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sooo_much_fun
Los Altos, CA
44, joined Sep. 2014
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if you find you and your partner have fallen into a routine that becomes boring and monotonous and you're both on different life paths... Is it over? Can you love someone but leave them to break the routine?
How do you know when it's over?
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| 7/16/2015 11:03:57 AM |
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mortara
Pittsburgh, PA
62, joined Feb. 2014
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if you find you and your partner have fallen into a routine that becomes boring and monotonous and you're both on different life paths... Is it over? Can you love someone but leave them to break the routine?
How do you know when it's over?
When they don't call back!!!!!!!!!
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| 7/16/2015 11:24:57 AM |
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
54, joined May. 2011
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It's over 
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| 7/16/2015 1:14:54 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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If there is real love and the right compatibility, if a couple falls into a rut....then they discuss it and devise a plan to make things interesting and fun again.
then if that doesn't materialize over time, or one is willing, the other isn't or doesn't recognize this problem.
and one or both feel like this will always be this way and they can't be happy....then its better to divorce or whatever.
but op....you ask this like you are trying to decide.
Yet, here you are with a profile picture suggesting seeking some side fun....if your still with this person, your cheating and that wrong, and the wrong way to handle it.
So...you f**ked up, if the case and really don't deserve a legit answer.
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| 7/16/2015 1:16:57 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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in other words its over, because you cheated...if the case.
no excuses you did wrong.
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| 7/16/2015 1:23:31 PM |
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
44, joined Nov. 2012
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It's over
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| 7/16/2015 2:16:14 PM |
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sooo_much_fun
Los Altos, CA
44, joined Sep. 2014
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No cheating. No relationship for me. Somebody asked me the question the other day and my answer was to work on it until you can't or don't want to. It seems like such a common story I thought I'd pose the question to a broader audience.
To lie and cheat is silly. Just end it. Save everyone the pain.
It's the case where there is none of that where the answer isn't so clear.
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| 7/16/2015 3:24:44 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
49, joined Jun. 2014
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How do you know when its over?
When you come home and fine all your shit bagged up and out back for trash pick up, the locks changed, low music playing (the Isley Brothers), the smell of my beef tips (in wine gravy over rice) coming from the house and I got some company. 
YEAH! You can assume its over then.
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| 7/16/2015 3:27:37 PM |
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kawkasian
Beverly Hills, CA
36, joined Sep. 2014
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if you find you and your partner have fallen into a routine that becomes boring and monotonous and you're both on different life paths... Is it over? Can you love someone but leave them to break the routine?
How do you know when it's over?
Bring home a young Asian woman one night and introduce her to your woman "Hey baby, this is Ms Suki, she's our new toy"
That should liven things up.
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| 7/16/2015 3:29:55 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
49, joined Jun. 2014
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Bring home a young Asian woman one night and introduce her to your woman "Hey baby, this is Ms Suki, she's our new toy"
That should liven things up.
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| 7/16/2015 3:42:42 PM |
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testsignup
Springfield, VA
62, joined Sep. 2009
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if you find you and your partner have fallen into a routine that becomes boring and monotonous and you're both on different life paths... Is it over? Can you love someone but leave them to break the routine?
How do you know when it's over?
Multiple unrelated questions here.
1."if you find you and your partner have fallen into a routine that becomes boring and monotonous and you're both on different life paths... Is it over?"
No. "Finding" something doesn't result in changes occurring. Decisions do.
2." Can you love someone but leave them to break the routine?"
Yes of course. The fact that you love them, or think that you do, has nothing to do with what you decide to do. Or at least, it doesn't magically cause you to act in any particular way. No matter what, your choices are your responsibility. You can choose to leave someone you love.
3."How do you know when it's over?"
If you expect the decision to be made for you, so that you can "find it," the same way that you "found" that you'd fallen into a dull routine, you'll be disappointed.
But I will suggest, that if you are trying to wait for an epiphany to set the course of your relationship, instead of directly choosing how you want it to go, then chances are, the relationship you THINK you have, or THOUGHT you had, never existed in the first place.
JMO, of course.
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| 7/16/2015 3:43:05 PM |
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cubcougar
Lucerne, CA
63, joined Oct. 2010
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ahhh .. when the divorce papers arrive .. maybe ???
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| 7/16/2015 5:19:49 PM |
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sobe111
Miami Beach, FL
39, joined Oct. 2013
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If u both have different life paths...then u may decide to end it...the love is still there but the passion has fizzled. ...personally my life path is more important. ..it feeds my passion my reason for living...It doesn't mean I love my partner any less if they're not available to come along for the ride....but the train will leave.a different world many loves many ups and downs....thats a great life.
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| 7/16/2015 5:44:21 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
51, joined Jul. 2013
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The things u were doing, it all stops
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| 7/16/2015 5:57:26 PM |
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sooo_much_fun
Los Altos, CA
44, joined Sep. 2014
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If u both have different life paths...then u may decide to end it...the love is still there but the passion has fizzled. ...personally my life path is more important. ..it feeds my passion my reason for living...It doesn't mean I love my partner any less if they're not available to come along for the ride....but the train will leave.a different world many loves many ups and downs....thats a great life.
That's the best most balanced answer I've seen yet!
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| 7/16/2015 6:06:42 PM |
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sobe111
Miami Beach, FL
39, joined Oct. 2013
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Go for it So Much....the train is long...life is short...with or without u...it goes by way to fast.id rather be the train than the traffic waiting for it to pass....sending good vibes ur way...peace!
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| 7/16/2015 6:36:50 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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No cheating. No relationship for me. Somebody asked me the question the other day and my answer was to work on it until you can't or don't want to. It seems like such a common story I thought I'd pose the question to a broader audience.
To lie and cheat is silly. Just end it. Save everyone the pain.
It's the case where there is none of that where the answer isn't so clear.
Okay...it just looked that way....sorry.
Scratch that part off my post and use the rest for my answer.
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| 7/16/2015 8:09:48 PM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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"I want a divorce"...he said. The end.
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| 7/16/2015 8:56:59 PM |
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tjl503
Portland, OR
36, joined Dec. 2012
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If you're going to post on here take down that hairy a** pic of your body you f**king douche bag. We click on the thread and a pic of you almost showing your pubes pops up. You're 43 years old acting like you're 18 on here. Believe it or not women aren't impressed with your pic or your profile.
On topic: Shirt, f**ker.
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| 7/16/2015 9:17:33 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
64, joined Oct. 2009
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I don't want to hurt you BUTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT.................
Really it's over when she stops acting like a woman in love or even like a woman who is interested in pursuing the relationship.
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| 7/17/2015 12:34:26 AM |
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im2thexy
Belleville, ON
48, joined Dec. 2014
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No cheating. No relationship for me. Somebody asked me the question the other day and my answer was to work on it until you can't or don't want to. It seems like such a common story I thought I'd pose the question to a broader audience.
To lie and cheat is silly. Just end it. Save everyone the pain.
It's the case where there is none of that where the answer isn't so clear.
Yep...i would say work on changing the monotony and routine...if you really love each other both will do what it takes to stay together....
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| 7/17/2015 2:22:13 AM |
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stregaleonora
Atlanta, GA
40, joined Jun. 2014
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When the fun to be together is over....is over
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| 7/17/2015 10:00:45 AM |
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dixie_dancer
Kansas City, KS
27, joined Feb. 2013
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When you get the wedding invitation from him and his new wh*re
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| 7/17/2015 4:19:06 PM |
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katygirl3444
Buffalo, NY
44, joined Jun. 2015
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When you stop having sex and want to have sex with someone else.
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| 7/17/2015 5:12:12 PM |
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sooo_much_fun
Los Altos, CA
44, joined Sep. 2014
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When you stop having sex and want to have sex with someone else.
LOL - I think that's definitely a good indicated!
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| 7/18/2015 2:33:06 AM |
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riflessivo
AlmafuerteStaffordshire
United Kingdom
42, joined Jan. 2014
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How do you know when it's over?
When you can no longer communicate.
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| 7/18/2015 5:15:49 AM |
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bighornstarr
Coloma, WI
32, joined Jul. 2014
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Wen u walk in on her and your beat friend screwing
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| 7/18/2015 5:52:36 AM |
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jlyinc
Tucson, AZ
32, joined Nov. 2014
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When you fight more than you laugh.
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| 7/18/2015 6:03:23 AM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
58, joined Jul. 2010
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I you don't know
she will
& you'll
figure it out
from there mate.
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| 7/18/2015 6:36:07 AM |
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pdforone
Litchfield, OH
64, joined Jul. 2010
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When I close the door after throwing them out?
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| 7/18/2015 2:31:29 PM |
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jjp184
Somerset, NJ
52, joined Jun. 2013
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It's a sure bet it's over when she walks in while you're banging her 30 year old daughter
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