| 1/14/2016 10:00:41 AM |
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truly000
Fort Dodge, IA
37, joined Dec. 2011
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Don't forget convicted child molesters or sexual offenders... hard to get a job with that on the person's record.
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| 1/14/2016 10:05:48 AM |
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
54, joined Apr. 2014
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The dilemma of anyone with a criminal record of any kind is a huge social problem that is only beginning to be addressed...and yes, it impacts homelessness
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| 1/14/2016 11:01:42 AM |
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
44, joined Nov. 2012
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Don't forget convicted child molesters or sexual offenders... hard to get a job with that on the person's record.
Ok women can be sex offenders but you won't see them homeless because of that .
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| 1/14/2016 11:09:21 AM |
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
44, joined Nov. 2012
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I'm just saying even If both male and female may have the same sort of problems when comes to whatever the reason to become homeless chances are women will find someone to take them in . Compare to men with the same type of issues . Even a mental crazy woman can have someone take her in .  
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| 1/14/2016 11:17:13 AM |
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
54, joined Apr. 2014
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I'm just saying even If both male and female may have the same sort of problems when comes to whatever the reason to become homeless chances are women will find someone to take them in . Compare to men with the same type of issues . Even a mental crazy woman can have someone take her in .
sure, to some degree...but did you read the second paragraph of the article I quoted that spoke specifically about challenges woman have in that regard?
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| 1/14/2016 11:44:56 AM |
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
44, joined Nov. 2012
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sure, to some degree...but did you read the second paragraph of the article I quoted that spoke specifically about challenges woman have in that regard?
Yes I read that . And I have seen and I am sure you have too seen like for example a female teacher got convicted of sexual assault with minor and to this day she is remarried and living happily ever after. Now you and I know most of time women choose the bad boy . So that tells me there is at least 1 nerdy type of guy wanted to bring that homeless woman in but she choose to stay in that type of relationship. I know drugs is sometimes hard to just stop doing and when it is hard you going to surround yourself with people who does it .
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| 1/14/2016 11:56:13 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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Back in the day, we had a most just and better society.
There was a bar raised and either you reach it....or lose out.
and then if you want in....then learn reach the level of that bar...if not...then f**k you, you don't get what others get who earned it.
The bar being the standard that was acceptable at that time in how people should be.
We lowered and lowered that bar to appease people not willing to reach it, yet they wanted everything and more, that the people who did reach it gets.
and THAT is how this society got to be the mess that it is.
If someone is trying their best and due to unfortunate things, they ran into hard times...I can see helping them to a point.
We need to get tough and get back to that principle....or else everything will just keep getting worse and worse.
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| 1/14/2016 12:08:18 PM |
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
54, joined Apr. 2014
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Yes I read that . And I have seen and I am sure you have too seen like for example a female teacher got convicted of sexual assault with minor and to this day she is remarried and living happily ever after. Now you and I know most of time women choose the bad boy . So that tells me there is at least 1 nerdy type of guy wanted to bring that homeless woman in but she choose to stay in that type of relationship. I know drugs is sometimes hard to just stop doing and when it is hard you going to surround yourself with people who does it .
no..I don't know that. I know that emotionally immature and/or unhealthy people (of both genders) make bad choices.
I choose not to focus on sex offenders (of either gender). That is usually a scare tactic designed to enrage and misdirect a discussion. The reality is that our system makes it extremely difficult for someone who has a criminal record to put their life back together and yes, that contributes to the numbers of homeless. That is only one factor.
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| 1/14/2016 1:22:06 PM |
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ivaiva
Goleta, CA
48, joined Oct. 2007
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Now I am Just talking about women here in the states.If any of that is true about how women could feel about a man not working why don't you just ask yourself why there is so many homeless men in the streets?
There are homeless men and women on the streets. This is a different question.
We were discussing another one: Does working while in a marriage/relationship depends on your gender?
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| 1/14/2016 1:30:13 PM |
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
44, joined Nov. 2012
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There are homeless men and women on the streets. This is a different question.
We were discussing another one: Does working while in a marriage/relationship depends on your gender?
It shouldnt but does matter to most women that is why I say this about homelessness .
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| 1/14/2016 1:42:17 PM |
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ivaiva
Goleta, CA
48, joined Oct. 2007
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It shouldnt but does matter to most women that is why I say this about homelessness .
It doesn't. It both need to work, they work. It they can afford and decide that only one will be working, this can be the man or the woman. The other one will take care of the children and the home. Different people have different preferences and they are not gender related.
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| 1/14/2016 2:29:12 PM |
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
44, joined Nov. 2012
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It doesn't. It both need to work, they work. It they can afford and decide that only one will be working, this can be the man or the woman. The other one will take care of the children and the home. Different people have different preferences and they are not gender related.
Only reason why it doesnt work is because most wants to live beyond their means . Some people act like they will die if they can't go out to eat or buy that new shoe that just came out.
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| 1/14/2016 2:39:12 PM |
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ivaiva
Goleta, CA
48, joined Oct. 2007
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Only reason why it doesnt work is because most wants to live beyond their means . Some people act like they will die if they can't go out to eat or buy that new shoe that just came out.
Yes, there are people that have never learned a simple money management. Usually those kind of people try to give less and ask for more from their partners. This is also valid for men and women.
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| 1/14/2016 5:46:38 PM |
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
44, joined Nov. 2012
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Yes, there are people that have never learned a simple money management. Usually those kind of people try to give less and ask for more from their partners. This is also valid for men and women.
No it's more valid towards women . Like Dave Chappelle said if a man can f**k a woman in box he wouldnt buy a house . You hear more from women who complains they don't go out they don't do nothing as a couple like going out to movies ect .
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| 1/14/2016 6:25:06 PM |
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truly000
Fort Dodge, IA
37, joined Dec. 2011
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Ok women can be sex offenders but you won't see them homeless because of that .
Anyone who is a sexual offender can have trouble finding work. I don't mention gender in my statement.
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| 1/14/2016 7:13:04 PM |
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ivaiva
Goleta, CA
48, joined Oct. 2007
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Like Dave Chappelle said if a man can f**k a woman in box he wouldnt buy a house
I don't understand how this is relevant to the conversation.
You hear more from women who complains they don't go out they don't do nothing as a couple like going out to movies ect .
Actually I hear more complains from men (not only for movies but a lot more expensive things). I didn't say that in my previous statement as a assumed there are also enough women that do the same.
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| 1/14/2016 8:11:22 PM |
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
44, joined Nov. 2012
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Actually I hear more complains from men (not only for movies but a lot more expensive things). I didn't say that in my previous statement as a assumed there are also enough women that do the same.
 
Just using guys in here as a percentage I have not seen one who complains that their ex g/f never taken him out and or she didnt buy his xbox or some b/s like that . If any thing she ran up his credit card bill so he broke up with her cause of that.
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| 1/14/2016 8:25:08 PM |
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
44, joined Nov. 2012
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When you say it valid for men and women I just disagreeing because agree with what Dave said about if man can f**k a woman in box he wouldnt buy a house . I dont know if you understand what I am saying when you say (Usually those kind of people try to give less and ask for more from their partners. This is also valid for men and women.)
You dont get it ?
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| 1/14/2016 10:31:18 PM |
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ivaiva
Goleta, CA
48, joined Oct. 2007
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Digital, the number of guys here is a negligible percent, it can not be used as a data set.
I don't understand what you mean by citing Dave.
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| 1/14/2016 10:34:52 PM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
35, joined Mar. 2013
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Anyone who is a sexual offender can have trouble finding work. I don't mention gender in my statement.
But, remember, breaking the law is a choice. I like teenagers and younger women, because they are more physically appealing and less likely to have children.
I know that is illegal, hence I do NOT pursue it. It is a matter of self control. I have it. My great uncle did not. He spent 10 years in a Federal penitentiary, for molesting my very young, distant female cousin.
The same with drugs, theft, domestic violence. All of it is illegal. If you can bot abide by the law and control yourself enough to not wind up in jail or prison, then it is your own fault.
I wouldn't hire a thief, or an abusive person that has gone to jail for assaulting people and has a record of violence. And I don't feel any sympathy for them. Don't break the law. It is that simple.
Can people be rehabilitated, yes, but is it likely? Not as often as we would like to believe. Most people, that go to jail/prison, get out and continue to go about their old ways and wind up right back in prison.
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