9/17/2008 10:08:06 AM |
So is there such a thing as an Honest Player? |
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angel0018
Altamonte Springs, FL
age: 21
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It's not lying if you don't tell.
If a woman asks me if I am seeing other women.. I just say "What do you think?"
But when u say that eddy do they stay? It seems to me like they'll be gone in a flash and then how can u be a player if you have no women?
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9/17/2008 10:09:26 AM |
So is there such a thing as an Honest Player? |
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lonelybeauty67
Wilmington, NC
age: 40
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It is lying when you don't tell. It is called lying by ommition.
[Edited 9/17/2008 10:12:06 AM]
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9/17/2008 10:13:28 AM |
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awakeing
Walled Lake, MI
age: 36
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It's not lying if you don't tell.
If a woman asks me if I am seeing other women.. I just say "What do you think?"
Well Eddy having to learn that lesson the hard way I now have experience to
get around that "technical" loop hole!
It's called lying by omission. Men already know it's in the nature of a woman
to want to see the good in a man. So you use that nature to let her believe
you're a good guy and she must be insecure to ask such a thing!
Bad bad boy!
Really when a man uses a question to answer a question he's stalling for time
or hiding something.
Women here's what you do...tell him...
It don't matter what I think, I asked you what you are actually doing.
So are you seeing other women while also dating me?
Real men have nothing to hide.
Edit: Doh the lady above me stated the lying by omission before I could post it in
my long winded breath!
[Edited 9/17/2008 10:17:07 AM]
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9/17/2008 10:13:42 AM |
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wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 37
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Juggling women so that they don;t find out about each other? Deceit is definitely part of that job description!
it's only men who do it
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9/17/2008 10:13:50 AM |
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1gentleheart
Portage, MI
age: 55
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A player isnt necessarily a liar, he just has no intentions to be exclusive. Now if he lies his way to get there that is a whole other story. And by answering *what do you think*? That is a pretty good admition.
C'mon guys do what it takes not to hurt another human being by being up front and honest. What a waste of energy to lie nad Play someone.
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9/17/2008 10:17:27 AM |
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1gentleheart
Portage, MI
age: 55
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Wileyguy no it is not limited to men only. It is an unfortunate world we live in with regard to this.
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9/17/2008 10:20:28 AM |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
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Well Eddy having to learn that lesson the hard way I now have experience to
get around that "technical" loop hole!
It's called lying by omission. Men already know it's in the nature of a woman
to want to see the good in a man. So you use that nature to let her believe
you're a good guy and she must be insecure to ask such a thing!
Bad bad boy!
Really when a man uses a question to answer a question he's stalling for time
or hiding something.
Women here's what you do...tell him...
It don't matter what I think, I asked you what you are actually doing.
So are you seeing other women while also dating me?
Real men have nothing to hide.
Edit: Doh the lady above me stated the lying by omission before I could post it in
my long winded breath!
Exactly.. but honestly.. I don't lie.. I can't. dammit....
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9/17/2008 10:24:09 AM |
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blueyes28
Adger, AL
age: 29
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sure,they might be really good,you tell one lie and have to go back and cover up the lie u told before,then it goes on and on but alot do get busted for that,cause they cant keep up with their own lies...why do that!!!!Never made any sence to me!!
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9/17/2008 10:26:34 AM |
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awakeing
Walled Lake, MI
age: 36
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Hey Eddy:
I believe you're a bad liar other wise you wouldn't have to stall and try
to let her decide the out come for you.
By the way, I honestly like you. You're one of most unique men I've have
had the honor of crossing paths with. Yep, strange...but also strangely
honorable and lovable.
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9/17/2008 10:26:35 AM |
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1gentleheart
Portage, MI
age: 55
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Eddy more should be like you. Im happy to hear you cant lie.. How refreshing!! And yes we need to keep this quiet so as not to ruin your reputation...*L*(kidding)Such a good boy.
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9/17/2008 10:33:52 AM |
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arkansasnman
Fayetteville, AR
age: 45
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A player isnt necessarily a liar, he just has no intentions to be exclusive. Now if he lies his way to get there that is a whole other story. And by answering *what do you think*? That is a pretty good admition.
C'mon guys do what it takes not to hurt another human being by being up front and honest. What a waste of energy to lie nad Play someone.
Now that seems to contradict what the majority think.
I might also propose.....if a guy dates more than one woman at a time.......why would anyone think he doesn't [ultimately] WANT an exclusive relationship.....he just hasn't found that one yet?
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9/17/2008 10:34:46 AM |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
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So saying they have gained a few pounds and I'm no longer attracted to them is cool?
Or.. should I learn to go "no sweetie.. yer till beautiful to me"
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9/17/2008 10:39:48 AM |
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1gentleheart
Portage, MI
age: 55
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definately the beautiful thing eddy. Leave them with good thoughts of you and feeling good about themselves. BUT dont lie, find an hoest compliment. And arkansasman they dont want exclusive if dishonesty is involved. No intention of trying for exclusiveness is a player.
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9/17/2008 10:44:38 AM |
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barbaraajo
Reston, VA
age: 51
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I do not think you have to be deceitful to be a player. I have several as friends and they are my friends BECAUSE they were honest about it and gave me the choice of being their friend or not. I do not like LIARS as friends!
What I hate are players that do not admit they are players and lie about it and try to make you feel like you are the ONLY one, while dating multiple others.
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9/17/2008 10:56:27 AM |
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arkansasnman
Fayetteville, AR
age: 45
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And arkansasman they dont want exclusive if dishonesty is involved. No intention of trying for exclusiveness is a player.
Nobody wants exclusivity if dishonesty is involved.
I'm proposing the premise that it's not.
Are you saying that, "If a guy wants to be in a long term relationship with a single woman.....it's morrally wrong for him to date more than one woman at a time to achieve that goal"?
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