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lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
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She can not like me all day long, not agree with me all day long
Just for the record, I don't necessarily disagree with your observations. I have female friends. So, I am very aware that SOME women CAN BE just as bad as some men. I don't dislike people because they have a different dating or relationship approach than I do as long as they are honest from the beginning. Everybody has the right to choose what works best for them. And... it's great when two people find each other and are on the same page.
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lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
49, joined Jun. 2013
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People can't be fake for long, doesn't take long before they lapse into how they really are.
This is true.
Inconsistent behavior can be very confusing.
It usually points to something not so good lurking in the background!
Personally, I think it's easier to put some distance from someone not so good when you aren't on an oxytocin high from a boatload of sex.
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
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Personally, I think it's easier to put some distance from someone not so good when you aren't on an oxytocin high from a boatload of sex.
That is a good point
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
54, joined Jan. 2014
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Actually for some people yes and some people no because I have talked to a lot of guys and all they have done was f**k and dump and say oh well all you are is one stand material meanwhile a lot of people I know are married happily with kids so it depends
And guys like this make me mad.
I was raised better, how to be respectful.
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
35, joined Mar. 2013
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People can't be fake for long, doesn't take long before they lapse into how they really are.
Some people are good at hiding it.
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grande_mamon
Houston, TX
49, joined Sep. 2014
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People can't be fake for long,
Yes they can...The green river killers wife for example had no clue he was the green river killer...they were married 13yrs.
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Jan. 2016
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Some people are good at hiding it.
Can't hide it for ever.
Can bring out their true colors 
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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Your not good or nice...and your full of issues and animosity.
With that...you don't deserve anyone good.
Maybe good men seek something better than a jaded youngster who knows little of anything.
Just a thought.
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Jan. 2016
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Don't pizz me off or you go back on my block list hunny
Also you don't know me, but thanks for the 
lol strong hostility I like that. Animosity Hmm
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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I don't care if I get blocked or not.
I have the freedom to express freely and I use it.
So, your saying I should lie and play up to you, just to post on your threads?
I'm not that type...and I really say these things for your own good.
Your just being a pied piper for others who could care less how it effects you....in the quest for their agenda's.
I hate to see someone throw their life away at the expense of others.
but, I am fairly blunt about things....and in a case like this...its the only possibility of anything being effective enough to possibly work..
but, if you prefer lies and being buttered up...by all means block out the truth.
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sinceresammy
Dayton, OH
61, joined Mar. 2014
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^Scarecrow only f**ks sheep, so everything he is saying to you is a lie!
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
35, joined Mar. 2013
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Your not good or nice...and your full of issues and animosity.
With that...you don't deserve anyone good.
Maybe good men seek something better than a jaded youngster who knows little of anything.
Just a thought.
Bee, she isn't all bad. Give her a little bit of a break.
She is jaded against men. What person on these forums is truly NOT jaded against the other gender.
It is fine, to not agree with her feminine superiority posts. No man ever will agree with it, but damn, I have only seen you ever lay into one other person like this.
How does this girl get under your skin so quickly, when the other posters around here make way more attacks on you?
I'm confused, Bee.
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lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
49, joined Jun. 2013
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Your not good or nice...and your full of issues and animosity.
With that...you don't deserve anyone good.
"Why do you call me good?" Jesus answered. "No one is good--except God alone."
Luke 18:19
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jester0011
Lake Waccamaw, NC
48, joined Jun. 2014
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plenty but thats not what u want.
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Jan. 2016
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Forget about blocked, bee at this rate your uber account will be banned.
Going by your other thread where you tell me to suicide~ Just Wow
I really say these things for your own good.
you tell me to kill myself for my own good? Please
Bee, she isn't all bad. Give her a little bit of a break.
Aww thanks Enig  
Well you know me outside of here, he doesn't.
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juliet_x
Madison, TN
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Nice ones
I'm sure there are.
The trouble is trying to weed through all the ones that are fos to find the descent ones.
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
35, joined Mar. 2013
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I'm sure there are.
The trouble is trying to weed through all the ones that are fos to find the descent ones.
Your "Service Friend Zone Soon" light is on........
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missamicable
Austin, TX
57, joined Jul. 2014
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I wonder......
Maybe not. They are all disturbed  
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kungfu_candy
Alsónémedi
Hungary
27, joined Aug. 2013
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Bee, she isn't all bad. Give her a little bit of a break.
She is jaded against men. What person on these forums is truly NOT jaded against the other gender.
What young a** 23 year old is TRULY jaded against men? Didn't she say she met someone but it's a long distance relationship?
Nothing personal Sienna, I just think you're too young. I see way too much sunlight and rainbows floating off the shit you say to have anyone give you the title jaded.
You could be heading there but you have a lot of hope to kill before you get there.
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Jan. 2016
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lol exactly.
Yeah I met someone online a couple/few weeks ago.
He lives overseas but OmG he is amazing 
The sweetest kindest guy, everything good in the world
Just wish there wasn't so much distance but anyway he can come here
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kungfu_candy
Alsónémedi
Hungary
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Distance does make the heart grow fonder.
You're frustrated because they're so far away and you can't just meet. But that's also what makes it extra sweet because all you can do is get to know each other.
You think about what it would be like, etc.
I'm not playing the age card, but I do remember a time when I lived and didn't see hope as an enemy.
I'm a little sad you're wasting on an American dude but... I won't judge.
Grass is green...
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
35, joined Mar. 2013
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But, I'll bet the American guy is kinda happy to find some breathing room, knowing he is not wasting his efforts on an American woman.
I talk to this woman, via Kik, everyday. He should be fine, until he asks her to get him a beer or make a sandwich
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kungfu_candy
Alsónémedi
Hungary
27, joined Aug. 2013
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I've never used kik.
I use the asian equivalents.
Thank god men are too lazy to learn foreign languages for p*ssy.
I get some breaks.
I see men talking about kik in craigslist and pornsites.
Didn't fake bot chicks get into kik too?
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
35, joined Mar. 2013
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I don't know. I am friends with her on FB, too. She hasn't asked me for money or credit card info, yet. But you are women. So, I figure it is only a matter of time....
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
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I'm a little sad you're wasting on an American dude but... I won't judge.
There are good people and there are bad people. Nothing wrong with American men.
I talk to this woman, via Kik, everyday. He should be fine, until he asks her to get him a beer or make a sandwich
Or for sex lol jk
I don't know. I am friends with her on FB, too. She hasn't asked me for money or credit card info, yet. But you are women. So, I figure it is only a matter of time....
Lmao terrible
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kungfu_candy
Alsónémedi
Hungary
27, joined Aug. 2013
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Sometimes people throw good things away, you don't have to go dumpster diving to find something nice.
I've seen the men of your country.
You're dropping filet minon for canned dog food.
But all that matter is, he makes you happy.
I'm not being sarcastic.
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
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lol you think Australian men are good?
I dunno I CBF with them. They irritate me. Well I mean thus far. Tend to be
shallow and kinda lazy
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kungfu_candy
Alsónémedi
Hungary
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I've met all sorts and colors from all backgrounds in 9 months of working for international airline customers and even the most average and normal was a 9 compared to what America has to offer average-wise.
If you don't like lazy I implore you to to check out men from another country. It doesn't get lazier than America.
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014
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i said your a nice lookin girl,but,,i think one more time puttin down america,and us,will be too much..tread lightly......
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kungfu_candy
Alsónémedi
Hungary
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i said your a nice lookin girl,but,,i think one more time puttin down america,and us,will be too much..tread lightly......
I'm so confused but I'll bite.
Tread lightly? You gonna spank me?
Send Trump after me?
Okay here's a compliment:
I miss how timely America was about paying me. If my payday was on a bank holiday I'd get my money before, no after.
I miss the "honesty" of America. If you're an a**hole, people are entitled to call you out for being one until you stop.
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014
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i didnt do it.....but you keep knockin american men etc.. i thought you were a normal pretty black girl from here in the states.....once again,i only complimented you as i do many pretty girls.
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kungfu_candy
Alsónémedi
Hungary
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i didnt do it.....but you keep knockin american men etc.. i thought you were a normal pretty black girl from here in the states.....once again,i only complimented you as i do many pretty girls.
Ahahaha well you remember me after all then. I don't know about the pretty part but to each his own and I thank you.
Okay, I'll knock it off. It'll take some time since it's part of my programming but if it doesn't allude to you then you should take no offense to it.
You can't let your slumlord brethren hide behind your kind either.
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greeleybro
Longmont, CO
49, joined Oct. 2013
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Yep, they are hiding in plain sight. The thing is MOST (not all) women do not even see them. The "Good Men" are the invisible and overlooked.
This!!!!
We are overlooked because women arent comfortable with change.... Not even in the type of men they choose.
So they keep going back to the bad boy type while b*tching about the fact that there r no good men out there.....
Keep doin what u been doin and you'll keep gettin what u been gettin....
Nuff said?
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
54, joined Apr. 2014
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Can't say these things enough.
Being a "good" man or woman doesn't mean you are good for whomever you want.
When a person feels the need to keep announcing that they are "a good man/woman" that is usually a big red flag that indicates some emotional baggage and/or healing needs to happen. It acts like repellent toward the opposite sex.
GOOD comes in all flavors, there isn't one perfect definition of good and nobody is ALL good.
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
44, joined Nov. 2012
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GOOD comes in all flavors, there isn't one perfect definition of good and nobody is ALL good.
You sure do know how to start stuff up . But the way I am reading this good does not come in all flavors . Sour is sour sweet is sweet. But the thing is most women are like kids when comes to candy and veggies everyone knows veggie are good for you even the sour ones but women likes the sweet candy stuff that isnt good for you but it taste good .
I was with a woman that died because she rather eat stuff that isnt good for her she didnt eat the right food that had the correct amount of vitamins she needed . I showed her and I was willing to change my diet up with her but she refuse to eat it because it didnt taste good to her . Women thinks the same way about men they would rather die and or live through misery being with some guy that put them through some b/s .
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
54, joined Apr. 2014
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I'm just statin, how I see the world based on study and experience. You see it as "startin' stuff up" only because you disagree. That's fine with me. I'm not the one unhappy and complaining.
I also do not think all men or all women think or behave the same. I accept people as individuals. You should give it a try.
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
44, joined Nov. 2012
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I'm just statin, how I see the world based on study and experience. You see it as "startin' stuff up" only because you disagree. That's fine with me. I'm not the one unhappy and complaining.
I also do not think all men or all women think or behave the same. I accept people as individuals. You should give it a try.
So you saying because that guy announce he is good guy you know him personally he is not ?
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
54, joined Apr. 2014
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No. I'm saying people who have to keep announcing they are good usually have emotional issues they need to work through. They may in fact be "good people" but they aren't emotionally healthy.
Good people, confident people, don't have to tell you they are good. You can simply see it in their actions and general behavior.
So, a person who keeps insisting they are a good person sends up a red flag...people wonder, why does he/she keep saying that? Are they hiding something or just not confident?
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
44, joined Nov. 2012
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No. I'm saying people who have to keep announcing they are good usually have emotional issues they need to work through. They may in fact be "good people" but they aren't emotionally healthy.
Good people, confident people, don't have to tell you they are good. You can simply see it in their actions and general behavior.
So, a person who keeps insisting they are a good person sends up a red flag...people wonder, why does he/she keep saying that? Are they hiding something or just not confident?
All I can do is
and say 
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| 3/15/2016 9:33:30 AM |
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
44, joined Nov. 2012
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And when we guys sit there tell the things we go through with women its just common knowledge .
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
54, joined Apr. 2014
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I'm not surprised you don't understand.
Suffice it to say...a man who had to keep telling me he was good is not a man I needed in my life. A man who is good doesn't need to sell himself that hard.
Same goes for a woman.
Try it this way. Do you automatically trust someone because they say "you can trust me"? and what if they are constantly bragging about how trustworthy they are? At some point, don't you start wondering why they keep insisting that you trust them? Don't you wonder why they keep saying it? Or do you just start getting irritated with them?
Most people do and would question that persons behavior.
Aren't you familiar with the phrase "thou doth protest too much"?
It means...
Overly insistent about something, to the point where the opposite is most likely true.
That definition is from the urban dictionary, but the phrase is originally from shakespear. I am not making this up. It is a long standing, recognized pattern of human behavior.
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ctr916v2
Roseville, CA
53, joined Nov. 2014
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of course there are; we simply can't find good women.
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gothygoogoo
Red Bluff, CA
59, joined Feb. 2015
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i'm
ripe...
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
54, joined Apr. 2014
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Hi gothy
we all know you're a good man
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Red Bluff, CA
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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This!!!!
We are overlooked because women arent comfortable with change.... Not even in the type of men they choose.
So they keep going back to the bad boy type while b*tching about the fact that there r no good men out there.....
Keep doin what u been doin and you'll keep gettin what u been gettin....
Nuff said?
I can't agree with this.
I consider myself a good man and I haven't been overlooked....actually getting women has never been a problem.
I've just been f**ked over too much.
but...I won't put all the blame on them either.
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
44, joined Nov. 2012
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but...I won't put all the blame on them either.
Ok Bee you are half way there . what did you do wrong ? Confess
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jester0011
Lake Waccamaw, NC
48, joined Jun. 2014
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there are many,,,why dont u get one
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| 3/16/2016 10:11:10 AM |
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
54, joined Apr. 2014
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Like I said before, I didn't make this stuff up..basic human nature
http://m.mentalfloss.com/article.php?id=73406
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
64, joined Oct. 2009
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STILL out here, darlin', and you STILL haven't checked out my profile.
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micheleisgreat
Pittsburgh, PA
53, joined Nov. 2013
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Zombies
The only men that will love you for your brains!
Saw this on Facebook and it cracked me up! 
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| 3/20/2016 3:28:22 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Jan. 2016
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I highly recommend desexed male cats
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ctr916v2
Roseville, CA
53, joined Nov. 2014
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just lousy, female intuition.
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cubcougar
Lucerne, CA
63, joined Oct. 2010
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I highly recommend desexed male cats
cut the balls of boys .. they are still boys.
for a boy to become a man he must give him self to his woman what she is the only one who touches him.
he doesn't even touch him ... only she does.
sex is off the radar, and he will be strong for her that way.
The doing of this is a harsh discipline but the pay off is HUGE !!!
Cutting the chase, the hormones come up and the brain changes hence the boy becomes a man.
Boys argue, quibble and fight .. Men have nothing to prove, they just put it out there.
Boys are greedy and stingy ... Men are kind and generous.
Boys make a mess ... Men make better.
Boys lie, cheat, steal .. Men tell on them selves.
Boys snivel ... Men ... well they man up.
There is more to the difference between boys and men .. and the learning curve picks up after awhile.
Once you have had a man .. who gives him self to you ... you will know...
you will know.
sumbuddie wear blind sea
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sinceresammy
Dayton, OH
61, joined Mar. 2014
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I can't agree with this.
I consider myself a good man and I haven't been overlooked....actually getting women has never been a problem.
I've just been f**ked over too much.
but...I won't put all the blame on them either.
Which is why Scarecrow turned to sheep!
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| 3/20/2016 5:54:19 PM |
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cubcougar
Lucerne, CA
63, joined Oct. 2010
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Which is why Scarecrow turned to sheep!
oh ToTo .. this doesn't look like Kansas any more ...
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| 3/20/2016 5:56:15 PM |
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jester0011
Lake Waccamaw, NC
48, joined Jun. 2014
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there are many.
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| 3/22/2016 1:33:55 PM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Jan. 2016
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my male cat is the cutest :3
Also love anime guys
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urealysucklol
San Benito, TX
44, joined Jul. 2014
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<~~~~~good ford
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Jan. 2016
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A car is a bonus I would suppose but that is not the point of this thread ;p
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