yes but u ladies dont want one

Well have ever occur to you that some guys you may have been interested in may not feel he is right for you ? Because you just mention he has steady job . If the guy knows he doesnt have steady job that may interfere with getting with you .

So the only problem on my wish list is the steady job part. Lol

I've dated men who weren't tall, didn't have piercing eyes, men lacking a sense of humor and men who don't have a steady income.

I've also never placed an order for a man.

Yet.

again, you totally didn't get it.

she is saying...that all those things mean pretty much nothing to her but she does want him to have a regular job..that's it, that's the only must have filter she has in place from go. it's called sarcasm and probably a big dose of amusement that you 'zoned in' on the job thing... incorrectly.

I'm not surprised you aren't finding "good ones", you are so convinced there aren't any that you don't recognize them when they are talking directly to you...politely even.

Ok then I admit I misread it . But like I said before to her its the steady job thing of why some guys will not approach a woman or may not be interested in a woman . Because of doubt or lack confidence .

I'm good at mowing the lawn and trimming bushes

Well i believe you'll find a good men when you least expect it. Because some women do have a preference and theres nothing wrong with it. It just seems reasonable if most women really want to be loved from the heart that its always good to broaden your preference a little. Because lets face it, finding true love today is harder because of attitudes.

You know I keep getting mixed signals. First men complain that women are "Gold Diggers" and just want to screw a man out of his hard earned money to support them & their designer shoe/purse shopping fetishes. But a woman who makes her own money, buys her own things & can support herself on her own is a "Natzi Feminist" just cause she won't jump and run into the kitchen to fix a man a sandwich or fetch a beer every time he clears his throat. There really seems like a no win situation

Well, then stop b*tching about how men don't give you pedestal treatment then.

To get that, you had to depend on men. You thought it would be better to not rely on us, and you have to give that up. That's the brakes, kid.

It is time for women to start accepting the responsibility of their stupid and poor choices in men. Sink or swim, and well we see how women are performing: at about the same level as the Titanic and its current location......which I believe is at the bottom of the ocean, still......

That is my mistake. Being too trusting and accepting is my mistake, because it is my choice.

These aren't normally bad qualities to have along with being forgiving and loyal... but being too open can bite you in the butt if you happen to meet a sociopath.

^ So I guess you didn't block her afterall huh

Sienna, I am still responsible for my choices in women. The only time a person is not responsible, in my opinion, is an act of genuine ignorance.

When you truly do not know any better, and you make a mistake, that is one thing.

I continued to make mistakes. My biggest mistake is not holding women back because of their reputations.

I believe that any woman has the capability to be a lifelong mate, if she chooses to be.

Meaning, if she chooses to treat me how I wish to be treated, but I am not going to tell her this, because then she will do it as a way of earning my acceptance but not necessarily who she actually is at heart.

Do you see the conundrum?

That is my mistake. Being too trusting and accepting is my mistake, because it is my choice.

In the relationships, where I failed to express my needs when they weren't being met was my fault.

It took me a very long time to learn how to fix some of those parts, so I don't make those mistakes again.

Meaning, if she chooses to treat me how I wish to be treated, but I am not going to tell her this, because then she will do it as a way of earning my acceptance but not necessarily who she actually is at heart.
Do you see the conundrum?
That is my mistake. Being too trusting and accepting is my mistake, because it is my choice.
In the relationships, where I failed to express my needs when they weren't being met was my fault.
It took me a very long time to learn how to fix some of those parts, so I don't make those mistakes again.