 2014	Quote from nicola33: I met this guy at the car wash. He approached me and we started to conversate. I gave him my number and he texted me later that day. We met up and went to see a movie and went to have drinks and a bite to eat. He was a nice guy smelled good, dressed good, and had a nice car, but he wanted to hold hands while we were walking as if we were in a relationship. As we were watching the movie he grabbed my hand and kissed it. It felt a bit awkward being that I just met you today. My question is: Is it ok to hold hands on the first date? No it's not, it's a bit creepy. ...but the good news is.. it's ok to f**k on a first date.
10/6/2014 7:37:18 AM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
bruceinsaginaw Saginaw, MI 61, joined Mar. 2014	If he paid for the date you need to put out.
10/6/2014 7:57:49 AM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
avgjoe0266 Grovetown, GA 51, joined Aug. 2008	Sounds like you are very conservative. Just move on til you find what you want. It does help to be a little more open minded though
10/6/2014 8:54:20 AM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
lookin4him2012 Boone, NC 48, joined Jan. 2012	Quote from nicola33: I met this guy at the car wash. He approached me and we started to conversate. I gave him my number and he texted me later that day. We met up and went to see a movie and went to have drinks and a bite to eat. He was a nice guy smelled good, dressed good, and had a nice car, but he wanted to hold hands while we were walking as if we were in a relationship. As we were watching the movie he grabbed my hand and kissed it. It felt a bit awkward being that I just met you today. My question is: Is it ok to hold hands on the first date? I think it depends on how BOTH of you feel. You kind of just know if there is chemistry there or not I guess. My current boyfriend I've been with for 2 years and he and I made out pretty heavy at the end of our first date. No sex but we made out. We didn't hold hands first! But we hit it off great the first day and had spent the whole afternoon and evening together and we just knew there was an attraction there.
10/6/2014 8:55:15 AM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
lookin4him2012 Boone, NC 48, joined Jan. 2012	Quote from bruceinsaginaw: If he paid for the date you need to put out. That's not true. And all the men here know that. If you met someone you really wanted to see something long term with you would respect her more than that.
10/6/2014 9:43:18 AM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
bruceinsaginaw Saginaw, MI 61, joined Mar. 2014	she meets a guy at the f**king car wash, and she agrees to go out with him, Id think she was a hooker....obviously she doesnt know what "date" means to men wanting to pay for sex
10/6/2014 9:45:11 AM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
fucq Renick, WV 41, joined Aug. 2014	for me? prolly not something I would do. I don't kiss on a first date either... but then again I have my own way of doing things.... always have.
10/6/2014 9:45:40 AM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
dixie_dancer Kansas City, KS 28, joined Feb. 2013	This sounds like a question a 12 year old would ask. How old are you really OP?
10/6/2014 9:55:09 AM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
danielchinku Buckinghamshire United Kingdom 26, joined Aug. 2014	nothing to be serious... Just let u flow on this and see what happens in future,
10/6/2014 12:22:07 PM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
amusicluvr Salem, OR 64, joined Nov. 2013	OP - Are you 10 years old? Then it is not ok to even date. The guy is a queer who wants to use you as a cover, to make people think your are his lover, so they won't guess that he is queer. If that satisfies you, then go for it. If you want more from a relationship, and don't want to share your man with other men, move on and find someone else. Have group sex on a first date if you want to. Such choices are up to you, and those you date, and are no one else's business.
10/6/2014 12:47:01 PM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
zimzane2 High Point, NC 56, joined Jan. 2013	Why not?
10/6/2014 12:55:59 PM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
woman_4_woman Omaha, NE 29, joined Jun. 2014	I have held hands on the first date. I think if you like each other its cool but if your not feeling that person than its uncomfortable
10/6/2014 1:00:06 PM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
kissmyattitude1 Baby Brazil 34, joined Jul. 2014	Quote from dixie_dancer: This sounds like a question a 12 year old would ask. How old are you really OP? She's 12 and a half.
10/6/2014 1:01:21 PM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
slumg0d Pensacola, FL 44, joined Jul. 2014	I don't see a problem with it if you both are cool over it. Now if they start licking the back of your hand or try to move up your arm, that's over the line to creepsville! (well maybe not to everyone )
10/6/2014 1:01:25 PM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
morse81 Beacon Falls, CT 35, joined Sep. 2014	No. You may contract Ebola.. A ridiculous reply to a ridiculous topic.
10/6/2014 1:05:01 PM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
kissmyattitude1 Baby Brazil 34, joined Jul. 2014	Op you might need a pregnancy test,that's how it usually happens.
10/6/2014 1:19:24 PM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
lookfamiliar Portage, IN 60, joined May. 2014	I think holding hands is the least of your worries. You have bigger problems at hand.
10/6/2014 1:30:06 PM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
cosmicgem Springfield, MO 60, joined Jun. 2011	Quote from bruceinsaginaw: she meets a guy at the f**king car wash, and she agrees to go out with him, Id think she was a hooker....obviously she doesnt know what "date" means to men wanting to pay for sex Aww Brucie You're Such a Romantic.
10/6/2014 2:43:38 PM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
001snatch Marysville, WA 57, joined Aug. 2013 online now!	If you are into the guy then why not.
10/6/2014 6:15:19 PM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
thepatriot1776 Chesapeake, VA 54, joined Jul. 2014	If both feel the magic the spark. Its cool
10/6/2014 6:18:59 PM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
whitl42 Beaver Dam, KY 45, joined Feb. 2014	I think it's pretty sweet to hold hands.. Doesn't hurt a thing... The kiss was nice too... Lighten up op
10/6/2014 6:30:47 PM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
hugsnlaughter McKeesport, PA 57, joined Jul. 2007	Nothing wrong with a little hand holding unless of course, there is no spark, if not, don't hold his hand, he will get the wrong idea.
10/6/2014 6:34:24 PM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
packersbabe920 Green Bay, WI 52, joined Jul. 2013	Don't see a big deal op
10/6/2014 6:40:29 PM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
iheartidiots Grove City, OH 40, joined Feb. 2012	Well obviously you weren't comfortable. And that's ok. Some people just warm up sooner than others. Be thankful he didn't whip it out and shove it in your mouth.
10/6/2014 6:44:40 PM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
packersbabe920 Green Bay, WI 52, joined Jul. 2013	Quote from iheartidiots: Well obviously you weren't comfortable. And that's ok. Some people just warm up sooner than others. Be thankful he didn't whip it out and shove it in your mouth.
10/6/2014 7:00:34 PM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
whitl42 Beaver Dam, KY 45, joined Feb. 2014	Quote from iheartidiots: Well obviously you weren't comfortable. And that's ok. Some people just warm up sooner than others. Be thankful he didn't whip it out and shove it in your mouth. I can't stop laughing at the statement!! ROFLMFAO!
10/6/2014 7:02:39 PM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
arabianknight01 Bronx, NY 30, joined Apr. 2014	Hummm this is a very important matter!!!!!
10/6/2014 7:04:01 PM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
nicoli7 Louisville, KY 33, joined Jul. 2014	There are no rules..... Two people can hold hands whenever they want..... [Edited 10/6/2014 7:04:22 PM ]
10/6/2014 7:05:00 PM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
mari987 Jerusalem Israel 28, joined Aug. 2014	There is absolutely nothing wrong on holding hands on the first date.
10/6/2014 7:16:16 PM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
citychick89 Dover, DE 28, joined Aug. 2014	I think it all depends on how comfortable you feel. For me I don't mind holding hands on the 1st date. But for others it may bother them
10/6/2014 10:01:46 PM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
driver406 Saint Paul, MN 65, joined Oct. 2009	Considering that most people skip the date and just start to f**k then it certainly is ok. You should be commended for your restraint.
10/6/2014 10:24:42 PM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
latinasm Amarillo, TX 48, joined May. 2014	Holding hands , there's nothing wrong with it on a first date ,it's actually sweet an old fashion, it's an intimate, sweet thing for a first date!
10/7/2014 12:38:32 AM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
rose1206 Gilbert, AZ 35, joined Jul. 2012	Quote from latinasm: Holding hands , there's nothing wrong with it on a first date ,it's actually sweet an old fashion, it's an intimate, sweet thing for a first date! Agree 100%!
10/7/2014 12:50:45 AM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
blue3rose Saint Louis, MO 41, joined Jun. 2013	I think you should wait for date 375
10/7/2014 12:53:06 AM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
carmelcb Tallahassee, FL 26, joined May. 2012	I don't think you really liked him...if you had you wouldn't be asking this question.
10/7/2014 1:04:33 AM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
wedontgiveaf Vancouver, WA 29, joined Dec. 2013
10/7/2014 8:09:43 AM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
like_aboss Aberdeen, ID 39, joined Sep. 2014	Quote from mari987: There is absolutely nothing wrong on holding hands on the first date. I agree now since ur ok with it let's hold hands!
10/7/2014 4:45:26 PM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
mylegsarecold Gainesville, FL 55, joined May. 2011	I don't know, let me ask my mom.
10/7/2014 8:06:52 PM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
mrhankchinaski Aurora, CO 55, joined Aug. 2014	Here in NY you hold her hand when walking down the sidewalk. You also walk in between her and the curb. You never let your girl walk on the outside by the street.
10/7/2014 8:11:10 PM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
naturebiy Bangkok Thailand 41, joined Jul. 2011	If you just met that person..and hours later holding hand and acting like yall have known eachother.. And you are asking if that is ok? To some it would be..to some not so much.. Kind of rushing things like teenagers ehh?
10/7/2014 11:03:52 PM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
pickygirl72 Pinon Hills, CA 46, joined Sep. 2011	If you're not feeling it and it makes you uncomfortable than do not do it. Tell him "I appreciate your enthusiasm, but I am not ready to do that." He sounds a bit anxious to kiss and hold you. Just let him know what you want or don't want up front. Good luck.
10/7/2014 11:23:15 PM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
virgosarmoire Sarasota, FL 58, joined Jan. 2013	Why read so much into it? Discard the dude. Sure sign of insecurity. If you have to question something as simple as hand holding, then don't freely give out your number. Keep safe!
10/8/2014 2:49:07 AM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
cavie59 Enid, OK 58, joined Feb. 2010	Quote from nicola33: I met this guy at the car wash. He approached me and we started to conversate. I gave him my number and he texted me later that day. We met up and went to see a movie and went to have drinks and a bite to eat. He was a nice guy smelled good, dressed good, and had a nice car, but he wanted to hold hands while we were walking as if we were in a relationship. As we were watching the movie he grabbed my hand and kissed it. It felt a bit awkward being that I just met you today. My question is: Is it ok to hold hands on the first date? If you did not want him holding your hand, YOU should have said something. Men are not mind readers. As for me I will ALWAYS err on the side of caution, no touching unless she starts it.
10/8/2014 8:56:04 AM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
mylegsarecold Gainesville, FL 55, joined May. 2011	Quote from mylegsarecold: I don't know, let me ask my mom. My mom told me not to talk to strangers so I can't answer you, OP.
10/8/2014 8:57:34 AM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
mari987 Jerusalem Israel 28, joined Aug. 2014	Quote from like_aboss: I agree now since ur ok with it let's hold hands!
10/9/2014 7:11:49 AM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
bumblebee7 Fort Payne, AL 62, joined Apr. 2011 online now!	OP...in your picture....your mimicing kissing people you never met yet. is that okay??????????????????????????? Get real huh .... [Edited 10/9/2014 7:12:05 AM ]
10/9/2014 7:26:16 AM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
larryconfer Social Circle, GA 50, joined Oct. 2012	I don't see anything wrong with that ! It's not sex ! And what message are you sending if you go out and a man doesn't even touch her ! I would think : he's not interested !
10/9/2014 7:44:51 AM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
bruce_2014 Dothan, AL 59, joined Jan. 2014	a 55 year old dishonest man who knows better. His point is to only see the younger generation feels or he has mental problems.
10/9/2014 7:51:15 AM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
bruce_2014 Dothan, AL 59, joined Jan. 2014	OP is 55 year old woman who knows better. Her point is to only see the younger generation feels or she has mental problems.
10/9/2014 8:06:42 PM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
jimmco Monroe, NY 55, joined Sep. 2014	It is OP if you feel the same he's feeling. If not, you're going to get that awkward feeling.... Yuck!
10/9/2014 8:13:03 PM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
happylauren Crown Point, IN 55, joined May. 2013	It's better than my last date. Don't ask I plead the fifth.
10/9/2014 11:51:50 PM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
glovestate Westland, MI 42, joined Jan. 2014	Quote from asiancawk: No it's not, it's a bit creepy. ...but the good news is.. it's ok to f**k on a first date. aint that the truth
10/10/2014 12:32:21 AM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
kartusch Logan, UT 42, joined May. 2014	I think it sounds cute
10/11/2014 3:20:03 PM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
ambitiouswoman3 Albany, NY 28, joined Nov. 2012	I wouldn't feel comfortable holding hands with a man unless it develops into an actual relationship. I think it's weird to hold hands with a man that I know nothing about & am not in a relationship with. To each their own, though. If you're comfortable holding hands, then do that. If not, then don't. Your opinion is the only one that matters in this scenario, or any other.
10/11/2014 3:51:14 PM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
tjir1l Jacksonville Beach, FL 62, joined Feb. 2011	x [Edited 10/11/2014 3:52:14 PM ]
10/11/2014 3:52:06 PM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
tjir1l Jacksonville Beach, FL 62, joined Feb. 2011	Quote from nicola33: I met this guy at the car wash. He approached me and we started to conversate. conversate: A word used by backwards, ignorant, illiterate inner city trash who mean to say 'converse'. "Yo, I just needs to conversate witcha!" To which I replied, ...
10/11/2014 5:02:17 PM	Is it ok to hold hands on the first date?
4uijack New Port Richey, FL 81, joined Aug. 2013	I usually just grab their ears and force it down their throat on the first date!1 den we convesate!!

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