| 12/29/2014 2:18:57 AM |
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tani1996
San Jose, CA
20, joined Nov. 2014
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Is it normal to still feel lonely though u have a partner, but he always has to work?  
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| 12/29/2014 2:19:18 AM |
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bubblezgopopz
Las Vegas, NV
23, joined Nov. 2013
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1st
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| 12/29/2014 2:21:59 AM |
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edluvulongtime
Vineland, NJ
32, joined Jun. 2014
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Don't cheat on a guy cuz he is working too much that's messed up
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| 12/29/2014 2:23:33 AM |
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darlinjessica
Claremont, CA
28, joined Nov. 2013
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This is a trick question right?
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| 12/29/2014 2:26:45 AM |
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__jadebop
Duluth, MN
37, joined Sep. 2014
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you came to the right place for sympathy
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| 12/29/2014 2:27:18 AM |
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edluvulongtime
Vineland, NJ
32, joined Jun. 2014
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It has to b...I work hard to better our situation and ur home banging the neighbor fml
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| 12/29/2014 2:33:43 AM |
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artokol
Vaubecourt
France
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| 12/29/2014 2:33:57 AM |
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worldwarzeke
Bakersfield, CA
90, joined Jul. 2014
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Is it normal to still feel lonely though u have a partner, but he always has to work?
Is that after you spend his hard earned crust?
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| 12/29/2014 2:38:33 AM |
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naturebiy
Bangkok
Thailand
39, joined Jul. 2011
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Is it normal to still feel lonely though u have a partner, but he always has to work?
Have you ever tried being by yourself, and not needing anyone to fill that "loneliness" ?
It should be a requirement. .
Than when you are with someone, there presence or lack of is not a issue.
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| 12/29/2014 2:41:30 AM |
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chambella
New South Wales
Australia
94, joined Jun. 2014
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you came to the right place for sympathy
Yeah they musta opened the door.
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| 12/29/2014 3:06:55 AM |
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nicoli7
Louisville, KY
31, joined Jul. 2014
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Naturebiy said it pretty well.
It's natural to get lonely sometimes
if he's always at work
But remember.....there's a lot of people that work long hours and put in a lot of OT.
They do it so they can make more money....and have a better life.
So appreciate that he works so hard.
And it will make the time that you do have together even better.
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| 12/29/2014 3:43:57 AM |
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riflessivo
AlmafuerteStaffordshire
United Kingdom
41, joined Jan. 2014
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Yes it's normal if you are 18 years old and in need of constant attention.
When you are older not so much because you value why they work so much.
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| 12/29/2014 3:44:37 AM |
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worldwarzeke
Bakersfield, CA
90, joined Jul. 2014
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Nature just copies from Doc Phils books.
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| 12/29/2014 3:46:14 AM |
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brownsugg93
Milwaukee, WI
20, joined Jul. 2012
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rifless pretty much ended the thread no its not normal you shouldnt feel LONELY you should never feel lonely in a relationship
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| 12/29/2014 3:47:36 AM |
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worldwarzeke
Bakersfield, CA
90, joined Jul. 2014
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rifless pretty much ended the thread no its not normal you shouldnt feel LONELY you should never feel lonely in a relationship
What does she do all day?
He's slogging his guts out to earn a crust and she's here on bloody DH!~
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| 12/29/2014 4:20:57 AM |
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extortionegos
Hayward, CA
38, joined Apr. 2014
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He should quit his job. Focus full-time attention on her. Making her feel loved, care for, and that's when things get ugly. Not able to pay rent they soon become homeless. Going to skip pass the part of her pickings up the slack to pay rent because obviously it didn't work. Naw what happens next? Abnormal
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| 12/29/2014 4:28:39 AM |
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spaceface79
Des Moines, IA
36, joined Mar. 2014
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If you feel lonely "in a relationship", you are not "in à relationship.". Do things to be of service, and feel connected to him.
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| 12/29/2014 4:29:56 AM |
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shassweetkisses
Honolulu, HI
35, joined Mar. 2014
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Talk to your partner. Let him know how you feel. Keep yourself busy.
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| 12/29/2014 4:30:07 AM |
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txrose64
Pearland, TX
51, joined Jan. 2013
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Sure it is, but you're pretty young to be in that kind of relationship but I'm guessing there's a child probably.
this happens more than you know..do NOT cheat on the guy because he's out working to make a better life for you both. PLEASE.
what you can do is get some girlfriends, do things with them, take up a hobby, there's tons of Meetup.com groups that have stuff you can go to.
You should have those outside the relationship interests anyhow, it brings a healthier you to the relationship table.
and that's in your spare time when you're not IN COLLEGE, or vocational school working on YOUR education and future career. You need to do that for YOU and that you be a better partner sharing that heavy load of supporting the household (and to save so you can stay home when the little ones come along until they're in school).
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| 12/29/2014 4:51:51 AM |
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nene_bug69
Midland, MI
24, joined Jul. 2014
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Is anybody else thinking it? Ok I'll say it..... Slut!
Sit at home on a dating site while your man is out working. Then have the Juevos to complain about him on the dating site.
Get a job.
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| 12/29/2014 4:53:34 AM |
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riflessivo
AlmafuerteStaffordshire
United Kingdom
41, joined Jan. 2014
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Is anybody else thinking it? Ok I'll say it..... Slut!
Sit at home on a dating site while your man is out working. Then have the Juevos to complain about him on the dating site.
Get a job.
No I'm not thinking that at all. I'm thinking she is craving interaction from others.
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| 12/29/2014 5:09:31 AM |
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chambella
New South Wales
Australia
94, joined Jun. 2014
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Actually I have a feeling that there are a 'few' new profiles that have started posting all in one time... see the Forums... are Trolls ...
(all the posts posted in the past hour by the noobs are inane subjects/question )
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| 12/29/2014 5:57:58 AM |
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acdmv
Scarsdale, NY
47, joined Aug. 2014
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Don't cheat on a guy cuz he is working too much that's messed up
At her age....she will anyway
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| 12/29/2014 6:07:24 AM |
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leeag
Milwaukee, WI
47, joined May. 2011
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Have you ever tried being by yourself, and not needing anyone to fill that "loneliness" ?
I recognized that in my daughter when she was like 2.
I hammered and hammered on that.
You gotta figure out a way to be happy on your own. You don't need a spotlight.
It worked!
She's 15 and don't need nobody
At least I did one thing right
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| 12/29/2014 6:16:59 AM |
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dezweather
Phoenix, AZ
42, joined Oct. 2014
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Is anybody else thinking it? Ok I'll say it..... Slut!
Sit at home on a dating site while your man is out working. Then have the Juevos to complain about him on the dating site.
Get a job.
Who hurt you so bad?
For 23 - you're so jaded.
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| 12/29/2014 6:18:34 AM |
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purdiibirdi
Nice
France
49, joined Aug. 2014
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Is it normal to still feel lonely though u have a partner, but he always has to work?
Don't you work? go to school? Know how to entertain yourself?
You're still very young, so, I will not ridicule you for being needy as I would an older- mature woman. I do hope; however, you do/will learn how to be a little less co-dependent. Go to school, get an education, get a job, and have friends & interests of your own.
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| 12/29/2014 6:28:34 AM |
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stanleyzee
Dayton, OH
31, joined Dec. 2012
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U have a long way to go...the world awaits ...try it u might like it...get a bachelor's degree in computer science...
In 10 years u will be set...and ur 4 kids won't have to be homeless...now Git going little moma
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| 12/29/2014 6:30:30 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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Well op....I guess you could get a job and throw in some cash to the cause.
then maybe he won't have to work so much.
just a thought.
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| 12/29/2014 6:40:03 AM |
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purdiibirdi
Nice
France
49, joined Aug. 2014
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Is anybody else thinking it? Ok I'll say it..... Slut!
Sit at home on a dating site while your man is out working. Then have the Juevos to complain about him on the dating site.
Get a job.
I agree with Rif, I didn't think her slutty but rather young and inexperienced in dealing with everyday life in a relationship. Kinda how I see you... young mentality- still and that's why you are so quick to jump to such an accusatory tone about her being a slut.
It's all good... most of us "old bitties" as the men of dh  like to tend to call us, are mature enough to recognize youth when we see it. 
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| 12/29/2014 7:24:18 AM |
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playingindirt
Eugene, OR
59, joined Mar. 2014
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no it's not normal. do something productive.
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| 12/29/2014 7:25:45 AM |
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walt_hallow
Lexington, KY
58, joined Nov. 2014
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I predict cheating in your near future
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| 12/29/2014 7:30:04 AM |
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chris_90352
Sykesville, MD
42, joined Sep. 2010
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Actually I have a feeling that there are a 'few' new profiles that have started posting all in one time... see the Forums... are Trolls ...
(all the posts posted in the past hour by the noobs are inane subjects/question )
Good call.
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| 12/29/2014 7:32:58 AM |
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chris_90352
Sykesville, MD
42, joined Sep. 2010
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no it's not normal. do something productive.
And, on the off chance that this was posted by a real human being, I'm with playingindirt:
Get out and do something productive.
How does an adult end up bored and lonely?
In San Jose, CA?
Do your boyfriend a favor, and break up with him. Find someone unemployed to keep you company.
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| 12/29/2014 7:33:59 AM |
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pudiitatt
Barstow, CA
41, joined Aug. 2014
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If you feel lonely "in a relationship", you are not "in à relationship.". Do things to be of service, and feel connected to him.
huh,?? damn... don't you think the poor girl isn't connected, to his hip enough, as it is?? "Do things to be of service? like what? be his lap dog, bend over...on command service his d*ck? right? there's more to a relationship than just being of service to your partner. 
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| 12/29/2014 7:49:32 AM |
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darlinjessica
Claremont, CA
28, joined Nov. 2013
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Is anybody else thinking it? Ok I'll say it..... Slut!
Sit at home on a dating site while your man is out working. Then have the Juevos to complain about him on the dating site.
Get a job.
I was thinking this too lol
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| 12/29/2014 11:24:03 AM |
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pdforone
Litchfield, OH
63, joined Jul. 2010
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Dude is working and you are whining? Get yourself one of those stay at home welfare collectors?
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| 12/29/2014 11:25:27 AM |
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kingslayer99
Arlington, TN
50, joined Oct. 2014
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Quote from tani1996: "Is it normal to still feel lonely though u have a partner, but he always has to work?
Why don't you get a job biotch?
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| 12/29/2014 11:29:38 AM |
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apokernut
Elk Grove Village, IL
52, joined Jan. 2008
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If you two are connected you wouldn't feel lonely or what he said. lolololol ^^^^^^
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| 12/29/2014 11:38:43 AM |
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spaceface79
Des Moines, IA
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huh,?? damn... don't you think the poor girl isn't connected, to his hip enough, as it is?? "Do things to be of service? like what? be his lap dog, bend over...on command service his d*ck? right? there's more to a relationship than just being of service to your partner.
Not what I said. At all.
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| 12/29/2014 11:39:44 AM |
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extortionegos
Hayward, CA
38, joined Apr. 2014
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Bob can help
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| 12/29/2014 11:43:06 AM |
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miscbyproduct
Isle Of Man
United Kingdom
18, joined Apr. 2012
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growing up would help more
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| 12/29/2014 11:46:17 AM |
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woman_4_woman
Omaha, NE
27, joined Jun. 2014
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Is it normal to still feel lonely though u have a partner, but he always has to work?
but I have a bf, he works alot too & I feel lonely sometimes too. I take care of my responsibilities.
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| 12/29/2014 11:49:17 AM |
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extortionegos
Hayward, CA
38, joined Apr. 2014
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With Bob right? ^
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| 12/29/2014 11:49:21 AM |
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miscbyproduct
Isle Of Man
United Kingdom
18, joined Apr. 2012
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hmm, maybe find ya one that's not working, so has more time for you.
HEY!, ya could move him in, let him stay home, support him. that way it'd reverse the dependency...he's always there and got time for you.
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| 12/29/2014 11:51:36 AM |
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miscbyproduct
Isle Of Man
United Kingdom
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likes been said, find sumn benefitial, or atleats neutral, to occupy your free/apart time.
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| 12/29/2014 12:42:26 PM |
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amicablyme
Wheeler, IN
58, joined Oct. 2014
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"Absence makes the heart grow fonder". I had a long marriage and realized when he was away being a manager at work, I missed him. Managers are also married to their job. I learned to get used to that. I also found out during the times he was unable to work due to several surgeries, I missed my alone time. Just make the best of the time you spend together.
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| 12/29/2014 2:27:01 PM |
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widow59
Twinsburg, OH
66, joined Mar. 2008
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I'd love to find a guy that works, most men not all that I've come across don't or won't work lookin for a sugar mama. Please be happy with ur partner goods ones r hard to come by.
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| 12/29/2014 2:35:06 PM |
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extortionegos
Hayward, CA
38, joined Apr. 2014
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Please act according to your inter feelings. It's nature calling
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| 12/29/2014 2:39:51 PM |
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tellitlkittis
Los Angeles, CA
61, joined Nov. 2012
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Have you ever tried being by yourself, and not needing anyone to fill that "loneliness" ?
It should be a requirement. .
Than when you are with someone, there presence or lack of is not a issue.
I have a married friend that says she's lonely even when her husband is home.
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| 12/29/2014 2:50:30 PM |
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zane097
Arvada, CO
47, joined May. 2014
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Have you ever tried being by yourself, and not needing anyone to fill that "loneliness" ?
It should be a requirement. .
Than when you are with someone, there presence or lack of is not a issue.
True story. It is best to figure out what that is about before harming someone else with this feeling. I have found some of my strangest and often most harmful behavior arises from that feeling. There are reasons for that feeling and they aren't pleasant to look at but it is vital to (for me) look at them and understand what is really going on. It is the thing that holds back real happiness (for me), in addition to the chaos my subsequent solutions bring about.
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| 12/29/2014 5:23:43 PM |
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chelleleeanne
Camden, TN
45, joined Mar. 2013
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You should appreciate a hard worker! Do something special when you get time together!
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| 12/29/2014 7:12:51 PM |
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miscbyproduct
Isle Of Man
United Kingdom
18, joined Apr. 2012
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I have a married friend that says she's lonely even when her husband is home.
that a candle lit at both ends
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| 12/29/2014 8:36:32 PM |
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naturebiy
Bangkok
Thailand
39, joined Jul. 2011
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True story. It is best to figure out what that is about before harming someone else with this feeling. I have found some of my strangest and often most harmful behavior arises from that feeling. There are reasons for that feeling and they aren't pleasant to look at but it is vital to (for me) look at them and understand what is really going on. It is the thing that holds back real happiness (for me), in addition to the chaos my subsequent solutions bring about.
Getting comfortable being alone and not needing others emotionally is a big task for alot of us.
I have got to the point that I over occupy my mind and shut the outside world out cause I am content being alone..
Its sad.. almost like I have to share myself with people? I believe it has gone too far when you want no interaction with anyone..
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| 12/29/2014 9:03:31 PM |
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lostlove8322
Shelton, CT
32, joined Jul. 2014
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Op I understand where you're coming from. I've always been alone in relationships . If you feel this bad now try to love yourself and end the relationship you're in and move forward with your life.
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| 12/29/2014 9:23:50 PM |
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miscbyproduct
Isle Of Man
United Kingdom
18, joined Apr. 2012
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and end the relationship you're in and move forward with your life.
what kind of shit advice is that to give someone because they don't have anything to do with THEMSELF
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| 12/29/2014 9:26:12 PM |
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zane097
Arvada, CO
47, joined May. 2014
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Getting comfortable being alone and not needing others emotionally is a big task for alot of us.
I have got to the point that I over occupy my mind and shut the outside world out cause I am content being alone..
Its sad.. almost like I have to share myself with people? I believe it has gone too far when you want no interaction with anyone..
Trust me. I have been there. I've been to some very dark places alone but also come to find I enjoy my own company a great deal. I have spent a lot of time resenting the idea I need people. I am around people all day, every day now and sometimes I hate it but sometimes I love it. I seem to feel best about life when I compare myself to myself. I have spent a lot of time comparing how I felt inside to other people's defense mechanisms that they have spent years forming.
No real black or white truths in regards to this except "reach out to someone if you are becoming overwhelmed."
Sounds melodramatic but my mind can be my worst enemy at times.
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| 12/29/2014 9:38:32 PM |
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lostlove8322
Shelton, CT
32, joined Jul. 2014
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what kind of shit advice is that to give someone because they don't have anything to do with THEMSELF
hey that advice wasn't for you. If ya don't like it... AWWW TOO BAD
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| 12/29/2014 9:46:08 PM |
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artokol
Vaubecourt
France
96, joined Nov. 2014
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Quote from zane097:
Trust me. I have been there. I've been to some very dark places alone but also come to find I enjoy my own company a great deal. I have spent a lot of time resenting the idea I need people. I am around people all day, every day now and sometimes I hate it but sometimes I love it. I seem to feel best about life when I compare myself to myself. I have spent a lot of time comparing how I felt inside to other people's defense mechanisms that they have spent years forming.
No real black or white truths in regards to this except "reach out to someone if you are becoming overwhelmed."
Sounds melodramatic but my mind can be my worst enemy at times."
Trust me on this one your mind is your worse enemy...the .75% you have left.
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| 12/29/2014 9:54:30 PM |
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a4umposter
San Antonio, TX
48, joined Dec. 2014
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Spend some time with family & friends.
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| 12/29/2014 9:55:18 PM |
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get2knowuwell3
Fort Worth, TX
46, joined Jun. 2013
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Spend some time with get2 & his pets.
fixed
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