12/14/2014 10:34:51 PM |
How important are looks. If the guy treats you good and is a good guy? |
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bluerazapits
Greeley, CO
42, joined Jan. 2014
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So my last relationship I went for looks. He treated me good half the time. Just recently left him. I met some guys that aren't really good looking. One wants a relationship treats me good and is a good guy. But attraction isn't there for me as much as the guy I left. What should I do??? Don't want to miss out on a good guy waiting for a really good looking one that mite be eragant and not a good guy
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12/15/2014 5:34:19 AM |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
61, joined Apr. 2006
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So my last relationship I went for looks. He treated me good half the time. Just recently left him. I met some guys that aren't really good looking. One wants a relationship treats me good and is a good guy. But attraction isn't there for me as much as the guy I left. What should I do??? Don't want to miss out on a good guy waiting for a really good looking one that mite be eragant and not a good guy
If your only looking for attraction physically,might mean you haven't been in a relationship with substance.Hopping from one guy to the next is not always the answer either.
A few hints of a well rounded man would be.
Makes me laugh
Can carry on a conversation,and can listen.
Caring but not controling
Respectful
Humble with who he is
Responsible for his own actions
Most of all graceful with accepting no one is perfect.
Those are some guild lines or a man or a woman to fill
So looks??? hmm doesn't seem to be on the quality list for long term.Looks fade for everyone.so did the relationships.
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12/15/2014 2:19:28 PM |
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dixie_dancer
Kansas City, KS
29, joined Feb. 2013
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My man become more physically attractive to me as I fell more and more in love with all of his quirks and his personality traits.
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12/15/2014 6:30:03 PM |
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bluerazapits
Greeley, CO
42, joined Jan. 2014
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Hmmmmm good advice. That's what I thought. But needed to hear from others
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12/15/2014 6:47:32 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
52, joined Jul. 2013
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Not really important, if a man is treatment me good then that's what I'm looking for, don't want him looking better than me
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12/15/2014 8:00:55 PM |
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bluerazapits
Greeley, CO
42, joined Jan. 2014
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Hmmmmm all things to think about
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12/15/2014 8:28:54 PM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
64, joined Aug. 2008
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What should I do???
Well, to start you should use common sense....See, of you need to ask the above question... I guarantee you you are going to make the wrong choice.
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12/15/2014 9:55:06 PM |
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mtrctylady
Canton, MI
69, joined Sep. 2013
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Now all of these ladies have given you very good advice. They took the words right out of my mouth as a matter of fact. If you're only looking for someone who's physically attractive, you'll miss that special someone. Remember the story of the Ugly Duckling!
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12/16/2014 1:16:44 PM |
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bluerazapits
Greeley, CO
42, joined Jan. 2014
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True. You all are right. I will give him my all.... The only reason I asked is because I was married to a good guy once. He wasn't the best looking guy,, we grew apart physically Don't want that to happen again. I want to be with someone for the rest of my life!!!!! Find my best friend. Lover. My all. I'm going to hope that's what I found and go for it again. I just left a bad relationship. He was my best friend half the time. The other half made me miserable. Agh. I hate not knowing. Thanks for all the advice. I'm going to give my heart to this good guy
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12/20/2014 7:39:04 PM |
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newgirl3333
Mc Carley, MS
50, joined Jun. 2014
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I would much rather have a man who is not good looking but who treats me well, than a good looking man who does not.
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12/26/2014 8:05:49 PM |
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NerdsR2Cute
Victorville, CA
45, joined Oct. 2014
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Looks are really not important to me. After a certain age getting to a certain size or having all our hair just does not seem to matter at least not to me. My BF is 8 years older than I am, he is about the most sweetest and thoughtful person I have ever met in my life, had I been shallow and went for the outer shell of a man I would have missed the one that I have now and he makes me the happiest.
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12/28/2014 2:11:59 AM |
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pickygirl72
Pinon Hills, CA
47, joined Sep. 2011
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I have to find him attractive. What I attractive and not what others think.
Most of the time I go for the average Joe. Hot guys do not like me.
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12/28/2014 6:41:27 PM |
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ms_holland
Danville, AL
54, joined Mar. 2014
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Op, just because a man is a good guy does not mean he is the right guy for you.
Don't try to force yourself to fall for someone you are not attracted to hun.
All the ingredients need to be there for it to work, chemistry, things you have in common, values, etc.
But you take out the chemistry, it just is not there.
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12/28/2014 6:45:14 PM |
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mizzangeleyezo4
Tujunga, CA
41, joined Jan. 2013
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For me if a man is good to me then the attraction will follow.
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12/28/2014 9:20:05 PM |
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ms_holland
Danville, AL
54, joined Mar. 2014
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For me if a man is good to me then the attraction will follow.
It can be either or depending on the man for me.
Sometimes you have instant physical attraction and then.... You get to know them and you know no way no how will you be able to date them.
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12/29/2014 7:54:12 PM |
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mizzangeleyezo4
Tujunga, CA
41, joined Jan. 2013
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A mans voice, eyes and how tall he is are the things I'm attracted to.
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12/30/2014 9:15:59 PM |
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moonbeams73
Grand Rapids, MN
62, joined Sep. 2009
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I would much rather have a man who is not good looking but who treats me well, than a good looking man who does not.
This. I'm marrying mine this August.
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1/1/2015 12:53:08 AM |
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sweetacting
Granite Falls, NC
56, joined Dec. 2014
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I so agree the chemistry has to be there
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1/1/2015 6:30:44 AM |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
61, joined Apr. 2006
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This. I'm marrying mine this August.
Congrats moon!!!
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.Not always the looking glass,or window displays.
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2/2/2015 2:40:43 AM |
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roseanne1
Trenton, MI
43, joined Feb. 2013
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looks r verry important to me . i went out w/ one guy on here for 6 mnths n it was a bad mistake to inrtroudnce him to my folks. he was a good guy, but he tured out to b a user looser.
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2/15/2015 6:57:32 PM |
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unique_woman
Omaha, NE
30, joined Dec. 2014
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Not really important, if a man is treatment me good then that's what I'm looking for, don't want him looking better than me
I agree & I think I look better than my boyfriend.
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2/17/2015 4:54:31 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
52, joined Jul. 2013
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I agree & I think I look better than my boyfriend.
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2/18/2015 4:44:31 AM |
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cinnamonnhaze
Minneapolis, MN
73, joined Apr. 2014
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^^^^^^^^^
I was purtier than my ex husband, yet he spent much more time in front of the mirror......
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2/18/2015 10:24:17 AM |
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001snatch
Marysville, WA
57, joined Aug. 2013
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Looks can grow on you, but they must be attractive to me.
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2/18/2015 6:10:37 PM |
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reenie4
Milwaukee, WI
60, joined Dec. 2007
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What looks great to you may be different on how I may interpret looks, regardless, I feel there needs to be some sort of attraction between two people. It does not always come down to "looks" at first sight, it may be other attributes that can be very attractive and alluring. A man who treats a lady like she should be treated is worth looking beyond the physical for sure. None-the-less, an attraction is important.
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2/19/2015 10:32:23 PM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
64, joined Aug. 2008
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Looks are way back on the list...
What really counts is personality, grooming, manners, respect for himself. What can you do with a guy who is good looking but doesn't bathe, is an arrogant, behaves like a jerk, doesn't value himself...?
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