| 9/22/2007 5:45:59 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50
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My oldest son just called to say he will be spending the night here at my place because his g/f got pissed that he went to a strip club last night. He asked me to talk to her and get her to " understand" LOL Explain what???!! The boy should be grounded for life!
Soooo... ladies. How would you feel, honestly!, about your guy going to a titty bar? No need to hear from the men lol I already know what you think about it.
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| 9/22/2007 5:53:34 PM |
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cutencuddls
Hopewell, VA
age: 38
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Hmmm... depends on the person. My first husband cheated no me from day one. He lied and deceived me from the beginning. Nope, wouldn't trust him to be going to them and used to get quite pissed off when he went.
My second husband on the other hand... even before we were married, I would give him money to go with his buddy because I knew at the end of the night, no matter what time it was, where he was going to be, who he would be searching out. I trusted him with my life.
I think your son and his girlfriend probably should have had this worked out already. I would have a problem with any guy coming home and THEN revealing that they had been to a strip club.
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| 9/22/2007 6:04:14 PM |
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lewis69
Temple, TX
age: 38
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I know you said no guy opinions but I have a different slant on it. Even before we got married, my ex and I had no problem with either of us going to a strip club. We both knew who we were coming home to. I guess if he has no problem with her doing it and he lets her know ahead of time what his plans are then there shouldn't be a problem. If any of the above isn't there then she has a right to be pissed. JMO...
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| 9/22/2007 6:05:40 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50
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Oh.. he told her he was going but apparently she didn't believe him
He would have no problems with her going to one
But than again.. this girl gets ticked off when a commercial of a cute chick comes on the TV and son is just watching the commercial lol
I realize these are 2 young kids who have some growing up to do. I'm more interested in hearing the views of more mature people about their own preference concerning this
[Edited 9/22/2007 6:07:53 PM]
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| 9/22/2007 6:10:11 PM |
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lewis69
Temple, TX
age: 38
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If he told her beforehand and she didn't have a problem with it then, why is she mad now? I have to agree that they should have worked it out ahead of time. They're young though, they'll learn...again jmo
Personally, I have only been to one stripclub in my life. Just not my thing. As far as whether its ok or not when in a relationship, that has to be answered by the 2 involved and nobody else.
[Edited 9/22/2007 6:12:27 PM]
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| 9/22/2007 6:40:50 PM |
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classy777
Tulsa, OK
age: 61 online now!
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I think it's "degrading" I believe that if a man truly cares about someone he would never disrespect her by going to those places and checking out naked bodies....think about that for a moment...if he needs to see anaked body than freaken "GO HOME" it's there waiting for him.
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| 9/22/2007 6:43:39 PM |
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jenn_love
Diamond Bar, CA
age: 21
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I always told my ex "How would you feel if I went to someplace like that?" It always made him rethink his actions. But we were both VERY jealous, that could be why we're not together anymore. LOL 
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| 9/22/2007 6:43:52 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50
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Classy I agree. To me.. it does show disrespect.. am sure all the guys here would differ with that.
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| 9/22/2007 6:46:13 PM |
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britbrit
Gloucester, MA
age: 21 online now!
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honestly it doesnt bother me! he can go aslong as I can go to one too!! LMAO oh yeah and we could go to one together! LMAO j/k
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| 9/22/2007 6:46:26 PM |
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superscreenname
Suffolk, VA
age: 30
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Yall may not belive it, but I actually hate strip clubs. They are a pit of filth and lies.
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| 9/22/2007 7:17:38 PM |
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happyrunnr1
Mechanicsburg, PA
age: 26
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yea depends on the person and I think if I found out id give him a piece of my mind but i dont know it just depends.
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| 9/22/2007 7:20:12 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50
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I just wouldn't put up with my guy going to those places.. has nothing to do with insecurities... but everything to do with respect. JMO Trish
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| 9/22/2007 7:20:51 PM |
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happyrunnr1
Mechanicsburg, PA
age: 26
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well if she knew then she shouldnt be all that upset but if something comes on the t.v. with a cute girl and she freaks then maybe she has unresolved issues.jmo
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| 9/22/2007 7:21:30 PM |
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happyrunnr1
Mechanicsburg, PA
age: 26
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super so you wouldnt go to a strip club??
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| 9/22/2007 7:24:59 PM |
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gawd
Appleton, WI
age: 53
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I went with a man I was dating and 2 of his buddies..we had so much fun. I would trust my man and that is a decission he has to make.
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