| 9/27/2015 10:41:05 PM |
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vale42
Findlay, OH
59, joined Jul. 2008
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are there any old school men in 50s anymore who believe in old school dating,, opening doors,, just being a gentlemen,,that don't expect nothing that just want to get to know the woman first,, just wondering  
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| 9/27/2015 11:15:59 PM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
52, joined Jul. 2014
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of course,,me,id rather have all the pleasure of sweet things but yes,allways an still do. i,ll be 107 tomorow,im older than most on here....
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| 9/28/2015 8:44:08 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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Like this guy
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| 9/28/2015 4:28:30 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
52, joined Jul. 2013
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| 9/28/2015 11:17:09 PM |
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purplesky56
Pearcy, AR
63, joined Nov. 2010
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I haven't dated one..im discouraged.
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| 9/28/2015 11:32:06 PM |
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sorpstar
Little River, SC
64, joined Oct. 2009
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Do you mean dating in the 1950s or the 50s group...
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| 9/28/2015 11:33:51 PM |
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purplesky56
Pearcy, AR
63, joined Nov. 2010
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well I don't think any of us was dating in the 1950's
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| 9/28/2015 11:36:23 PM |
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sorpstar
Little River, SC
64, joined Oct. 2009
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Our parents might of
My dad's nickname than was gentlemansorp...
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| 9/28/2015 11:37:58 PM |
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purplesky56
Pearcy, AR
63, joined Nov. 2010
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no my parents were married from what I remember
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| 9/29/2015 8:29:08 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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I haven't dated one..im discouraged.
From the other side of the coin, neither have I......yet.
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| 9/29/2015 2:25:03 PM |
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findingalicia
Lexington, KY
66, joined May. 2011
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dating? there is still such a thing?
I've discovered in spite of all those saying age doesn't matter,
it does, so does the baggage we all bring with us..
so do the children or grandchildren we have, near or far.
So does size, and shape, and physical appearance.. say it doesn't matter
all you want, it does.. at least for that initial connection.
Ethnicity matters.. deny all you want.. we may all say we have no prejudice
but are you absolutely without condition irretrievably sure?
Honesty, the one thing that should be most important is scarce.
Trust seems to be a thing out there in la la land to be thrown away
at the first opportunity.
I've yet to discover anyone to fill the void.. someone of extraordinary heart and soul,
never mind the physicality.. someone with a depth of understanding and connection
of soul and mind and heart without hesitation or cumbersome stipulation on
thoughts, expression, or feeling.
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| 9/30/2015 12:04:57 AM |
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heart_and_soul3
Sarasota, FL
59, joined Aug. 2014
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Alicia--You are a beautiful woman--and, from what you post in the threads--you are just as beautiful on the inside.
For me, it has to be someone I respect and someone who treats me with the same respect...
We can see how someone--needs to change--but, in reality no one changes unless they see and feel the need to change.
I just want someone to take the time to get to know me--
Dating is a one chance thing--Never works--
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| 9/30/2015 11:26:42 AM |
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findingalicia
Lexington, KY
66, joined May. 2011
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Alicia--You are a beautiful woman--and, from what you post in the threads--you are just as beautiful on the inside.
For me, it has to be someone I respect and someone who treats me with the same respect...
We can see how someone--needs to change--but, in reality no one changes unless they see and feel the need to change.
I just want someone to take the time to get to know me--
Dating is a one chance thing--Never works--
Thank you Heart.. 
I guess my thoughts on life may be off center at times but I try to
see the good in people and let go of the negative..there is too much confusion
and hurt in the world. Guess I'll always wear rose colored glasses.. 
Dating is unsatisfactory most time, I can relate. Getting to know someone
takes time and effort and few want to put in either.
Respect is very scarce. 
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| 10/3/2015 5:35:04 AM |
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ireneann
Stuart, FL
62, joined Dec. 2009
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Above comments .......perfectly written!
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| 10/3/2015 9:13:32 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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Hey! We're not dead, just somewhat smarter.
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| 10/3/2015 10:52:57 AM |
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shaggyoledog
Ocean Shores, WA
69, joined Apr. 2011
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I'm no one to give advice... So many mistakes... But through mistakes, one can learn...
IF...
ALLOW...
ALLOW yourself to let it be...
ALLOW yourself to find peace...
ALLOW yourself and others to be who you/they are... WITHOUT judgement or change...
ALLOW yourself to give MORE than you receive... Remind yourself each morning...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0D5JJZl6MB0
We can learn from each other's differences... (Someone said it better)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z9sEQ2gzx_4
[Edited 10/3/2015 10:54:18 AM ]
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| 10/4/2015 12:16:38 AM |
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findingalicia
Lexington, KY
66, joined May. 2011
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Memories never die..
If ...
you're holding a memory, stop looking.
If...
your heart is not ready, stop trying.
If..
your mind is circling back to a time of bliss... let go of further involvement.
If...
you had that one love of a lifetime.. cherish the memory.
Walk away.
https://youtu.be/mIkXRwvfuBk
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| 10/4/2015 12:29:51 AM |
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niceteddybear
Midvale, UT
61, joined Jan. 2012
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Memories never die..
If ...
you're holding a memory, stop looking.
If...
your heart is not ready, stop trying.
If..
your mind is circling back to a time of bliss... let go of further involvement.
If...
you had that one love of a lifetime.. cherish the memory.
Walk away.
Well stated. A good relationship requires one to put ALL previous relationships into a DO NOT TOUCH Bag, and start fresh. You may remember what has happened to you before, and it will assist you to recognize future problems, but Don't judge the new person on the old relationships.
By the way, Chivalry is NOT Dead, just misplaced. Women do like to be pampered and treated like Ladies, they just need to let the men be "Gentlemen."
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| 10/4/2015 1:07:17 AM |
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purplesky56
Pearcy, AR
63, joined Nov. 2010
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a real gentleman is hard to find..
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| 10/4/2015 1:28:16 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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a real gentleman is hard to find..
Right here.
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| 10/4/2015 1:50:26 AM |
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purplesky56
Pearcy, AR
63, joined Nov. 2010
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well lyn I commend you keep it up
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| 10/4/2015 10:35:11 AM |
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shaggyoledog
Ocean Shores, WA
69, joined Apr. 2011
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It d'pen's, what's the object, a datin'
Fill a void, juss hold han's, or go skatin'
Fer yer head an yer bod
If yer heart won' yet nod
Ya mite, juss as well, keep on weightin'
Cuz you ain't goin' NO WHERE lesson yer heart says so...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bc9G30GJmEM
Hay, I don' make this stuff up an I never ever lie... 
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| 10/4/2015 9:45:48 PM |
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findingalicia
Lexington, KY
66, joined May. 2011
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Don't give up because the situation isn't ideal..
relationships take time, if you want one.. gotta put in the time.
https://youtu.be/gUX5BAlzVJo
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| 10/6/2015 8:51:48 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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Don't give up because the situation isn't ideal..
relationships take time, if you want one.. gotta put in the time.
https://youtu.be/gUX5BAlzVJo
I'm too bull-headed to quit.
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| 10/6/2015 10:33:44 AM |
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findingalicia
Lexington, KY
66, joined May. 2011
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Stubbornness is another word for will power..
will it and it becomes your power.
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| 10/6/2015 11:12:00 AM |
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shaggyoledog
Ocean Shores, WA
69, joined Apr. 2011
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It's eezzee, ta tell, wen one sided
Yer pee pickin,' hart ain', miss guided
Don' give stuff a way
If it's goin' one way
Or ya'll end up, all borke, an dehydred
Hay, it could happin'....
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| 10/7/2015 8:16:49 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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I'm mainly German....so bullheaded is more the norm. However, if I am wrong I never argue.
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| 10/7/2015 8:36:32 AM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
52, joined Jul. 2014
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YES, THATS ME....
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| 10/10/2015 8:45:05 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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Is really confusing.
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| 10/10/2015 9:48:19 AM |
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findingalicia
Lexington, KY
66, joined May. 2011
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Never let a fool kiss you.. or a
kiss fool you.
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| 10/14/2015 8:19:08 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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Or the interest of a drunk woman.
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| 10/14/2015 10:28:48 AM |
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shaggyoledog
Ocean Shores, WA
69, joined Apr. 2011
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If yer heart, weren't usin', a deflector
An it got, all tanglified, inna receptor
Anna kiss on yer lips
Went down pass yer hips
Stuff got, all standy uppy, an erector
Yer not in luv, yer juss in lust...
Hay, I don' make this stuff up an I never ever lie...
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| 10/14/2015 10:45:08 AM |
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shaggyoledog
Ocean Shores, WA
69, joined Apr. 2011
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If ya sat, ann ya wondered, 'what's that'?
Ann ya sniffed, all a roun', on the cat
Butt it wasn't the cat
Thet weren't it's at
It was comin', from there, where ya sat
So... even tho this ain' the third Saturday a the month, ya mite wanna take a shower be four thet date...
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| 10/14/2015 10:47:10 AM |
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findingalicia
Lexington, KY
66, joined May. 2011
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A salute is usually very quick..
just like the mouth with wit
we all do things we regret
no need to linger nor sweat
once bitten don't get bit....
again.
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| 10/14/2015 3:11:36 PM |
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sorpstar
Little River, SC
64, joined Oct. 2009
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I'm mainly German....so bullheaded is more the norm. However, if I am wrong I never argue.
So Germans are thick and Po lish not to smart...Fuhgeddabouit
I'm Italian and both...ok blame my parents...
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| 10/15/2015 10:05:31 AM |
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just_zoe1958
Burlington, VT
58, joined Dec. 2011
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If someone has cherished memories of a late loved one, who would expect them to forget them?
How can one say they should not date if they cannot forget? If you expect them to forget, then YOU shouldn't date.
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| 10/16/2015 8:32:43 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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At this stage in my life, I want forever more.
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| 10/23/2015 2:23:21 AM |
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purplesky56
Pearcy, AR
63, joined Nov. 2010
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at this point I date via phone
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| 10/23/2015 10:11:23 AM |
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irenes_shadow40
Conway, AR
77, joined Nov. 2013
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Hello purplesky, nice to meet another Arkie here.
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| 10/28/2015 8:06:53 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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Can be confusing.
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| 10/29/2015 12:08:11 AM |
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purplesky56
Pearcy, AR
63, joined Nov. 2010
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Hello purplesky, nice to meet another Arkie here.
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| 11/6/2015 10:57:27 PM |
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findingalicia
Lexington, KY
66, joined May. 2011
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nothing is impossible with the right attitude..
and a hammer.
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| 11/7/2015 8:47:34 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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True, if nothing else, you feel better.
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| 11/9/2015 11:35:25 AM |
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findingalicia
Lexington, KY
66, joined May. 2011
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Don't take anything personally.
Few people here are serious about dating anyone..
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| 11/10/2015 8:41:52 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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I am.
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| 11/10/2015 9:31:02 AM |
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sand_inhershoes
Milton, FL
54, joined Jul. 2011
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I feel like I have to move to find a decent man.
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| 11/11/2015 8:22:58 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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I feel like I have to move to find a decent man.
I could suggest a state.
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| 11/13/2015 2:28:25 AM |
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purplesky56
Pearcy, AR
63, joined Nov. 2010
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men confuse me a lot anymore.
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| 11/13/2015 8:27:27 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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men confuse me a lot anymore.
Nice photo update.
I guess I'm a minority, I say exactually what I mean, no code.
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| 11/15/2015 12:54:24 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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Honesty doesn't seem to get me anywhere.
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| 11/15/2015 2:16:41 AM |
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purplesky56
Pearcy, AR
63, joined Nov. 2010
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Nice photo update.
I guess I'm a minority, I say exactually what I mean, no code.
thank you lyn..and honesty is a good quality.
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| 11/17/2015 8:53:09 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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I can still put a smile on someone's face.
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| 11/18/2015 3:41:58 AM |
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purplesky56
Pearcy, AR
63, joined Nov. 2010
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I still have game just need to put it in action.
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| 11/18/2015 11:01:12 AM |
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stargazzer
Creighton, NE
69, joined Feb. 2007
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Honesty doesn't seem to get me anywhere.
Try Money $$$$$$$$$  
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| 11/18/2015 11:34:34 AM |
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mcgilly
Orlando, FL
65, joined Dec. 2006
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There are lots of guys on here that play the role odd scammers be care full I got hits with 3 of them on date hook up in Orlando fl there wa one handsome man 6 ft 5 in the army getting ready to retire wow what a scammer he ask for your addressed so he can mail you something from over sea ha he ask to pay for the shipping fright and then you tell him I don't have the bucks to send you scammer big time sweet talker so BEWARE!
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| 11/18/2015 9:49:58 PM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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I get several scam messages on here every week.
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| 11/25/2015 7:57:54 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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I end up talking to myself.
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| 12/13/2015 12:26:38 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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Pffffttttt... Not likely
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| 12/13/2015 1:47:20 PM |
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legaleye
Columbus, OH
65, joined Mar. 2008
online now!
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There are plenty of us who believe in old school dating. But I dont date to just date. I date with the idea of relationship formation. So a few simple thoughts that get my positive attention:
1. I will drop hints that I no longer wish to email but rather actually meet someone. I give that a reasonable time, couple weeks at most, and if someone doesnt positively respond, time for me to move on.
2. I am very happy to take someone out several times, but there should be some hint after date 4-5 that someone isnt in it for a free meal, i.e. they are relationship oriented. Even a few words of encouragement help.
3. Cold fish dont get anywhere. I am not trying to get your clothes off right away, but for certain I am a touch type and cuddle person. Let the world work as it should.
4. Spend some time on yourself. Guys are visual. As sexist as it may sound, reality of life still says that hair, makeup, clothes, shoes, etc. have an effect on a guy.
5. Summary...its a two way street. If all I get are barriers and a cold shoulder, poof, I am gone.
And interesting to me at least, the op is looking for younger men and complaining about not finding gentlemen.
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| 12/13/2015 2:05:40 PM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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There are plenty of us who believe in old school dating. But I dont date to just date. I date with the idea of relationship formation. So a few simple thoughts that get my positive attention:
1. I will drop hints that I no longer wish to email but rather actually meet someone. I give that a reasonable time, couple weeks at most, and if someone doesnt positively respond, time for me to move on.
2. I am very happy to take someone out several times, but there should be some hint after date 4-5 that someone isnt in it for a free meal, i.e. they are relationship oriented. Even a few words of encouragement help.
3. Cold fish dont get anywhere. I am not trying to get your clothes off right away, but for certain I am a touch type and cuddle person. Let the world work as it should.
4. Spend some time on yourself. Guys are visual. As sexist as it may sound, reality of life still says that hair, makeup, clothes, shoes, etc. have an effect on a guy.
5. Summary...its a two way street. If all I get are barriers and a cold shoulder, poof, I am gone.
And interesting to me at least, the op is looking for younger men and complaining about not finding gentlemen.
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