9/17/2008 11:12:02 AM |
So is there such a thing as an Honest Player? |
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rlds
Ogden, UT
age: 48
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Arkansasnman.................oh, brother!
You know being a 'player' consists of manipulating people's lives......if you don't tell which is up to you is still omission of truth........if you lie, well, truth will surface eventually and people will get hurt.
I believe, Arkansasnman........it's okay to date more than one person to experience one's company.....it takes time to build something if you want to go exclusive but if you're out there just to have fun with good company.......it's okay AS long as you let the dates know about it beforehand so no feelings get hurt. Agreed?
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9/17/2008 11:32:09 AM |
So is there such a thing as an Honest Player? |
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arkansasnman
Fayetteville, AR
age: 45
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Arkansasnman......... ........oh, brother!
You know being a 'player' consists of manipulating people's lives......if you don't tell which is up to you is still omission of truth........if you lie, well, truth will surface eventually and people will get hurt.
I believe, Arkansasnman........it's okay to date more than one person to experience one's company.....it takes time to build something if you want to go exclusive
.....but if you're out there just to have fun with good company.......it's okay AS long as you let the dates know about it beforehand so no feelings get hurt. Agreed?
1) Why does everyone think there is omission? I don't LEAD with, "Guess what, I'm seeing these other girls after you.".......but I don't go to any great lengths to hide the fact either.
2) If I said I did what you described in your second paragraph.....and I did it in a room with at least three women.......I would virtually garentee I would be called a player.
3) Why is it impossible to believe a guy would want to enter a long term relationship, but date more than one person at a time to find her?
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9/17/2008 12:09:15 PM |
So is there such a thing as an Honest Player? |
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ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
age: 42 online now!
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An Honest Player is an oxymoron akin to Military Intelligence, Humane War, Idiot Savant...you get the idea
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9/17/2008 12:17:37 PM |
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arkansasnman
Fayetteville, AR
age: 45
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An Honest Player is an oxymoron akin to Military Intelligence, Humane War, Idiot Savant...you get the idea
I agree. I think the two are mutually exclusive.
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9/17/2008 1:02:57 PM |
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rlds
Ogden, UT
age: 48
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Aaah, but you are not clearly understanding my meaning, Arkansasnman.......I do agree that we have the right to date more than one person since we ARE on this DateHookup.dating..........but if some people by any means think that they can find a their long lost love on their first date.........nah, it's virtually almost impossible and unrealistic. So, it's important, my dear man, that we say things upfront BEFORE going out on dates so no mixed signals will be included.
There are players out there and sadly, the stereotyping needs to stop because everyone deserves a chance to be non judge by another.
Shoot, what was your other question? lol You frustrates me, Arkansasnman.......with your silly questioning antics. lol Later, R
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9/17/2008 1:05:44 PM |
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arkansasnman
Fayetteville, AR
age: 45
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Shoot, what was your other question? lol You frustrates me, Arkansasnman.......with your silly questioning antics. lol Later, R"
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lol.......lil ole frustratin' me.
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9/17/2008 2:23:35 PM |
So is there such a thing as an Honest Player? |
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rlds
Ogden, UT
age: 48
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Brat........
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9/17/2008 2:36:33 PM |
So is there such a thing as an Honest Player? |
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arkansasnman
Fayetteville, AR
age: 45
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Ehem.......
So obviously there is no clear cut definition of a player......
Yet, there are many people poised and ready to shoot the term at the drop of a hat.
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9/17/2008 2:45:10 PM |
So is there such a thing as an Honest Player? |
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firstlight
Strasburg, VA
age: 48
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That's because everyone has their own definition and there are some grey areas. I don't believe that someone dating more than one person is a player, I believe they are dating.
Now once you have the talk about exclusivity or have sex (it is suggested that you have the talk first but...to each his own), then that changes everything.
If you are still dating or courting more than one person, tome that would be construed as a player. Male or female.
Women like to play too, you know.
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9/17/2008 2:47:42 PM |
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arkansasnman
Fayetteville, AR
age: 45
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"Women like to play too, you know. "
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EGAD !!!
We should call somebody about this.
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9/17/2008 2:51:31 PM |
So is there such a thing as an Honest Player? |
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not_looking
Sacramento, CA
age: 49
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A player is not honest.
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9/17/2008 2:52:35 PM |
So is there such a thing as an Honest Player? |
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arkansasnman
Fayetteville, AR
age: 45
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Sp, by definition, an honest man can never be a player, right?
(nice to see you).
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9/17/2008 2:57:08 PM |
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mskitty57
Tucson, AZ
age: 58
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I know guys who are players and they're honest about it..in fact they're proud of it.
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9/17/2008 3:01:35 PM |
So is there such a thing as an Honest Player? |
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firstlight
Strasburg, VA
age: 48
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We should call somebody about this.
Who you gonna call?
(Sorry I couldn't help myself )
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9/17/2008 3:38:12 PM |
So is there such a thing as an Honest Player? |
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arkansasnman
Fayetteville, AR
age: 45
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"I know guys who are players and they're honest about it..in fact they're proud of it."
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Again......another glitch.
Alomst universally, people are saying that a player is deceitful.
I might ask......if a player is using women and is honest about it...then why would a woman allow herself to be treated that way?
it seems like a strong argument for a lack of honesty to be a requirement to be a player.
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