| 2/26/2015 5:31:19 PM |
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ilovemyjob
Frankfort, KY
63, joined Feb. 2010
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Are all of the men on here just after sex? What happened to the guys that want to get to know you first? I'm sure they are out there I just haven't found one yet. What's your take on this? How do you handle it?
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| 2/26/2015 6:06:54 PM |
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texasgirl_1978
Grapevine, TX
38, joined Sep. 2013
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Are all of the men on here just after sex? What happened to the guys that want to get to know you first? I'm sure they are out there I just haven't found one yet. What's your take on this? How do you handle it?
Not all men are just after sex. I have been seeing a guy for almost a year. I found the man I want to spend my life with. He feels the same way about me. We are taking things slow. Good luck! Never give up.
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| 2/26/2015 6:39:38 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
52, joined Jul. 2013
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Just have to weed those out till u find the one, who isn't after just sex
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| 2/26/2015 7:14:33 PM |
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avengingangel19
Exton, PA
58, joined Dec. 2014
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I havent found one that wasnt intested in your sexual preferences in about the second chat.
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| 2/27/2015 4:43:56 AM |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
60, joined Apr. 2006
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I can only speak from what I have incountered.
I have spoke with a few men,that the topic of sex, doesn't even get brought up.I believe some times the topic get encourage by excessive flirting.Best to be careful what you say or type.Standing firm on your ethics,will weed out what you don't want.
Then again men who start their first letters suggestively, you might want to delete.
I look at all notes and letters like a personal hand shake as if face to face.
Keeping that in mind,So when someone says Hey sexy your hot.I tend to say nothing,or reply,You may say that to everyone,but i'm not everyone.
This tend to either the person trys again respectful or they delete you.Either way it's a win,win for both.
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| 2/27/2015 6:24:11 AM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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I can only speak from what I have incountered.
I have spoke with a few men,that the topic of sex, doesn't even get brought up.I believe some times the topic get encourage by excessive flirting.Best to be careful what you say or type.Standing firm on your ethics,will weed out what you don't want.
Then again men who start their first letters suggestively, you might want to delete.
I look at all notes and letters like a personal hand shake as if face to face.
Keeping that in mind,So when someone says Hey sexy your hot.I tend to say nothing,or reply,You may say that to everyone,but i'm not everyone.
This tend to either the person trys again respectful or they delete you.Either way it's a win,win for both.
Here ha go, Lady ...
I brought you some more coffee  ... You don't seem to be quite awake, yet.
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| 3/2/2015 7:13:15 PM |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
60, joined Apr. 2006
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hey Cup,lol more awake the you think.Always sleep with one eye open. hey ty for the coffee!
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| 3/2/2015 8:55:54 PM |
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nurseshanna1972
San Marcos, TX
44, joined Oct. 2013
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I am not here to fing a man or a woman. for the forums but do have one male FWB and one femal FWB that i know that is on here.
Can say this much. Most every email or message I get from men have to do with sex. Not all but most all of them.
Most all of the ones I get from a female are not with the occational few that will call me a wh*re or a slut.
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| 3/4/2015 4:15:44 PM |
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jasmi
Latrobe, PA
60, joined Jun. 2008
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It has been my experience that they are all after sex. I just ignore those who send me sexually oriented messages.
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| 3/14/2015 1:17:21 AM |
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pickygirl72
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011
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A guy from here once told me "lets have sex first then be friends", well, at least he was honest.
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| 3/14/2015 7:59:31 AM |
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shezakeeper_2
San Antonio, TX
62, joined Jul. 2013
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Are all of the men on here just after sex? - Yea, pretty much.
What happened to the guys that want to get to know you first? - They have become accustom to having their cake and eating it too so they don't need to try so hard.
I'm sure they are out there I just haven't found one yet. - There are some out there but the rare few seem to be afraid to commit.
What's your take on this? - My take is that I no longer look for someone from online.
How do you handle it? - Mention marriage and they high tail it out. If they don't run like a spotted ape then I might ask him a few things to seek his heart. Even this is faulty when dealing with folks online. So as I said, I rarely go there. I either delete them or if they are nice about it I politely tell them good luck.
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| 3/14/2015 8:49:04 AM |
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inknpink
Castle Rock, CO
32, joined Feb. 2015
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My mom taught me along time ago, yes most men are. They might not say it but that is the objective that's high on the list. If I come across a man that peaks my interest I engage him in conversation on different topics. It generally doesn't take long for intent to become clear, then I act or move on. 9 out of 10 times if a email starts with a compliment I don't waste my time.
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| 3/14/2015 7:38:38 PM |
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leasurelady
Barberton, OH
59, joined Oct. 2014
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Are all of the men on here just after sex? What happened to the guys that want to get to know you first? I'm sure they are out there I just haven't found one yet. What's your take on this? How do you handle it?
I'm wondering the same thing but I think that they are out there, you just have to find them. What happened to the days when a man got to know a women before he had sex with her. One night stands and Friends with benefits do not get you anywhere but then again it depends on what you are looking for. Still nice to chat with a man and not have to worry about them wanting to get in your pants.
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| 3/15/2015 5:38:12 AM |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
60, joined Apr. 2006
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I'm not sure what many are telling men,or do I care to know.But I'll speak for myself.
Men will always want sex,they are hard wired.
Some chose to demand and expect asap.
Some are old school and wait till you make the first move.
Some view woman only as a piece of ass.
Some would like to get to know you,but your to needy or b*tchy or demanding.
Some are gentlemen,but you might treat them like their all dogs.
Think about what you say ,before speaking to any man.Most of all in time your guildline will be clear , as will theirs.Not in the first conversation.
Ask questions in general seem to help.
Not I'm not,I won't,I expect,or last time..etc...sometime record your own voice with your answers and you can see what you maybe doing wrong.It's not always the guys fault,but your own.
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| 3/19/2015 9:17:39 PM |
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treec36
Saint Petersburg, FL
38, joined Oct. 2014
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were are you guys when i post something
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| 3/19/2015 9:21:23 PM |
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treec36
Saint Petersburg, FL
38, joined Oct. 2014
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learn as you experience on here just be smart wise
and firm with them some people could use a time to get laid
unintentionally a couple a times use latex condoms and dont't
let them spit on your private part eww
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| 3/19/2015 9:26:24 PM |
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treec36
Saint Petersburg, FL
38, joined Oct. 2014
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beware of crack heads monkey see monkey do
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| 4/3/2015 5:17:35 AM |
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cinnamonnhaze
Minneapolis, MN
53, joined Apr. 2014
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Are all of the men on here just after sex? What happened to the guys that want to get to know you first? I'm sure they are out there I just haven't found one yet. What's your take on this? How do you handle it?
Well sweetie, don't hold your breath.
You're gonna have to kiss an awful lot of frogs.
I choose to be single. I tired of getting frog slime on me.
Good luck. You're gonna need it.....
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| 4/3/2015 2:04:37 PM |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
60, joined Apr. 2006
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No matter what river you stand by, there are always slugs.In all fairness i'm sure men say same thing.
You can put what you want in your profile,but has been known some can't read.
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| 4/8/2015 6:18:47 AM |
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ilovepoodles55
Schererville, IN
55, joined Feb. 2015
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I've had men tell me in the first telephone conversation that if I don't guarantee them that I have a high sex drive they are not going to waste their time.
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| 4/19/2015 5:09:36 PM |
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ltlwing
Williamsburg, OH
53, joined Oct. 2013
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Maybe it is just me...I don't know?
Every since I reached 50 I quit caring what men think,want,or do.
Sure is a time waster in wondering about for sure...as I have learned.
I have became very selfish at my older age...doing,and thinking more about what it is that I want to do... been real busy with this....doing my thing!
I use to worry about a mens wants when younger....Thank god I came to my senses in thinking about my own for a change 
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| 4/20/2015 2:16:26 PM |
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nothingneeded
Johnston, IA
48, joined Sep. 2014
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Maybe it is just me...I don't know?
Every since I reached 50 I quit caring what men think,want,or do.
Sure is a time waster in wondering about for sure...as I have learned.
I have became very selfish at my older age...doing,and thinking more about what it is that I want to do... been real busy with this....doing my thing!
I use to worry about a mens wants when younger....Thank god I came to my senses in thinking about my own for a change
I do so agree...funny thing is...im 47 and come to this about a year ago.
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| 4/21/2015 12:59:05 PM |
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a4umposter
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Dec. 2014
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Are all of the men on here just after sex? What happened to the guys that want to get to know you first? I'm sure they are out there I just haven't found one yet. What's your take on this? How do you handle it?
Not all are, but many are.
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| 5/2/2015 12:39:28 AM |
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gab8888
Albany, NY
45, joined Aug. 2014
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Maybe it is just me...I don't know?
Every since I reached 50 I quit caring what men think,want,or do.
Sure is a time waster in wondering about for sure...as I have learned.
I have became very selfish at my older age...doing,and thinking more about what it is that I want to do... been real busy with this....doing my thing!
I use to worry about a mens wants when younger....Thank god I came to my senses in thinking about my own for a change
I totally feel the same way ,as I hit my 40's.I've become more set in my ways & I'm now becoming a bit more selfish as I'm getting older...I'm also becoming more of hard*** with men these days... 
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| 5/2/2015 5:03:59 AM |
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latinleprekahn
South San Francisco, CA
47, joined Sep. 2014
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Not all men here want just sex. Now with that said I've just had to tell 2 guys to stop inboxing me their vulgarity.
I ignored their messages for awhile now but I finally had to ask them if they spoke like that to women in the real world or just online. Also how would they like it if a man acted/spoke to their mother, sister, daughter, auntie as they did.
One said I was a fat loser and blocked me and the other said I was a b*tch.
I'm ok with that because I spoke my mind.
I know not all men are like these 2.
Somewhere there are good men!!
Stay hopeful ladies!! 
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| 5/7/2015 2:58:03 PM |
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rose1206
Gilbert, AZ
35, joined Jul. 2012
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Not all are that way OP. I've talked to some very cool guys from here over time but unfortunately they live too far.
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| 5/8/2015 6:42:47 AM |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
60, joined Apr. 2006
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I have found,If someone is to suggestive,why continue typing to them? delete and block works wonders.
Keep in mind some woman are the same way they talk too.Then cry wolf they are not respected.
Most men are hard wired sexually,someone respectful would know guildline of being a gentleman.
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| 5/8/2015 6:18:20 PM |
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irishrose0906
Dublin, OH
52, joined Mar. 2013
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Maybe it is just me...I don't know?
Every since I reached 50 I quit caring what men think,want,or do.
Sure is a time waster in wondering about for sure...as I have learned.
I have became very selfish at my older age...doing,and thinking more about what it is that I want to do... been real busy with this....doing my thing!
I use to worry about a mens wants when younger....Thank god I came to my senses in thinking about my own for a change
I have to agree hitting 50 changed it for me too. I have found that I
can do without a man in my life and be just as happy, even more so.
If a man doesnt want to take his time getting to know me, I don't need him..
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| 5/9/2015 10:12:05 AM |
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missamicable
Austin, TX
83, joined Jul. 2014
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Sorry to say, yes they all want sex.
Even the ones who pretends to get to know you first.
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| 5/9/2015 10:40:01 AM |
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sagepopper72
Globe, AZ
45, joined Aug. 2014
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I know it seems that way more often than not, but from reading the forums; the same can be said for some of the ladies on here as well. Most of them (from both sexes) are pretty easy to spot if you pay attention.
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