11/10/2014 8:52:33 AM |
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ksmygirl17
Muskegon, MI
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Really do I have to be an jerk like 90 percent of men?????
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11/10/2014 8:59:01 AM |
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xray6
Fort Stewart, GA
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No but you cannot let your target know that they have you a hundred percent.
when humans know they can get something a hundred percent they will always shoot higher because they know they have a fallback plan.
you need to be slightly unattainable and almost a project.
she needs to feel that you're interested but not completely devoted.
you don't have to be a jerk
just don't give a f**k because there's other fish in the sea.
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11/10/2014 8:59:09 AM |
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grizzlybear786
Florence, OR
28, joined Jul. 2014
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Nice guys really aren't nice.
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11/10/2014 8:59:56 AM |
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asiancawk
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014
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Really do I have to be an jerk like 90 percent of men?????
why are you studying men's behavior so closely??
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11/10/2014 9:00:13 AM |
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xray6
Fort Stewart, GA
27, joined Mar. 2012
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confidence
when you have everything and not afraid to lose it.
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11/10/2014 9:01:24 AM |
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thekinghasrisen
San Diego, CA
30, joined Nov. 2013
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Really do I have to be an jerk like 90 percent of men?????
Whatever you're doing...don't.
If that turns you into a jerk, than so be it. You can't be to chicken-shit to experiment.
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11/10/2014 9:13:04 AM |
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ayemie
Granite Bay, CA
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Everyone gets crapped on if they let themselves be crapped on, it's not just "nice guys".
It's one thing to be nice it's another thing to be a pushover and taken advantage of and treated like crap.
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11/10/2014 9:15:38 AM |
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tjir1l
Jacksonville Beach, FL
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11/10/2014 10:10:04 AM |
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chitowngirl78
Oak Lawn, IL
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Really do I have to be an jerk like 90 percent of men?????
No...BUT...If you're being polite to people just because you feel people owe it to you to be polite in return, then you're doing it wrong.
You're supposed to be polite to people because it makes YOU feel good, not because you think it will open doors for you. Although it still is a natural affect of being a good person.
Some people are still gonna be a$$holes no matter how nice/polite you are. You cant let it bother you.
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11/10/2014 10:21:03 AM |
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armyfly86
Seminole, TX
28, joined Dec. 2013
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Wow you are retarded
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11/10/2014 10:24:56 AM |
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zimzane2
High Point, NC
54, joined Jan. 2013
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A good excuse for coping out.
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11/10/2014 10:25:41 AM |
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dixie_dancer
Kansas City, KS
26, joined Feb. 2013
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Sounds more like you're a doormat than a nice guy.
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11/10/2014 10:33:15 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
59, joined Apr. 2011
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Because they are shaped like toilets.
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11/10/2014 10:45:27 AM |
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nothingneeded
Johnston, IA
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Really do I have to be an jerk like 90 percent of men?????
You need a pic first OP......can't give you an answer without a pic.
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11/10/2014 11:08:01 AM |
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mehbleh
Glendale, AZ
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Really do I have to be an jerk like 90 percent of men?
Seems you've decided being a "nice guy" didn't work.
And you are saying you can be a "jerk" if you want to be.
Why not try being a "jerk," compare it to being a nice guy, and see which one makes you happier.
Maybe in the process you will have some further insight.
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11/10/2014 11:52:00 AM |
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ksmygirl17
Muskegon, MI
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Thanks for the insight
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11/10/2014 3:03:03 PM |
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willieharris40
Ypsilanti, MI
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It's mostly good guys because women consider them weak and try to walk over them just to say they wear the pants in the relationship plus to many women want to be the guy anyway ,don't get me wrong though it's the same thing with men but I love p*ssy if I could live in it I would 1
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11/10/2014 3:04:58 PM |
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asiancawk
Houston, TX
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Because they are into poop play?
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11/10/2014 3:50:07 PM |
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viper1e
Jeannette, PA
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Nice guys really aren't nice.
And some are females with penile units.
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11/10/2014 4:23:56 PM |
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wedontgiveaf
Vancouver, WA
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11/10/2014 4:32:51 PM |
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twining
Anderson, SC
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I'm sorry Op. You're b*tching and complaining on a forum so you get what you give.
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11/10/2014 4:39:05 PM |
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stamina1975
Madison Heights, VA
39, joined Apr. 2012
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Just be you, you'll never be good enough for somebody who really doesn't deserve your company.
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11/10/2014 5:39:48 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
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op it will work if u be yourself
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11/10/2014 5:51:03 PM |
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rymiilee
Southaven, MS
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Nice guys really aren't nice.
AGREE!
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11/10/2014 8:10:30 PM |
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soulflight
Dayton, OH
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I still say 'nice guy' is a bastardized term used by men who weren't nice enough or just incompatible for the woman or women they want. It's just a way to avoid dealing with who they are.
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11/10/2014 8:13:43 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
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There must at least the 345,434,576,780,976,543,635,487,809,976,543,233,425,678,990,765,434,567,890,666,546,758,545,321,345,679,679,056,756,786,324,345,904,837,687,656,785,464,854,367,675,789,657,809,064,553,765,899,096,766,556,879,780,809,744,333rd post on this subject. (I may have missed one or two to be honest. )
Nice guys aren't considered MACHO enough.
Girls like BAD BOYZ preferably life without parole in solitary BAD.
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11/10/2014 8:45:17 PM |
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carmelcb
Leonia, NJ
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you can be nice just be assertive.
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11/10/2014 8:51:18 PM |
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soleil71
Easton, PA
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Dont be a pushover major turnoff. Be a little more agressive.
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11/10/2014 9:02:30 PM |
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cubcougar
Lucerne, CA
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Quote from mrroscoe03: I'm opposed to outright Amnesty. Not sure what you can do with the Illegals though. Deport them all? Easier said then done.
I don't like it, but, a path to citizenship seems to be the best we can do.
F**k Yeah ... deport them all ... and it is easier done then said.
Send them all to Irak ... we have huge military bases there .. empty and waiting.
They can STAY THERE as long as they want and see if a Judge will not deport them with their free lawyer telling US how the Drug Lords are selling their asses for sex trade ...
and then when they went to go back to where ever.
Show them the door and they can hike back.
If the Muslin Brotherhood hunts them down ... oh well ... they should have not jumped the border as illegals.
Just START THAT ... and their Dream Act is over.
They leave fast ... on their own .. jumping the border faster then when they came and it will stop.
We don't need no stinking border patrol to pay off at $2,500 a person ... and they are PAID !!!
It is money corruption at the highest office ... and to keep it going the way it is or with reform .. will not stop.
You are just stuck in your Toddler Tantrum mentality to purport otherwise.
There is a WAY TO MAKE IT STOP !!!
Send them to Irak ... give them MREs and Water and Tents and Lawyers ... and wait for a Judge to see them on TV hookup .. and take their time.
Spend all their time waiting to be an American citizen THAT WAY !!!
Instead of doing it the RIGHT WAY ... which everyone else does.
The ones who do it wrong .. are liars, cheats, thieves, break the law and kill our cops ... kill cops from California to Texas.
And kill US as well ... have to mention that.
They are sick f**ks .. and making them US citizens on the bull shit Ronald Reagan Path don't work.
I know .. I used to live next to one in Santa Rosa .. he and his wife are sick f**ks.
http://www.pressdemocrat.com/article/20081027/NEWS/810270310?p=all&tc=pgall
http://www.allvoices.com/contributed-news/10899854-cops-came-by-morgan-hill-high-school-freedom-fighters
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11/11/2014 12:24:25 AM |
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b2cold
Bark River, MI
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Stand up for yourself op. Even a nice guy has a bad and is viewed as an a**hole it happens.
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11/11/2014 12:25:50 AM |
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tooflyforawhguy
Oshkosh, WI
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They don't.
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11/11/2014 1:10:02 AM |
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pickygirl72
Phelan, CA
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you really don't want the girls That go for the bad boy types they have major problems of their own.
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11/11/2014 1:49:29 AM |
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stregaleonora
Atlanta, GA
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Really do I have to be an jerk like 90 percent of men?????
You have just run into some stupid female (and since there are so many around that is very likely to happen ).
You should be strong enough to believe in who you are and keep going your way.
If you let bad people change you, you aren't better than them.
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11/11/2014 9:57:53 AM |
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niteowl81
Roanoke, VA
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Its true some women are attracted to the drama of dating a jerk, but those are the ones you need to avoid. Be nice, but don't put up with BS from a woman either, or you'll get walked all over.
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11/11/2014 10:12:52 AM |
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pickygirl72
Phelan, CA
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its funny how good guys complain They get shit on when they only go for the hot girl they can't get in the first place.
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11/11/2014 10:43:40 AM |
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neo52
Tallahassee, FL
58, joined Sep. 2009
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You have just run into some stupid female (and since there are so many around that is very likely to happen ).
You should be strong enough to believe in who you are and keep going your way.
If you let bad people change you, you aren't better than them.
Gotta agree with the nora ..
There are plenty of lovely ,loving ,fun ladies looking for Good guys ..
Jerks are for Jerks ....
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11/12/2014 9:26:01 AM |
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spiritofgood
Lompoc, CA
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OP
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11/12/2014 9:26:56 AM |
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grizzlybear786
Florence, OR
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Try dodging the seagulls and you won't get crapped on.
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11/12/2014 10:37:48 AM |
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doublethree
Germantown, TN
37, joined Oct. 2013
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Because women are not nice, so they want someone not nice.
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11/12/2014 11:44:48 AM |
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candmann73
Petersburg, VA
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Sometimes you have to be selfish. People will drain the life out of you IF YOU LET THEM! Put your all in to YOU!
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11/12/2014 4:36:19 PM |
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cubcougar
Lucerne, CA
61, joined Oct. 2010
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You have just run into some stupid female (and since there are so many around that is very likely to happen ).
You should be strong enough to believe in who you are and keep going your way.
If you let bad people change you, you aren't better than them.
It is close but there is more then that going on in YOU !!!
Just a woman who has a BF for a sick prick controlling piece of shit for a human being.
She picked that guy .. and she also hates acupuncture and getting healthy pricks in her.
So the sick pricks are out side of her all the time ...
Same for guys who pick ... yup .. they pick them ... sick b*tches that lie, cheat, steal ...
are stuck in their Toddler Tantrum mentality cause of their Duck Disease.
They are angry all the time just like the BF above is angry all the time .. about everything.
YOU just happened to show up and get trashed on ... just like the next one who shows up after you split.
Or ... you pick ANOTHER angry b*tch who does it just like the last one.
Well ... that is your Duck Disease working out there guy.
Just like it is in wonderful women who pick BF all the time ... it is in their Duck Disease.
How they were raised .. their parent objects were angry all the time or it skipped generations.
Grandparents where addict alcoholics .. and mom/dad were teetotalers ... and now they are the drunk/addicts.
You want to change getting crapped on .. then CHANGE YOU.
I say the same thing to women who hate accupuncture and will not get healthy pricks into their life.
As they keep getting sick pricks ... car accidents ... bee stings .. shit like that all the time that is even killing them.
Bee Sting girls ... they have a sick poisonous controlling father in their life ... so the Defense Structure makes them allergic to bee stings as a sick prick .. and then they go shoot up with an Epi Pen as another prick in the hopes of saving their life.
Guys with bee sting problem .. goes back to mom ... and her incest possessive shit from her own child abuse.
The learning curve is a bit flat at first ...
but it does pick up after awhile.
sumbuddie wear blind sea
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11/12/2014 8:47:06 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
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There must be a zillion threads in here on this subject
Nice guys aren't considered MACHO so no one takes them seriously especially by women and the boss. That's the way it is. Toughen up and get over it.
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11/12/2014 9:21:01 PM |
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wafflehuggins
Elizabethton, TN
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"No but you cannot let your target know that they have you a hundred percent.
when humans know they can get something a hundred percent they will always shoot higher because they know they have a fallback plan.
you need to be slightly unattainable and almost a project.
she needs to feel that you're interested but not completely devoted.
you don't have to be a jerk
just don't give a f**k because there's other fish in the sea."
this person has it right! confidence is key
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11/12/2014 9:25:43 PM |
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anton998
Cincinnati, OH
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This is all too complex. Treat her well.. be romantic and give her more orgasms than she ever thought possible. ....then instead of you being the lapdog she will want to make u happy bc her past three bf's barely gave her an orgasm and had no career and lived with mom
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11/13/2014 4:12:43 PM |
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rose1206
Gilbert, AZ
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That happens when anyone is too nice regardless of gender. Instead of complaining, work on your boundaries and just say next when someone tries to take advantage. And don't forget to snap your fingers.
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11/13/2014 4:17:33 PM |
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whalemstrsback
Corning, CA
57, joined Oct. 2014
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nice
men
don't
get
crapped
on...
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11/13/2014 4:18:45 PM |
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mari987
Jerusalem
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11/13/2014 4:27:06 PM |
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russtoleum
Pasadena, TX
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Assert your dominance. People can smell a pushover and someone to take advantage of from a mile away.
It may happen once, but if it happens again the same person, it is your own fault.
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11/13/2014 8:54:13 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
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I think I replied to this yesterday and I have the same answer today that I had then.
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11/13/2014 9:37:52 PM |
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smstephanie
Moorhead, MN
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No offense op but who said you were a nice guy? You? Self proclaimed nice guys are the craziest bastards out there..
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11/13/2014 9:43:08 PM |
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soflwill
West Palm Beach, FL
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If you haven't figured it out yet, when a woman says she wants a NICE guy she is saying that she wants the guy she finds attractive to be nice. Attractive first nice second, they will take attractive and rude over ugly and nice. Men do the same thing, a woman's personality is of no value if we don't find them attractive.
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11/14/2014 11:23:25 AM |
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cubcougar
Lucerne, CA
61, joined Oct. 2010
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nope .. she is a genetic psychopath ... a Calista Bilary Shriver taco sauce licker wh*re wife.
Just follow the MONEY folks ..
the illegals have money .. and you do not.
Obama Mama NEVER does things for you on Main Street ...
he only does things for the Rich, Creepy, Old Guys named Donald on Wall Street.
You do not have 5 Billion dollars to pay Obama or Romney or Bush the Worst or Ronald Reagan or Clinton ...
they get that kind of money every two years.
So Obama is just doing what any good wh*re would do ... f**k their customers and give them what they want.
Otherwise he f**ks the cops .. f**ks the neighbors .. f**ks the dog ...
he don't care .. he got taco sauce on his swartzn**ger and a Calista Billary Shriver wife to lick it clean.
She a slut also ... and doesn't vomit at the thought at it.
I get drunk, I pass out, I piss in my pants, I vomit in my sleep .. NOT A PROBLEM.
Once you a** f**k them as a child while doing mom and the upstairs maid they turn out this way.
sumbuddie wear blind sea
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11/14/2014 12:12:09 PM |
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ladybugruth58
Patton, PA
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Nice guys don't get crapped on. Whimps, scared, shy ones do.
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11/14/2014 6:15:31 PM |
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kingslayer99
Arlington, TN
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Because they are nice guys and women know they will do NOTHING when they shit on you. Now shit on me shame on you! You asked for more drama then you could ever dream of. Dead things on your door step. Shit on the door handle's of you car.
And that's just getting warmed up.
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11/14/2014 6:17:08 PM |
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kingslayer99
Arlington, TN
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Quote from russtoleum: "Assert your dominance. People can smell a pushover and someone to take advantage of from a mile away.
It may happen once, but if it happens again the same person, it is your own fault."
You betcha! You act like a pushover garuntee you will get shit on ! And they will tel all their friends.
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11/14/2014 6:46:19 PM |
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gamerman17
New York, NY
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Really do I have to be an jerk like 90 percent of men?????
No. Being two extremes, no matter how good or bad, is never the option. Just mu opinion. Having a balance between the two (i.e. being considerate for her and her feelings while being your own man and assertive when the situation calls for it) is the best way to go about it. No one wants someone who so accommodating that they become dependent on her actions and existence where they can't think for themselves.....gamer
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11/14/2014 10:38:14 PM |
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doom_the_menace
Palmdale, CA
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11/15/2014 6:19:28 AM |
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viper1e
Jeannette, PA
56, joined Dec. 2013
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Really do I have to be an jerk like 90 percent of men?????
No, you need to have a better place to hide the bodies, and make sure she's seen at least one.
"Nice guys" hide the bodies well.
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11/15/2014 10:43:12 AM |
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dark_gable0585
West Sacramento, CA
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its funny how good guys complain They get shit on when they only go for the hot girl they can't get in the first place.
women rocking the same boat
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11/16/2014 1:02:18 AM |
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mesas2791
Chillicothe, OH
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Nice guys finish last and get crapped on because they're to nice and let people do it get mean and treat others like shit first LOL
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