| 11/18/2014 9:50:24 PM |
Just because everybody else does it does not make it right |
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NerdsR2Cute
Victorville, CA
45, joined Oct. 2014
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I remember hearing that time and time again as a child from my parents. I think for some they feel justified doing mean or cruel acts on the computer as ok because others do it and they are not called on it as being wrong, then pretty soon a "Mob" mentality takes over and then the childish crap keeps going so one person can outwit or hurt another. I know to some they consider the source and figure they do not have a life anyways and this is their only form of entertainment which is said in of itself if you look at it. Are they living in their own personal hell they have to make others miserable too? For the most part the few times I run through the groups/forums before I do my work, I am glad to see that it does not occur here that often. Does that mean we are more mature?? I would like to think that or that we have a higher capacity of empathy and sympathy then those who stir the cauldron of rumors, drama and just plain evil 
 As the New Year approaches I think of what the next year will bring for me to do something for another. I do not believe in making a resolution that I know will be broken on January 1st at 12:02 am. I look at charities and causes that I can help for the New Year (I just add to my list, I never drop one charity or cause for another. I just keep adding to it). To the cynical it sounds saccharine and fake to always look to help another complete stranger. Somebody did that for me once...so I pay it forward.
**I am sure when you first saw this topic you thought "Oh damn another negative topic". Nope not here yes it started out as "negative" but I gave a way to be another positive person of influence than one who likes to wallow in Drama.**
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| 11/19/2014 8:30:00 PM |
Just because everybody else does it does not make it right |
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missamicable
Austin, TX
83, joined Jul. 2014
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| 11/19/2014 9:47:05 PM |
Just because everybody else does it does not make it right |
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sarahgoldsmith
Chantilly, VA
46, joined Jan. 2014
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I agree with u, nerds are too cute. I hate people with the herds mentality. It shows weakness, it shows they are unable to think for themselves. I hate them. I think they are stupid.
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| 2/25/2015 2:52:39 AM |
Just because everybody else does it does not make it right |
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unique_woman
Omaha, NE
29, joined Dec. 2014
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I agree with just because everybody else does it does not make it right 
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| 2/25/2015 10:45:13 AM |
Just because everybody else does it does not make it right |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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The so-called 'Herd Mentality' does not mean strength in numbers it is a clear indication of "Weakness" in any number. jmho
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| 3/3/2015 4:22:43 AM |
Just because everybody else does it does not make it right |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
60, joined Apr. 2006
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I had to think about this topic before replying,as I do most.
For me it's easier to find positive words to type,then finding negitive for people to take notice.
I'm not looking for people to agree,only to maybe read a different prospective.As I'd like to call it food for thought.
Each people here is always allowed an opinion,never means we have to agree,or disagree.But hopefully can reply with a fair civil comment.
I chose many times not to take the path where the first watering hole is,and pass by the pushing and shoving.
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| 5/10/2015 9:42:16 PM |
Just because everybody else does it does not make it right |
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transformative
Hartford, CT
40, joined Apr. 2015
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It's all about insecurity. women who go out of their way to outshine another on here or to gang in or who need to look smart... are stuck developmentally in their high school years. It's overwhelming in many threads! And a huge let down. far as I'm concerned they are trying to bring women down as a whole. all to satisfy their lacking ego. It's at a point where I don't hold back anymore from calling someone a B*TCH who is one on here.
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| 5/11/2015 5:37:02 PM |
Just because everybody else does it does not make it right |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
52, joined Jul. 2013
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Those kind of people I tend to ignore, not gone run my pressure up and beside dh not paying me to carry on a argument, I'm bigger than that and I always say, call me what u like it's what I answer to
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| 5/12/2015 3:32:34 AM |
Just because everybody else does it does not make it right |
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pickygirl72
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011
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this place is entertainment, I do not follow the drama.
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| 5/23/2015 10:34:22 PM |
Just because everybody else does it does not make it right |
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ms_holland
Danville, AL
53, joined Mar. 2014
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this place is entertainment, I do not follow the drama.
I do if I am really and I mean really bored.
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| 5/25/2015 8:06:35 PM |
Just because everybody else does it does not make it right |
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whatastarrsheis
Lyons, IL
33, joined Nov. 2014
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It's all about insecurity. women who go out of their way to outshine another on here or to gang in or who need to look smart... are stuck developmentally in their high school years. It's overwhelming in many threads! And a huge let down. far as I'm concerned they are trying to bring women down as a whole. all to satisfy their lacking ego. It's at a point where I don't hold back anymore from calling someone a B*TCH who is one on here.
OMG!
I honestly thought it was just me thinking this. ..thought maybe I was crazy...I agree with EVERYTHING 100%
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